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General Discussion => Throw Down the Gauntlet => Topic started by: deborah on January 13, 2021, 02:29:04 AM
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There are a lot of things around at the moment that make us miserable. The media, and even the forum is full of things that we can read about to make us more unhappy.
I think we could all do with a little more happiness in our lives. I think that there’s at least one thing that makes me happy each day. So I’m challenging myself and you to write about something different each day that made you happy.
Today a friend told me about a frog in her garden - a spotted marsh frog. She showed me a picture of it. It’s rather small but it makes a lot of noise. We used to have a pond and striped marsh frogs would call at night. It was a lovely sound - a clonk noise, just like a Japanese deer stalker. I loved the sound, and I was really happy that my friend reminded me of it.
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Oooo, yes please. I've been working on reducing annoyances to improve happiness which is having some benefit but needs to be coupled with more positivity.
Yesterday I have a great conversation with a colleague that I didn't know that well. It is delightful to elevate someone from neutral colleague to friendly colleague status.
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Thank you for this challenge!!!! I would love to be happier, who wouldn't?
Yesterday I had a good day:
I taught my first in-person lab of the semester it went well; I felt like I had really accomplished something afterward.
I received a welcome gift and a thoughtful note from the program director.
I figured out how to make my hair look nice without washing it.
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I love this idea!
Here's one thing that made me happy today: a deep, thoughtful conversation with a loved one about our plans for 2021. We hope the plans push through, but even if they don't, it was worthwhile just to have the conversation.
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Every night, I mentally review my day and list in my mind 3 things that I appreciate about myself and 3 things I'm grateful for. Almost as simple as it is powerful.
I picked this up from something called the Hoffman Process. Give it a Google it you like.
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Great challenge!
Today I am happy about nice weather - 64 and mostly sunny, with a gentle breeze. Today for homeschool "PE" I just let my kids run and around in the backyard while I cleaned the chicken coop and then relaxed on the deck, and it was fantastic.
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Love this challenge!
We had a friend drop by (socially distanced) to exchange Christmas presents after over a year of not seeing each other. It's so good to be remembered and look forward to a nice BBQ when it's safe!
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Lovely thread.
I posted this on the decluttering thread too: I am allowed to help my daughter declutter her books. Getting rid of unwanted stuff makes me so so happy.
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Hmm, I can't decide between 2 things...I hope it's ok if I share both.
1. A group on campus was mistreating one of my employees today - out of carelessness and ignorance...but still a mistreatment. I called that group's boss and put a stop to it. Made me very happy (and my employee was happy too).
2. My little cousin came by today selling blue and gold for his FFA group. I didn't need any but bought some anyway (inspired by the 'how are you giving' thread). We had a lovely chat on the front porch.
What a great thread this is @deborah !!
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In the midst of this difficult day I managed to cull about half my clothing, getting rid of things I didn't like, weren't in good shape, or didn't fit. It made me happy because it brings me one step closer to moving to New Mexico.
Thanks for this Deborah!
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Got blown around by wind on top of an icy mountain but on skis, with the sun peaking through clouds and shining upon the whirling snow and felt lucky to be able to ski in the midst of this crazy winter.
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Love this challenge, thank you @deborah !
Since it's wee hours of the morning now I'll share what happened yesterday. Background -- We live on a farm and one of our chickens was attacked by a hawk a few days ago and very badly injured. My kids and I have been nursing her, and it's been touch and go. Yesterday she ate some food and drank some water. We did high fives all the way around -- seems like she may be turning the corner and has a good chance to make it. :) We were all on cloud nine yesterday afternoon.
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I had a "friend date" yesterday with the girlfriend of my husband's best friend. I had never met her in person before, and we talked a lot and really connected.
I woke up early and did some yoga this morning, felt really good afterward.
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Great challenge!
Today I am happy about nice weather - 64 and mostly sunny, with a gentle breeze.
I like warm weather and winters where I live are pretty mild.
This winter has been warmer than normal so I'm happy about it.
Today will be a perfect winter day, sunny and warm.
I expect a peak temperature of ~70 degrees F.
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We were all on cloud nine yesterday afternoon.
I too like it up there.
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I got mine early today. I have a small group who text one another (3 cousins from 2 sides of family, a friend from high school and a recently retired friend from work). We live in 4 different but all VERY conservative states. The 6 of us are all VERY liberal. We share the funniest texts. They make me truly laugh out loud. We've been on a bit of a rampage this morning and I've laughed and laughed and laughed.
I love all of these people very much and it makes me happy to connect with them this way!
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Love this challenge, thank you @deborah !
Since it's wee hours of the morning now I'll share what happened yesterday. Background -- We live on a farm and one of our chickens was attacked by a hawk a few days ago and very badly injured. My kids and I have been nursing her, and it's been touch and go. Yesterday she ate some food and drank some water. We did high fives all the way around -- seems like she may be turning the corner and has a good chance to make it. :) We were all on cloud nine yesterday afternoon.
Woohoo! That's a great feeling. Chickens are surprisingly resilient. One of mine was attacked by a dog a few months ago, and lost most of the skin on her neck, exposing a lot of muscle and even some bone. She was healed up and back in the coop within a month.
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We had the most delightful snow flurry: big clumpy flakes. It didn't stick around, but for an hour it looked like we were in a snow globe.
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Got blown around by wind on top of an icy mountain but on skis, with the sun peaking through clouds and shining upon the whirling snow and felt lucky to be able to ski in the midst of this crazy winter.
So happy for you that you're skiing! Such a wonderful, soul nourishing thing to do.
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As a FIREd person I can now go cc skiing on a weekday in daylight hours. I did so today and it was much nicer than last Sunday when almost everyone was there at the same time. The weather was not fully sunny, but very light with only thin clouds. I had a nice trip.
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We tried out a new recipe and it turned out really well. It was fun to try something new and break out of the comfort zone.
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One thing that helped me survive 2020 was a journal. Each day I write down three things that I'm grateful for. It was incredibly useful to focus on those positives. 2021 is teaching me that I still need it!
-A gorgeous day today (70ish) & I got to get out for a walk
-My baby is going to high school & we are starting to begin the registration process. I can't believe this. It's making me so happy to see him progress as a young man, & can't believe it's going so quickly.
-I made delicious baked oatmeal & it's been my breakfast all week. Quick, easy & yum.
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My 6-year-old is doing awesome at reading. It's amazing to me how quickly she's progressed - a year ago she was sounding out words like "cat", and now she's reading chapter books on her own.
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I picked my greengages today, and decided to make three jars of jam. I stewed some of the fruit, measured out 750ml, added sugar and made the jam. It exactly filled my three jars - not too much or too light . I’ve never managed this before, and I’m so happy about making exactly the right amount!
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I picked my greengages today, and decided to make three jars of jam. I stewed some of the fruit, measured out 750ml, added sugar and made the jam. It exactly filled my three jars - not too much or too light . I’ve never managed this before, and I’m so happy about making exactly the right amount!
Yum! My first crop of greengages are not quite ripe yet.
I invited a friend over for a board game afternoon. We talked, drank tea and played Rummikub and Sequence and had a fabulous time, I have made a promise to myself to do this often this year.
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Yesterday, I was in the last 5 minutes of teaching my last student of the day (after 9 lessons) and ready to just wind down, when she asked me a tricky question. Since this aspect of the German language is a very difficult concept for English-speakers to understand, I have developed a unique method of explaining it. Within these 5 minutes, she was able to understand a concept that had been confusing her for 3 years. It was so nice to see the lightbulb moment!
Now let's just hope she'll remember it next week.
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I slept all night and woke up to a beautiful snowy landscape. My son is cuddled up asleep on the couch right now and I'm enjoying a nice cup of coffee while I get ready to start my day.
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Got blown around by wind on top of an icy mountain but on skis, with the sun peaking through clouds and shining upon the whirling snow and felt lucky to be able to ski in the midst of this crazy winter.
So happy for you that you're skiing! Such a wonderful, soul nourishing thing to do.
It is! The valley is grey and cloudy today and we went up the mountain this morning and it was all blue skies and sunshine up there. You'd never know if you just looked out the window. A little Vitamin D is my happy thing today :)
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I found a bug in some code I'm writing near the end of the work day yesterday, and was struggling to work it out. This morning, looking at it with fresh eyes, I immediately found the problem and fixed it in 5 minutes. I'm not a great coder, so things rarely go as smoothly as that. :)
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My happy thing for today was a lovely run on the trails with my 14 year old son. It was wonderful to spend the time with him outside.
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Today we went cc skiing at -12C and a lot of wind. Because of that it wasn't so crowded in the trails. The trails were freshly prepared and in perfect condition. So, despite for the weather, the circumstances were pleasant and we could see the sun. When I came home cold and walked through the house on bare my feet, the heated floor felt lovely warm on my cold feet.
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My first big zoom lecture went well yesterday and I got a really good sleep again last night. Today it's fairly warm out so I'm going to take my kids to see an alpaca farm.
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I love this challenge!
My daughter (5) isn't a big cuddler, but last night we watched Mulan (original) with my arm around her almost the whole time and my heart felt so content.
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I recently started following PhilB's and Deborah's journals. They both live in different countries from me (and each other). I find them endlessly fascinating, but yesterday I learned 2 new things (fell down the Google hole for quite a while). Greengages (a kind of plum) and bubble and squeak (a dish made with leftover vegetables). So much fun learning about other countries from real people.
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My phone has been breaking for about half a year and it got much worse this week. Today, I was able to get it sorted by getting a friend's parent's old phone and just replacing the battery. Frugal (£70 for a 'like new' iphone), good for the planet as she would've just kept it in her drawer, and I really love having a functional phone again! Touch screens are just amazing, when they actually work!
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I like this challenge. My personal challenge this year is to build joy in my life.
We bought a used digital piano, and I’ve been brushing up on my skills. It makes me happy to find out that I don’t suck as much as I thought I did. It also makes me happy how much joy DD finds in learning the piano — I just started teaching her two weeks ago.
Yesterday, it was very nice and balmy. I went to the playground with DD and enjoyed the sunshine.
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It's a gorgeous day today. I was able to go for a short run, took my son to a masked up exercise option (where he could also see friends, despite staying socially distant) & now my two kids are, miraculously, getting along & playing tennis together. It's been a while since that's happened.
