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Re: Being Mushtachian ruined ____
« Reply #50 on: October 28, 2014, 11:04:02 AM »
There's nothing I enjoy more then going out for a couple drinks and a fine dinner with friends.   It was a weekly deal for awhile until I received a nice little DUI on a first date with a girl I met online.  Kinda changed my outlook on things a little and eventually brought me to this site.

Did you ever get a second date with her?

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« Reply #51 on: October 28, 2014, 11:16:41 AM »
There's nothing I enjoy more then going out for a couple drinks and a fine dinner with friends.   It was a weekly deal for awhile until I received a nice little DUI on a first date with a girl I met online.  Kinda changed my outlook on things a little and eventually brought me to this site.

Did you ever get a second date with her?

Yes I did....she was cool with it but ended up having nothing in common.   I was driving her $70k BMW too.   Had to go get that thing out of impound the next morning.  Not fun! ;)

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« Reply #52 on: October 28, 2014, 01:21:43 PM »
I used to pick up a 12 pack of microbrew and some sort of cured meat product every Friday night, also used to eat lunch out with the guys pretty much everyday.  I used to buy a lot of hobby related things, but thankfully, they were not consumables, so I still get to enjoy them, I just don't buy more.  Once I am FIRED, I'll be able to eat lunch with my wife most days and get to spend time actually enjoying my hobbies rather than rushing through them.  Several of my friends homebrew and are always willing to share in return for feedback, so I am pretty covered there. I am also growing hops for them.  I am making my own bacon, but still need to figure out how to make a nice cured sausage to go with cheese and crackers.   

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« Reply #53 on: October 28, 2014, 03:42:31 PM »
Being Mustachian definately ruined going out to eat.  I can make better food at home now, with the exception of Indian food.  Need more practice at that.  Luckily, there's an excellent Indian restaurant near by where it's possible to get A LOT of food for a decent price.

It's also ruined my little shopping trips to Kohl's I used to take every time I'd get a 30% off coupon.  Now those coupons just go unused. 

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« Reply #54 on: October 28, 2014, 04:13:30 PM »
Free stuff giveaways.  They were offering water bottles today and I turned them down since I didn't need junk.

Target trips too... I used to enjoy just wandering the aisles and picking up random stuff.

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« Reply #55 on: October 28, 2014, 04:52:38 PM »
I used to pick up a 12 pack of microbrew and some sort of cured meat product every Friday night, also used to eat lunch out with the guys pretty much everyday.  I used to buy a lot of hobby related things, but thankfully, they were not consumables, so I still get to enjoy them, I just don't buy more.  Once I am FIRED, I'll be able to eat lunch with my wife most days and get to spend time actually enjoying my hobbies rather than rushing through them.  Several of my friends homebrew and are always willing to share in return for feedback, so I am pretty covered there. I am also growing hops for them.  I am making my own bacon, but still need to figure out how to make a nice cured sausage to go with cheese and crackers.   

This is my major vice... a good beer, cheese, crackers, hummus, olives, cured meats... From what I've read, making your own beer is not really any less expensive than buying it.  My mouth is watering. 

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Re: Being Mushtachian ruined ____
« Reply #56 on: October 28, 2014, 05:12:16 PM »
... not owning a bike.  I do take more trips on foot than I do in the car, but I still feel a little weird thinking how bike-centric the Mustachian Way (tm) is, and how I don't fit in.  I'll get one some day, I promise.  :)

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Re: Being Mushtachian ruined ____
« Reply #57 on: October 28, 2014, 05:22:36 PM »
...EVERYTHING! It always ruins EVERYTHING! [slams door] [throws self on bed, weeping]

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« Reply #58 on: October 28, 2014, 07:03:44 PM »
...EVERYTHING! It always ruins EVERYTHING! [slams door] [throws self on bed, weeping]

Haha!  Nice temper tantrum.  But yea…it does ruin everything

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« Reply #59 on: October 28, 2014, 07:10:09 PM »
It didn't ruin biking!

