Right now, I'm the executor of my dad's estate and am working to distribute his modest assets to my brothers, stepmother and myself. My dad only had a will, no trust, but it all seems pretty simple and straight forward anyway.
My dad didn't own any real estate when he died, just a checking account, savings account, taxable brokerage account and a couple of retirement accounts. Luckily, the retirement accounts and the taxable brokerage account all had beneficiaries specified already, so as soon as my co-beneficiaries and I get our paperwork turned in to those institutions, they should be able to transfer the assets into our names.
We hired an attorney to assist us, and it's nice to have him on our side, but it seems like I'm doing most of the leg work of contacting the banks, negotiating with the holders of my dad's retirement accounts to make sure the 2015 RMDs get taken, etc. People often say that probate is really onerous, expensive and should be avoided at all costs. In our case, that doesn't really seem to be true. My dad's estate is relatively small and very simple, because there is no real estate and none of the beneficiaries, or anyone else, are contesting anything in the will, so that may be why it seems so easy.
It took me about a month to get an official death certificate from the state after my dad died. As soon as I got the DC, I gave a couple of copies to the attorney, and then a month after that his office called me up to let me know that they had gotten my "Letters Testamentary" aka "Letter of Appointment" from the court which my attorney tells me, along with the death certificate, will allow me to open and close my father's accounts, move money around, sell his vehicle, and any other things I may need to do to settle the estate.
In our own case, the only reason we're considering possibly getting a trust made is because we have a daughter who is only 7 years old now. My wife and I are both completely healthy and are planning on a 40 year retirement starting in 2015, but if somehow both my wife and I were to die at the same time, say in some kind of accident, then we would want our FIRE stash to be used to pay to support our daughter and to eventually pay for her schooling and to give her a good start in life. My wife's brother has volunteered to take care of our daughter should anything happen to both my wife and me.
This afternoon I met with our attorney to discuss my dad's estate, and while I was there I briefly asked him about possibly getting him to draw up either a will or a trust for my wife and me. He said that one option would be to just leave all of our money to our daughter in a will. If she's still underage when both my wife and I die, then my wife's brother will act as custodian of our daughter's account until she turns 18 years old. The attorney said that the downside of this plan would be that we would have to completely trust my wife's brother, because until our daughter turned 18, he would have total control over her assets, and if he wanted to, he could just spend all the money on hookers and blow or whatever. We trust my wife's brother and don't think he'd do anything untoward with our daughter's money, but the other downside of just making a will, the attorney said, would be that when our daughter turned 18 she would automatically get full control of all of the money in the account and could do whatever she wanted with it.
Right now, we've got about $900K saved. It's hard to imagine that it would be a good idea to give $900K+ to an 18 year old child all at once, so maybe we need to think about going with a trust. The lawyer said he would charge us $2K to draw up a basic trust for us. We're going to continue thinking about it, and we look forward to hearing more responses from fellow Mustachians in this thread.
Thanks for everyone's input so far.