I appreciate all the stories. You of all people can understand situations just differ based on the person. Financially, I would love to live with 2 or 3 other people and pay $350 in rent as opposed to $550, but that would drive me absolutely insane. I'm not a huge fan of being around people in general. I care deeply about my 10 ish really close friends, my gf, and my family, but outside of that I just enjoy doing my own thing and not worry about the schedules of others. I currently have one roommate, and it drives me nuts half the time as is. Decent guy, but it just isn't my cup of tea.
I'm less that 2k away from paying off my car I stupidly bought after college (but it HAS been a great car for me, and wasn't crazy expensive). I think I may just get the match on my 401k and start throwing the majority of my savings at my loans - I've been splitting it up between my Loans/nights out with the GF every other weekend/a little extra in my 401k/and my Ally Savings account. But maybe I'll just do this for a few months and see how much ground I'm able to gain - then really think to myself what that long term strategy would do for me. I'm pretty optimistic that it will become a no-brainer.
I'm already not a high spender in any area of my life as is, so sometimes it's difficult to see what cutbacks can be made.
FYI - my Fed Loan interest rate averages out at just below 5% on all my loans.
oh, roommates are the worst, but nobody says you have to like them!
My roommates have included:
Someone who had boyfriends over a LOT, and did whatever they want in our only room, even if I was there.
Someone who would FREAK OUT if she couldn't figure out her homework. Like cry. For a long time.
A cutter who dropped out.
A roommate who would cook dinner, make a bunch of dishes, and go stay at her boyfriend's and leave them to fester for days.
A roommate who would complain about the roommate above and tell me to tell her to do her dishes (!!)
A roommate whose parents were really really Christian, so when they visited she would HIDE my birth control pills.
A roommate who was having a rough time in school and was just downright mean.
A roommate who was in law school and was a complete PITA. We had a cleaning/ yard work schedule, and he would COMPLAIN if, on my yard work week, I paid some kid $20 to mow the yard. That's the time I had 2 roommates and lived in a really cold basement. The key to surviving that period of time was to spend most of my time out, in school, or in my room.
A roommate who was mostly great - we didn't see each other much (both working FT and with school at night), but then her boyfriend moved in for three months and ate my food. When I decided to move out she got nasty.
And NOW!! Gosh the husband and kids...ha
Now. I grew up with many many brothers and sisters, usually at least 4 of us living at home at any given time. I never lived alone until I was 24.5. I lived alone until almost 27. To be honest, most of the time after age 19, I just didn't hang with my roommates at all. I did my own thing.