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I am very happy to be back in Canada today.
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I tried a new vegan recipe today (mushroom and broccoli stir fry noodles) and it turned out really good - even the kids liked it (minus the mushrooms).
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Today, the sun is shining brilliantly and the air quality is not terrible. It’s cold but not very cold — a good day for a walk in the park.
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Today DH and I went for a random ramble. We followed a private drive and discovered a trailhead at the end of the street, which eventually led to a small trail that followed a hidden creek, which surprisingly led us right back to the trail where we'd started. Our ramble ended up being six miles long. It was sunny and in the mid-seventies. Ah, California winters.
I decided to make pizza for dinner. I started the dough and then a neighbor called. We took something over to to her house and ended up chatting for quite a while, so the dough had extra time to proof. I then divided it and let it rest, which I never seem to have time to do. OMG, it was so much easier to work and the pizza was amazing. Both DH and bonus kid said it was the best ever, which makes me happy. I use The Frugal Girl's pizza dough recipe.
A lot of happy today.
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My local council sent out care packages for the members of our Covid volunteering group. It was such a lovely surprise and great to have a (distanced) chat with the delivery team that I got to know through the group. The best bit was a thoughtful personalised letter highlighting what we've achieved. So very kind.
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The alpaca farm was a big hit yesterday!!! My oldest son is still talking about it!!! I bought some yarn for my sister in law ($$ but it felt good to support a local business). After that I went for a 7.5 mile run outside, had dinner with my husband and kids, made rice pudding for dessert, and had a video call with a friend.
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Great idea, deborah!
Yesterday I cleaned my house and de-cluttered a bunch of random things, so this morning I got to wake up to a nice, clean house. Plus, the sun is shining!
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Running this morning as the sun rose, gangs of cockatoos and crows swirling around in the sky.
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We have a loaf of fresh bread, my ginger carrot soup was a success and tastes exactly like a local restaurant's recipe (but so much cheaper than buying it from the local restaurant where a bowl of soup costs $7), and we have two overly ripe bananas that will be turned into banana bread tonight.
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Early in December I ordered some kaffir lime seeds, which were sent from China. I wasn't even sure whether they would go through the toll. But today, about 5 weeks later and after I had mentally given up, they were in my mail box. We love to eat the leaves in Asian style food, but I haven't been able to buy new (frozen) leaves. Now I can finally start growing my own plant.
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Today was one of the happiest in my life. Today my twin grandbabies were born. Over the moon.
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Today was one of the happiest in my life. Today my twin grandbabies were born. Over the moon.
Wow, that's a major one - congratulations!
Mine is a minor one, but I started coming down with a cold on Saturday. First thoughts of course are, Is this serious or maybe even Covid? But as of this afternoon I'm almost back to normal. So it was just a quick minor bout of sniffles.
Health = happiness.
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In about an hour's time I will have the house to myself for a couple of hours. With 4 adults living here that is a rarity. I will revel in the blissful quiet. The anticipation is almost better than the reality.
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I had to go to another town for work today so I brought my running clothes with me and had a nice run by the river afterwards. The drive back was very pretty too.
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Carving wood--it's a new, satisfying hobby/obsession. And I see how whittling could become a meditative act (once you are comfortable with your skills of course..) I made a spoon out of driftwood and am etching an old table with botanicals.
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Today was one of the happiest in my life. Today my twin grandbabies were born. Over the moon.
Yay! Congratulations!
It's a gloriously sunny day today. My plan is to wait for it to warm up a bit more and then go for a walk around the track to take in some Vitamin D and get some exercise this afternoon.
At work, I am focusing on the phrase, "Not my circus, not my monkeys," in an effort to set boundaries and not take on problems that are not within my job description. In line with that, today, I refused to adopt a few work monkeys. I'm not even interested in fostering any work monkeys.
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I made another new vegan recipe that turned out delicious - roasted cauliflower salad.
It was warm enough today to open up all the windows and air out the house, and now my house feels much fresher.
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Today I'm very happy because I'm married to someone whose faith in me is unnerving.
A few weeks ago I suggested something truly batshit insane, kind of out of nowhere as an alternative to an already established, excellent plan, and my normally staunchly cautious DH, without skipping a beat was like "yep, of course you should do it".
I still haven't decided, because it's objectively a terrible idea for both of us, but DH is standing firm and not going to let me wiggle out of this if it's what I really want.
I think he genuinely believes I'm a superhero of some sort.
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Today was one of the happiest in my life. Today my twin grandbabies were born. Over the moon.
WOW!!! So exciting for you. Are they your first grandchildren?
There may be enough of us grandparents on here that we should start a thread in the Mini Mustache area. I'm already thinking about RESPs for mine and she isn't even born yet. ;-)
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I slept hard for 10 hours last night, and this morning I feel great.
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-We have retained power (and internet), even during a day of high winds
-The sun is shining, despite the wind
-I made lemon curd yesterday (from free Meyer lemons) & it's delightful. I had it swirled through some plain yogurt today - yum!
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Today was one of the happiest in my life. Today my twin grandbabies were born. Over the moon.
This is certainly something to be happy about! Congratulations!
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I noticed on the odometer that I’ve now logged over 1000 km on my bike. Took about a year and a half.
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I am excited about the inauguration tomorrow and I think Biden's day 1 plan is great!!!!!!
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I was released from 3 weeks of enforced quarantine today just after midnight. The breeze on my skin never felt so good.
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My 3-year-old has been super snuggly and affectionate lately, always asking for hugs and kisses. I (almost) never get tired of it.
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I was released from 3 weeks of enforced quarantine today just after midnight. The breeze on my skin never felt so good.
Yay!!
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I was released from 3 weeks of enforced quarantine today just after midnight. The breeze on my skin never felt so good.
Yay! I'm impressed you're willing to travel. You're much braver than I am.
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I was released from 3 weeks of enforced quarantine today just after midnight. The breeze on my skin never felt so good.
Yay! I'm impressed you're willing to travel. You're much braver than I am.
It was for meeting someone quite special. He can't come here, I can't go to where he lives, so we met in between. Very carefully. Luckily work was flexible with the suddenly-extended quarantine, and I'll be making up the time over Chinese New Year.
I was released from 3 weeks of enforced quarantine today just after midnight. The breeze on my skin never felt so good.
Yay!!
Got to get some Vitamin D and oxygen!
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Watching our silly dog bound through grass higher than her head. She loves it so much.
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I joined an online photography community this year, and yesterday was our weekly Zoom meeting. It's crazy how happy these sessions make me. And they are really re-igniting my creativity, which also ramps up my happiness.
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Tonight I'm feeling happy about the inauguration - it won't undo all the damage of the last 4 years, but it's a step in the right direction. And my daughters were excited about having a "girl vice president."
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We have a well-stocked pantry and are prepared to move back to online learning if necessary. I’m very happy about our spacious three bedroom apartment, which means that if lockdown happens, the apartment is large enough that each of us has a space to work - DH in the third bedroom/office, me in our bedroom where I have a desk, and DD at the dining table.
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Tonight I'm feeling happy about the inauguration - it won't undo all the damage of the last 4 years, but it's a step in the right direction. And my daughters were excited about having a "girl vice president."
Me too!!! I was grinning ear to ear after watching Harris and Biden get sworn in. I'm really happy about rejoining the Paris climate accords too.
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I had a nice easy day at work today, and have the day off tomorrow!
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I just found out I got accepted into a year long course I really want to do. It is 1 day a week and best of all, I got it free! A good friend is also doing it so we are as excited and giggly as teenage girls; we get to spend so much time together doing something we both love.
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I just found out I got accepted into a year long course I really want to do. It is 1 day a week and best of all, I got it free! A good friend is also doing it so we are as excited and giggly as teenage girls; we get to spend so much time together doing something we both love.
Congrats, you sound so excited.
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We had a beautiful sunny day and I went for a long run. I also found out that I'm upgraded to 1a again for the Covid shot.
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I ran some errands today - first time leaving the house in 5 days! - and everyone I encountered, both customers and employees - was super friendly and polite, and also wearing their masks correctly. And I accidentally left an item in my grocery cart after loading groceries into my car, and a man rushed over to let me know. None of these things are huge, but in combination, they restored a bit of my faith in humanity.
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It was hard finding something to be happy about today. There’s an uptick in cases in the city, there’s the possibility that school will be shut down, it’s cold, gray, and drizzling, and there have been a couple crises at work.
Today I’m happy that my job offers flexibility so that I can manage DD’s learning if we move to online learning. I’m also glad that our place is large enough that we can host some other kids whose parents are teachers if we move online, so their parents don’t have to worry about teaching and helping their kids with online school. And I’m salaried so I still get paid.
Hindsight is 20/20, and I’m so so so incredibly glad I switched jobs in 2019.
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It’s Saturday, and I get to stay home all day without seeming too antisocial because there’s an uptick in cases and work has recommended limiting our movements in the city!
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I only work a half day on Fridays, so I spent the afternoon playing with my camera and working on a creative project. This made me very happy. I've done more creative stuff so far this month than all of 2020.
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I got a really good haircut and my scalp feels nice. So relaxing. I have friends coming over for dinner too (just one couple who have been over routinely, so fairly Covid safe), and my house is already clean and dinner is in the oven.
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A Buy Nothing group just launched in my area and I'm super excited about it. I gave away my first item today - a hideously ugly purse I'd received as a gift - and the woman who took it was super excited about it. I guess it's true that one (wo)man's trash is another (wo)man's treasure. 😀
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Love this thread! Some daily things I'm happy for:
1. Re-using silicon trays that we used to use for baby-food freezing like 6 years ago and making giant square ice cubs for drinks. Double happiness b/c DW looked at me like I was a moron b/c we have an ice-maker, but now she ONLY uses the ice cubes I make :) Really triple happiness b/c I was going to purchase a $10 silicon round ice cube maker, but re-purposed these instead. When I see a cube in her iced coffee it makes her happy and makes me happy!
2. Home Schooling our 3 boys during COVID shut down. It's a nightmare dealing w/the daily issues and DW and Myself working full time, but I get to see them every day for hours and their school personalities, and while there are many hardships that go along w/this, and I can't wait for them to get back to school, but I know in another 10 years I'll be thinking back on how much time I got to spend w/them!
