Author Topic: 19 Things The Millionaire next door wont tell you - MMM is that you?  (Read 16508 times)

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1. He always spends less than he earns.  In fact his mantra is, over the long run, you’re better off if you strive to be anonymously rich rather than deceptively poor.

2. He knows that patience is a virtue. The odds are you won’t become a millionaire overnight.  If you’re like him, your wealth will be accumulated gradually by diligently saving your money over multiple decades.

3.  When you go to his modest three-bed two-bath house, you’re going to be drinking Folgers instead of Starbucks.  And if you need a lift, well, you’re going to get a ride in his ten-year-old economy sedan.  And if you think that makes him cheap, ask him if he cares.  (He doesn’t.)

4. He pays off his credit cards in full every month.  He’s smart enough to understand that if he can’t afford to pay cash for something, then he can’t afford it.

5. He realized early on that money does not buy happiness.  If you’re looking for nirvana, you need to focus on attaining financial freedom.

6. He never forgets that financial freedom is a state of mind that comes from being debt free.  Best of all, it can be attained regardless of your income level.

7. He knows that getting a second job not only increases the size of your bank account quicker but it also keeps you busy – and being busy makes it difficult to spend what you already have.

8. He understands that money is like a toddler; it is incapable of managing itself.  After all, you can’t expect your money to grow and mature as it should without some form of credible money management.

9. He’s a big believer in paying yourself first. Paying yourself first is an essential tenet of personal finance and a great way to build your savings and instill financial discipline.

10. Although it’s possible to get rich if you spend your life making a living doing something you don’t enjoy, he wonders why you do.  Life is too short.

11.  He knows that failing to plan is the same as planning to fail.  He also knows that the few millionaires that reached that milestone without a plan got there only because of dumb luck.   It’s not enough to simply declare that you want to be financially free.

12. When it came time to set his savings goals, he wasn’t afraid to think big.  Financial success demands that you have a vision that is significantly larger than you can currently deliver upon.

13. Over time, he found out that hard work can often help make up for a lot of financial mistakes – and you will make financial mistakes.

14. He realizes that stuff happens, that’s why you’re a fool if you don’t insure yourself against risk. Remember that the potential for bankruptcy is always just around the corner and can be triggered from multiple sources: the death of the family’s key bread winner, divorce, or disability that leads to a loss of work.

15. He understands that time is an ally of the young.  He was fortunate enough to begin saving in his twenties so he could take maximum advantage of the power of compounding interest on his nest egg.

16. He knows that you can’t spend what you don’t see.  You should use automatic paycheck deductions to build up your retirement and other savings accounts.  As your salary increases you can painlessly increase the size of those deductions.

17. Even though he has a job that he loves, he doesn’t have to work anymore because everything he owns is paid for – and has been for years.

18. He’s not impressed that you drive an over-priced luxury car and live in a McMansion that’s two sizes too big for your family of four.

19. After six months of asking, he finally quit waiting for you to return his pruning shears.  He broke down and bought himself a new pair last month.  There’s no hard feelings though; he can afford it.



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7. He knows that getting a second job not only increases the size of your bank account quicker but it also keeps you busy – and being busy makes it difficult to spend what you already have.
Definitely not sure about this one - working too much makes me more spendy -

no time to make meals      - eat out
no time to clean the house - get a house cleaner...

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7. He knows that getting a second job not only increases the size of your bank account quicker but it also keeps you busy – and being busy makes it difficult to spend what you already have.
Definitely not sure about this one - working too much makes me more spendy -

no time to make meals      - eat out
no time to clean the house - get a house cleaner...

Yeah, I'd agree with you. I've had two jobs before in addition to self-employment, and I couldn't wait to quit one of them...

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Yeah, two jobs means less free time; so less time to prepare food and eat at home, commute via bike, diy projects to save on paying others, etc.  So while you make more, I find it harder to save as easily.

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7. He knows that getting a second job not only increases the size of your bank account quicker but it also keeps you busy – and being busy makes it difficult to spend what you already have.
Definitely not sure about this one - working too much makes me more spendy -

no time to make meals      - eat out
no time to clean the house - get a house cleaner...

Yeah, I'd agree with you. I've had two jobs before in addition to self-employment, and I couldn't wait to quit one of them...
Isn't that three jobs?

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I find if I don't have at least a day off each week where I do pretty much nothing I tend to get cranky...

