I found this sight about a month and a half ago and since then have spent quite some time on it. It has really changed my life in the short term. For beginner, after spending a weekend reading through the blog posts and finding the forum, I walked into work money and upped my 401(k) from 6% of my salary to 20%. In that time I have also got my wife on board with the MMM lifestyle changes. We are by no means hardcore, we still do a lot of fancypants things, but our goals starting out was to save 50% of our income for the first couple of years, that way we could still spend whatever was leftover and not feel guilty.
Christmas. This time of year has always been tough for me because I just recently started making fairly good money. I always remembered being the one that was getting gifts that were much more costly that the gifts I could give other. Now, I am able to purchase those expensive gifts for people. The last few years, I would agonize over how much someone was going to spend on me and if I needed to go get them something to match their gift. Not this year, this year I made things for people, mostly my wife did, but I helped. I really got out of my own head about what others expected from me and what I was supposed to purchase for others.
I can say that no one has treated me different or looked down at me for giving this less expensive more thoughtful gifts. It is a good feeling. The feeling that I felt that now that I made a certain amount of money means I have to spend way too much on Christmas is gone.
Thank you all for that, and Merry Christmas to everyone. You guys have been so helpful whether you realize it or not, whether I've argued with you on a post, or whether I've agreed with you all the way. You have made me think a lot more about finances and changed some of my stubborn fancypants views. Thanks again!