Found myself in the US.
I did not have work immediately so haunted libraries and went to lectures on money, since I had lost everything. Lurked from the beginning and then became a member to connect with others. I learned how to be frugal, to look for sales, how money can work, from all of u. Finally MMM gave me the freedom to not waste, to be frugal, without feeling mean or cheap! My tribe!
Managed to influence several others gently, successfully.
Never inflicted my frugality on others, was always overly generous, especially if someone was poor. Since I had learned not to waste, I almost always had plenty to give others. Thank you MMM, Mrs MMM and all of you.