Hey All! New here and just feel like talking about where I fit on my new MMM journey.
Right now I'm 24 and working as a social worker + bartender as a second job.
I grew up in the upper middle class suburbs of CA and since a young age watched my peers rat-racing all around me but never really got why? I always thought I was a bit weird -- I liked my 1997 crappy Jeep because it was OK to get it dirty, fit my surfboards, and wasn't the end of the world if it got scratched -- isn't that the perfect car for a girl who loves sports? Meanwhile I had friends telling me that it must be "embarrassing" to drive that car and always left me SO confused!!!
Fast forward to university where I went to... USC! Yep! university of spoiled children! Once again I enjoyed my life and saw nothing wrong with wearing normal (non brand name) clothes, not having the latest macbook, etc. Here I accumulated $35k debt of student loans and it's currently at ~$31k (have only just recently had it click to pay off my debt aggressively. Yay for learning personal finance skills while growing up??? NOT!)
I managed to "save" $3k after graduation and spent it backpacking around Europe and Australia for 6+ months. Lived out a backpack and for me this is when I really had an AHA moment and realized
1. I don't need things to keep me happy
2. I don't need many things to really live off of!
Then, my desire for the newest things basically was snuffed out despite having a lot of people around me completely obsessed with social status.
ANYWAYSSS I met my current partner who is German (I'm from California), getting his PhD with a tax free salary on top, and has some knowledge of investments, savings, interest type things. We live in Australia -- in a sharehouse, are vegetarian, and generally live a frugal lifestyle.
I do bulk + organic shopping, avoid disposables (WHY would you use a takeaway cup, WHY!), and live a pretty low waste lifestyle. We research things for months before purchasing big expenses (laptop, shoes, sporting equipment). I told the chefs I work with that I want to take home any vegetarian leftovers from the night and basically come home every day with my breakfast and lunch for free! Once again, I get the "aren't you embarrassed?" UHHH... no? Because I just got $20 worth of ingredients for free just by asking. How is that embarrassing!!!
Living just like this (pre MMM!) I've saved about $17k just by basically "not trying" (and now I know that needs to go to my debt :) thanks MMM!) Like, I never felt that the lifestyle I had was extreme or anything. I just thought 1. I don't want to damage the environment by buying more shit I don't need, and 2. I don't want more things because more things = more to clean and organize.
TO ME, I thought this wasn't saving much but was shocked when a coworker (who makes 2x as much as me) lives with her parents (no rent payments!) and has no dependents, told me she plans to save $20k within the next 5 years and is "proud that she has $5k in savings). What the hell?
So now I'm really excited to learn more and get to know people's habits. I'm just starting my MMM journey but feeling pretty good about the bases I have covered so far.
:) Love being in here!