My example is from the LA suburbs. You can find temporary anomalies in any market, but over the long term, rents go up.
So do home repairs, maintenance, realtor fees, and taxes. The difference is that the full cost of renting is very easy to calculate (with exception to maybe opportunity cost, but owning also has difficult to calculate opportunity costs) whereas the cost of owning and tracking the avg price increases is a lot more difficult to determine.
Home repairs are as expensive as you want them to be. If you're willing to do the work yourself, you should be spending very little on them yearly. I've spent less than two grand on home repairs that were necessary in the last decade (replaced furnace). I have spent more than 30 grand on home improvement related things that I wanted to do though - installing solar panels, landscaping, laying a patio, window treatments, etc.
Realtor fees don't change (and therefore don't matter at all) after you've paid them the one time.
Taxes do go up over time . . . but those increases are pretty minimal. I'm spending about 3200$ a year on our home - we started out paying 2700 a year.
I think there is often a tendency to overestimate costs of home ownership - particularly 'maintenance'.
1. I guess if you consider your own labor worthless. If you're comparing with renting, then you need to add in the cost of spending your own time on the repair whereas when you're renting, that time is paid for by the landlord. Maybe you don't mind the extra labor, but that's still an opportunity cost.
Hmm. Picking and choosing to apply rules unequally seems unfair.
What cost have you put on finding a new place and moving all your stuff when you're renting? This is something that can come up unexpectedly, at just about any time the landlord decides he doesn't want you in the place any more. I feel like this cost is not being accounted for at all. Maybe you don't mind the extra time/labour . . . but that's still an opportunity cost, isn't it?
2. Realtor fees at least here, are a percentage of the sale. If you're home is inflating at x%, then the realtor fees are going up by that same amount.
Right, that's the point I was making. They don't matter at all as long as you're living in the home and thus are not an ongoing cost of homeownership. You pay them once and then live at the place without caring about them.
"Picking and choosing"? No, you just brought up a different type of expense. Moving applies to both renting and owning, though you're right that the risk of being told to leave when you don't necessarily want to are higher when renting (though I've personally never experienced this nor have I known anyone who has though I know it happens). This would be a highly personal thing depending on your own situation.
The median US home ownership period is 13 years, so even if we said that you got kicked out of your rental every 4-5 years (seems very improbable), we're talking about an additional 3 moves. (And I assume would be local moves). I recently moved and paid some guys $150 to move the big stuff and took about half a day to move the rest of our stuff with 3 people. I probably could've paid an extra $400 to have it done professionally. So let's make it an even $600 to do a local move.
Price in an extra $10 a month for unexpected moves. (though realistically, I'd think it's closer to $5 on average)
But the crux of this is that I didn't bring up opportunity costs associated with renting, you're the one that claimed that home repairs are cheap if you do them yourself. If you want to compare hours spent owning vs. renting, I hope we'd agree that owning absolutely takes more hours especially if you're doing the repairs. (The process of buying a house itself can take 2-3x as long as finding a place to rent).
On point 2, maybe there's a difference in Canada, but here, the seller pays the larger share realtor fees (usually). So no, you don't pay them once and forget it, the price of the fee inflates at the same rate as your home appreciation. Even if you die in the home, your estate will still end up paying those fees at some point. Yes, if you spend 50 years in a home you can declare your realtor fees "negligible". But moving homes every 10 years still comes out to about $1000 / yr fee for a typical SFH.