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Luxury on a Dime
« on: October 30, 2017, 09:47:14 AM »
I've been thinking a bit lately about what makes life FEEL special or luxurious. Recently, I started making espresso in the afternoon from my Mr. Coffee espresso machine. Very inexpensive since you only use a little bit of coffee for each cup. When I sip it, it feels like I'm living the good life.

A couple other ways I've been up'ing my game:
- Good quality boxed wine
- Charcoal grilling (there's just something about sipping a beer and lounging in the hammock while meat slowly cooks)
- Bluetooth speaker for nice sound quality to play free Pandora radio

What frugal ways do you enjoy luxury?

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #1 on: October 30, 2017, 09:59:10 AM »
Flannel sheets. After doing some research, the Target Threshold brand had good reviews for the price. Two king-size sets for $50! So cozy.

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« Reply #2 on: October 30, 2017, 10:06:23 AM »
2" foam mattress topper.  I LOVE getting into bed.  Makes me feel like I'm at a fancy-pants hotel.

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #3 on: October 30, 2017, 10:18:48 AM »
Clean uncluttered house, fresh sheets (cotton (flannel in winter)), homemade hot bean or pea soup.

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« Reply #4 on: October 30, 2017, 10:41:27 AM »
Reading hardcover books--either bought used or borrowed from the library.

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« Reply #5 on: October 30, 2017, 10:42:52 AM »
A full fridge and pantry.

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« Reply #6 on: October 30, 2017, 11:27:34 AM »
I am week, very, very weak.  I like my luxuries. If necessity is the mother of invention, then laziness is its father.  The only redeeming thing about my weakness is that I often find a way to satisfy the need much cheaper than the average consumer.  I’ll start small and work my way up.
1)   Napkins: I like the pretty multi-colored napkins or the solid colored party napkins. I wait until the end of the season then buy them at 50-75% off.  Then, because I don’t need a whole napkin, I cut them in half. Cheap and luxurious.

2)   Lotions and potions:  I get most of my stuff from Bath and Body works.  Every year they bring out their “Christmas fragrances”, and every December 25th they mark them around 75% off.  So I go on line and order a year’s supply of Vanilla bean lotion, body cream and shower gel.  The original prices range from $10.50 – 12.50, which are now $3.00-3.25 per item.  I then google B&BW coupons and there is always at least one coupon code that will work.  I got one this past Decemebr for 20% off everything.  This brought the price down to $2.40-2.60 per item.  Shipped to my home and I don’t have to enter the store and be tempted by other luxuries (keeping the weakness under control is a bonus).

3)   Massages: OK, the logic on this one is a bit of a stretch, but remember I’m going to indulge the luxury anyway, so this keeps the cost down.  Flexible Spending Accounts now allow you to get reimbursed for massages without a doctor’s referral (just need name of establishment, address, service performed and cost on the receipt).  So a couple of years ago I opted for an amount equivalent to my raise so I never saw the impact to my budget.  Using my FSA means about a 30% discount per massage.  Add to that the credit card points I get, and I relax better on the table knowing I’m virtually getting paid to have the massage.  (Like I said, a bit spurious in the reasoning, but you take my point).

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« Reply #7 on: October 30, 2017, 12:08:16 PM »

3)   Massages: OK, the logic on this one is a bit of a stretch, but remember I’m going to indulge the luxury anyway, so this keeps the cost down.  Flexible Spending Accounts now allow you to get reimbursed for massages without a doctor’s referral (just need name of establishment, address, service performed and cost on the receipt).  So a couple of years ago I opted for an amount equivalent to my raise so I never saw the impact to my budget.  Using my FSA means about a 30% discount per massage.  Add to that the credit card points I get, and I relax better on the table knowing I’m virtually getting paid to have the massage.  (Like I said, a bit spurious in the reasoning, but you take my point).

Dragonswan you are my hero!  I treat myself to a massage once in a while and using my FSA will make the massage that much more relaxing.  Who doesn't love a discount?

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #8 on: October 30, 2017, 12:34:40 PM »
-I second the mattress topper. I was sceptical, but I feel like royalty couldn't buy a more comfortable bed than mine.

- buying minced garlic. Costs more, but garlic mincing is such an annoyance and it makes me happy to not have to deal with it.