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« Reply #60 on: October 28, 2014, 08:24:41 PM »
Netflix. 

I'm going to pull the plug, because while I used to see it as a great alternative to cable, I now see it as a time suck and I get tired of all the choices.  Would rather borrow a series from the library and watch it through for free.  Less choices are a mind-freeing thing when picking what to watch.

I'm more of an Amazon Prime watcher than Netflix, but yes, same thing, big time waster. The only think I can recommend is to only watch shows that are already completed.  If you start a show that is still on the air, you can watch all the previous seasons, but then you will be tempted to "keep up with" all these shows that have new episodes coming out on the air.  Side effect is more consumer advertisements being broadcast into your house, that family members will see.  "Dad, why can't we get a BMW like that cool guy on that advertisement?".
+1. I just started whatching "Dexter". It camr out in 2006ish, I think. Really old and I would have never know just from watching.

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« Reply #61 on: October 28, 2014, 08:28:14 PM »
Becoming mustachian ruined the show House Hunters. I used to love it, but now when I try to watch it I end up scolding the people for having so many extra rooms or taking the house that has an hour commute.

What was something you previously liked but now is ruined?

Me too! Also, when they inevitably say they need to buy a bigger house so their furntiture will fit. Oh my god - get rid of some furniture! It's not rocket science! Why would you buy a house to fit your furniture instead of the other way around?!
I can't stand House Hunters anymore! Oh would they just shut up about the paint colors??????

We've found an awesome substitute: a British show called "Grand Designs." It chronicles people building homes and it's incredibly detailed and informative. We've learned a ton about construction and building materials. Plus, the people don't always succeed--it's very real life in that way (unlike every single show on HGTV). Highly recommend it!
where/how can I watch it? I like the sound of it!

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« Reply #62 on: October 28, 2014, 08:33:31 PM »
Becoming mustachian ruined the show House Hunters. I used to love it, but now when I try to watch it I end up scolding the people for having so many extra rooms or taking the house that has an hour commute.

What was something you previously liked but now is ruined?

Me too! Also, when they inevitably say they need to buy a bigger house so their furntiture will fit. Oh my god - get rid of some furniture! It's not rocket science! Why would you buy a house to fit your furniture instead of the other way around?!
I can't stand House Hunters anymore! Oh would they just shut up about the paint colors??????

We've found an awesome substitute: a British show called "Grand Designs." It chronicles people building homes and it's incredibly detailed and informative. We've learned a ton about construction and building materials. Plus, the people don't always succeed--it's very real life in that way (unlike every single show on HGTV). Highly recommend it!
where/how can I watch it? I like the sound of it!
On YouTube. Just search for "Grand Designs." Hope you enjoy it!

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« Reply #63 on: October 28, 2014, 08:45:19 PM »
-Socializing with friends on a weekly basis with friends over "dinner and drinks". Hubs and I went out this weekend with a bunch of friends for dinner, drinks and an hour or two of salsa dancing for the first time in over 4 months. Even though we made better choices than in the past our night cost us $100 altogether(including babysitting). Next time I will bring a byob dinner at my place.
-trips to target
-starbucks before work, even if its regular coffee. I now make tea at home.
-clothes and shoe shopping. I have gotten into minimalism actually and feel so much happier.
-makeup anf hair dying. Leave the hair alone and just use minimal drugstore stuff now.
-wanting furniture/decoration crap
-buying halloween costumes for my son. Now we make them with a few cheap things and he enjoys it SO much more :)
-overspending on food "because food is a necessity"
I can go on....

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« Reply #64 on: October 28, 2014, 10:56:53 PM »
Dating!  I fell hard for a guy a year or two before meeting my husband. Tall, dark, handsome, soccer player...everything I thought I wanted. Unfortunately, he took one look at my apartment furniture (all hand me downs, bought from used furniture stores, and with little to no decorative accents) and I think he assumed I was broke. I believe it was my make shift nightstands in my bedroom (cardboard boxes with table cloths over) that completely scared him off.