3. Well this really isn't daily, as I typically only check the forum on weekends, but today it makes me happy to read topics that the MMM community posts and have thoughtful feedback and support from like minded people. In the days of facebook and all the negativity, this board is so positive! When neighbors talk trash about each other behind their back or get angry when someone brings home a new car or something, this board supports and praises the person who has reached FIRE, even when they may still be working. Amazing support from a great community!
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Great thread! Went for a walk today around the public grounds of a country house estate nearby. Beautiful, bright, crisp day. The main ‘happiness bonus’ was that, in addition to the usual sheep and horses, we saw 5 beautiful alpacas, which are a new addition to the grounds. They were being led around the walking path, and were such lovely, gentle creatures.
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Took a walk this morning - the first sort of physical exercise in some time. Went this afternoon and bought mittens for running in the cold; I will be utilizing tomorrow morning as I try and keep to a morning routine.
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I just found out I got accepted into a year long course I really want to do. It is 1 day a week and best of all, I got it free! A good friend is also doing it so we are as excited and giggly as teenage girls; we get to spend so much time together doing something we both love.
Congrats, you sound so excited.
Thank you! I think the best part is the anticipation. Not sure how I will go with someone telling me what to do (which is why I haven't taken any formal study since the '90s).
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My college team just beat their nemesis on the road. Such a great win!
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I’ve lost six pounds since Jan. 1!
Yesterday I made a pumpkin stew and fresh loaf of bread. It’s amazing what homemade comfort food does to the soul on a cold, dreary day.
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Today was the last sunny day in the forecast before a storm rolls in, so we took full advantage and went for a long walk along the river. It was lovely.
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Had a super random, fun, online 'poetry jam' with two friends.
We each prepared one or two prompts or word games to inspire each other with and spent some time creating nonsensical, low-pressure poetry. Silly-- and yet some beauty showed up as well.
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Great thread! Went for a walk today around the public grounds of a country house estate nearby. Beautiful, bright, crisp day. The main ‘happiness bonus’ was that, in addition to the usual sheep and horses, we saw 5 beautiful alpacas, which are a new addition to the grounds. They were being led around the walking path, and were such lovely, gentle creatures.
Alpacas are amazing!!!. My kindergartner got to hug one last week. So adorable.
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Yesterday I got asked to mentor a grad student. That is a huge honor for me.
I don't time myself when I run outside, but yesterday I used the treadmill because it was cold out and I was able to run at a faster pace than the last time I used it.
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Cozy breakfast on a cold winter morning. Old fashioned oatmeal with fresh berries, cinnamon, and some peanut butter. A nice hot cup of green tea. Getting ready to go for a walk in the woods with my favorite person and our 4-legged furball of a best friend.
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I've been struggling with somethings of late so this is a great thread to find.
-Slept till 5am this morning (last couple weeks its been 2-3am)
-Hit the gym for 24th day in a row. (Want to go everyday regardless of how much time I spend there)
-Its beautiful outside our window today with the couple inches of fresh snow we got on top of what's already fortunately a beautiful view.
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I got a bike from my Buy Nothing group! I will accept facepunches for not already having owned one, but I'm excited to have one now. My 6-year-old just learned how to ride a bike, so hopefully by summer she'll be confident enough at it that we can go for rides together.
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Hiking with the family today then had a nice conversation with a friend.
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Looking at myself in the mirror today and realizing my self-discpline is paying off (140 days straight of logging in my calorie counting app!)
I feel good about myself. It's extra meaningful because I used to be borderline obese many years ago.
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DH's friend gave him a a bunch of small paving stones. He just wanted them gone and wouldn't take any money for them. I finally got them counted today. 558! So exciting!
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Today, I’m thankful for my family. I’m thankful that DH and I have a healthy, stable relationship. I’m thankful that DD is a happy, kind, and generally well-behaved child.
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Hugging warm sheets from the dryer :)
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Got a pretty good nights sleep. Got a great workout in today followed up with a nice hour or so conversation with another member at the gym I have spoke with just in passing since joining. Oh and Despite the Packers loss had a great time with my DW and kids watching the games and snacking yesterday!
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I'm feeling grateful for the amazing diversity of food that is available to us year round. Today I had banana carrot walnut bread for breakfast, a Chinese-inspired tofu dish for lunch, and Indian-style curry for dinner, all homemade and delicious.
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Today, I am grateful for an incredible team of coworkers who pulled together to address a crisis at work.
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I drove home in the rain. It’s been very hot for a week, and the rain is such a joy - particularly as it was part of a COLD front.
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I've been making experimental meals and it's so nice when things turn out! Rice spiced with black cardamom, chili & lime...who knew?
Plus, it makes me happy to use things we already have in new ways.
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I've been making experimental meals and it's so nice when things turn out! Rice spiced with black cardamom, chili & lime...who knew?
Plus, it makes me happy to use things we already have in new ways.
I'm happy I was able to salvage a new recipe. 30 minute soup my ass, 3 hours later and it was painfully bland. I saved it though, now it's delicious.
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I drove home in the rain. It’s been very hot for a week, and the rain is such a joy - particularly as it was part of a COLD front.
The feeling of the change coming in, as we gave Honey her evening run around in the park. *chef's kiss*
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I love how close my girls are with each other. They played really well together today, with hardly any bickering. And they played a game to try to sweep the floor as fast as possible, which was super cute, though not particularly effective.
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I love how close my girls are with each other. They played really well together today, with hardly any bickering. And they played a game to try to sweep the floor as fast as possible, which was super cute, though not particularly effective.
That's so sweet!
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I love how close my girls are with each other. They played really well together today, with hardly any bickering. And they played a game to try to sweep the floor as fast as possible, which was super cute, though not particularly effective.
That's so sweet!
Agreed!
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My boss brought treats to work today. I also had a tiring but good day.
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Weather was gorgeous, so we spent a lot of time outside working, puttering, just sitting. At dusk we built a fire with our kids and made smores. That was a good day.
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Little bit odd...my heater quit working last night...so I loaded up my bed with quilts and blankets. Slept like a bug in a rug!!
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We are in the midst of a rainstorm with high winds. I'm feeling super grateful to our power company, who worked through the night to restore power. Ours was restored after only about two hours. I'm probably one of the few people in the US who actually likes their power company lol.
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An online bookclub last night, which went well and resulted in meaningful conversation. Zoom can be a pain but also a blessing..in this case, it was lovely to see everyone's faces--it's been months since we met in person.
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Work bought us lunch today. I’m also happy that today is over and I’m now chilling out at home. I love our home.
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Had a good conversation with my husband yesterday which left us both in a better mood. Had a good night sleep too, and I feel well rested and energetic this morning.
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Had a great couple of days reassembling my bookshelves after a long home renovation project. It was great to have access to my books again - I had to put them in a storage unit for the duration of the renovation project. I now have my favorite armchair located near my bookshelves and am really happy!
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After reading the 'renovate or remodel bathroom' thread I think I have found the best solution for our ugly but functional ensuite bathroom. It will save us heaps in renovation costs (I was at the point where I just wanted to gut it and start from scratch) but make for a much more attractive and water-efficient bathroom. I am so happy about that as it has been on my mind for several years.
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I’m happy that today is Friday and I have two days away from people and their problems.
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I'm happy that I made marmalade from my cumquats and seville oranges for the first time ever today. The trees have grown enough to produce enough fruit for that to happen.
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I am enjoying a cup of strong coffee and a few moments of quiet solitude before everyone wakes up. It is my favorite time of day.
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After reading the 'renovate or remodel bathroom' thread I think I have found the best solution for our ugly but functional ensuite bathroom. It will save us heaps in renovation costs (I was at the point where I just wanted to gut it and start from scratch) but make for a much more attractive and water-efficient bathroom. I am so happy about that as it has been on my mind for several years.
Ooh! Tell us what you plan to do. The OP never responded to their own thread, so I'm curious what the answers inspired you to do.
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I just added up how much I spent on groceries/food/alcohol last month and it is astonishing (--we live in a small, pricy mountain town, no access to warehouse shopping but still..this includes fancy items on the regular). The thing that makes me Happy about this is knowing that I can set a proper limit and get this spending under control. Historically I would spend cash on groceries but buying things on credit due to covid has helped me (unintentionally) track this number.
Excited to creatively work with what we have and if my SO wants to--he can still buy chunks of expensive cheese but I shall not!
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I’m looking forward to a nice long bike ride in the morning followed by an afternoon of baking.
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The eggs from my Aldi have a Bible quote inside the carton, which made me smile this morning.. I'm not really religious but I have a happy memory of singing it as a child. "This is the day which the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it"
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The sun came out today, after a cold and rainy week. I took the kids out to run around, and it felt so good to get some fresh air.
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Happy that we finally got our electrical done , got a good workout in and Was invited out by a couple couples to dinner though we had to pass because of other plans.
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Video call from my DS, DIL, and Grand-twins. Thank goodness for free technology these days that let's us connect across the miles in these challenging times.
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It is snowing lightly outside, dusting everything with a fresh coat of white.
We are expecting BIG snows over the next few days and I love snow when I don't have to drive anywhere.
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I am happy that we are being asked to limit our movements in the city because of newly discovered cases in other neighborhoods. That means I get to stay all day at home, read books, attend service online, and bake. I love the smell of fresh apple cake and brownies.
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Sledding with the kids today at the big hill. I think I had more fun than they did!!!
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Love this thread! @deborah thanks for starting it!
Today's happiness is learning a local hardware store recycles cfl bulbs. I made a haz mat drop off trip just last weekend, and the next day a bulb went bad. The hardware store saves a trip and a lot time.
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I had a really pleasant day with the kids, and got to visit my grandma (outdoors and masked).
My husband is quitting vaping, and he feels like crap right now, but he's staying strong and I'm proud of him.
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I think I may have perfected my sausage roll recipe. I added a ton of veggies (carrots, green bell peppers, mushroom, spinach). There are now more veggies than meat in the roll, but the veggies keep the filling moist and flavorful. Real British people may be aghast by my bastardization of the true sausage roll, but I am very happy with my edits. It’s almost healthy now.