- streaming free music. I listen to Spotify or Google music at work for free. A few years ago, I'd have to have a whole stack of CDs to get the variety I listen to. It makes work much more enjoyable.

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« Reply #9 on: October 30, 2017, 12:40:21 PM »
I love the streaming music (Pandora).
Love making tea at work in the afternoon, with some kind of baked item or sweet. My daughter had gotten into baking so we enjoy her creations. Dollar store dark chocolate bars are good. Love my neighborhood; I enjoy just walking home from work seeing the changing seasons. I was going to say pets, but they are due for some vet visits, which are not cheap. 
I don't have a good find for a cheap chap wine, but Apothic red wine was on sale for $8 recently so picked up a couple bottles. I have learned that decanting or "airing" cheap red wine makes it taste better the following day. 

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #10 on: October 30, 2017, 12:58:59 PM »
As much as I love flannel sheets (my mother swears fleece are even warmer), having an electric mattress pad is even more luxurious in my opinion.  No matter how chilled I am or how cold the house has gotten, turn the pad on high for a short while before crawling into bed and the blankets, sheet, and mattress are wonderfully toasty.  Turn it off or just down to the lowest setting and winter is banished for the night.

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« Reply #11 on: October 30, 2017, 01:07:55 PM »
As much as I love flannel sheets (my mother swears fleece are even warmer), having an electric mattress pad is even more luxurious in my opinion.  No matter how chilled I am or how cold the house has gotten, turn the pad on high for a short while before crawling into bed and the blankets, sheet, and mattress are wonderfully toasty.  Turn it off or just down to the lowest setting and winter is banished for the night.

This was mine! I can actually relax and go right to sleep, rather than shivering for an hour while everything warms up. We actually remove our electric blanket when we crawl into bed, because SO hates the feel of the wires, but we do love our blanky.

I used to love getting out of the shower, wrapping the towel around my hair and crawling back into bed. So lazy, so simple, so wonderful.

As for sheets, we use bamboo. Nothing cheap about them and they are not particularly study, but I always check with SO before getting a new set and so far there has not been any willingness to change.


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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #12 on: October 30, 2017, 02:07:22 PM »
Green smoothies - I feel like "yes, I got this at a juice bar and have glowing skin and a fit trim body." Neither of those 3 feelings are true, but my green smoothie sure makes me feel like that :)

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #13 on: October 30, 2017, 03:53:08 PM »
- buying minced garlic. Costs more, but garlic mincing is such an annoyance and it makes me happy to not have to deal with it.

Interesting. I just price compared this the other week at Costco, and it turned out that the 3lb jar of minced garlic is actually cheaper than the 3lb bag of peeled cloves (which was comparable or cheaper than whole heads when I checked years ago and switched because it was a pain to peel garlic all the time).

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« Reply #14 on: October 30, 2017, 04:07:31 PM »
- buying minced garlic. Costs more, but garlic mincing is such an annoyance and it makes me happy to not have to deal with it.

Interesting. I just price compared this the other week at Costco, and it turned out that the 3lb jar of minced garlic is actually cheaper than the 3lb bag of peeled cloves (which was comparable or cheaper than whole heads when I checked years ago and switched because it was a pain to peel garlic all the time).

Aha, validation!

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« Reply #15 on: October 30, 2017, 04:21:31 PM »
Wow!  I thought the minced garlic was a weirdo thing that's just me...lol.  I make almost everything from scratch in the kitchen but I just hate mincing garlic.  I finally caved and got a bottle and it makes me so happy.

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« Reply #16 on: October 30, 2017, 04:22:50 PM »
I must be a weirdo for enjoying the process of mincing garlic. I'll just show myself out...

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #17 on: October 30, 2017, 05:05:48 PM »
Another vote for the mattress topper -- I love my comfy bed!
A good cup of black tea with real cream.
Enjoying that cuppa with a good book (from the library) in front of a warm fire.
And -- since I live in an area that is very popular with tourists, every time I go for a walk in my neighborhood, I remind myself that some people pay big bucks to vacation where I get to be every single day.

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« Reply #18 on: October 30, 2017, 05:19:13 PM »
I must be a weirdo for enjoying the process of mincing garlic. I'll just show myself out...

I don't mind mincing garlic, it's just that I basically use it in everything I cook, so I price checked to see if it might be a way to streamline my meal prep time without adding to the food budget. Lucky me!

