Our oldest came home from the first winter sport info meeting and declared that she was done with that sport and wanted to focus on her fall sport, including club play too much of a distance away. It was weird. A second interest meeting went no better. We contacted some other parents, compared notes regarding poor coach behavior, and ended up submitting a complaint. First day of tryouts canceled, coach not currently at school, investigation ongoing, pinged a lawyer friend for advice. Seriously, I don’t know how a person could pursue this without a degree of financial independence and work flexibility. I understand the job the school administrators have to do, and I don’t envy them. But it’s taking decades of business and HR experience to collaborate with and guide the other parents, write the complaint, and submit it and respond to initial inquiry and pushback. We are so thankful that we can just call an attorney and ask questions. No charges yet, but if there are, it’s not a big problem. But to be able to call and say, “Hey, it’s Taran Wanderer, I need some help, is your door closed?” And then be able to describe the situation quickly and accurately to a person who already knows me and trusts me… that’s priceless. It’s darn good to have earned our way into this club.