I struggle with this too. We usually have way too much cash, used to be around 100k, now down to 58k, but like you, it all has a purpose (only about 10k in emergency funds now, but also savings for a future car, sabbatical, other travel, house repairs and furnishings, play money, etc). The main thing I've cut back on is saving for future cars, our emergency fund, our house maintenance fund, and our play money which kept piling up because we weren't using it. My reasoning on the emergency fund is that DH and I both have secure jobs and that if we were in a true emergency, we could easily take money out of those other buckets since none of those things would be important in the case of a true emergency. Also, our savings rate has increased so much recently which itself provides a big cushion in case of a short-term emergency, and also means we could cash flow an expensive purchase like a car or roof in just a few months if need be. I've also been planning to open a HELOC as an extra security measure in case we need short term cash in the future. Some 0% credit cards could also tide you over for a short while. Some of our investments are also relatively accessible, so we could tap into them in less than a month if need be, and thus we really only need to worry about short-term emergencies. As a single mom, I would probably lean on them more cautious side as well, but maybe some of these things apply to you too?