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Had a real nice day with one of my HS sons driving around our state just because...
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I had an avocado that was about to get too ripe. I made a blueberry avocado smoothie and it was really tasty.
Also, a random person waved at me while they were doing yardwork and I drove past. I was going slow enough that I was able to wave back.
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This was a difficult day. Before it all started I did some yoga that made my upper back feel better. I am grateful for the free yoga videos available online.
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We went to visit a family friend's goat ranch today. It was super fun to just stroll across his property, and my kids were in heaven - petting the goats and a gigantic puppy, chasing chickens, and digging in the dirt. Overall a really nice day. We agreed to come back in a month or two to help vaccinate the baby goats, which I'm looking forward to.
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Today didn't turn out as badly as I expected. I was expecting having some really difficult conversations with difficult people, but they turned out okay.
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We're starting a large DIY house renovation project (gutting the finished basement, putting in new windows, etc). DH and I enlisted our two teenage kids to help for the day, and all four of us worked together to empty the basement out completely and clean it. It was fun to work together, and also decide on what to keep and what to donate/get rid of. And seeing an empty, clean basement is a treat even if it's just temporary. Today the drywall starts to come down and it will be a dusty mess for a while.
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Today I’m grateful we have enough money to afford a $140 doctors visit so DH a an get diagnosed with a cold so he can get approved for a paid sick day.
I’m also grateful that DD is old enough not to freak out when I can’t make it in time to pick her up from school and she ends up having to sit for half an hour in the school office.
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Today's small pleasures: teasing my cat and dancing around the house with him to the beat of the original Iron Man soundtrack.
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I had an avocado that was about to get too ripe. I made a blueberry avocado smoothie and it was really tasty.
Also, a random person waved at me while they were doing yardwork and I drove past. I was going slow enough that I was able to wave back.
I grew up in Avocadoland and only learned recently that they can be refrigerated to slow the ripening process. Mind=blown.
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Today was a tiring day, but now I'm happily curled up in a blanket drinking a delicious peanut butter stout (not everyone's taste, I'm sure, but I love it!)
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I go to the office every day, but have to wear a mask at all times and stay away from the handful of coworkers who also show up.
Today, there is no one else in my quadrant. I've got a 50 foot radius of wonderfully empty space around me!
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It's sunny today, and I'm going to enjoy going for a walk in the sunshine after work.
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Visited the Greek consulate today and got some good news: they're willing to open up a case to potentially offer me a visa, so i can travel to set up a show I'm curating and art residency I've been invited to in Athens, and see my boyfriend there.
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I just came home and fixed our washing machine with refurbished parts bought online, which made a frustrating 14 hour day at work vanish in a puff of successful and thrifty home maintenance!!!!!
Then I found this thread, which has inspired me to go work out for 15 minutes instead of staring at my phone before bed-----later....!
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Today I was misinterpreted, then given non-relevant life advice and chastisement for imaginary faults of emotion.
The happiness was not being upset by any of that, nor lashing out at the ones perpetrating the bizarre conversation...being secure enough in myself to repel the mistaken assessment and skilled enough in interpersonal relations to eventually turn the conversation to a mutually agreeable topic.
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A video and online board games call with my sister and her wife. Fun and easy socialising, I must continue it even after lockdown.
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I had an avocado that was about to get too ripe. I made a blueberry avocado smoothie and it was really tasty.
Also, a random person waved at me while they were doing yardwork and I drove past. I was going slow enough that I was able to wave back.
I grew up in Avocadoland and only learned recently that they can be refrigerated to slow the ripening process. Mind=blown.
Oh yeah, this is critical. I buy avocados at Costco in big bags, and have the timing of refrigerating them down so well that I haven't lost so much as half an avocado since 2016.
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As I unrolled my bag of coffee this morning I noticed a message printed near the top "brighter days are ahead"
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Feeling sore today after a very pleasant but challenging ski day yesterday (heaps of fresh snow in our area!), so I am enjoying my breakfast tea while using a heating pad on my back..simple and effective
Heat and cold--both so basic but sometimes it's all you need..
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Yesterday was really warm and sunny here (for winter). I got out for a lovely walk on my lunch hour, and even sat on my deck for a short while. The sun makes such a big difference in my mood.
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The weather on Sunday was absolutely perfect - we took a long walk at the nature preserve park and then ordered steaks online at our favorite steak restaurant for my birthday dinner at home.
Best of all I talked with my son at the hospital and there is slow improvement.
Soo many reasons to be happy and content.
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My 6-year-old made lunch for both herself and her little sister today all by herself. And she was way more creative with it than I ever am - she made owl faces out of tortillas, peanut butter, rice cakes, nuts, and bell peppers. I was super impressed. :)
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Today I got word from my new boss what some of my usual tasks will be. The position I filled is a new one to the company, so we are creating the template for what it will be in real time. It was astonishing how good it made me feel to know that there's something for me to do every day at work.
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I had pizza for dinner today. I’m glad I didn’t have to cook dinner.
Also, my friend sent a whole bunch of zongzi's from her family farm. They are so delicious and very labor intensive, but the farm ones are much better than the store-bought ones because her mom puts a lot of beans and meat (and less sticky rice) in them. She also makes them much larger than the store-bought ones.
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Today I'm very happy that my dad got his first Coronavirus vaccination.
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I have a little back and forth with a friend who lives far away where we send each other pictures of nature and scenery. It always makes me smile when I get a message from him.
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I found a new tea that I'm particularly enjoying. It's a wild apple sasparilla, which sounds random & is totally different than other tea I've had, & I'm enjoying it very much.
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I accidentally dumped way too much red pepper into the stew I was making for dinner. I got out as much as I could, then shrugged and continued on. And it actually turned out super good - the spiciness is just what I need on this chilly evening.
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Today my room mate bought a set of dishes and gave me the box since I'm moving out soon. Her dishes are in the cupboard and mine are ready to go in safe and well cushioned packaging. This inspired me to pack 2.5 more boxes. I am pleased with today's progress.
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Today, I worked late and biked home while the sun was setting. It was a really nice sunset.
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I could use this thread.
Today I finished a book that I am reading to discuss in a club next Tuesday. It was short, but so intense that required me two full readings to understand a little bit of it.
I also spent 45 minutes cleaning the balcony, including insane amount of pigeon poo. I had been looking into it for weeks already and thinking "it's going to be too much work", but when I started it was a nice job to do while listening to some music, and I do feel quite proud of it.
Keep going!
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The gorgeous colorful sunrise this morning made me happy.
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Amazing progress with someone I've been counselling and coaching for many months. He's one of the most brilliant people I've ever known, but got himself into a situation that utterly destroyed his mental health.
It's been a slog, but he's finally starting to make substantial gains on his own with some huge paradigm shifts that I had my doubts he would be able to make.
It's been A LOT of work, and a hell of a lot of strain and pressure on me, but I'm starting to see major payoff, which is phenomenal.
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Just so happy things are progressing on our remodel and the new floors are going in. Getting closer hopefully to enjoying the home vs living in the mess!
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This is a tiny one, but... we've had paint on our dryer for months (Halloween pumpkin painting, I think?) Every time I see the dryer, it bothers me. Today, I researched the fix, it took no more than 2 minutes & the dryer looks great. Why have I put this off for so long? Yes for a non-paint streaked dryer!
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A web app I've been building for work for the past 2 years was deployed today. I'm really proud of it, especially since I hardly knew anything about web development when I started working on it.
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A perfect orange, spicy chaga tea, huge walk in the snow, tired legs, reading in bed, big (inner) smile
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My husband is in a lot better mood today and he is working on decluttering some things.
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Resisted Room Mate's attempt to optimize the process of mailing a package with fancy printed labels and pre-paid postage. Normally I'm all for that, but I just need to get the job done. Quick and dirty, ya know? Happy to have the internal strength to discern between shiny bells-and-whistles tech solution and my actual goal, then pick which actually served me better.
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I’m happy it’s Friday and it’s the weekend. There was another local covid case discovered near my neighborhood so everything is shut down again. Good excuse to not leave my apartment this weekend.
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Today's happiness was *quickly* getting the final bit of info needed to finish a project.
Love dependable, responsible people!
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It’s sunny and warm today. I went for a walk to the grocery store that’s a bit farther away because it was having a cheese sale. Got several blocks of cheese for half off, yogurt for 60% off, and even found difficult-to-find imported chamomile and peppermint tea. I’m now lazing on the sofa in the sunlight, like a cat.
I’m decorating our bedroom and have had a lovely few hours learning to use Sketchup (free version) and Mood Board to create different looks. I’ve also been going down the rabbit hole that is Taobao looking for furnishings. It’s dangerous when I have access to 80% of the world’s furnishings factories at my fingertips.
Such a lovely day!
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I have a pap smear and a physical exam every six months because I'm at high risk for cervical cancer. I had surgery last year and my mom died of it at age 50.
Just finished my latest checkup. All clear, all healthy!
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Yesterday I got sick and tired of our government's fumbled vaccine program delays and made the executive decision that I will drive out to visit my new grand-twins in May. It is on the other side of the country (36 hours driving time according to Google maps), and DS #2 will likely go with me and share the driving. So, now I am happy that I have a concrete plan in place, and something to look forward to.
I also decided that I will tentatively plan a trip to the west coast in the Fall. I miss it so much. And at this time of year, when it is snowy and cold here (-20 celsius) I need some west coast beauty to look forward to.
So there you have it, my little brain is happy having trips to look forward to.
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Had the most fun with our Immediate neighbors last night, Us and 3 houses in a row playing games last night and just having a lot of laughs. So lucky to have such good neighbors especially through the pandemic.
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Hearing my SO talk to his buddy on the phone, they are just laughing away--love it when male friendships are actively cultivated
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We went for a nice hike today to a waterfall. It was really pretty, and the weather was perfect. I'm tired now, but in the good, I-worked-my-body-hard kind of way.
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We got a puppy today.
How exciting! What kind?
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It’s currently 17C, so I wiped down the balcony chairs and am now soaking in some Vitamin D.
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Just finished reading a really good book.
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This past weekend I saw my mom for the first time since August. My brother and SIL came too, and we had a wonderful dinner together. Mom is fully vaccinated and I am half vaccinated and case counts are down in our area so it finally felt safe.
