Let me introduce my self:
I am 37 years old, married, stay at home wife and 2 kids (3 yrs and 2 yrs - 15 months apart), working in IT. I have come from family of frugality (my grand father and father) - good at saving, not spending money but never in to investing. For some reason I have drifted away from savings to little bit more on spending side may be after seeing extreme frugality from my father, thinking I have to live well now. But lately started realizing importance of savings, money for future - even though I touch 6 figure in salary - my expenses are on high side - 2 kids, bought new car in 2014, 2nd new car in 2015, home in 2016. I have started 529 for both kids, investing little bit into current 401K . After all this I have very little or none to save or invest into anything else. I think I fell into vicious cycle of trap where I am 100% dependent on my job and I will be broke if I don't have a job.
I want to keep these cars as long as I can (goal is to keep them at least 5 years after paid off), made 20% down on the house and also start making 1-2 payments more (if I can) per year and goal to pay off the house in 10 years. Make amendments what ever I can - to payoff soon and save more.
Thx,
BL