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A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« on: April 11, 2016, 03:24:53 PM »
I bike to work essentially every day, in an office where no one else does and it’s fairly conspicuous. I’ve also dropped 50 pounds since starting to that (more a change of food than the biking imo, but they started at the same time) which is also conspicuous. I have had a slight variation of the following discussion something like 1-200 times in the break room as I put my big container of salad and small container of meat to put on it into the fridge each day:

Them: "how far do you bike each day"
Me: "about 5 miles each way"
(If they give me a look that I think means “gross, in the summer, you’ll be a sweaty mess,” I mention that I get a gym membership to the PF across the street for $10 a month just during the summer, bike there, shower, then walk across the street to the office)
Them: "oh, that's not bad, lucky that you live so close"
Me: "well, we picked a house to be in biking range on purpose. Save money, get some exercise, save the planet, that sort of thing"
Them: “oh, that’s cool”

I’m always curious what distance people would respond with something other than “that’s not bad” because it’s almost verbatim every time. I think I’m going to ask the next couple people where the line of bad would be for them. Because really, the morning isn’t bad, but biking home at 4 or 5 in the summer, it’s 115 degrees some days and it is definitely bad, but also bad ass.

Anyway, for the first time, the conversation went dramatically differently this morning:

"how far you bike each day"
"it's about 5 miles each way"
"oh, it would be nice if I could bike but i live so close now that it's kind of silly when it's only a 1 minute drive because i live right over there"
"oh... uh, you could walk?"
<lady looks at me confused>

To be clear, this is a 25-35, athletic looking woman who I know does stuff like goes running.

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2016, 03:34:40 PM »
Wow, that's sad! I would give so much to be able to walk to work...

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #2 on: April 11, 2016, 03:41:11 PM »
My bike is around 7 miles in hilly Seattle. It takes about 45 minutes including a big hump at the end up a big ass hill. It's not easy, but doable.

Others in Seattle bike 15+ miles each way across the bridge. That sounds like a lot to me. Anything that takes more than an hour each way, I guess. That's some serious commitment IMO.

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #3 on: April 11, 2016, 04:03:59 PM »
I walk to work at least 95% of the time at my current job. It's about 1/3 of a mile each way and is awesome. At a previous job I biked to work on a pretty regular basis. One house was 10-12 miles depending on route (the 12 mile route was a much nicer ride). Most places I lived during that job were in the 8-10 mile range. I discovered a significant advantage in living up hill from the office. Biking in would be easy and refreshing. Biking home would burn off any frustration from the day's work. Some days I would take a longer route home. I think my longest "commute" was 60 miles (10 to work and 50 miles home). Albuquerque is a pretty bike friendly city though and no one seemed to think it was that strange. One summer about 1/5 of the office was biking to work at least one day a week.

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2016, 04:26:51 PM »
Only North Americans think it's special to bike to work.
China, Korea, Sweden, Netherlands . . . Millions of daily cyclists.
In North America it's like "oh you're so lucky you can do this freakish exceptional thing."
Weird.

Any day you bike to work is a good day.
And if it doesn't stay that way, biking home is gonna fix that.

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #5 on: April 11, 2016, 07:38:35 PM »
Totally agree with OP. I hear "that's not bad almost weekly." Maybe one day I should respond with "about 35 miles" just to see the expression, followed by "that's not bad" when I tell them the truth. Interestingly, what's not bad apparently to everyone when I do it (18ish miles RT) is entirely too bad for dozens of folks in my division who live less than half that distance from work. Given the ease of cycling in my area and the miles of greenways for bike-to-work newbs, it's amazing that so many people are avid weekend cyclists but not commuters.

Too scared to be a Fred, I guess. And that's too bad.

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #6 on: April 11, 2016, 08:01:13 PM »
Quote
Them: "how far do you bike each day"
Me: "about 5 miles each way"
(If they give me a look that I think means “gross, in the summer, you’ll be a sweaty mess,” I mention that I get a gym membership to the PF across the street for $10 a month just during the summer, bike there, shower, then walk across the street to the office)
Them: "oh, that's not bad, lucky that you live so close"
Me: "well, we picked a house to be in biking range on purpose. Save money, get some exercise, save the planet, that sort of thing"
Them: “oh, that’s cool”

Oh I get that same exact conversation almost every day. Then in winter i get " did you ride your bike in? it is so cold out?"
or "When do you stop riding?" me "never in 15 years"
 
occasionally if it is raining or snowing i get the offer to drive me  and  the bike home in someones pick up truck.
Many times it is an insistence! i think I get more of this attitude because I am  female, where  a guy would just be thought of as tough.

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #7 on: April 12, 2016, 05:07:19 AM »

"oh, it would be nice if I could bike but i live so close now that it's kind of silly when it's only a 1 minute drive because i live right over there"
"oh... uh, you could walk?"
<lady looks at me confused>


Probably takes her as long to get in the car and park at the other end as it would to walk :(

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #8 on: April 12, 2016, 05:47:16 AM »
I think it depends on where you live - some areas are more set up for bike commuting (or just bike riding) than others. It's pretty unusual here, and there are no bike lanes so it's pretty dangerous. (There was a fatal accident with a bike commuter not far from my house last year.)

I walk to work and for general errands, and I am known in my neighborhood as "the lady who walks" because it's not all that common! LOL

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #9 on: April 12, 2016, 06:16:59 AM »
Any day you bike to work is a good day.
And if it doesn't stay that way, biking home is gonna fix that.

While generally I'd agree with you, I cycled home one time a couple years ago feeling a bit sick.  My commute is about 10 miles each way, and half way through the commute I was dizzy, nauseous, and really not feeling great.  Had a fever of 104 upon entry to the house.

Biking home did not make my day better that one time.

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #10 on: April 12, 2016, 07:00:42 AM »
I bike to work once or twice a week, it's more of a planned event for me as it takes a good chunk of my day, but I am not a good example to convince people to bike to work.  I am 18.5 miles from work, takes about an hour each way.  People's jaws usually drop, but I really don't see the big deal.

Any person in half decent shape can cover the distance, it would be longer that's all.

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Re: A twist on my recurring "how far do you bike" conversation
« Reply #11 on: April 12, 2016, 07:47:32 AM »
Well, I am definitely past the "oh, that's not bad" line as I've never heard that.  Mostly I hear variations on "You're stupid/crazy/have a death wish."  My current commute is ~15 miles one way, and my former one for many years was 19-21 miles one way, depending on route.

For years with the old, longer route I would ride one way each day, leaving a car at work with the bike rack.  Currently I ride a couple of days a week and usually take the bus halfway in (about 7 miles), then ride from the end of the bus route.  Going home I ride varying routes, whatever strikes my mood for the day, ranging from direct to 30-50 mile training rides.