Today the school nurse called my husband instead of me, and he dealt with whatever the issue was!!!! This is a huge milestone after months of frustration.
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We got a puppy today.
How exciting! What kind?
A little lab mix. But I take that back. Now we are dealing with severe sleep deprivation and extra loads of laundry. Does the happiness come later?
I've had three puppies and they've all learned to sleep through the night quickly, so hopefully the sleep deprivation won't last too long! The extra laundry might last longer. I'm not sure if I'll ever get another puppy, but they sure are cute!
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Went for a walk in the sunshine today. Got a free lunch at work.
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Watched the waning crescent moon rise -- so pretty.
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Helping a friend put furniture together for her newly single apartment.
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Blistering cold day (but sunny) so we bundled up and went for a ski. It was gorgeous, great conditions and the mountain was empty since everyone was trying to avoid the chill :)
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I've been doing a half-assed job of trying to lose weight for a few months, which naturally hasn't worked. I decided to get serious about it today and start tracking my calories, which is the primary thing that's worked for me in the past.
Day 1 went really well - my body feels good after a good workout and a day of healthy eating, and I still have a couple hundred calories left in my allotment. Now I just have to keep this up for a few hundred days or so...
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Lovely chat with Mom...found out she and her hubby have their first vaccines done and their seconds scheduled. Yay!
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Chinese New Year holiday next week! Looking forward to some time off and some time catching up on outstanding work.
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Also, after a challenging couple weeks, it is lovely to have good friends who share baking supplies and some very yummy food. It is great interacting with people who are loving and not snippy and short-tempered and attacking.
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Great video chat with DS yesterday, and got to watch the babies sleeping, which warms my heart.
I couldn't attend the live group session in my photography group yesterday (had a stupid work thing), but I watched the recording last night, and it inspired several ideas for the coming week. Also spent a lovely hour or so later perusing beautiful Instagram feeds. Beauty, goodness and light.
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Very happy my HS son got released after his knee surgery well a month early to at least participate in non contact training. Also we got out rug we ordered from Wayfair 3 days early for out FP room.
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My husband got his first dose of the Covid vaccine today!
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The frost on my windows is rather pretty. The patterns look like feathers, or birds, or butterflies.
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Made a custom box out of two other boxes to fit the artwork that's now off the walls. Happy those things will be safe during the move! That was offset when I realized there was one more piece on the wall and no room in the box. lol!
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I am having a great day at work today. It's the holiday, so no one else is here except my boss, and I can focus on my work without being interrupted by other people's problems.
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Clean bill of health at the dentist today! And I was able to get a potential issue checked out that had been worrying me. Turns out it's nothing :)
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I had less work to do today than I expected so now I am holed up in my nice warm office getting ahead on some things for next week. I am looking forward to having dinner with a friend tonight too.
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A small squirrel has made his home in a hollow tree right outside the window by my desk. I love watching him scurry around as I work. Sometimes he'll stare straight at me for several minutes, which is slightly creepy but mostly adorable.
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Was thanked by BF for handling part of the utilities change over for our upcoming move. Prior relationships took this ort of work from me for granted. It was double happiness: once for the thank you and once for the "green flag" on the relationship.
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I am having a great day at work today. It's the holiday, so no one else is here except my boss, and I can focus on my work without being interrupted by other people's problems.
Hello from someone else working on Chinese New Year and enjoying it! I have the office almost all to myself (only one other person here) and can play nice jazzy music on speaker (at a reasonable volume, far away from my coworker).
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I am having a great day at work today. It's the holiday, so no one else is here except my boss, and I can focus on my work without being interrupted by other people's problems.
Hello from someone else working on Chinese New Year and enjoying it! I have the office almost all to myself (only one other person here) and can play nice jazzy music on speaker (at a reasonable volume, far away from my coworker).
Hi! Had another great day at work today and finished all my outstanding tasks! I’m pretty much all caught up now. Even had time to squeeze in a brief workout at the company’s gym.
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I am having a great day at work today. It's the holiday, so no one else is here except my boss, and I can focus on my work without being interrupted by other people's problems.
Hello from someone else working on Chinese New Year and enjoying it! I have the office almost all to myself (only one other person here) and can play nice jazzy music on speaker (at a reasonable volume, far away from my coworker).
Same here @Adventine and @Freedomin5 ! making up for my recent extra (unexpected) week in quarantine. Was in the office yesterday and very quiet before CNY dinner. Today working from home at my own pace while the city celebrates in its low key way. Enjoying the sunlight that filters through the 3 sides of my long, beautiful and bright flat.
Happy lunar new year to everyone.
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Today's happiness is responding consciously to despair and meanness and insecurity (others' as well as my own) with love. Sometimes indirect love. I have been dealing with an online stalker for months who this morning sent a dozen messages and called 14 times. Instead of getting worked up about it as I have been, after documenting it I focused on my connection with my partner and our affection for one another, rather than the disquiet caused by our stalker.
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Today's happiness is responding consciously to despair and meanness and insecurity (others' as well as my own) with love. Sometimes indirect love. I have been dealing with an online stalker for months who this morning sent a dozen messages and called 14 times. Instead of getting worked up about it as I have been, after documenting it I focused on my connection with my partner and our affection for one another, rather than the disquiet caused by our stalker.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with a stalker and I hope you find a way to cut them out permanently from your life.
Also, happy lunar new year and enjoy your quality time with your partner!
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Today's happiness is responding consciously to despair and meanness and insecurity (others' as well as my own) with love. Sometimes indirect love. I have been dealing with an online stalker for months who this morning sent a dozen messages and called 14 times. Instead of getting worked up about it as I have been, after documenting it I focused on my connection with my partner and our affection for one another, rather than the disquiet caused by our stalker.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with a stalker and I hope you find a way to cut them out permanently from your life.
Also, happy lunar new year and enjoy your quality time with your partner!
How disturbing and scary! Glad you have a loved one who can walk with you during this time.
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I realized this morning that I was over-contributing to my TSP account (because I was contributing a percentage and my salary increased last year). I'm happy I figured this out early in the year so that I won't miss out on any matching!
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@expatartist --what a creative way to combat something negative (unfortunate!) with something positive. Hope you enjoy a serene time with your partner moving forward.
We finally have our kitchen renovations *almost* done. Grout is IN..and it looks good.
phew.
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Successful baking experiments, like the almond florentines I made yesterday, make me happy.
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Passed a distant relatives contact info to close relatives; there is chatter of getting all of us closer. Doing my part to help heal old wounds!
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I went to a friend's house for the first time and my son got on well with her daughter. So nice to have a sense of community.
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In pre-Covid times, I am Hospitality Chair for a Women's social group that focuses on the arts. Most of our members are older and many are single. At last Monday's Zoom board meeting, I floated the idea of sending a Valentine from the group out to our members. The Board approved, so that afternoon, I made 138 of them using materials on hand and supplies from the dollar store. My 96 year old friend (she's also in the group and I'm her pod) and I assembled them on Tuesday and I popped them in the mail. They turned out really well and we had fun working together. Then I enjoyed a couple of days of anticipation. Now that they're arriving, I'm getting lots of great feedback from other board members. The larger group won't know who exactly was behind their Valentine, but I know they'll be happy to receive this little surprise. All in all, a very fun endeavor.
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So happy I finally got a good night sleep last night and was able to workout without feeling like a Zombie!
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It’s warmed up a bit over the past few days. I love looking out my window at green, leafy trees and hearing the birds chirping.
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Weather here in Hong Kong has been sunny and stunning. Even though I'm working inside today, it's making art on windows. So getting plenty of sun and happiness in this afternoon.
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Nice walk on a sunny cool day with one of my favorite people :)
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Went to one friend’s house for an art session and then to another friend’s house for CNY (Chinese New Year) dinner.
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@Dicey --I love your Valentines story!
Feeling a bit run-down so enjoying an afternoon curled up on the couch with heating pad, tasty drinks, comfort food and a good book. The ability to rest when I need rest is a real happiness booster.
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I've been stuck in a rut lately due to the cold weather. Today I forced myself to do my workout and felt a lot better afterward. Now I'm making soup on the burner that my friend fixed for me the other day.
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Hour-long walk in the sun. So relaxing!
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Rolled the dice and order some curtains and curtain rods online and a Picture for above our FP and all came yesterday and were better than I was hoping. Happy dance!!
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After nine years with no pets, we are getting a dog. Not mustachian at all, but I'm very happy about it! :)
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After nine years with no pets, we are getting a dog. Not mustachian at all, but I'm very happy about it! :)
Dogs aren't purchases, they're family, and they can be very Mustachian. They encourage you to get outside and go for walks as a daily activity, they make it harder to do international travel, they make it harder to spontaneously go out for drinks or dinner after work with colleagues, they make having overly nice furniture feel silly, and they make just hanging out at home WAY more fun.
They're objectively good for your physical health (petting a dog lowers blood pressure) and excellent for your mental health, which also means you are more likely to seek solace in your dog when feeling down than, say, shopping or drinking or whatever other non-mustachian self medication you might reach for.
They also make it easier to make friends and do Mustachian activities with them.
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I started the morning with a quick workout, in place of my usual mindless scrolling. I feel much more energized and ready to start the day.
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After nine years with no pets, we are getting a dog. Not mustachian at all, but I'm very happy about it! :)
Dogs aren't purchases, they're family, and they can be very Mustachian. They encourage you to get outside and go for walks as a daily activity, they make it harder to do international travel, they make it harder to spontaneously go out for drinks or dinner after work with colleagues, they make having overly nice furniture feel silly, and they make just hanging out at home WAY more fun.
They're objectively good for your physical health (petting a dog lowers blood pressure) and excellent for your mental health, which also means you are more likely to seek solace in your dog when feeling down than, say, shopping or drinking or whatever other non-mustachian self medication you might reach for.
They also make it easier to make friends and do Mustachian activities with them.
Oh I know, we've had several dogs in the past. Agree that the upsides outweigh the downsides, but still -- we'll be spending more in the years to come than otherwise. Still very happy. :)
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Running as rainbands swept the city = lots of rainbows 🌈 this morning
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Finally got my baby ring resized and picked up t today. Makes me happy that I can now wear it every day and be removed of the relative who gave it to me rather than letting it sit as clutter in a drawer.
