Not understanding why it's "rational" to not want men around children but somehow not wanting your kids to be around black people (statistics say they commit the most murders after all) is offensive.
Which is it?
To respond to this and a couple other comments that made a similar argument, I'd like to point out a few things.
- A significant part of my argument is that men aren't just more likely to abuse than women, they're also able to abuse in a gruesome way that women are not. There is nothing about having dark skin that makes a person more dangerous than anyone else.
- In the US at least, I believe we have a shared obligation to do our part in trying to make this country a better place to live for black people. Our economy was boosted by the free labor of their ancestors, and while my ancestors grew in economic stability, theirs had little to no rights under the law. For this reason I would not advocate that people look to skin color as an indicator of danger; rather I would look for other indicators that correlate to violent behavior. For instance, I would encourage people not to spend time in neighborhoods that have high crime rates, or be cautious around people who have tattoos on their face.
- Your assertion about black people being more likely to kill my kid is not true. A white person is actually more likely to be killed by another white person than a black person. 84% of white victims were killed by whites.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race_and_crime_in_the_United_States#HomicideFinally, why are we worried about gender bias against men? I suspect we all mostly believe men in general will not have a problem achieving their career aspirations.
It seems many here are interested in doing away with traditional gender norms - as you can probably guess, I'm not in favor of that. I think flattening our gender differences in the name of equality comes at the detriment of our common good. In this case, that common good is the safety of our children. In the case of lowering the rigor of the physical requirement test for female firefighters, we sacrifice the safety of those who pass out in burning buildings.
I encourage the OP to teach preschool. I welcome any passionate and qualified person to a career of their choice, and quite refreshing when their choice is unusual for their gender. But I am against a general push to achieve a perfect gender balance in every field. It seems to be a goal without a clear benefit, and especially problematic when it involves pushing girls in directions they don't want to go.