I graduated from a traditionally expensive college 3 years ago without ever taking out a loan and having had minimal help from my parents.
In short the keys are:
- Go to the best state school in a state with a state-run college scholarship
- Obtain an on campus job
- Become a dormitory R.A. (free housing, because housing costs are no joke) Freshmen R.A.s often get free meal plans as well
- Ignore your campus meal plan. It's a ripoff. Learn how to cook
- Go to summer school combined with a (preferably*) paid internship
- Don't own a car if you don't have to
- Apply to scholarships. Ones through parents' companies are your best bet. Seriously this is easy money if you can write at all. If not, practice. It's worth it. Being a minority means college should be free if you can type.
*quality of internship is more important than getting paid. an unpaid internship kick started my own career
Sometimes having 2-3 jobs while working on an engineering degree does suck. However, all of those commitments are aware that your school comes first and they will budge if you need them to. Using these strategies I was able to get through 4.5 yrs of college using about $7,000 of my parent's funds. That was only for the first year. My school's website estimated the full costs of my entire degree at $74,250 ($16,500 * 4.5).
I left college with $2,000 in my bank account. Good luck! If you have smart kids it shouldn't be a problem.
This is all great -- if you can make it happen.
- Everyone,
even the smart, motivated kids who really work at it, won't end up with a scholarship. I've been teaching high school seniors for years, and MOST kids don't get any scholarship money. My own daughter has two scholarships that pay about 50% of her education -- she was the #2 scholarship winner in her graduating class. The kids who still get "full rides" tend to be entering the military. Also some majors are scholarship-heavy, whereas others aren't; for example, a strong student heading into teaching or nursing will likely get
something, whereas a business or art major with the same grades will be paying full priced tuition. Scholarships aren't what they were a decade ago.
- At some schools they can't give away the RA jobs, whereas at other schools getting one is competitive. I was an RA in college, and at my school girls applied in droves, while only a handful of guys applied; thus, it was easy for a guy to get the job . . . a girl, not so much. It was a godsend to a poor kid like me.
- At most schools, if you live in a dorm (which an RA likely does),
you have to have a meal plan. They don't want to encourage kids to bring small appliances to their rooms. My daughter tells me that recently a kid set off the dorm's fire alarm cooking a potato in the lobby microwave. Clearly everyone isn't ready to cook (and someone's mama should be ashamed of sending him off to school that unprepared).
- Internships are plentiful in some majors, not so much in others. My husband hires engineering interns all the time -- and they're paid pretty well (for college students). In contrast, my daughter'll be doing nursing clinicals, which are essentially internships, but they ARE her classes, and she'll have zero chance of being paid.
- Jobs on campus are great, especially for younger students who don't have cars. Because my daughter is a CNA, she works at the on-campus health center -- she loves that they are flexible with her classes, and she can walk to work. But
most on campus jobs (i.e., the library, assisting the secretary of a certain department, etc.) are work study, and you have to qualify for that through the FAFSA form. I had those jobs, and it was a great thing for me -- but I was a poor kid who got everything FAFSA had to offer.
I don't think your advice is bad at all, but you're implying that with a bit of gumption a person can make all these things happen -- and that's just not true. Everyone can do something (including lots of things beyond your list), but to do all these things required both luck and ability, and everyone won't be in the position to do as well as you did.