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« Reply #19 on: October 30, 2017, 05:47:09 PM »
I like nice smelling body wash from Bath and Body Works. I can get it for around $3 to $4 on sale a dit makes showering feel like a luxury.

I also love fresh flowers. I can get a nice bouquet at Aldi for $4.

My other love is nice candles. I usually buy them at Aldi when they sell them as a seasonal item or encourage people to give them to me as a gift. A clean house with a pot of soup simmering and a casndle burning is about as good as it gets (even better if I just paid all the bills).
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« Reply #20 on: October 30, 2017, 05:48:01 PM »
I must be a weirdo for enjoying the process of mincing garlic. I'll just show myself out...

I'm weird too then : )

I ditto the fresh flowers. I love fresh flowers in a clean house. I was able to get some free blooms out of my yard, but the zinnias did not do well this year (too shady, and didn't thin them enough). An aspiration of mine is to someday have a true cutting garden.
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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #21 on: October 30, 2017, 05:52:25 PM »
French press coffee is my thing right now. I get the beans from Costco and will buy any kind they have for <$12 for a 2 lb bag. I grind them in a non-fancy hand-me-down blade grinder. Then I have the whole process of the French press all timed out and perfect. We have a giant stainless steel french press that I got on Amazon for only $5...I think it must have been some kind of scam or something but it showed up and it works great so...

I'm aware of all the fancy and expensive accoutrements of the coffee obsession but cheap Costco beans, a blade grinder, and a $20 electric kettle are working for me.

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« Reply #22 on: October 30, 2017, 06:32:40 PM »
I must be a weirdo for enjoying the process of mincing garlic. I'll just show myself out...

I'm weird too then : )

I ditto the fresh flowers. I love fresh flowers in a clean house. I was able to get some free blooms out of my yard, but the zinnias did not do well this year (too shady, and didn't thin them enough). An aspiration of mine is to someday have a true cutting garden.
I used to love mincing garlic.  Because I loved sniffing my fingers after.  But now I use a garlic press.

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #23 on: October 30, 2017, 06:33:56 PM »
- buying minced garlic. Costs more, but garlic mincing is such an annoyance and it makes me happy to not have to deal with it.
Get this, it's great: https://www.amazon.com/Alpha-Grillers-Garlic-Stainless-Silicone/dp/B00I937QEI

I can't stand the stuff in a jar.

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« Reply #24 on: October 30, 2017, 06:37:11 PM »

3)   Massages: OK, the logic on this one is a bit of a stretch, but remember I’m going to indulge the luxury anyway, so this keeps the cost down.  Flexible Spending Accounts now allow you to get reimbursed for massages without a doctor’s referral (just need name of establishment, address, service performed and cost on the receipt).  So a couple of years ago I opted for an amount equivalent to my raise so I never saw the impact to my budget.  Using my FSA means about a 30% discount per massage.  Add to that the credit card points I get, and I relax better on the table knowing I’m virtually getting paid to have the massage.  (Like I said, a bit spurious in the reasoning, but you take my point).

Dragonswan you are my hero!  I treat myself to a massage once in a while and using my FSA will make the massage that much more relaxing.  Who doesn't love a discount?

Does anyone have a link verifying this?

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« Reply #25 on: October 30, 2017, 10:36:28 PM »
For me frugally feeling luxurious can sometimes be as simple as using something nice you already have that you keep saving for a special occasion, like eating dinner off of the nicest plates you own or wearing fancy jewelry that you love but is just gathering dust.  Plus, I find that rotating though your stuff makes you appreciate it more and not feel the urge to buy new stuff.  And other times the most luxurious thing in the world is just taking time to stare out the window at nothing for a while and not worrying about doing anything.

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« Reply #26 on: October 31, 2017, 01:01:03 AM »
Making an expresso coffee (latte) each morning.  I really enjoy a great coffee, but I get this for next to nothing.  And the actual making I find a zen like experience.

Another luxury is ugg boots.  Everyone in the family has a pair.  They are NOT cheap, but if looked after last for years and years and years.  Our family has a tradition of giving them to the adults around their 21st birthdays.  I got my second pair when I was 40.  They are about $150 but get sooooo much use.