Fortunately, I met Mr. SM2b, who furnished his house with hand me down furniture from his older siblings...

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« Reply #65 on: October 28, 2014, 11:24:37 PM »
Dating!  I fell hard for a guy a year or two before meeting my husband. Tall, dark, handsome, soccer player...everything I thought I wanted. Unfortunately, he took one look at my apartment furniture (all hand me downs, bought from used furniture stores, and with little to no decorative accents) and I think he assumed I was broke. I believe it was my make shift nightstands in my bedroom (cardboard boxes with table cloths over) that completely scared him off.

Fortunately, I met Mr. SM2b, who furnished his house with hand me down furniture from his older siblings...
That is so cool. You are SO much better off for it, that guy did you a huge favor!!

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« Reply #66 on: October 29, 2014, 01:03:03 AM »
I also used to subscribe the to quantity is better than quality idea for clothes. Now I have rid myself of over half of my closet and will focus on buying things that are quality, made of nice materials, and will last a very long time. I'm also going to wear clothes out before I buy new ones- gasp!

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« Reply #67 on: October 29, 2014, 01:57:10 AM »
Netflix. 

I'm going to pull the plug, because while I used to see it as a great alternative to cable, I now see it as a time suck and I get tired of all the choices.  Would rather borrow a series from the library and watch it through for free.  Less choices are a mind-freeing thing when picking what to watch.

+1

Currently enjoying The West Wing, a fabulous new series (to us)! Borrowed all the seasons from a friend and watching one episode a night, if we feel like it ;-)

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« Reply #68 on: October 29, 2014, 06:12:04 AM »
Ah but that is decorating with flair  ;-)  My neighbour thinks my house is nicely decorated, and everything in it is either a family hand-me-down, bought at garage sales, or 1/2 price at a boxing Day sale (and that is only the sofa and TV).  Even my computer is refurbished.  My computer desk was rescued when someone abandoned it when they moved.  My daughter accused me of furnishing like a University student, and I just smiled and said - it is the best computer desk I own.

Dating!  I fell hard for a guy a year or two before meeting my husband. Tall, dark, handsome, soccer player...everything I thought I wanted. Unfortunately, he took one look at my apartment furniture (all hand me downs, bought from used furniture stores, and with little to no decorative accents) and I think he assumed I was broke. I believe it was my make shift nightstands in my bedroom (cardboard boxes with table cloths over) that completely scared him off.

Fortunately, I met Mr. SM2b, who furnished his house with hand me down furniture from his older siblings...

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« Reply #69 on: October 29, 2014, 06:18:52 AM »
Collectibles/Stuff

I was never a big buck spender, but some well made books and some action figures really made me want them. Now i see them at the store, admire the well-made quality and leave it there. If I want to see them again, i visit them there. No need to spend on them, and on a place to store them, and to spend time cleaning it, and and and.

Now I can't stand stuff.
I have some good tools for some jobs, but everything that i do not use on a weekly or so basis makes me want to throw away/sell/get rid of.

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« Reply #70 on: October 29, 2014, 06:20:19 AM »
My video game addiction. But I guess that isn't a bad thing.

Also, the joys of regularly eating out at the local Mexican restaurant. Mmm....

But why?!?!?!

If you enjoy gaming, you can get outstanding entertainment value. I used to spend a bunch on hardware, consoles and games but now I mostly do PC gaming because of the low cost and I am really into indie games and older games.

I am currently playing through Titan Quest's on the PC. It's a 2006 AAA title that I got for less than 1$ at a recent humble bundle sale. Worth the price so far. I also picked up Skyrim for 5$ during the last summer sale.

I also have a rule that I must finish a game completely before moving on to something else (unless it totally sucks).