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14. He realizes that stuff happens, that’s why you’re a fool if you don’t insure yourself against risk. Remember that the potential for bankruptcy is always just around the corner and can be triggered from multiple sources: the death of the family’s key bread winner, divorce, or disability that leads to a loss of work.

Not sure about this one too.  You need to really look at the situation before buying insurance.  Insurance companies are in the business of making money, ie taking in more than they pay out.

Some of these seem a bit absolute without the flexibility needed in real life.   But as a general statement I hate absolute statements - they are generally wrong.

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So, would you say that this is more like it:

1. They always spend less than they earn.  In fact their mantra is, over the long run, you’re better off if you strive to be anonymously rich rather than deceptively poor.

2. They know that patience is a virtue. The odds are you won’t become a millionaire overnight.  If you’re like them, your wealth will be accumulated gradually by diligently saving your money over multiple decades.

3.  When you go to their modest three-bed two-bath house, you’re going to be drinking Folgers instead of Starbucks and eating frugally.  And if you need a lift, well, you’re going to get a ride in their ten-year-old economy sedaneconomical car (and they're going to be surprised you didn't come by bike).  And if you think that makes them cheap, ask them if they care.  (They don’t.)They will give you a lecture about the joys of bike ownership.

4. They pay off their credit cards in full every month - unless they have worked out that something else uses their money more efficiently.  They're smart enough to understand that if they can’t afford to pay cash for something, then they can’t afford it.

5. They realized early on that money does not necessarily buy happiness.  If you’re looking for nirvana, you need to focus on attaining financial freedom.

6. They never forget know that financial freedom is a state of mind that comes from being debt free.  Best of all, it can be attained regardless of your income level. But financial freedom isn't the end in itself - having a wonderful life is.

7. They know that getting a second job not only increases the size of your bank account quicker but it also keeps you busy – and being busy makes it difficult to spend what you already have.

8. They understand that money is like a toddler; it is incapable of managing itself.  After all, you can’t expect your money to grow and mature as it should without some form of credible money management. However, they don't let money management rule their lives - it is a tool for freedom.

9. They’re big believers in paying yourself first. Paying yourself first is an essential tenet of personal finance and a great way to build your savings and instill financial discipline. But as they already have financial freedom, they know they can relax this rule for something important.

10. Although it’s possible to get rich if you spend your life making a living doing something you don’t enjoy, they wonder why you do it for any length of time.  Life is too short.

11.  They know that failing to plan is the same as planning to fail.  They also know that the few millionaires that reached that milestone without a plan got there only because of dumb luck.   It’s not enough to simply declare that you want to be financially free.

12. When it came time to set their savings goals, they weren’t afraid to think big.  Financial success demands that you have a vision that is significantly larger than you can currently deliver upon.

13. Over time, they found out that hard work can often help make up for a lot of financial mistakes – and you will make financial mistakes.

14. They realize that stuff happens, that’s why you’re a fool if you don’t insure yourself against risk. Remember that the potential for bankruptcy is always just around the corner and can be triggered from multiple sources: the death of the family’s key bread winner, divorce, or disability that leads to a loss of work and they have worked out their tolerance for risk, and mitigation strategies - at times, this may include insurance.

15. They understand that time is an ally of the young.  They were fortunate enough to begin saving in their twenties so they could take maximum advantage of the power of compounding interest on their nest egg.It is easier to get financial freedom by starting young, but financial freedom can be gained at any age.

16. They know that you can’t spend what you don’t see.  You should use automatic paycheck deductions to build up your retirement and other savings accounts.  As your salary increases you can painlessly increase the size of those deductions.

17. If Even though they have jobs that they love, they don’t have to work anymore because everything they own is paid for – and has been for years. Otherwise, they have developed a lifestyle that keeps them achieving their desires, active and happy.

18. They're not impressed that you drive an over-priced luxury car and live in a McMansion that’s two sizes too big for your family of four.

19. After six months of asking, they finally quit waiting for you to return their pruning shears.  They broke down and bought a new pair last month.  There’s no hard feelings though; they can afford it.

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A lot of this does sound like a rehash of the Millionaire Next Door.  I wonder if the portrait sketched out in the book is still true?  It was written in (IIRC) the mid-90s, and lots of things have changed since then.

 

Wow, a phone plan for fifteen bucks!