Last luxury is herbs and spices in foods.  They don't have to be expensive, but can really lift a meal from ordinary to extraordinary in a few seconds.

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« Reply #27 on: October 31, 2017, 01:24:59 AM »
I hope we're talking about fresh minced garlic in a jar with nothing added.    Not the stuff laced with citric acid to keep it from spoiling?   If so, you are doing your taste buds a huge disservice.

For me, it's waking up and coffee ....getting on my cruiser and its 2 miles to a world famous beach which tourist spend thousands of dollars to visit each year.
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« Reply #28 on: October 31, 2017, 07:27:29 AM »
Re: Garlic.

I personally think the stuff in the jar is nasty.  Solution:

Buy a big bag of the fresh peeled cloves from Costco or Sams.  Chop it fine in the food processor (will need a few batches).  Spread it about a half inch deep on a few half sheet pans and stick in freezer.  Par-freeze (about an hour), and cut it into small squares with a spatula.  Put it back in freezer to hard-freeze.  Break it up and put it into a gallon ziplock freezer bag. 

Voila: fresh peeled minced garlic for about a year at my pace, with no additives.

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« Reply #29 on: October 31, 2017, 08:06:19 AM »
I second the bedding; I never regretted any money spent on making my sleep more comfortable. A duvet comforter, a mattress topper, better pillows, linen sheets... a little investment* at the beginning, and we sleep like kings since years.
REAL LIFE ADVICE: get a bigger blanket. Nobody hates a bigger blanket.


*yeah I know it's not really an investment, but you can kiss my ass.

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« Reply #30 on: October 31, 2017, 08:25:43 AM »
Re: bigger blanket.

Since I'm in advice mode: get two blankets that are identical.  We have two single comforters covered in matching duvets.  Now we never fight over the blanket, and no one ever turns over and pulls the blanket off the other one.  When you make the bed, it looks great.  (And you don't bother with a top sheet--just wash the duvets.  Making the bed is a snap.)

We got this idea travelling in Germany.  That's how they do it (though they sensibly also each have their own beds.  We haven't gone that far--but a king size bed and our own blankets allows us to pretend the other person isn't there, which is pretty much the best way to sleep.)

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« Reply #31 on: October 31, 2017, 09:29:42 AM »
I hope we're talking about fresh minced garlic in a jar with nothing added.    Not the stuff laced with citric acid to keep it from spoiling?   If so, you are doing your taste buds a huge disservice.

For me, it's waking up and coffee ....getting on my cruiser and its 2 miles to a world famous beach which tourist spend thousands of dollars to visit each year.

Thanks for the tip on the garlic situation. The minced stuff in a jar isn't that yummy. This sounds like a great solution.

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« Reply #32 on: October 31, 2017, 10:11:57 AM »
Love this thread! My brain love being frugal, but my soul loves the high life. My favorite ways to keep it placated are rare book purchases, if there's something I really want to read but the library doesn't have it; occasionally splurging for the fancy locally-roasted coffee; and not fucking with nonsense sweaters. Cashmere or get out. I have a nice collection from a thrift store in a fancy neighborhood. They're not the cheapest option, but every time I put on the sweater I use as a functional sweatshirt...I feel like a movie star.

And thirding or fourthing the nice bedding. We got a new mattress as a housewarming present and it is SO AMAZING, ditto the two-inch-thick down comforter my mom bought for herself and decided she didn't want (!!). The Target Threshold organic cotton sheets are also life-giving and available at a more achievable price point.

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« Reply #33 on: October 31, 2017, 10:56:56 AM »
Cashmere or get out. I have a nice collection from a thrift store in a fancy neighborhood. They're not the cheapest option, but every time I put on the sweater I use as a functional sweatshirt...I feel like a movie star.

Second this! I have a few very nice cashmere and merinos sweaters from the thrift store, and they keep me warm and make me feel luxurious for a few dollars!

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« Reply #34 on: October 31, 2017, 11:19:40 AM »
My other love is nice candles. I usually buy them at Aldi when they sell them as a seasonal item or encourage people to give them to me as a gift. A clean house with a pot of soup simmering and a casndle burning is about as good as it gets (even better if I just paid all the bills).
Candles are really easy to make.  Get a kit from Candlescience.com and you can make them for under $4 for an 8 oz mason jar.  They also make a great gift. 