The good news is that my older gaming PC can play most of those games with full details and all the bells and whistles.

With you on this one. I play PC games on at least 2 evenings a week; I used to play a lot more, especially at university (copious amounts of free time), and before meeting my SO (less free time now). After years of gaming on a laptop and 360 I've migrated to a gaming rig that I built myself thereby achieving greater value for money. I still use a 6 year old HD TV as my monitor, and an equally as old Dell keyboard. After a series of cheap headsets I've just bought a good quality second hand Turtle Beach one from a mate for about the same price as a cheap headset. I'm debating whether I can justify a new (second hand) monitor from the same bloke at the moment.

I too mostly play older games from GOG or Humble Bundle or wait for the sales to come around before purchasing. Eliminating MMOs (Eve Online) was a good money saver as was ditching the console gaming. Doing research before buying an expensive new game is essential as I find modern games are often disappointing.

On reflection, MMM hasn't necessarily ruined gaming and has just made me more concious of the costs involved and thereby allowed me to be more canny with my spending!

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« Reply #71 on: October 29, 2014, 06:21:41 AM »
Enjoying Etsy/Pinterest.  My friends are all into it and going to buy things for projects/new recipes.  It seems absurdly expensive to me.  It also makes me feel like I'm missing out on a lot of things the rare times I get on there (look at all these things we should buy to make life better!  oh wait...).

Buying books.  I only have one bookshelf, but it is stock full, and I used to get rid of a half bushel box worth of books every year because I had bought new ones.  Now it's full but carefully curated of all of my favorite books.  I'll need another bookshelf someday, but for now I'm heading to the library every week.

Skiing.  Suddenly it seems overly expensive.

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« Reply #72 on: October 29, 2014, 06:25:05 AM »
Ruined nothing. Liberated me from all sorts of crap.

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« Reply #73 on: October 29, 2014, 07:33:46 AM »
Driving.  I used to love to drive and now I really don't like it.  On the plus side I have found great joy in staying home on the weekends, cooking and being outdoors.  I don't feel like MMM ruined much else for me, because I still enjoy the things that were really meaningful like going out with friends just less often and more frugally.

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« Reply #74 on: October 29, 2014, 08:30:49 AM »
like Solon mentioned - purchasing books.  I feel a double-dose of guilt whenever I buy a new book - because of the economic cost and because of the environmental cost.  I try to mitigate the second by giving away all but a select few of my books whenever i can.

Eating out at 'everyday places' just because it is convenient.  I still love going to small places with good ethnic food (though we only go once per month) but I hate going to the standard sit-down chain restaurants where the food is all the same and never as good or as healthy as I can make at home.  Same applies for take out pizza and fast-food. 

collecting camera lenses & bodies.  After some painful self-honesty sessions I finally admitted that having that 'one-more-lens' wouldn't actually improve my photographs, because i spent more time saving up for an even better lens and not enough time actually shooting.  I don't need to be able to take every kind of photo imaginable, because just one (or two) decent lenses can give me a lifetime of images to capture.  Same for camera bodies - if it was good enough to take great images when it came out, it can still do that years later, even though the newer bodies have 'better' features. 

road trips.  We still take road trips, but now I do a mental calculation of costs everytime we get in the car.  I find myself saying "yeah, going hiking in that park 90 minutes  away is great, but the travel costs are over $100, and that's just a daytrip!"  On the plus side we carpool more on trips and have found some great spots closer to home we never knew existed.

electronic gadgetry.  I love technology, but since doubling-down on reaching FI my desire to own a smartphone, own a tablet, have a second mirrorless camera (see above), get a new TV, update my iPod, own a kindle, etc have all vanished.  I have a dumbphone, a (5 year old) iPod, one camera and a laptop.  That's more than I could ahve wished for 10 years ago

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Re: Being Mushtachian ruined ____
« Reply #75 on: October 29, 2014, 09:07:10 AM »

This is my major vice... a good beer, cheese, crackers, hummus, olives, cured meats... From what I've read, making your own beer is not really any less expensive than buying it.  My mouth is watering.

