the bus system there is definitely known for being dangerous. You only ride the bus if you absolutely have to (ie, very poor). However, now that I'm thinking about it, the problem may start with the system being so badly designed that you only rode it if you were desperate which will, of course, self select for desperate people.
This is of course key, and judging from the sampling of responses so far, it seems to hold true. Jacksonville has a huge sprawl (we're the largest city in the US, since the entire county is "the city of Jacksonville"), the buses run only once per hour typically, and the routes don't transfer to another route except at one downtown hub. My admittedly n=1 experience would indicate the bus riders here are economically disadvantaged or unable to drive for other reasons (DUI, etc.).
If you live in a city with a well designed bus/rail system and/or a city with significant congestion and parking problems for cars, then the usage goes up and the stigma disappears.
Yes it does. The bus is for poor people, and people that have made a series of very poor life choices. I'm sure it's not the same everywhere (i'm in detroit), but I don't want to associate with that riff raft.
And if you haven't made a series of poor life choices that has forced you to ride the bus, and you do it voluntarily for economic reasons then you are an idiot that can't do basic math and/or don't value your own time (a 20 minute car ride is equivalent to an hour and half bus ride, IF the bus runs on time).
EDIT: Also you don't have your choice of when to leave. If you have to arrive at work at a certain time, or you get off at a certain time you will spend an extra 20-30 minutes waiting for the bus (and possibly for your various other transfers) since you can't just start your bus ride at any time you want and you have to wait for their schedule
That's "riff raff". :-) The time cost is real, but I would argue that it doesn't have to be a deal breaker. You can relax, read, do other things you couldn't do while driving. You can put your bike on a rack at the front of the bus and ride part of the way, or ride between connections to speed up transfers. At $50/mo for a pass here, the economics would appear to be a huge win over a car.
Having said all that, yes, I have multiple cars, a motorcycle, and wayyy too many bicycles. I'm just trying to add another option, and wondering why it's so negatively perceived.