I like money because it gives me independence. After a hard lesson in what money is REALLY about (see below) I built up a stash of my own. Having money gives me incredible freedom. I don't need a man for anything but wonderful fun times and, yes, love. My children will not need to support me financially in my older years; I can do that myself. If I need something, I can buy it. If I want to go somewhere, I go. I can help those I love, or donate to aid others. I taught my kids to regard money as a tool: you can do lots more with it than without it!
I dislike money because it can be used as a weapon. My first husband used money as a weapon. He had control of the assets and, well, I had nothing in my name. His house. His credit card. His cars. I trusted him, but trust amounted to nothing in the end. He threatened to divorce me and kick me out on the street with nothing whenever he wanted me to back down, so I backed down on everything. When we did divorce, he spent a lot of money trying ruin me, and came close. I found out rather too late that twenty years of marriage meant he couldn't kick me out with nothing. But weaponized money is something I'd rather never face again.