Definitely relating to much of the recent posts. I'm going back to work (next week!) after my sabbatical. The sabbatical made it clear that I currently have zero desire to go back to work, have a big "career", or deal with bullshit. Here's why I'm going back:
-We'd planned to have me go part time (cutting my salary to probably 20% of what I currently make, as I wouldn't be able to do part time in current role & am very, very well paid) & my husband would keep working. This was his call & he's never expressed any desire to quit whatsoever. Until, the last few months. So, going back to work for a bit is a hedge to ensure if he reaches the FU point, we can make it work & allow both of us to FIRE.
-I'm up for a milestone promotion immediately upon my return. I've been in the industry for over 20 years, and this is a huge thing. While I'm currently not of the mindset to go back to work at all, what if that changes? Or, what if something happens to my husband over the next few years & he's unable to work. This is a hedge that will lock in my current level, in the unlikely event I need to go back for a few years & pull in a big salary.
-My son was recently diagnosed with ADHD. We have good health care, but many of the services we are considering are not covered by insurance & are incredibly pricey. I'd like to build enough of a cushion to cover those costs that weren't on the radar a year ago.
So, current revised plan:
-Return from sabbatical next week. Already had to schedule first international work trip. *tears*
-Hopefully get promoted in December
-Collect large bonus in January, max 401K & HSA out again
-Stay for sixish months post promo, per agreement with VPs
-Quit before my son (ADHD, so needing more support) starts high school next August.
-Find something part-time & flexible
We're in the $3.6M net worth range, but much of that is tied up into our housing. We could (as it's been pointed out so very many times ;-)) sell our house & move into something cheaper & both be done with working. It's partially inertia & also just the insane housing market where we are that's keeping us in place. Because of the house, our expenses are high & we need a large cushion to get through the next 6-7 years until both kids are in college.