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How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« on: January 23, 2015, 11:02:25 AM »
If we should be able to adjust our expectations to get used to things and not be hedonistic, then why can't we do the same with working at a job for most of our lives?  Isn't that building character also?  DISCUSS!

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #1 on: January 23, 2015, 11:39:48 AM »
Work is most definitely voluntary discomfort. We can adjust and choose to be happy at work.

But in truly creating a life philosophy you should strive to live a joyful life. When something subtracts from your overall happiness, you should do your best to avoid it.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #2 on: January 23, 2015, 01:56:13 PM »
Ah, a stoic would imagine his life both with, and without the job. Then when living in one or the other situation, always know his life could be going the other way.

Appreciating/accepting what you have does not mean ignoring that which you do not.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #3 on: January 23, 2015, 04:40:09 PM »
Stoicism is also a proponent of eudaemonia/self-flourishing. Being able to be happy while uncomfortable at a job != actualizing your full potential as a human being.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #4 on: January 23, 2015, 05:19:45 PM »
I was just discussing this with DH last night. He said that a stoic should be able to find happiness in either state, even if not-working is preferred.

I'm wondering about the whole "obligation to society" thing. Would Marcus Aurelius have been satisfied filling his days with eating, vacationing, and reading books? Or would he say that service to our fellow man is essential for a meaningful life?

Of course a job is not the only definition of contribution....

But I can't imagine the man eating bon bons and scratching his groin while watching daytime TV.

Hark! Who is this man they call Jerry Springer? And why are his friends not tranquil?

Yes, I wonder about stoicism-ER too.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #5 on: January 23, 2015, 06:00:02 PM »
From what I understand, part of Stoicism is doing your best to live according to your nature. While we can choose to change our opinion of our job to be happier while at work, if deep down you don't get a sense of fulfillment from the job, I would imagine Stoics would agree that ER in order to pursue virtuous, fulfilling activities is in keeping with the philosophy. ER to sit on the couch all day and watch soap operas....not so much.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #6 on: January 23, 2015, 08:52:36 PM »
I'm no stoicism expert (haven't read the suggested books yet but plan to), but most of the major religions incorporate the need for suffering in one's life. Suffering teaches discipline, acceptance, surrendering to your circumstances. Suffering is needed for growth. Suffering is needed for maturity.

I think this applies to all parts of life. You can't expect to grow your muscles without exercising them and putting them under exertion. Same thing with your emotional life. Think of those overly-coddled people who never really mature because they never had to strive for anything. They may have gotten everything given to them on a silver platter, but they will not have the emotional maturity to really grow their character.

Not that I'm equating having a job with suffering, but I do believe everyone should earn their FIRE so that they can really appreciate it. "Not wanting to work anymore" is not what it's all about. FIRE requires a huge amount of discipline both before and after FIRE, and after FIRE provides one the opportunity to become more self-actualized. I don't see at all how this is contrary to stoicism (again, not an expert at this).

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #7 on: January 23, 2015, 09:05:27 PM »
MMM used the example of pretending you were blind and being stoic about it and then realising you were not. Well, pretend you are a spendypants and be stoic about it, and then realise you are not. Pretend that you will need to work for the rest of your life...

No contradiction at all!

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #8 on: January 24, 2015, 04:37:46 AM »
I consider myself a stoic and is not really interested in early retirement just financial independence. Honestly I like being at the office and working almost more than just being lazy at home. I like discipline and routine and putting my skills to work. I have a job I love though (my own company). But I think I would be completely fine working as a janitor or in a supermarket as well.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #9 on: January 24, 2015, 08:10:25 AM »
I am working on developing a more Stoic mindset. I don't see a problem with being a Stoic and not working a full time job. The great Stoic teachers and philosophers thought that being of service/useful was important. That doesn't mean you have to work for someone else. You can be very useful and of service to others by volunteering, by fulfilling your civic duties, by raising your children.

Someone like Nords exemplifies this to me. He may or may not consider himself a Stoic (I don't know?) - but even though he is FIRE, he has done a lot of fantastic work with the book and website he did to help military men and women know how to get their financial lives in order. He donates money to veteran's organizations. He answers questions on this forum (and I believe on others forums) - and having read his posts for over a year now, he takes time to answer thoughtfully and with humor!

I recommend reading the book A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy. There is a lot more to Stoicism than suffering in silence!

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #10 on: January 24, 2015, 09:00:32 AM »
A stoic might choose to leave paid work behind, but would probably spend that time on charity or community work rather than pure idlenes. Or as in MMM's case, focusing on raising a child or fulfilling other family commitments.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #11 on: January 24, 2015, 10:23:57 AM »
Suffering teaches discipline, acceptance, surrendering to your circumstances. Suffering is needed for growth. Suffering is needed for maturity.

Beautifully stated

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #12 on: January 26, 2015, 12:00:47 PM »
Stoicism is also a proponent of eudaemonia/self-flourishing. Being able to be happy while uncomfortable at a job != actualizing your full potential as a human being.

Best answer in the thread, IMO.

Arete (greek for excellence/virtue) is the goal.  If a job is preventing you from achieving your highest aim, it should be shredded.  Adapting to one's circumstances is great.  Purposefully choosing not to improve them isn't.

