'living a more balanced and enjoyable life along the way, rather than sacrificing current experiences for a future payoff.'
Please. Yet another article that (intentionally or not) misstates the FIRE movement to build a contrast with the approach they want to sell.
"Die with zero" isn't some new, earthshaking idea. It's what the vast majority of humanity does by default. "DWZ" is just a rationalization to chase immediate gratification -- to paper that powerful urge with a name that sounds like an intentional plan, to pretty it up into a "movement."
Key points they miss:
-- The value of FI. I don't care if you want to RE or not, but the ability to say FU to a terrible job, to be able to chase something that you really love instead of sitting in a cubicle for 40 years, is one of the most powerful feelings you will ever know. Sure, maybe you foresake the cruise to Antarctica to get that; OTOH, what is the value of avoiding 20 years of misery? It strikes me that DWZ chases the short-term highs, whereas FIRE protects you from the long-term lows (while still providing a bunch of short-term highs, they're just not the kind you want to brag about on Instagram). IMO, DWZ should be limited to people who love their jobs and so are happy to stay there indefinitely to fund their lifestyles. If you hate your job, hate going to work every day, you are doing yourself a serious disservice locking yourself into needing that job to fund all the trips you take and toys you buy to make your life tolerable.
-- Hedonic adaptation. If you spend your money taking big trips, give it a few years, and those trips will seem boring. So then you need to take even bigger and fancier trips to get the same happy feeling. Then what? If you've structured your life around doing Big Impressive Things to chase your happiness, what do you do when those Big Impressive Things are no longer satisfying?
-- FIRE isn't about depriving yourself for 10, 20, 30 years to live like royalty later. It is about finding a current lifestyle that meets your needs and makes you happy that also allows you to save a big wad of cash so have the freedom to choose what you want to do going forward. Maybe that is quitting, maybe that is going part-time, or switching to a passion job that pays for shit, or taking off several years to spend time with your kids -- there's no single answer that suits everyone. Ideally, the FIRE approach should give you a fairly steady-state lifestyle throughout your life. But, again, having that wad of cash also allows for periods that are either up or down, if that is what your plans call for.
-- The power of immediate gratification means FutureYou doesn't get much of a place at the table. Imagine not having eaten for three days and facing a giant buffet of all your favorite dishes. There might be a little voice in the back of your mind saying "now, make healthy choices, don't forget the vegetables, don't eat too much or you'll feel sick/gain weight/whatever," but the part of your mind screaming "FOOD DELICIOUS FOOD!!" drowns that out. People actively suck at projecting bad shit that might happen in the best of circumstances; we are very, very good at coming up with rationalizations about how that won't be me, because XYZ. How many people rely on their jobs and yet don't have disability insurance? If you are a healthy 30-year-old(+/-), the single biggest risk to your financial future is being unable to work. And yet how many people turn down disability insurance because it costs too much? To me, the real benefit of the FIRE mindset is that it forces you to plan around what FutureYou will want and need -- that long-term, post-FIRE plan is the cornerstone of the movement, which means you can't even really start until you think pretty deeply about what FutureYou will want to be and what kind of life she'll want to live. It's still a hard thing to project what you will want/need, to override the pull of immediate desires, but at least FutureYou gets a place at the table.
-- It assumes that doing without or doing things yourself is a bad thing, when really, it is the only way to reset your mindset. As
@Missy B notes, even the most basic modern life is filled with luxury. Who do you think is happier on a daily basis: the guy who wakes up and says, "wow, I can't believe I live in an era where I have air conditioning in August and whatever luxury food item I might want two miles away at the grocery store"? Or the guy who takes all that for granted and is constantly thinking "gee, I wish I had a bigger house and didn't have to spend all this time shopping and cooking"? There is significant power in knowing that you don't actually need all of the trappings.
I could keep going, but I'll stop for now.