In each case, without actually listening to the music--not just hearing the bottom lowest half of the frequencies in a neighboring car--you won't ever develop an appreciation for it.
Now did I ever imply that drive-by rap was
all I've ever heard? I think not: the point I was trying to make there could be summarized by "by their fruits ye shall know them". That is, since it is overwhelmingly rap that I hear blasting out of passing cars, I form the conclusion that people who choose to listen to rap are much more likely to be obnoxious jerks than people who prefer many other genres.
You usually have to dig and pay attention a bit. This is more true the more distance there is between you and the musician or composer.
My experience has been just the opposite. Finding a new genre, or sometimes just a new artist, that I really like is almost like being struck by lightning. I've tried to 'learn to like' various styles - jazz, for instance - to no avail. I'm not sure what you mean by 'distance', but if it's cultural differences, I really can't see that there is more distance between me and a rapper, than a blind minstrel in feudal Ireland, or a church musician in 18th century Germany.
Why have strong opinions about something you admittedly don't pay attention to?
Because it is inflicted on me. If it wasn't, then I would care no more about it than I do about say polka or reggae.
and just to be clear, I wasn't actually calling Jamesqf an elitist.
Darn, I just can't get any recognition, can I?
No self-respecting beer drinker would try a couple traditional english ales, a wiessbier, a trappist ale, and a lambic and then say that all lambic beer is crap because they didn't like the one they tried. Sure, bud sucks . . . but that doesn't write off all bottom fermented beers.
But someone might try a reasonable selection of lagers, then say that they really don't care for lager. Or they might try just one stout, decide they really like it, and so seek out other stouts. Further - to make the analogy a bit more apropos - I don't think anyone really appreciates having any sort of beer thrown in their face. And if, after visiting a number of bars, you find that it's invariably lager being thrown... Well, would it be unreasonable to avoid the company of lager drinkers in the future?
No, I think it is you who is confusing prejudice with taste. These people, by your description, are already very sure that they don't like this music, despite not having heard it. They are pre-judging it. That is the definition of prejudice.
No, because the people already have heard enough of that genre of music to decide that they don't like it, so they are not PRE-judging it. Suppose, just for example, that we just change the genre, and express those social/political messages in operas: would the people who prefer rap ever hear the message? And why the hell aren't rap fans just as prejudiced for choosing not to listen to opera? I would guess that the average opera lover has heard more rap, than the rap fan has opera.