Coming to the end of a real shitstorm of a summer, I'm pondering some new budget questions. I was wondering how you all approached making changes to your budget when health crises emerge.
Most of my family lives in Minnesota, which is a pretty long haul for me (20 hour drive or about $400 round trip plane ride, plus kennel fees, etc.). I generally make the trip twice a year, but already this summer I've been out there 3 times. I made it out in July, and was very fortunate to visit with my 100 year old grandmother the day before she died. I had to drive back up a week later for the funeral. During that visit, we found out my dad's recent weird health issues are related to liver cancer, and his only recourse is to have a transplant. Dad's health is now extremely touch and go, and he's going to need that transplant ASAP (living donor is a possibility). I did my homework regarding family/medical leave and may use that depending on how things go. In the meantime, my mom's been struggling with Stage 4 ovarian cancer for a couple years. My dad's been her caretaker, so obviously it's all very up in the air. My brother and sister live nearby, but I would like to do what I can to help out and obviously go back out there if things go downhill.
Obviously finances are not my primary concern at this time (this is what the emergency fund is for, I guess), but in terms of longer planning I am kind of wondering how to approach it. Thoughts? Do you just chalk it up to emergency spending, or try to budget?