It's easy for someone to find this place and sign up, post for a while. But what is the turnover here? How many people stop posting and go back to consumerism? Ever wonder?
It's a good question that I have asked myself from time to time. I'm in agreement with the idea "I don't care" because all I CAN care about is my own life and loved ones. But I do care about why people are here and why they are posting and if they have anything to offer or not. I don't want to swab the decks on a ship of fools.
I think there are some people who show up here looking for "get rich quick" schemes and have absolutely no intention of living a frugal, badass life. I theorize they pop up here, then leave the forums never to return, thinking we're all a bunch of nutjobs.
I post "a lot" right now because posting helps me cope with the nervous anxiety I have because I've done everything I can at this point to accelerate to FIRE and I'm simply in the wealth accumulation phase. I read people's posting history to find out how they think and what they talk about, and I dialogue with people I think might be in the same frame of mind. Sometimes I post in their journals with questions or comments.
There's a Whole30 thread I post in extensively, I feel bonded to the people in that thread. I do keto, a kind of "cousin diet" to Whole30 and we trade a lot of information and rejoice at milestones. I find these kind of diets actually dovetail very well with Mustachianism. They are subversive to the dominant paradigm, life-changing for the participant and badass in the very same way.
I used to deliver facepunches, but then I realized some people are here only for "good deals": the lifestyle itself only means suffering to them. They don't get the intrinsic goodness of Badassity. I quit doing that because it's hollow and because, sometimes, people turn out to be quick learners with a lot of information to share.
I am amazed and thankful that ANYONE posts after they FIRE. This includes people like arebelspy, James, Jon_Snow, RootOfGood, GoCurryCracker, Retiredat53, etc. I read and read and re-read the things they write to learn what life is like after FIRE.
In real life, my wife and I are still in the "danger zone" where we could possibly lose our house if we don't achieve FIRE and get the mortgage paid off. When she came to the realization of what was driving me and she said: "Thank you for keeping me out of poverty." Honestly, I thought my heart was gonna bust out of my chest when she said that.
I'd seen where we were headed for 10 years prior to finding MMM. I was searching, hard, for what to do. I had nothing to go on. I knew no one and had no examples or information, and the stock market and investing were just risky minefields where you lost everything you had. MMM changed all that and kept me and my wife from going to financial hell.
Whether I post or not, I'll never, ever go back to mindless consumerism.