I must confess that I haven't been 100% honest in reporting my financial picture due to my own views on a situation. I'd like to use this example as a warning to others to not do what I did.
I co-signed on an auto loan with a 'friend' back in Nov. 2007. I never calculated in this burden as it was "the other person's problem".
Ah, the mistake of 6+ years ago came back to bite me hard this week. I grabbed a credit report this weekend and saw a delinquent account on there being past-due by 120 days(!!). By some stroke of wonder after all this time he still owed 4.3K on the loan and was behind by a total of 128 days - owing 2K in back payments. Needless to say my credit has taken a huge dive bomb due to this.
I took immediate action, calling the credit union and getting the payoff quote and calling up the 'friend' and convincing him to sign a legal repayment contract for a personal loan with myself for the amount of the pay off with a small claims court clause in there for good measure if he goes into default (and all the other legalese like acceptable payment methods, due dates, late fees, etc...). Once the contract was signed by both parties this morning, I paid off the loan. This is literally the last thing over my head and it's been a 6 year burden that I've been ignoring because "I'm just the co-signer" and didn't take responsibility for it. It's damn shameful.
So the take away from this, as I'm sure most of you already know: Don't co-sign anything. If you do, do so only with the expectation that you will end up paying the entire loan and still have no claim on the property. There is no way out of the responsibility once you sign it and can seriously mess up your credit and finances.
Luckily thanks to this site and community I was able to take immediate action, and although it hurts to do it, it has only set me back a month and half on my savings goals.
I don't expect to get all of my money back from paying off the loan but 4.3K is a small price to pay for this mistake rather than let the loan go into default with a repossession on my credit history for 7 years.