The bigger the compost pile, the better. I have pushed my arm into a compost heap in warm weather, when things are happening, and you can feel the increase in heat the further in you push your arm. A big pile gets hot enough, in summer, to kill weed seeds, so when you use the matured compost later, no weeds spring up. I have seen commercial compost heaps the size of a large house, and I understand such large compost piles have several species of bacteria, with differing preferences for heat. Cool loving bacteria near the outside, heat loving bacteria further in.
I understand a ratio of two parts carbon matter, like dead leaves, to one part nitrogenous, like grass clippings, is the recommended ratio. Also no meat, bones, citrus peel, garlic or onions, so as to get the right bacteria.
Urine is sterile, unless you have a bladder infection, so urine, (but not the other stuff), should be all right. The difficulty is the need for a separate receptacle for urine in the toilet. Or, if you garden a lot, use the compost heap as a pissoir, as the French say, perhaps with a modesty screen.