Really?  Brewing equipment is on my Christmas list because I though you could save quite a bit by making it yourself... can any MMM brewers chime in?

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« Reply #76 on: October 29, 2014, 09:23:42 AM »

This is my major vice... a good beer, cheese, crackers, hummus, olives, cured meats... From what I've read, making your own beer is not really any less expensive than buying it.  My mouth is watering.

Really?  Brewing equipment is on my Christmas list because I though you could save quite a bit by making it yourself... can any MMM brewers chime in?


It depends. I make my own wine and mead, averaging under $2.50 per bottle for the wine and $1.50 for the mead. I haven't done the math on beer, though, as I don't currently make it.  Up here, we have very expensive alcohol. The cheapest wines I can get are in the $9-10 range and the cheapest meads I can get (when I can get them at all) are over $25/bottle. So in this case, I save quite a lot.  If you aren't in an area with very high alcohol taxes, your mileage may vary.

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« Reply #77 on: October 29, 2014, 09:35:41 AM »

This is my major vice... a good beer, cheese, crackers, hummus, olives, cured meats... From what I've read, making your own beer is not really any less expensive than buying it.  My mouth is watering.

Really?  Brewing equipment is on my Christmas list because I though you could save quite a bit by making it yourself... can any MMM brewers chime in?
Just started brewing and BIL is an avid brewer.  Once you have the beer-making equipment the cost-per-12oz-beer seems to hover between $0.50-0.75 for me.  The setup costs weren't too high (payed maybe $75 for all my equipment) and I brew in 5gal batches (actually closer to 4.5gal with head space).   Based on an average cost of $1.50/beer for microbrews (this would include the tax) I calculated will recoup the cost of my equipment after the third batch.  I'm on batch #2.  You can lower your per-batch cost by joining a brew-club and sharing yeast-ingredients.  BIL claims his beers cost under 50¢ (depending on what kind of beer he's brewing)
After you recoup the cost of your equipment (and avoid the desire to expand and fancify) home-brews are 1/2 to 1/3rd the price of what i can find in stores around here.  Is the quality worth it?  Depends on your tastes and the brewer. 

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« Reply #78 on: October 29, 2014, 09:35:54 AM »
Dating!  I fell hard for a guy a year or two before meeting my husband. Tall, dark, handsome, soccer player...everything I thought I wanted. Unfortunately, he took one look at my apartment furniture (all hand me downs, bought from used furniture stores, and with little to no decorative accents) and I think he assumed I was broke. I believe it was my make shift nightstands in my bedroom (cardboard boxes with table cloths over) that completely scared him off.

+1  I usually ask for the date so, being a gentleman, I expect to pay for the date.  But what is up with this stigma around using a coupon on a date?  Even when I slyly slip it from wallet to check-holder, the server will inevitably march back to the table, coupon in hand, with some asinine question.  One guy went so far as to devote a Facebook post to the situation, horrified...while I was still paying the check

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« Reply #79 on: October 29, 2014, 10:14:57 AM »
My Marijuana habit

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« Reply #80 on: October 29, 2014, 12:04:51 PM »
It didn't ruin biking!

Yeah, but biking ruined driving by showing me how much more awesome it is to get around under your own power.

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« Reply #81 on: October 29, 2014, 12:33:14 PM »
Becoming mustachian ruined the show House Hunters. I used to love it, but now when I try to watch it I end up scolding the people for having so many extra rooms or taking the house that has an hour commute.

What was something you previously liked but now is ruined?

Me too! Also, when they inevitably say they need to buy a bigger house so their furntiture will fit. Oh my god - get rid of some furniture! It's not rocket science! Why would you buy a house to fit your furniture instead of the other way around?!
I can't stand House Hunters anymore! Oh would they just shut up about the paint colors??????

