My spouse has a stress related health issue. Last night he came home and said that if he feels better after our vacation, but then starts hurting again as soon as he returns to work, he will tender his resignation as soon as this year's bonus comes through (even if he doesn't get a bonus, previous stocks will vest at that time, but he always gets a bonus, hence the largely self induces type A stress).
I don't want him to hurt, but...
I did send him to the doctor, like a proper caring person.