My father, sister, and her kids all got gift cards. I wasn't expecting anything, but my father gave my wife and I quite a bit of cash. I didn't get anything from my sister, but she gave my 5-year old a number of small gifts. My wife and her family are still big on exchanging actual gifts. They don't spend a lot, but they still get each other physical items. Sometimes this causes me some grief because on occasion she experiences "gift creep" and finds one more person who she thinks she needs to buy a gift for. If I can't stop all the gift exchanges, I can make them more predictable. On my side of the family the gift exchanges generally stop once we're all adults. I might continue with the checks/gift cards for my sister's kids since they just turned 18 and started college, but otherwise I'll cut them off in a couple years. The gift card for dad was a thank you for letting us sleep there for the week and borrow his car. The elderly ladies in the family all get the same small food/snack gift. Gifts from my mother in law to me have predictably turned into Great Courses discs and some clothes. It took her several years of trying, but she now has a good eye for what I wear and the majority of my wardrobe came from her. My wife and I stopped exchanging gifts a couple years ago, and the gift we received from her company's white elephant party is going on Craigslist tomorrow. This year our costs went up a bit due to more friends having kids. I love my friends, but we're all now at kid-raising age and it's getting more expensive.