We've found an awesome substitute: a British show called "Grand Designs." It chronicles people building homes and it's incredibly detailed and informative. We've learned a ton about construction and building materials. Plus, the people don't always succeed--it's very real life in that way (unlike every single show on HGTV). Highly recommend it!
where/how can I watch it? I like the sound of it!
On YouTube. Just search for "Grand Designs." Hope you enjoy it!

Grand Designs - great show!  We've watched most of the seasons.  It kind of makes Mrs. RoG want a huge modernist house or a great old castle.  But kind of not after watching all the challenges that pop up.

The failure shows are cool, too.  Some of them you can tell from the beginning that they are destined for failure.  "We only have $200,000 and have already agreed to pay $150,000 of that for the small land with a half-destroyed house on it.  I expect we can do a lot of DIY and maybe finish our slightly ambitious $400,000 mansion without breaking our $200,000 budget too bad."  Then they end up selling another property they own to finance it and living on the construction site in a caravan (RV).  Nice.

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« Reply #83 on: October 29, 2014, 01:57:36 PM »
Becoming mustachian ruined the show House Hunters. I used to love it, but now when I try to watch it I end up scolding the people for having so many extra rooms or taking the house that has an hour commute.

What was something you previously liked but now is ruined?

I dont understand how everyone on that show has such a high budget. "We are looking for a house, husband is a HS Teacher and I am stay at home mom. We have a budget of 700K for a house.  Well this one is a little outside your price at 850K but it has 2 pools."

lol.  Yes.  My wife loves the show.  My biggest gripe is that they never factor in HOA fees.  They just pay them as if it's nothing, even though several times I have seen HOA fees that add up to as much as the mortgage itself.  "we have a budget of $x (which translates to something like $900/mo mortgage payments) and we can't possibly go any higher! Ok, here is a house that is only slightly over your budget, but also has HOA fees of $900/mo.  Hmm.. I think we can make that work"

WTF?!?!?!?! It blew my mind every single time that happened, which was like every 3rd show.

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« Reply #84 on: October 29, 2014, 02:15:42 PM »
My Marijuana habit

grow your own......
Before you do, consider reading "Orange is the New Black".

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« Reply #85 on: October 29, 2014, 02:27:34 PM »
My Marijuana habit

grow your own......
Before you do, consider reading "Orange is the New Black".

Or just keep your mouth shut.  It's not hard to not get busted so long as you aren't stupid about it.   Like don't sell it.  Don't tell people you grow.  And use a carbon filter to get rid of the smell.   If you don't tell anyone, no one can smell it, and no one suspects it because you don't sell, then how are you going to get busted?  You won't, and that is why millions of people across the continent grow their own and you don't have a clue about it.

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Re: Being Mushtachian ruined ____
« Reply #86 on: October 29, 2014, 05:45:37 PM »
My Marijuana habit

grow your own......
Before you do, consider reading "Orange is the New Black".

Or just keep your mouth shut.  It's not hard to not get busted so long as you aren't stupid about it.   Like don't sell it.  Don't tell people you grow.  And use a carbon filter to get rid of the smell.   If you don't tell anyone, no one can smell it, and no one suspects it because you don't sell, then how are you going to get busted?  You won't, and that is why millions of people across the continent grow their own and you don't have a clue about it.

Or move to Colorado!! We can have 3-4 plants for recreational use (don't quote me on that, I'm still trying to make my damn squash grow).


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« Reply #87 on: October 30, 2014, 07:49:52 AM »
My Marijuana habit

grow your own......
Before you do, consider reading "Orange is the New Black".

Or just keep your mouth shut.  It's not hard to not get busted so long as you aren't stupid about it.   Like don't sell it.  Don't tell people you grow.  And use a carbon filter to get rid of the smell.   If you don't tell anyone, no one can smell it, and no one suspects it because you don't sell, then how are you going to get busted?  You won't, and that is why millions of people across the continent grow their own and you don't have a clue about it.