Other answers about specific stoic techniques are true, but the underlying philosophy is the key part, IMO.
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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #13 on: January 26, 2015, 12:12:32 PM »
I think the answer is not found in "discussion", the answer is found in studying stoicism and applying it to your life. Applying stoicism to a broad idea (like FIRE) is not practical. You apply stoicism to your life, not to ideas.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #14 on: January 27, 2015, 10:07:37 AM »
A FIREd stoic would silently contemplate the possibility of having to work a nine-to-five job everyday and be much more joyful as a result. :-)


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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #15 on: January 28, 2015, 12:07:08 AM »
I think the OP asks an interesting question.

Stay in a job one hates could be considered stoic.

Or be wise, not have to ever work again and be unstoic.

The person who is wise, retires early is the stoic. She's the one with the cojonettes to live life on her terms.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #16 on: January 28, 2015, 03:32:03 PM »
A FIREd stoic would silently contemplate the possibility of having to work a nine-to-five job everyday and be much more joyful as a result. :-)

*claps hands*  Yes.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #17 on: January 28, 2015, 04:16:30 PM »
Bookmarking.  I am just now beginning to study stoicism and really appreciate this discussion.  Thanks, everyone!

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #18 on: January 28, 2015, 04:48:42 PM »
I was just discussing this with DH last night. He said that a stoic should be able to find happiness in either state, even if not-working is preferred.

I'm wondering about the whole "obligation to society" thing. Would Marcus Aurelius have been satisfied filling his days with eating, vacationing, and reading books? Or would he say that service to our fellow man is essential for a meaningful life?

Of course a job is not the only definition of contribution....

But I can't imagine the man eating bon bons and scratching his groin while watching daytime TV.

Hark! Who is this man they call Jerry Springer? And why are his friends not tranquil?

Yes, I wonder about stoicism-ER too.

HA

One part of this is that the elites of this time, who did all the writing about philosophy, placed importance on accepting the status quo. That made it a lot easier to write about philosophy while other people were enslaved and had no access to education. But I think most people would argue that's a product of their time rather than part of the philosophy.

They do have some thoughts on the importance of obligation to others and a public life which I haven't really gotten into reading. But I would point out that if ER isn't necessarily stoic, FI certainly is. Insofar as we ought to control what we can control and be good citizens, not being beholden to a job allows us to practice unencumbered virtue. If you look at their writings on tyranny, it makes sense that they would approve of achieving a position where you can undermine the emperor from within rather than supporting a bad regime because you need a paycheck.

Looked at another way, jobs provide positive benefits for people, like order and security, and stoics might suggest negative visualization to prove to yourself that you would be okay without the job, that you're not trapped by the comfort of the job anymore than you want to be trapped by any other comfort.

I like the question. I'll keep thinking about it.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #19 on: January 28, 2015, 04:51:14 PM »
One part of this is that the elites of this time, who did all the writing about philosophy, placed importance on accepting the status quo. That made it a lot easier to write about philosophy while other people were enslaved and had no access to education.

Epictetus, one of the most famous Stoics, was a slave.
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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #20 on: January 28, 2015, 07:47:26 PM »
The part of stoicism that works best for me when it comes to thinking about work is the act of pondering how much worse things could be. I could be without a job. I could be physically unable to work. I could be working somewhere in Asia making iPhones or iPads. I could work for Bill Lumbergh. After contemplating the what ifs, I am much more able to enjoy and appreciate my job.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #21 on: January 28, 2015, 07:48:15 PM »
One part of this is that the elites of this time, who did all the writing about philosophy, placed importance on accepting the status quo. That made it a lot easier to write about philosophy while other people were enslaved and had no access to education.

Epictetus, one of the most famous Stoics, was a slave.

What I'm trying to express is that the stoic thought isn't of a revolutionary bent, telling you, e.g., that slavery is bad, social mobility is good. If a man is imprisoned or a slave, the crux of the philosophy is that he should accept the discomforts of these situations and that is how he achieves mental freedom. I read that this may have been one of the reasons the philosophy appealed to those in a hierarchical society, it doesn't fundamentally make you question the idea that each individual has his place.  And that's what Meadow's bringing up. Taken to the extreme, being happy with what you have means it's pointless to change your situation.

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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #22 on: January 28, 2015, 09:23:18 PM »
Taken to the extreme, being happy with what you have means it's pointless to change your situation.

But the stoics didn't believe that at all.

I disagree with your interpretation of stoic thought and its implications.
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Re: How does stoicism square with not wanting to work anymore?
« Reply #23 on: January 28, 2015, 09:53:13 PM »
Taken to the extreme, being happy with what you have means it's pointless to change your situation.

But the stoics didn't believe that at all.

I disagree with your interpretation of stoic thought and its implications.

That's where I'm saying this thing the OP is hung up on comes from, though, this particular part of their thinking taken to its extreme.  In my first post I pointed out a couple balancing thoughts that I thought countered it.

ps. And I'm still gonna say a slave who gets an education and freed and has the option to live his life as a teacher of philosophy rather than working is still pretty elite :)