After looking through smart plugs on Amazon (I had no idea those were a thing a week ago), I ended up going with
VeSync Smart Plugs by Etekcity.
They came in last night, and I've got a lot of them set up. Since they are just individual plugs, we just kept our surge protectors everywhere and plugged the surge protectors into the smart plugs. Hopefully, that doesn't result in overloading the plugs. We have them all turned off when we're not home, but I'll monitor them when home for the first few weeks.
As of now, they seem pretty awesome, and I think they will be perfect at allowing us to keep down energy consumption without annoying my wife by unplugging everything.
I can now monitor weekly, monthly, and annual energy consumption for each plug individually. From either of our phones, we can turn the outlet on/off, and I can also set up scheduling, which is just amazing. They have compatibility with Alexa, but we've read too many stories about the data collected on people from those devices, so we won't be taking advantage of that feature.