Or move to Colorado!! We can have 3-4 plants for recreational use (don't quote me on that, I'm still trying to make my damn squash grow).

I guess if you have some aversion to breaking the law.  Personally I have no qualms about breaking laws I don't agree with.  I try to be an honest and moral person, but telling me I can't grow or smoke a plant? Fuck you man, now I want to do it just out of spite and defiance of the law.

It sure seems a hell of a lot easier to grow a few plants than it does to uproot my entire life and move across the country.

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« Reply #88 on: October 30, 2014, 08:14:00 AM »
I guess if you have some aversion to breaking the law.  Personally I have no qualms about breaking laws I don't agree with.  I try to be an honest and moral person, but telling me I can't grow or smoke a plant? Fuck you man, now I want to do it just out of spite and defiance of the law.

It sure seems a hell of a lot easier to grow a few plants than it does to uproot my entire life and move across the country.

I'm not sure I agree wth your approach but I like the attitude :D

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« Reply #89 on: October 30, 2014, 10:40:08 AM »

But I still stick to a few luxuries that I'm not quite ready to give up: Buying books (I could go to the library, but I like the convenience of having all my books on Kindle app - this is probably 30$-50$ a month), sit down restaurant meals (only occasionally for getting together with groups of friends or for special occasions - I'm trying to keep it under $200 a month), theater (average 30$ a ticket, 6 times a year or so), watching new movies at the movie theater (I'm a big movie guy and really enjoy watching a good new movie on the big screen, typically 20$ twice a month).

I just wanted to mention that you can borrow ebooks on your Kindle through Overdrive instantly and for free.  You might want to check it out.  Once you learn it, it's very fast and I've been impressed with the selection the SF library has.  You can also get other library cards from other libraries and borrow online through Overdrive rather than having to travel to each library.  I've been very impressed with Overdrive and it's changed my ebook buying habit to a borrowing habit.  I'm often pleasantly surprised that a book I wanted to read is available not only on Amazon, but through the libraries on Overdrive.  We have a thread on it: http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/reader-recommendations/overdrive-~-ebook-libraries/

Also, if you buy your movie tickets at Costco, you'll save money.  Next time you're in Costco, just grab the AMC or Century theatre tickets which are around $15-$16 for 2.

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« Reply #90 on: October 30, 2014, 11:49:15 AM »
I guess if you have some aversion to breaking the law.  Personally I have no qualms about breaking laws I don't agree with.  I try to be an honest and moral person, but telling me I can't grow or smoke a plant? Fuck you man, now I want to do it just out of spite and defiance of the law.

It sure seems a hell of a lot easier to grow a few plants than it does to uproot my entire life and move across the country.

No aversion here. I just want all Mustachians to live here. It's fucking awesome!! :-) Legal pot is just an added bonus.

Granted, like Sol, I would feel extremely disappointed to meet you and you don't look like your avatar.

The other day, I had a really great answer to the topic, but I forgot by the time I started writing it.

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Re: Being Mushtachian ruined ____
« Reply #91 on: October 31, 2014, 03:16:03 AM »
It ruined the conversations with my friends!

I was talking to a friend (Late 40's woman, recently divorced, 5 kids). She showed interest in buying my house. She said she saved $20K for a down payment. I told her the price was about $185K. She ended up saying she will probably want to buy a more expensive house because she can combine her boyfriends income. So that they can qualify for a larger loan (She only qualifies for a $150K loan). With his income they qualify for about $350K. I couldn't think of anything else to add to the conversation for the next hour...still trying to process my thoughts.

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« Reply #92 on: October 31, 2014, 08:39:20 AM »
Legal pot is just an added bonus.

The other day, I had a really great answer to the topic, but I forgot by the time I started writing it.

