Just wanted to add that not all kids who've had college paid for come from a wealthy family. My grandfather, when he passed, left enough for his three grandkids to pay for almost all of a college education, and each of our parents picked up the rest of the tab, and we all worked part time jobs (though that probably only paid for food and some personal spending).
My family is not wealthy at all, but it was always expected that we would go to college. I was one of the ones that probably shouldn't have gone at the time. One cousin went on to get her masters in accounting, and the other is currently in med school and will be at close to $200k in debt, even with continuing help from his family. I switched from a BS, to BA in English, just so I could graduate; in my case there would be no 2nd shot at a paid for degree. I started college 2 weeks after high school graduation, and while I got decent grades in high school, I knew, my parents knew, we all knew that I would struggle in college. I just wasn't mature or serious enough at the time. I made it, but just barely. Now I'm planning to go back on my own dime, with a goal and more drive...but will not take student loans.
That being said, there is a huge discrepancy I've noticed between myself and friends who have loans. For those that actually got decent jobs because of their loans, there is less so of an impact. But it is always in financial discussions that we have, there looming in the background. Whereas student loans for friends who either didn't finish, or didn't get decent jobs, it is their number one expense, and a barrier to them being where they need to be financially. Even though I have made less than $50,000 most of my working life, not having student loans has put me financially in a better place than many friends who have and use their professional degrees, but they may surpass me in a few years if they pay down the loan and continue to grow in their careers.
My job does not require a degree, and fact very few of my coworkers have a four-year degree. Most only have some college, several others an associates. My job will pay for degrees in certain fields, so I am definitely a proponent of jumping into full-time work first, if you don't know what you are doing in college and have no free ride. At least that way you'll be earning money, and could possibly get a paid for education. I just feel like a great big hypocrite every time I give advice on avoiding student loans. I can only guess as to how I would've handled it. I would've handled it probably by not going to school, I had no real motivation at the time, and debt scared me back then too. I remember passionately telling my father, after failing yet another math class, that I don't know what I'm doing in school. I'm a hard worker, and I would rather work 100 jobs than be in school. I don't regret my degree, as it is a requirement for my part time job, which is the reason why I want to go back to school for a more appropriate degree so I can grow in this industry and eventually switch careers. I had to grow up first, before I could finally figure out what I wanted to do when I grow up.