Holyoak...holyanger!
Haha but yea, i have let some friends in on my plans, with genuine care and hope to influence them positively in regards to finance. I try to stick to the vision of FI over ER because its easier to accept the fact that i want to live a lifestyle where i can make my own choices and with out the stress of finances breathing down my neck. I tell them, if i decide i would like to never work another day, i could do that, but don't plan to do that and i can also continue working if i enjoy the job i'm in, or start a non profit or for profit, travel, ect. ect. But again it will be my decision, not because i have to stay in the rat race to stay afloat.
In my opinion, people take to this mindset much easier then saying you have a goal of retiring at 35....
Even presenting it this way, i have one spendy friend who should have "YOLO" tattooed on his forehead, and frequently puts me down for being frugal, or "not enjoy life" as he sees it. It doesn't bother me in the least. I got 3 people on board with the MMM lifestyle and i am content with that. Someone did it for me and i have done the same for others, so that made it worth the effort and crap i receive from others, anyone that wants to pick fun at me, no sweat off my back.