I totally understand Frugal Fatigue. When you place yourself on a budget be it big or small you are consciously or unconsciously "pricing" out every purchase or activity.
Okay...
As stated earlier though, we, for example, don't use a budget. We buy everything we want.
There is nothing limited, or priced out. Only things we want and don't want (the latter we buy, the former we don't).
Yes, if you're depriving yourself you may get frugality fatigue. But I would argue that once you have the right mindset, it isn't a thing.
(See: conversation earlier in the thread.)
:)
I wonder if you could share with us how you arrived at "not wanting much"? Or, if that is a natural state for you ie you didn't have to make it happen, any wisdom you might have for us.
Just to share where I think I am on this journey. Whilst I look back over my life and see "seeds of frugality", I did not have any role models/ internets forums etc, and whilst I'm a bit of an independent thinker, was also immersed in the values of those around me.
So, I can honestly say all my life I've known that cars are not my love in life. I just want a sturdy reliable practical car that will take me from A to B with the minimum of fuss/expense. Despite knowing this in my heart, I allowed myself to believe that "physicians are supposed to drive fancy cars," and that "if I don't have a fancy car, I'm not really a successful physician". I have to say I never really had a fancy car, but aspired to have one, or at least felt I "should have one" and felt consumption envy/jealousy when others had them. I'd see a Merc/Beamer whatever and feel a pang of car-lust/jealousy.
Then for a while I owned the fact that cars weren't my thing, but still felt the pang. Then I went through a phase where, when I felt the pang, I would remind my self why driving such a car *for me*, would be stupid. I even started to say hateful things in my head, like "look at that sucker, driving that fancy pants car, thinks she's/he's so hot but actually she's/he's dumb and has no idea." Nowadays I am pretty well neutral about the whole thing. "A Porsche? meh, not my thing, but maybe its theirs". The move from negative thoughts to neutral is important, since it uses up no energy, hence avoiding frugal fatigue. I got there I think, by allowing myself to really honour that truth I knew all along, that my self-worth, and personhood was not defined by the superficial accumulation of stuff, especially "exclusive" stuff , and, by practicing these thought processes.
So am I on the right track? anyone else got ideas?
(apologies to those for whom cars are really their thing, they're just not mine)