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Found some free (public domain) sheet music online. Spent an hour brushing up my piano skills.
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Just a gorgeous day today in the mountains--bright sun, sparkly snow, whooping skiers
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I took a work meeting in the backyard this morning while my kids played. It was cold but otherwise great - less screentime for them, and I felt more focused. Now I'm wondering why I haven't been doing this the last 11 months.
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Picked up the keys to my new
above abode, and moved a carload of things in. Woo!
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Made 3D pop up cards. There are so many great ideas on Pinterest!
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The temperature was back up to regular-cold so I took a nice walk by the river this morning.
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After a morning of dealing with challenging emails, I spent the afternoon inside as sun streamed through a corridor of floor to ceiling windows, working with art on glass. A warm and beautiful time exploring new ways to work with light, color and design.
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I've just figured out how to stop a frustrating feature in MS Excel and I'm delighted that it will make work easier and that I get to share it with people who are as nerdy as me (it's when you change the data source for a chart and the colours and formatting mess up (https://superuser.com/questions/1425638/stop-excel-chart-from-changing-series-formatting)).
This is a good day.
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Very ecstatic I finally got the cabinets installed that I ordered about 7 months ago! they look great.
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I received my order of 3kg of mohair yarn. Looking forward to months of fun crocheting a light spring/fall lap blanket.
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After months of dealing with a finicky ancient automatic garage door opener, I got a new one installed. Was more $$ than I expected but it's quick and quiet, plus it comes with an app you can install on your smartphone.
It's true that when something you use every day isn't working quite right it's a low level irritant, but as soon as that gets fixed it makes daily life a little smoother.
and one more: I'm one of those who enjoys flavored hot coffee, and I'm drinking one now from my local grocery that's called Buttery Caramel - delicious!
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After months of dealing with a finicky ancient automatic garage door opener, I got a new one installed. Was more $$ than I expected but it's quick and quiet, plus it comes with an app you can install on your smartphone.
It's true that when something you use every day isn't working quite right it's a low level irritant, but as soon as that gets fixed it makes daily life a little smoother.
and one more: I'm one of those who enjoys flavored hot coffee, and I'm drinking one now from my local grocery that's called Buttery Caramel - delicious!
Oh yes, not having to deal with broken shit is well worth the money. I've put up with stuff that sort-of worked for far too long before because I was used to it, and replacing it brought a marked improvement to my overall happiness.
I just ate a really good tangerine and the weather is supposed to be warm this weekend!!!!!!!
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Halfway moved into my new place, and BF and I are agreeing on furniture layout so easily. A fun and exciting challenge!
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I went inside the library today for the first time in a year. It felt really nice to be able to browse in the library instead of online, and they seemed to be very careful with covid safety. I was returning 4 books for my kids and planned to just get them 4 more, but I ended up with 11. 🤷
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We did a bunch of tree cleanup and had a fire today. Always a fun time.
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So much happiness today! 8D
Very easy moving BF out of his place...he spent the last 2 days schlepping carloads of small boxes, so there was only furniture left, and he doesn't have a lot and none of it is too heavy. Easiest move I've been involved with!
Got the living room laid out as well as possible with what furniture is there and it's a useable room.
Figured out how the area rugs will fit into everything.
Lunch at the taco truck nearest the new place was delicious.
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Halfway moved into my new place, and BF and I are agreeing on furniture layout so easily. A fun and exciting challenge!
That's so good to hear!
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Halfway moved into my new place, and BF and I are agreeing on furniture layout so easily. A fun and exciting challenge!
That's so good to hear!
Thanks, mspym! It's pretty good to live it, too :)
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So much happiness today! 8D
Very easy moving BF out of his place...he spent the last 2 days schlepping carloads of small boxes, so there was only furniture left, and he doesn't have a lot and none of it is too heavy. Easiest move I've been involved with!
Got the living room laid out as well as possible with what furniture is there and it's a useable room.
Figured out how the area rugs will fit into everything.
Lunch at the taco truck nearest the new place was delicious.
I'll be moving in with my partner this fall, probably, and your updates are making me happy looking forward to it :)
(It'll be my first time ever living with a romantic partner, after living alone for 13 years, so I'm a little nervous, and it's nice to hear examples of it going smoothly.)
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Yesterday's Open Studio was on a beautiful Sunday afternoon. An assortment of friends and artists stopped by and spent a few hours chatting about our city and research and what we're working on. The first spontaneous gathering I've hosted in a year of restrictions.
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I had a nice socially distanced visit with my grandma today. She got her second dose of the Covid vaccine last week. She felt terrible for a few days after the first dose, and was worried she'd feel even worse this time around, but she had no side effects at all.
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I'll be moving in with my partner this fall, probably, and your updates are making me happy looking forward to it :)
(It'll be my first time ever living with a romantic partner, after living alone for 13 years, so I'm a little nervous, and it's nice to hear examples of it going smoothly.)
Yay! Glad my example is making a positive impact for you :)
Today's happiness was putting the harness on my cat and walking him a little. This is still in early/experimental stages, but I think he'll be a good walker eventually.
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Late night park walk with Ofpym, we have good talks and stupid jokes while Honey bops around sniffing things and sometimes running up trees. Consistently a great way to end the day.
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I had fun climbing on the big pile of snow with my five year old after meeting him off the school bus today.
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I've been trying to increase my kids' and my outdoor time, and fortunately the weather has been cooperative. We're all in a much better mood after spending some time outside, even if it's just letting the kids run around the backyard while I work on my computer on the deck.
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Used up a serving of rice that was sitting in the fridge, almost forgotten for too long, but consumed just in time!
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My bedroom rug arrived, and it's amazing what a difference a few soft furnishings make.
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Sat outside as a family to eat a delicious dinner, prepared by my daughter. It is a beautiful evening.
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I had a super productive day at work, and finished a report that was driving me crazy (mostly because it shouldn't have been mine to write - I got tasked with it after the project lead quit unexpectedly). It feels really good to have that off my plate.
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Gorgeous, gorgeous day here -- 65F/18C and sunny. I was outside almost the whole day -- went for a run, worked in the garden, and took the dog for a walk. Very happy.
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Somehow managed to get just the right number of things on my to-do list for the day, and easily checked then all off. But not so easily that I had guilt at not being productive enough. A magically balanced day!
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I went for a nice run outside this morning. 40F and sunny. Actually got too warm and took my hat, gloves, and hoodie off for a bit when the wind was to my back.
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I'm thrilled to see that some of the seeds I planted last week are starting to germinate. I love all my baby plants that will someday become food.
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We went out on a DATE last night! Into town! With other people!
It was a lovely throwback to the early days of our relationship and worth every penny.
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Brainstormed a possible next career for me with Room Mate, who knows me pretty well by now. It could be my Coast/Barista FIRE gig in a few years!
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Redecorated the bedroom. That was a lot of fun!
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Got my second covid vaccine today!!!
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Came up with a good solution to a dilemma that is beneficial to both parties. Just let my brain percolate on the issue overnight and had, if not the best or ideal solution, a workable answer. Thanks, brain! 🧠
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Came up with a good solution to a dilemma that is beneficial to both parties. Just let my brain percolate on the issue overnight and had, if not the best or ideal solution, a workable answer. Thanks, brain! 🧠
Ooooh, yeah, that is fun.
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I'm doing some mending today with my antique sewing machine that I bought on Craigslist. It's 65 years old, and it purrs like a kitten -- super well made. It makes me happy.
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I sat on the deck for an hour and a half and talked to my mom on the phone and listened to an audiobook while my kids played in the dirt. It was really nice - I love how content my kids are just playing with sticks and rocks.
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Woke up in my new home! 🏡
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Woke up in my new home! 🏡
Woot woot!
Today I got to be The Friend With a Car and it was fun. Even though the mission itself was Not Great, filing it all under Helping a Pal Out automatically makes it a good time.
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Worked on a mohair blanket while catching up on home decorating shows.
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Spoke on the phone with an old friend that I hadn't connected with in nearly a decade. During this pandemic, if I think of someone, I try to connect with them just to say "hi".So glad she picked up the call!!
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Today I finished a couple of projects, and I briefly had a clear table. This is magical in and of itself, but it also shows that I’m gradually getting somewhere with finishing all the projects cluttering up that room. The table is no longer empty, but it will be again soon.
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Yesterday was a beautiful , warm sunny day at least for where I live! and My HS son and I drove to the South Side of Chicago which is about 2.5 hours from where we live and drove through University of Chicago, De Paul, Loyola, Northwestern and then Carthage all along the lake back on our way home. Was good to see people out enjoying themselves, we had a good time and feels like spring might actually be around the corner!
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Woke up in my new home! 🏡
Woot woot!
Today I got to be The Friend With a Car and it was fun. Even though the mission itself was Not Great, filing it all under Helping a Pal Out automatically makes it a good time.
It's all about perspective! 😀
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Just got the info I've been waiting for! Today will go as planned, more or less.
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Just got back from an hour-long walk in gently-falling snow, listening to my favorite podcast. Now I’m back in my sunroom, snuggling under my heated throw, and my DH just placed a latte in my hand, made by him with love.
Bliss.
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We barbecued yesterday to celebrate the unseasonably warm weather and made extra to last all week. I also made 2 loaves of bread and went to Aldi to get salad veggies and fruit, so we will need to do very little cooking and pan-washing this week.
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@Morning Glory a filled meal pipeline make me happy too!
Today's happiness was Zoom knitting with friends. I've been so distracted with the move, that the last month or so I've hardly even stitched two rows in the two hours I meet with them weekly. Tonight with the move complete, I knitted up a storm. It felt good to have the capacity for relaxation increase!
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I tested negative for COVID today!
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After about six days of rain, we finally had a sunny day!
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I'm taking the week off work and so far it's been really nice. The weather is lovely, and my kids have reached the ages (4 and 6) where they're genuinely fun to hang out with most of the time.
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Yesterday I had a free period in online school so I walked down to the park. There was no one else there. I sat by the stream and dipped my feet in. I sat there for ages. It was really beautiful.
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I love the cozy glow of our new bedside lamps. Spent a cozy hour crocheting in bed and hanging out with DD and DH.
