So all you happy people, what's your answer on covid-19?
I wouldn't necessarily call myself 'happy' in reference to the pandemic. In fact, generally I tend to slightly lean pessimist on topics I am at least somewhat informed about.
That being said -
1)
I can do nothing to control the pandemic. Not globally, nationally, regionally, or (for the most part) locally.
2) If I worry about point 1, I will probably die of a stress-induced aneurysm.
3) In our marriage, my wife is much more anxious about sociopolitical concerns than I am, so I try and do my best to apply the logic of point 2 across other issues of concern.
4) I have a specific line from the book "Thinking, Fast and Slow" written on various whiteboards and frequent touchpoints to keep it drilled into my skull - paraphrased, "[Broad Framing] >> [Narrow Framing]". Applying that to the pandemic, right NOW life sucks. People are dying, and the virus is burning through the globe's vulnerable populations. Referring back to point #1, I can do nothing about that. I can do nothing about the speed of vaccines. Even with the best mitigation, I ultimately can't even control whether I, personally, will contract the virus*. These are things that are happening in the present, they are all connected but ultimately individual events. My concern about one only serves to amplify my concern about the others.
If I take a step back, WAY back - closer to walt's viewpoint - things start to look different. We will have lost many millions globally to this disease. Many millions more will be in worse economic shape for the rest of their lives. That's really depressing, and neither of those points ever deserve to be glazed over. But eventually, this disease will fade into the background, and with the terrible consequences come incredibly bright spots. Arguably, it may have prevented the US from another term under Trump. We will (at least for a while) stop taking healthcare systems for granted. The mRNA vaccines are wild successes - they will give us incredibly powerful weapons against this, existing, and future disease.
Another thing will eventually rear its ugly head and we'll all focus on that. Another pandemic? War? Terrorism? Natural disaster? Alien invasion?. I hope for none of these but statistics say all of them are likely to occur (hopefully not the last one).
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To answer your question - there is NO true answer to the pandemic. At least, not from me. And Boris, Joe, the WHO, the CDC, Elon, Jeff, Bill, the NHS - none of them have the answer either. Not individually at least.
Our brains try and make sense of anything that seems big and scary. When it's this big and scary, we try and simultaneously make sense of each 'segment' of the thing as well as the thing itself.
Take that step back and look at this on a longer time scale, just for a second. Put yourself 10, 50, 100 years from now and imagine all the things that you'll have worried about since the pandemic. How does the pandemic fit into the scale of the future. How has any major global event affected the course of history?
Then, go back into the 'now' and do what you can. Draw your circles of control and concern if you must. Wear a mask, listen to health guidance, help stop misinformation, get the vaccine when available, help out local businesses if that's important to you. Take a breath, take a nap, read a book, talk to your loved ones. Whether or not we want it to, life will move on. To what degree you accept that maxim is entirely up to you. Me? I'm all in on it.
*I know I can control whether I will contract the virus, but I also do not want the quality of my life or my family's lives to plummet simply because we refuse to become infected.