DH and I drive under 5k miles per year, except for long road trips, but that can vary widely from year to year -- in 2022 we did one long road trip of about 1400 - 1500 miles, but our in town driving was significantly lower, at most 3k miles. We'll call it 4500 miles total, and that's generous considering there are many weeks where the only driving is 6 miles round trip to the store, and 2 miles round trip to church.
College kid A drives about 2k miles per year + in 2022 the round trip to out of state school (3600) miles, but the trip back next spring will be the last one. Still that choice will have added 7200 miles to the car over 2 academic years. For 2022, 5600 miles.
College kid B just got a license this year, and drives 160 miles per week when in school, plus some other driving around that isn't excessive. I estimate that their driving will be around 6-7k miles in 2023, but for 2022 it'll be about 2700 miles.
So for all of us in 2022, it'll be 12,800 miles, or an average of 3200 miles per person. I don't find it best to smoothe it out between all drivers, however, because some households our size have 1 or 2 drivers, and some have 4, like us. In 2019, pre-pandemic and also pre the kid heading to out of state school, we had three drivers and drove about 7k miles per year, which included lots of driving to races. In 2020 we didn't even drive 3k miles.