I am planning to retire (or at least be FI and quitting my full-time job in 2024).
Have been secretly planning it for years but don't have many people to share it with though because I'll be slowing down sooner than my friends and family.
Hopefully, all of our hard work goes as planned and we (everyone in this thread) can get out in 2024!
I'd wish you all luck, but hard work is what got us here.
Welcome to the 2024 cohort! I also haven't widely shared my plans. Will cross that bridge when it comes.
Welcome to the 2024 cohort!
Very hard to share plans of FIRE, with people outside this website. I still haven't found a good way to bring it up without triggering disbelief and an urge for them to change my mind. If you talk about the idea in terms of something far off there is no problem. If I say something like this "I would like to have more free time and wouldn't it be great to retire early" people will gladly join in the hypothetical conversation. As soon as you say something like "I been cutting my expenses and investing the savings and came up with a plan where I can live off my investments and retire early" the conversation turns to "FUD" (Fear Uncertainly and Doubt)! I have a hard enough time convincing my spouse and don't find it worthwhile telling other people. My plan is only tell people if they specifically ask about it.
Thanks everyone for the greeting!
Also, I absolutely agree with you.
I learned years ago to be careful who to tell about early retirement. It just seemed so natural to tell those I cared for about the concept and maybe help them create a plan for themselves as well. However, the cold reception taught me to keep this to myself now.
I was even hesitant to mention it to my partner (only telling her about a year ago / we were not together at the time when I initially started this journey).
She has since opened a Vanguard account and started saving as much as she can afford to. I'm still helping her fully understand the concept of FIRE but haven't revealed how soon I actually plan to slow down (don't want to jinx it).
Unfortunately, she wasn't aware how other people usually react when this comes up in conversation. So she made the same mistake I did and told one of her best friends (who then proceeded to be openly dismissive about it by actively trying to dismantle the idea). Of course this "friend" would do this though because she has a bunch of student loan debt, lives in downtown Chicago, and has not started thinking about her future in anyway. Now my partner has also learned to keep the concept of FIRE quiet.
It's just so weird how much people hate the FIRE concept.
I would have been so thankful if someone mentioned this to me earlier.