How about the story of the mother of two who worked full time and raised two kids while going back to school and received her nursing degree? How about the doc I work with who grew up in a poor neighborhood? What about me who started out in the projects and took on a shit ton of debt to get me here? What about the immigrant who studied engineering and now works for apple?
For every sob story of "can't get ahead" there is a story of "living the American dream."
Those success stories are obviously real, and part of what makes America great. As long as there's even a hint of a chance, these people will succeed, and make terrific contributions, and have great lives.
But for the middle people in society's ability range to succeed or fail depends on more than a mere hint of daylight. We middle schmucks rise or fall according to the general level of support and circumstance. The outcomes for the majority depend on a broader system than just the narrow framework that allows a few lucky stars to succeed who will make it no what. Again, I and my friend (middle class middle performers) testify that we only succeeded with others' help.
A broad societal feeling of fairness isn't going to come from just a few people succeeding. It requires the middle people to succeed too.
It is unfortunate that many foster kids don't get the education they need to understanding how life works. It is unfortunate that kids of deadbeat parents are less likely to not succeed as compared to a family that favors education. I agree that helping them understand how to navigate through life would be a benefit to society. How do we do that, and would a few people make a difference in income inequality?
Great questions, EnjoyIt. My opinion:
How to do it...
1. On individual level, reach out and talk to them. Find them through homeless shelters, or talking to street people, or networking with individuals/groups/churches/etc who work with the homeless.
2. This can be a slow and discouraging process despite occasional bright spots. I don't claim to do a lot of it.
3. If you're willing and able, I think sometimes the best way would be (but I haven't done this):
a. set aside $200, take the young person to lunch, get them a hotel room where they can wash up and sleep safely.
b. Leave their stuff there, take them to Target to buy any supplies they need (suitcase/backpack, soap, socks, mirror, razors, vitamins).
c. If you want to go whole hog, and they for some reason don't have a phone, you can buy and activate a cheap phone.
d. Ask them about their plans for the month, the year, their life. If you have relevant connections or advice to offer, fine, but listening and encouragement are fine too. Say that you think they're going to make it, and while you can't be there every day, you care about them. Then you wish them luck and let them relax in the rare luxury of their safe private space. You're done.
e. The leaving part is very important because most people who do that much for a street person are setting them up for sex or trafficking. So get the hell out of there as soon as you've given them their supplies and encouragement.
Would a few people make a difference...
4. To the many starfish stranded on the beach, no. To the few starfish you save, yes.
5. To be fair, maybe 70% of the homeless young people will figure out a life after 10 or 15 years anyway, according to my friend who works with them; in the most common case, you're accelerating their progress by 5 or 10 years, rather than saving them from never ever rising to the housed class.
6. Consider volunteering at CASA (Texas' name for it) or other programs where you become an advocate for and mentor to a foster kid while they're in the system... get 'em on track before 18.
Though...
7. In the big picture, individual acts are a drop in the bucket. By yourself, you won't change everything.
8. So I'm in favor of bigger solutions like:
a. Advocate to your state and city politicians that foster kids get care packages (supplies, etc) upon leaving
b. Paying some actual money to CASA advocates
c. Ensuring that there are state supplements to federal student aid
d. Politically supporting programs or parties that help the poor and working poor in general; see post upthread.
I'm sort of literalist, so if your question was rhetorical, I apologize. You hit my hot button.