Why is it so important to defend other people from someone on the internet telling them that it would be possible for them to ride a bike if they so choose? Nobody is tracking anyone else down, coming to their door, and saying "ride this bike or I will hurt you".
Anyone who doesn't want to ride a bike, for any reason, also has the choice to not read this thread!
For the same reason that you find it necessary to respond to sexist statements and point out their logical fallacies and unaddressed assumptions. Racism/sexism blah blah blahism all have their basis (imo) in a lack of critical thought and empathy for others.
The difference is, I was never saying "how dare you post that, you shouldn't say that, keep your opinion to yourself".
If everyone kept their opinions to themselves, there would be no forum.
Whether MMM is or is not a fan of anything does not mean the logic does not have to stand up. When you have unthinking adherence to anything you let free will and diversity go.
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If Mr. Mustache was an avid runner instead of a biker, I predict everyone here would be advocating running to work.
The majority of "avid" bikers here did not start biking within the past 2 years.
I've been using a bike as transportation since 6th grade, over 2 decades ago. I've been working with the bike station and bike coalition ("promoting the bicycle as a means of everyday transportation") for 6 years. I hadn't ever heard of Jacob of ERE, and noone had heard of the Mustached Man, not even Pete. Just because many of us have convergent ideas does not make us followers.
Yes, I dislike evangelical zeal being used to judge others
I find it obsessive as well, and a little off-putting.
PLEASE RESPECT THIS CHOICE and DON'T TELL ME I SHOULD CYCLE NO MATTER WHAT.
there are probably many others that get the idea that if they don't commute by bike, they are not participating properly.
Maybe that is the crux of it right there, why some people are so defensive about it.
You feel like the community won't accept you if you don't ride a bike.
Except, no one actually said that! The closest anyone has is the Mustached Man himself, and he doesn't even participate in the forums.
Nobody has "judged" anyone. All people are saying is "I hear the reasons you feel this won't work, here are some suggestions of how you could get it to work." That is not the same thing as "you MUST find a way, or else you are a bad person and I won't like you". That seems to be what some non-cyclists are hearing.
Perhaps somewhere inside you feel it is true, so you project it on others? They say a remark generally hurts in proportion to its truth.
And, a lot of people here probably do NOT like or want to bike, but they are being quiet because they are drowned out by the bikers
There are many many topics here. There is stuff on gardening, landlording, the stock market, paying down debt, cutting cable, cheaper cell phones... Nobody is going into a thread on buying a first rental property, and saying "the first step is to buy a bike". If you keep seeing bike people talking about bike stuff, its probably because you keep clicking topics with the word "bike" in them!
No one seems to feel any need to post a "I will NOT buy index funds" thread, or a "I will NOT buy a rental house" or "I will NOT pay off my debt".
That all caps in the original topic, the all caps in bold, repeated over and over, that is what hints at obsessive to me - really, as defensive, as someone else pointed out already.