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« Reply #35 on: October 31, 2017, 12:17:52 PM »
I must be a weirdo for enjoying the process of mincing garlic. I'll just show myself out...

I'm weird too then : )

I ditto the fresh flowers. I love fresh flowers in a clean house. I was able to get some free blooms out of my yard, but the zinnias did not do well this year (too shady, and didn't thin them enough). An aspiration of mine is to someday have a true cutting garden.
I used to love mincing garlic.  Because I loved sniffing my fingers after.  But now I use a garlic press.

So..... do you sniff the garlic press nowadays? Just askin.... :)

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« Reply #36 on: October 31, 2017, 01:14:09 PM »
Re: bigger blanket.

Since I'm in advice mode: get two blankets that are identical.  We have two single comforters covered in matching duvets.  Now we never fight over the blanket, and no one ever turns over and pulls the blanket off the other one.  When you make the bed, it looks great.  (And you don't bother with a top sheet--just wash the duvets.  Making the bed is a snap.)

We got this idea travelling in Germany.  That's how they do it (though they sensibly also each have their own beds.  We haven't gone that far--but a king size bed and our own blankets allows us to pretend the other person isn't there, which is pretty much the best way to sleep.)

Oh man, we have been having two blankets on the bed for a couple of years. Best thing I did for getting a good nights sleep! DH likes to make himself into a burrito. I hated constantly trying to steal part of the comforter back... finally I grabbed an old twin comforter than I don't even know where we picked up (as in we have never had a twin bed). It's perfect. I'm always cold right at first, so I get under my own twin comforter and pull the main comforter over me too. Once we've settled into sleep, DH pulls the bigger one off and makes himself into a burrito and I've usually warmed up enough by that point I'm happy in with my own blanket. To make the bed I just layer the comforters. Having the twin underneath just makes the bigger one look fluffier!

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« Reply #37 on: October 31, 2017, 01:52:01 PM »
2" foam mattress topper.  I LOVE getting into bed.  Makes me feel like I'm at a fancy-pants hotel.
Ah, yes, I have the best bed anywhere.  So worth the splurge.   

A full fridge and pantry.
Add to that, a case of toilet paper and a couple bottles of shampoo stored under the sink.  I guess it's because I grew up in a family where necessities weren't always available ... I like knowing that I have "enough" of the basics.  And I like knowing that I stocked up on these items when they were on sale.

2)   Lotions and potions:  I get most of my stuff from Bath and Body works.  Every year they bring out their “Christmas fragrances”, and every December 25th they mark them around 75% off. 
Oh, yes!  I always shop that sale.  I buy enough for myself and to use as small gifts throughout the year.

For me frugally feeling luxurious can sometimes be as simple as using something nice you already have that you keep saving for a special occasion, like eating dinner off of the nicest plates you own or wearing fancy jewelry that you love but is just gathering dust.  Plus, I find that rotating though your stuff makes you appreciate it more and not feel the urge to buy new stuff.  And other times the most luxurious thing in the world is just taking time to stare out the window at nothing for a while and not worrying about doing anything.
Totally agree about the fancy dishes!  I particularly enjoy setting a pretty table, sometimes with seasonal decorations.  I own 7 sets of dishes and use them all.

(though they sensibly also each have their own beds.
That sounds horrible!  One of the great joys of marriage is cuddling next to your spouse. 

Candles are really easy to make.  Get a kit from Candlescience.com and you can make them for under $4 for an 8 oz mason jar.  They also make a great gift.
I keep a box of almost-gone candles on the top shelf, and every other year or so I make those leftovers into homemade candles.  I break the wax up into bits and melt it (I used to add broken crayons when my kids were little), then I pour it into glass candle jars (you can do molds, but glass jar candles are easier).  I buy wicks at the craft store, and I have a small saucepan (which is stored in the same box) that is dedicated to melting wax.  If you want to do this, start with SMALL candles.  It's super easy, but the wax on the exterior cools faster, and with a larger candle, you get an empty spot in the middle. 

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« Reply #38 on: October 31, 2017, 03:07:17 PM »
Being able to pick warm raspberries straight off the bush and into my cereal bowl for a leisurely breakfast, because I don't have to work that day or any day for the next several weeks. That's the height of luxury to me, and it happens every Xmas time! (NZ)

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« Reply #39 on: October 31, 2017, 03:27:53 PM »
A delicious shower beer in the can after a long ride on the bike. You should try it if you haven't. If you have an outdoor shower, even better.

