We will be relocating as part of our FIRE plan. Here are our basic desires.....
-mountain, trails, river or some kind of natural beauty in town or very close to town
-high walkability/bikability
-8 hours drive max from Seattle, but the closer the better
-low-ish cost of living
-strong community
-kid friendly as ours will be 10, 8, 6, 4 years old
-husband wants to live near decent skiing but that's not essential
Where should we look??
So here's a little more on Bellingham:
1. mountain, trails, river or some kind of natural beauty in town or very close to town
Absolutely beautiful with 60+parks (about 20 majors and a bunch of smaller ones). Mount Baker is a 10,778 ft mountain with a great ski area which is about an 1.25-1.5 hours from Bellingham and since it is built in a National Forest, there is no construction allowed so are no resorts or places to stay at the top meaning only local people go there so it is typically has very short lines for world class skiing / boarding. Tons of snow, in fact it set a world record in the 98-99 season with almost 100ft. There are a lot of trails which start from the Chuckanut drive trail head area. Probably the most popular hike is to oyster dome, but there are probably hundreds of trails around when you know where to look. There are quite a few nice lakes, but the most popular are lake Whatcom (which allows boats) and lake Padden (which does not). Both of which have public areas and are really popular when it gets warm.
2.high walkability/bikability
Bellingham is extremely bike friendly. In the past few years they have started to mark bike lanes on the roads which really make people aware of the bikers. Downtown Bellingham is built on a pretty steep hill so there is some low gear riding required to move perpendicular from the bay, but it is not too bad. Speaking of bikes, if you are into mountain biking there is a great downhill trail system called Galbraith mountain that has incredible terrain. Every year there is an event called "ski-to-sea" which is a relay race which includes cross country/down hill skiing, road biking, running, canoeing, mountain biking, and ocean kayaking. It attracts people from far away for competition, but also has a lot of ammeter teams in for fun (hundreds of total teams). For walking, I really enjoyed the "railroad trail" which is a nice trail connecting a large section of bellingham. There is a very strong feeling of being an "outdoorsy" type town filled with "outdoorsy" type people.
3. hours drive max from Seattle, but the closer the better
About 1:45 to get to Seattle, but you'll find Bellingham has pretty much everything you need.
4. Strong Community
I would consider Bellingham to be a pretty strong community. It is an extremely liberal town and people are generally quite friendly, if you want conservative look north to Lynden. Bellingham is home to Western Washington University, so there are a lot of college students and all of the things that go along with being a college town. There are a ton of community events, lots of music, art, festivals, etc. There are a handful of craft breweries (9?) and wineries, lots of amazing restraunts. Most areas are pretty safe, but like most towns there are places to avoid living... in bellingham that area is South of Alabama street between Woburn and James and the "wood hood" south of I-5 between Benett & Aiport rd. There have been a lot of homeless people showing up lately and it's something Bellingham is working on; it's pretty noticeable downtown nowadays. So be on the lookout for some of those communities.
5. Kid friendly
Yes. But I don't have a ton of experience with that. I have a 2 year old but we are no longer in Bellingham proper. I would not hesitate raising my family in Bellingham though. There are good schools (check the reviews because there are better and worse ones).
This honestly just begins to scratch the surface of Bellingham. I would say the biggest drawback is the rainy weather... it does rain a LOT and is very gray from about October to April. It's a fairly mild climate though, it does not drop below freezing all that often and barely ever cracks 90*. The summers are so amazing though!