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A nice trail run with my daughter on a cool sunny morning.
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Saw two friends for a distanced ski date..cruising down a mountain together felt like a perfect little re-connection
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Boyfriend took out the recyclables. The can is already full. He found spaces between the things already in there and made everything fit. I didn't have to ask, I didn't have to do it myself, and it was done well. Woo!
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I made snickerdoodles today and they turned out super delicious.
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Left work on time today. :)
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I went for a long-ish run today to enjoy the fool's spring. After about the fourth mile I could feel my anxiety melting away.
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I went for a nice 4-mile hike today with my mom and kids. The kids were a bit draggy, but it was still fun and my legs are pleasantly sore.
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Boyfriend took out the recyclables. The can is already full. He found spaces between the things already in there and made everything fit. I didn't have to ask, I didn't have to do it myself, and it was done well. Woo!
This makes me so happy for you! Fives stars to TA!
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Yesterday I had a memory pop into my head. My father had been retired for 10 years when he passed away in 1989. We had to notify his previous employer so they could process the life insurance and the end of his pension payments.
On the paperwork we received back from them, there was a nice handwritten note from one of the HR workers who said she'd remembered my father fondly and was sorry to hear of his death.
It was a short 2 sentences but even now, 30+ years later, I still recall the kindness of a woman who was not known to us in the family but who took a few minutes of her day to send a personal note.
My point is that sometimes a simple gesture can bring long-lasting happiness for the recipients. So if you're ever wondering if actions this small have any impact, the answer from me is emphatically yes.
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I started my morning off by fixing an issue that's been low-level bugging me for a year and a half - I have a picture that was originally hung centered over my desk, but I moved the desk over to accommodate a cat tree, making the picture off-center. I finally re-hung it today, which felt satisfying.
It's the last day of my "stay-cation", which I plan to spend baking bread and helping my kids make a habitat for some tadpoles that we want to rescue (they're in a puddle that will very likely dry up before they can turn into frogs). Overall, it's been a really nice week.
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I was inspired by someone on this forum to make a llama stuffed toy. I’m bringing it to work and anytime anyone comes in with drama, I’m handing the llama to them like a talking stick and allowing them to tell me about the drama only while they’re holding the llama. If I don’t laugh at how ridiculous work folks are, I’m going to cry.
So I’m happy I get to crochet a llama this weekend.
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I listened to a young children's podcast including breathing exercises with my wonderful 2-year-old son while we cuddled together on the rocking chair in his room. *bliss*
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I came into the house to find my 17 yo daughter and 14 yo son making homemade pizza and singing. They're both really good singers, and when the two of them duet it's just beautiful. *heaven*
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Thanks @mspym ! It's wonderful!
Need to whittle down my possessions to fit a new space. Going through the towels today, it was easy to figure out what was excess.
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I'm making a llama and taking it to work. Whenever someone starts with the whining and the dramatics, I'm handing them the llama and saying, "Okay, you can talk as long as you're holding the drama llama." The thought of a grown person holding a stuffed llama while complaining about work makes me giggle.
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Yesterday's happiness was completing touch up paint and carpet cleaning at the place I'm moving out of, so my obligation there is totally complete!
Double happiness with the carpet cleaner: the machine was malfunctioning, and the store easily swapped for a functioning machine and also gave extra time at no charge.
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My husband is home from his week-long work trip! I really missed him.
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Was finally able to clear the last things out of my hatchback and put the back seats in the upright position and the cargo area cover back on. At least that small area of my life is tidy.
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DH fixed a problem our (usually reliable) old car was having, and it looks like we will pass inspection and be good for another year! Today I'm washing it and giving it a good vacuuming to celebrate. I'm super happy about this.
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I had a nice quiet walk with my dog earlier today in the unseasonably warm weather.
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Watching the cat try to get food out of his new puzzle ball
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A friend gifted us some chili. We are eating it for dinner.
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I reconnected and had a good conversation with a distant friend last night.
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It's pouring rain! While I don't particularly care for the rain, we're in danger of entering a drought, so any rain makes me happy. Plus, I'm glad it's raining during the week and not on the weekend.
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Took an extra day off of work and forgot, then surprised myself today when I realized I still have ANOTHER day off tomorrow :)
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Today we're having a sunny warm day (70+) for the first time this year and I'm going to use my new power trimmer to beat some aggressive/overgrown shrubs into submission. Power tools and yard work, yay!
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Still unseasonably warm here. I went running during the beginning of a storm. The wind and rain felt so good on my skin after being bundled up all winter, and I saw a double rainbow.
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There is absolutely nothing mandatory on my calendar today. I'm still in my bathrobe. I think I'll go do a jigsaw puzzle start to finish* and fold the last load of laundry I started last night. Nice to have all the laundry done. It's going to be a good day.
*Full disclosure: I bought a batch of 300 piece puzzles at a thrift store. I grab them for a friend whose wife has ALZ. She likes puzzles, but more than 300 pieces is too challenging, and she doesn't like baby-ish ones, so I was thrilled to find some good ones last week. Giving her puzzles with missing pieces can be problematic, so I test them first. I can typically finish them off in less than two hours. Out of the five I've tested this week, only one is missing a piece. I have one more to do, so I'd better get busy, lol.
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I took an extended lunch break today (I have to work on Saturday so no guilt) and drove around downtown streets and alleys taking photos for a photo club project. Then I grabbed some take out and sat and looked out over the river valley and ate. Best two hours I have spent in a while.
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We adopted a guinea pig today! One of our guinea pigs recently passed, and the other one has been lonely without her. My husband has been reluctant to get another one, but today he saw a cute guinea pig as the "pet of the week" on the local news and suggested we get her. My kids are in love with her already, and are extra excited to have a "famous guinea pig from TV" lol.
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On a walk today, saw blossoms and other signs of spring. Yay, sunshine!
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We adopted a guinea pig today! One of our guinea pigs recently passed, and the other one has been lonely without her. My husband has been reluctant to get another one, but today he saw a cute guinea pig as the "pet of the week" on the local news and suggested we get her. My kids are in love with her already, and are extra excited to have a "famous guinea pig from TV" lol.
Congrats @nessness! Guinea pigs are awesome.
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Had a relatively drama free day. One of my coworkers saw my llama and also wants one, so I’m working on one for her. Another coworker wants to come over to my place over the weekend to make her own llama. Apparently I’m starting a bit of a herd. Do llamas come in herds? Prides? Gaggles? Posse?
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Had a relatively drama free day. One of my coworkers saw my llama and also wants one, so I’m working on one for her. Another coworker wants to come over to my place over the weekend to make her own llama. Apparently I’m starting a bit of a herd. Do llamas come in herds? Prides? Gaggles? Posse?
I'm not sure, but Llama Pride has a nice ring to it, as does Llama Posse.
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Had a relatively drama free day. One of my coworkers saw my llama and also wants one, so I’m working on one for her. Another coworker wants to come over to my place over the weekend to make her own llama. Apparently I’m starting a bit of a herd. Do llamas come in herds? Prides? Gaggles? Posse?
I'm not sure, but Llama Pride has a nice ring to it, as does Llama Posse.
It's a herd, I was hoping for a fun collective noun. Thank you for getting me to look it up! I found more fun facts about llamas.
https://www.thoughtco.com/fun-facts-about-llamas-3880940
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Repainted a radiator in our sun room, and it looks so much better!
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Fortune cookie today.
"Don't pursue happiness - create it."
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Even though not totally unpacked yet, I finally feel "home" in the new place :)
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I'm not much of a birthday person, but DH is, and this year I manage to organize a fairly elaborate surprise day for him. That's really more the type of thing he does, not so much me, so he was very surprised and very happy.
He's such an even keeled fellow, it's quite something to actually get him all surprised and excited.
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I'm not much of a birthday person, but DH is, and this year I manage to organize a fairly elaborate surprise day for him. That's really more the type of thing he does, not so much me, so he was very surprised and very happy.
He's such an even keeled fellow, it's quite something to actually get him all surprised and excited.
Yeah I'm married to one of those. The lack-of-enthusiasm gets me annoyed and frustrated at times, but the benefit of being with someone so much more emotionally stable than me outweighs that minor personality trait by a ton.
My happy thing:
I spent the whole day with my 2.5 year old as DH worked on our second property. Normally I am not very mindful about it and count the hours until DH returns to relieve me (during COVID, personal time is at a premium). Today though I stayed in the zone and enjoyed every second I had with him.
He told me what I think was a really funny joke. He pointed to the outside of a tree and called it "woof" (instead of bark). I had to double check that he actually meant it as a humorous comment, because I didn't believe what I was hearing. Pretty advanced humor for a kid his age, I think!
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Had a really fun time working on llamas this weekend. Taught one colleague how to make a llama, and gave my extra llama to another colleague. Both said I made their day, which was really nice of them.
It's quiet at work today as many people are out sick, so I got a lot of work done and was able to clear up a good chunk of the stuff in my inbox.
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We had a new Mexican grocery store open nearby, and the fresh tortillas, papayas, Oaxacan cheese, and coconut candy made my weekend.
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Installed my deluxe showerhead, replacing the leaky, clogged one owned by the landlord. Better water pressure for a better shower. Heaven!
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My mom got her first Covid shot! Only about 6 weeks until we can safely socialize with her without masks/distancing.
Also I found a new healthy food that my kids like - grapefruit! I'm not sure how they made it to 6 and 4 without ever having tried fresh grapefruit - I used to buy it all the time but I guess I stopped. They both loved it and ate a whole grapefruit each. They eat a reasonably good selection of healthy foods already, but it's always good to expand the variety.
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I went for a long run today and saw a whole flock of migrating swans. Mood is much better!! Daylight savings allows more opportunities for running after work.
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I had fun this afternoon making cards with DD.
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Mother-in-law and SIL got their first Covid shots! Another six weeks til we can see them. They are older and disabled, and it's been more than a year since we've seen them. Not long now!
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Found out I need multiple surgeries, which will require over a year total of recovery and extensive rehab.
I'm profoundly grateful that I'm not working and don't have to factor in work or income into thinking about my care and recover.
Back in 2019 when I was told that I likely needed two very different surgeries, with 16 week recoveries, I could barely even think about the possible cancer itself, only how treating it would affect my job.
