I was fortunate enough to do a short term gig in the Philippines with a non-profit. It is an amazing place. I had several interesting interactions with ex-pats. Several of the older American men in our outfit had been there, on assignment for a year or two, and had zero interest in returning to life in the US. I also met a retired postal worker who had zero retirement savings, yet was living like a king. He had a walled compound with a small home, a detached apartment for the help, gardens, a nice car, a housekeeper, driver and gardener. All of this was easily covered by his postal pension.
OTOH, we have an acquaintance who is living a literal hell on earth with his S.E Asia mail order bride. The guy is a completely free of any backbone, and the wife quickly positioned herself as the next Kardashian. She got a visa for her mother, and moved her in. They currently are building a literal estate on six acres of expensive dirt in the NYC area, and it has been under construction for half a decade. The taxes on the unfinished mess are north of $30K and he will be well into the multi-millions in costs, when and if, the queen declares it done. I will be shocked if the guy doesn't swallow a pistol, or drop dead from the stress in the next few years.