On May 12th, I was diagnosed with breast cancer after pointing out a suspicious lump to my OB-gyn at my 34-week appointment. Eight days later, I had a C-section to deliver my son (who required an eight day NICU stay), and eight days after that, I started chemo.
Fortunately, we have no debt, we have a healthy savings account balance, we have medical insurance and an HSA, we have family that is willing to live-in to help with chores and babysitting our two kids, and we have friends who are sending everything from meals to Amazon gift cards. I hate it, though, that we are hemorrhaging money. In the past month alone I spent money on the following:
1. A larger apartment to make room for live-in help: rent increase of $400/month + increase in water/electricity (and everybody keeps turning the f*cking thermostat down when I'm not looking)
2. New daybed, bedding, towels, etc. for guests: ($2K)
3. A beautiful wig as I am so not ok with the fact that my hair is falling out : ($1500)
4. Countless tanks of gas for trips to the hospital and back
5. Various supplements, head scarves, makeup and toiletry items, magazines, tea, etc. to try to keep myself healthy/cheer myself up.
I know that this is just a bump in the road and that we will eventually get back on track. I am sad, though that our financial goals are being pushed aside by something so unexpected and scary. Anybody else wanna commiserate about life throwing a wrench in your mustachian plans? Advice from those who have gone through something similar?