Also, anything my wife cooks or bakes. She makes bread every day or two. Hot damn it's delicious. Toast it, add a little coconut butter. . . zen.

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #40 on: October 31, 2017, 03:44:08 PM »
I have been trying to make it a point to really savor all the little luxuries in my life. Today for lunch, as I was enjoying my sandwich of peanut butter on homemade bread with homemade peach preserves, I thought that there were probably people who would pay a lot of money for such a gourmet PBJ -- so delicious. I ate the sandwich in the park in my little town, which is really lovely this time of year, with the turning leaves, then walked across the street to the library, where the librarian recommended a new book she knew I would like.  I came home and cracked open the book while enjoying a fresh cup of chai. Dinner is in the crock pot and my husband has a fire going in the wood stove. The dogs are curled up on the sofa with me. Now that is living the high life to me.

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #41 on: November 01, 2017, 07:53:31 AM »

3)   Massages: OK, the logic on this one is a bit of a stretch, but remember I’m going to indulge the luxury anyway, so this keeps the cost down.  Flexible Spending Accounts now allow you to get reimbursed for massages without a doctor’s referral (just need name of establishment, address, service performed and cost on the receipt).  So a couple of years ago I opted for an amount equivalent to my raise so I never saw the impact to my budget.  Using my FSA means about a 30% discount per massage.  Add to that the credit card points I get, and I relax better on the table knowing I’m virtually getting paid to have the massage.  (Like I said, a bit spurious in the reasoning, but you take my point).

Dragonswan you are my hero!  I treat myself to a massage once in a while and using my FSA will make the massage that much more relaxing.  Who doesn't love a discount?

Does anyone have a link verifying this?
Sure do.  This is off the FSAFEDS website so might be different for private industry. Note that all you need is a proper receipt, no doctor's note. And when I say 30% discount I mean because I'm not paying taxes on the FSA money I'm using.  https://www.fsafeds.com/explore/hcfsa/expenses?skip=165

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #42 on: November 01, 2017, 07:57:34 AM »
I must be a weirdo for enjoying the process of mincing garlic. I'll just show myself out...
Wait, come back.  I buy the peeled garlic but "mince" it myself as the store bought stuff is just finely chopped but I like mine shredded so it just melts into my food.  When I have food prep days (make tomato sauce, pesto sauce, etc) I'll shred a lot of garlic at once, cover with olive oil and store in the refrigerator in a plastic container.

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #43 on: November 01, 2017, 08:56:10 AM »

3)   Massages: OK, the logic on this one is a bit of a stretch, but remember I’m going to indulge the luxury anyway, so this keeps the cost down.  Flexible Spending Accounts now allow you to get reimbursed for massages without a doctor’s referral (just need name of establishment, address, service performed and cost on the receipt).  So a couple of years ago I opted for an amount equivalent to my raise so I never saw the impact to my budget.  Using my FSA means about a 30% discount per massage.  Add to that the credit card points I get, and I relax better on the table knowing I’m virtually getting paid to have the massage.  (Like I said, a bit spurious in the reasoning, but you take my point).

Dragonswan you are my hero!  I treat myself to a massage once in a while and using my FSA will make the massage that much more relaxing.  Who doesn't love a discount?

Does anyone have a link verifying this?
Sure do.  This is off the FSAFEDS website so might be different for private industry. Note that all you need is a proper receipt, no doctor's note. And when I say 30% discount I mean because I'm not paying taxes on the FSA money I'm using.  https://www.fsafeds.com/explore/hcfsa/expenses?skip=165

Thank you. Looks like they eliminated the lomn for FSAs but not HSas. Sucks for me. good for you.

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Re: Luxury on a Dime
« Reply #44 on: November 01, 2017, 09:27:03 AM »
If you sit in front of a computer 8+ hours a day 4-5 days a week, you have lower back and circulation issues.  Both conditions can be partially relieved with massage therapy.  You should be able to get a doctor to write you up a lomn based onthat.  I also have a coworker who got a lomn and got his insurance to pay for the massages; I don't know who his insurance provider is but I'm looking into it.

 

Wow, a phone plan for fifteen bucks!