I'm a lady. I'd like to own a home and land someday, I'd like to help my hypothetical children with their hypothetical educations, and I enjoy traveling. My husband wants all of that too, if possible.
However, I'm also the saver in our relationship while he is a natural spender; we know we have these goals that are expensive. So each month we put a bit away for a future downpayment, a smaller bit away for an eventual vacation, and when my nana passed away and left me some money, I earmarked it for expenses for a future child, because I thought nothing would make her happier than knowing she'd helped make a future grandbaby a little more secure. I like to think that I am quite an asset to my husband and our family, and through my support and cheerleading, he's now out of credit card debt, paying down student loans, saving money for both retirement and fun shorter term goals, and generally moving toward a more MMM way of being.
In a mate I looked for someone who was smart, thoughtful, kind, funny, gentle, generous, and a good cook. He wasn't an expert with money, but not everyone is obsessed with Roth IRAs in their younger years and feels pain at the parting of a dollar (like many of us in this community feel naturally). He is coming around, and I have a wonderful partner.
Given that I do want some of those things you scorn, I guess I wouldn't be for you! But that's okay, sounds like it wouldn't work out. :)