My wife and I moved to the SF Bay Area about 9 months ago for her job, while I worked remotely. Her salary is many multiples of mine, so it made sense to move here for her job even though it's very HCOL.
My job at the time paid $59k / yr.
I ended up finding a new job that pays me $82k/yr. that I currently work at. The job is relatively interesting/challenging and pays well, but I have a bad commute. The commute requires I drive 60-70 minutes in each direction. I work for a company that has me on a project at a major tech company. The tech company gives me all of my meals, snacks, and some other pretty nice benefits, which is nice. The commute is the major downside here though.
A coworker recently left my company for a job at a University Project Management job and has referred me to the director of her department for another Project Management position. This job is something I'm qualified to do (or could learn quickly) and would be reasonably interesting, but pays less ($70k starting). A major upside is that there is a pension I could be involved in that is attractive. The biggest upside to this job is that it's 2 miles from my house, so is bike friendly and even walkable in a pinch.
Assuming I get an offer for this job, should I take it? Would you?
My wife's job is super secure and we love the area, so we want to stay here for a while.