Just quoting for the irony. :D

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« Reply #93 on: October 31, 2014, 09:04:02 AM »
Legal pot is just an added bonus.

The other day, I had a really great answer to the topic, but I forgot by the time I started writing it.

Just quoting for the irony. :D

Ha!! Unexpected hilarity.

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« Reply #94 on: November 02, 2014, 06:26:36 AM »
Buying books
Buying DVDs
Cable
The Gap
Going out for drinks

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« Reply #95 on: November 02, 2014, 10:22:05 AM »
It would have ruined dating had I not already been in a long term relationship. In a status-obsessed city like Vancouver I probably would have given up entirely on dating if I was single when the enlightenment happened.

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« Reply #96 on: November 02, 2014, 10:33:45 AM »
Video game hobby.

We have a state of the art 53" HDTV, and I still play my ancient Xbox on it, which is starting to make very odd noises (red ring of death incoming?) but for whatever reason I cannot justify a next generation Xbox One or PS4. Until my current video game system bursts into flame I will probably not buy one of the new systems. It's a bit ridiculous not to treat myself here (considering our monthly dividend income alone), but once Mustachianism sinks it's hooks into you, it's game over.

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« Reply #97 on: November 02, 2014, 05:11:35 PM »
I used to be more active in motorsports when I was in college. I wasn't super serious, but I'd typically do at least a few events (usually track days, sometimes autocrosses) a year. I eventually gave it up because I didn't have the money or time anymore. After graduating and becoming more comfortable financially, I picked up a cheap second car that would work well for that stuff. I'm having a hard time motivating myself to actually use it, though. One day of track driving can cost $300 or $400 once lodging and gas are factored in, and that's before considering vehicle prep and maintenance. It's a lot of fun to drive on the track, but it's also a lot of fun to go for a run or bike ride for a lot less money.

I'm tempted to say biking, but it's probably more accurate to say that it refocused my priorities. Bicycle hobbyists (at least the particular road and MTB tribes I run with) can get really obsessive over equipment, and there's strong peer pressure to have the latest and greatest. I was always a little skeptical of this, though I wasn't above occasionally falling into the mindset (e.g., my mountain bike is probably a lot nicer than what I need for what I ride). Becoming more frugal made me understand what about biking I valued (improving my fitness, seeing nature in a new way, challenging myself in a fun way, just enjoying the experience of pedaling for hours on end, etc) and what I didn't really care about (shredding super technical terrain in the fastest time possible, super technical terrain at all, huge jumps, racing, etc). It's a lot easier to ignore the latest and greatest when I have that understanding to evaluate it with.

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« Reply #98 on: November 02, 2014, 05:32:07 PM »
Trips to Target, Homegoods, TJ Maxx, Macys', etc. where I used to troll and shop mindlessly.
Watching House Hunters, especially the new buyers.  Now they just annoy me.
Conversations with my co-workers about what they bought.  Usually it's something they have to pay off.

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« Reply #99 on: November 02, 2014, 06:12:05 PM »
Video game hobby.

We have a state of the art 53" HDTV, and I still play my ancient Xbox on it, which is starting to make very odd noises (red ring of death incoming?) but for whatever reason I cannot justify a next generation Xbox One or PS4. Until my current video game system bursts into flame I will probably not buy one of the new systems. It's a bit ridiculous not to treat myself here (considering our monthly dividend income alone), but once Mustachianism sinks it's hooks into you, it's game over.

I finally broke and bought a very lightly used PS3 that came with a few good games for $125.  I then spent another $4 buying some games I really wanted off of ebay. 

A side effect was getting a device that can stream netflix on my big HDTV.  The kids are watching educational cartoons on Netflix right now and we just finished watching a few bloomberg documentaries on different businesses.  I'm not anti-TV at all, and consider it a powerful tool and a very valid form of entertainment (just like gaming systems). And it's relatively cheap (even if I paid $8 and didn't use my mom's account for free!).