Now I don't have to think of my health in terms of how it affects my job, I can just focus on how it affects me.
Also, there's a chance that this surgery could actually improve my quality of life, which is unheard of in my world.
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Found out I need multiple surgeries, which will require over a year total of recovery and extensive rehab.
I'm profoundly grateful that I'm not working and don't have to factor in work or income into thinking about my care and recover.
Back in 2019 when I was told that I likely needed two very different surgeries, with 16 week recoveries, I could barely even think about the possible cancer itself, only how treating it would affect my job.
Now I don't have to think of my health in terms of how it affects my job, I can just focus on how it affects me.
Also, there's a chance that this surgery could actually improve my quality of life, which is unheard of in my world.
Wow, that’s putting a bright spin on it. Multiple surgeries does not sound like fun, but it’s good to hear there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
lol, oh no, there is no light at the end of the tunnel. This is likely the beginning of a series of future surgeries, each one removing progressively more of me until they have to start replacing parts. It's just very rare for me that a treatment may actually improve my quality of life. Usually treatments for me make my QOL worse, but are necessary, so I have to do them. It's very, VERY exciting to have the possibility of a surgery improving my pain and function, even if it may only be temporary.
And yes, I generally see the bright side of everything most of the time. I mean, yeah, surgeries suck, being sick and injured sucks, but that's my normal. We all have struggles we deal with within our range of normal. Mine tend to be more medical, others have different struggles. In some areas, my life is far more challenging than most, but in other, equally significant ways, it's actually far easier, so my net difficulties are no more than anyone else's, and now that I'm retired, are probably net lower than most people's, even accounting for a body that is determined to have it's wheels fall off.
I deal with a lot of pain, but I *don't* deal with most stresses that most people have to deal with. In many ways, my life is extremely easy.
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Whoa, I don’t know if I’m sorry.. or inspired. Your challenges make my nagging active youth acquired aches and pains seem pretty insignificant. Hope things go well and you get the relief you’re hoping for.
You can be both.
However, I don't believe in devaluing your suffering just because someone else is in more pain.
Pain sucks. I'm sorry you have aches and pains.
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For me, the single greatest benefit of retirement was not having to factor work into my life when bad things happened - I could help my interstate parents and friends as much as I wanted to, whenever I wanted, instead of being tied to work at a distant location. It still is really good.
I'm currently helping my parents negotiate my father's transfer into a nursing home. This would be almost impossible if I wasn't retired as it's so complicated, and it's happened rather suddenly. It's wonderful that I am. The 7.5 hour drive each way isn't fun, but I love where I live. At the moment (about dawn), all the lights (house lights and street lights) in the valley below me and the surrounding hills are twinkling. The view makes me happy every day.
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Yay @nessness and @Trifele for your families getting vaccinated! I didn't realize until your post that my folks are vaccinated and now I have my first shot as well, so seeing them in person might happen soon! Woot, bonus happiness!
Today's happiness was having the company CFO deliver a 35" monitor to my doorstep, so I can more comfortably work from home. Despite having to spend a few minutes of my own time setting it up, it should diminish workday eye strain.
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Today's happiness was defeating the (self-indulgent) depression I felt at finding out my enforced quarantine this summer will be total 4 weeks instead of 3-and-a-bit. Those extra few days tipped the balance from 50/50 travel to quarantine, to more like 40/60.
So I decided to stay inside my vacant flat in Athens for a week, one that's currently waiting for the gallery lessee to renovate. During that time I'll build relationships by chatting with my tenants below while getting sun on the balcony, and create art on the walls of the flat then painting over it, documenting the process.
[Going to Athens to curate a show I've organized, bringing over artists' works from Hong Kong. We're determined to still show work overseas and connect with people in virtual ways or even by appointment. Our careers still have to go on even through the pandemic. Luckily I've time off over the summer, a regular salary to afford Hong Kong's 3-week hotel quarantine, and won a grant that'll pay for the plane ticket.]
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DH got his first vaccine on Thursday and Bonus Kid got his today, both of which make me very happy.
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I just finished doing our taxes for 2020. I held off until now because of all the pandemic/tax upheaval. We are recent FIRE-ees and 2020 was our first year with no W-2 income. We owe the feds just over $300. :) It's silly because it was mostly dumb luck, but I'm happy about that -- in all these years that's the closest I ever got to zero.
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I just finished doing our taxes for 2020. I held off until now because of all the pandemic/tax upheaval. We are recent FIRE-ees and 2020 was our first year with no W-2 income. We owe the feds just over $300. :) It's silly because it was mostly dumb luck, but I'm happy about that -- in all these years that's the closest I ever got to zero.
I am happy that tax day got extended another month. I am swamped in work right now but will be a lot less busy in May.
I just got an amended 1099 from Sofi so I'm very thankful that I haven't filed yet.
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Ugh, taxes. But this is the happiness thread. Today BF treated me to a distanced outing to the outdoor venue of my choice, and lunch was crab cakes. Beautiful weather for it, too!
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Ugh, taxes. But this is the happiness thread. Today BF treated me to a distanced outing to the outdoor venue of my choice, and lunch was crab cakes. Beautiful weather for it, too!
Ooh, I love crab cakes. I made a vegetarian pasta bake that was pretty good (not vegan because there was cheese on top). Nobody complained about lack of meat anyway, and we all ate a lot.
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My kids went on a hike yesterday with a couple friends. First time they have seen them in three months due to the pandemic, and everyone was so happy.
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It was a sunny day today. DD got a new-to-her new bike that fits her perfectly as she had outgrown her old bike.
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My balcony is being refinished, and I am so happy.
Our apartment that we bought in 2019 is in a 50 year old building, and our balcony is showing a lot of wear and tear that I can't fix. It's a huge 25 ft balcony with an incredible view, so for half the year, it's the most used "room" of the house.
I just found out that starting this week, the entire thing will be refinished, and will basically look brand new. The building just refinished our indoor pool as well, so I feel so fortunate that all of these things are being refreshed so soon after we bought. We had just accepted these "worn in" things as a consequence of buying in an older building, so it's such a nice bonus to have them made basically brand new again.
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Our 17 y.o. landed her first 'real' job, entirely on her own. It's a great milestone!
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The kids are slowly returning to activities in our area. My son made the high school soccer team (he's never been to school yet) & it's been amazing to see his transformation. He's so excited, animated & happy, talking about teammates & the game. School won't start in person until 4/19, so it's been huge for him to have this time with other people. After a year of him being quiet & reserved at home, I'd forgotten about this side of him.
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Just got back from a fantastic mini trail run with our new puppy. So far she doesn't like to walk on a leash, but she took to trail running like a duck to water. I'm so looking forward to many happy years on the trail with her in the future.
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Our 17 y.o. landed her first 'real' job, entirely on her own. It's a great milestone!
Congrats! That must be a good feeling.
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G is building his portfolio to apply for uni and E just got his first part-time job. I am really impressed with how solid they are turning out to be.
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I had a nice walk by the river today. Felt more at peace than I have felt in months. Nothing really exciting to see, but the breeze was perfect.
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Unexpectedly was able to do part of a long-term art project with students today - missed them so much! Looking forward to them being back full-time in a couple of weeks.
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I had a lot of fun this evening doing a "math mystery" with my 6-year-old. She has really good logical reasoning skills, and it's fun seeing them in action.
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I had a lot of fun this evening doing a "math mystery" with my 6-year-old. She has really good logical reasoning skills, and it's fun seeing them in action.
That sounds so cute!
Unpacked a box today...the whole thing! And got a taker for empty boxes and packing material on Craigslist. And discussed with BF about how to go about arranging some of the rest of the stuff from boxes. Three developments which gives me hope that some day soon-ish we will be unpacked and settled in.
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So happy - got my 2nd covid shot on Friday and Mr. R. just got an appt for his first jab on April 2 - YAY, what a relief.
Garden Joys - last year my neighbor gave me five Amaryllis bulbs and all five made it and are looking fantastic.
Three huge red blooms on one plant are open now - stunning!
Better yet, two of them have a second stalk of blooms coming - a carefree, showy perennial we can enjoy for years to come.
I love it when a plan comes together. The garden changes/additions from last year are looking good.
Covid made me a better gardener. I learned a lot about permaculture, tropical fruit, so many great gardener youtube channels ...
I mean, who knew that this trippy gardener dude in Queensland Australia has the same climate as I do in Tampa Bay, Florida?
I have learned so much from him. The gardening thread on MMM led me to find tropical online plant sources and gave me an outlet to talk about my garden plans, failures and successes.
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I got a glorious hour and a half alone in my house today. That may not sound like much, but I've hardly been home alone at all the past several months.
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Finally made it to the laundromat to wash the comforter. Been trying for two weeks, almost. Yay to checking something off a list!!
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A mural proposal I've been struggling with for 6 weeks was accepted yesterday. A relief! Now we can plan out the post-Easter workflow.
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Had a client thank me for helping them. It's nice to be appreciated sometimes, especially when I've been made the scapegoat in a few other situations recently.
Also, my crocheted blanket is coming along nicely -- perfect for our spring weather!
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Overcame thoughts of "you are inadequate" and used a power drill to solve a sticky problem. A cabinet door that was hard to open now has an additional handle for better leverage.
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Dusted/vacuumed the bedroom yesterday (yay!) and am inspired to begin spring cleaning this upcoming week. always brings great happiness to deep clean when I have the energy, time and a good podcast!
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Made a conscious decision to let some of my day's tasks slide. Currently relaxing in the easy chair with a cat on my lap. Nice :)
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Just so happy this last week our like opened up, the weather you can tell spring is in the air and able to do things outside
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My chocolate chip cookies turned out beautifully. These are really the most excellent chocolate chip cookies I've ever made, and I've been making chocolate chip cookies for 30 years.
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Found 2 things I thought were lost!!! 8D
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Our "artist village" studio rent will continue to be subsidized by the government 75% til September, so my half will remain a ridiculously cheap US$70/month.
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I gave away 8 dozen eggs this weekend, so I no longer feel like my whole kitchen is being taken over by eggs.
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My walking partner and I have been doing urban walks since the trails are too crowded. Sometimes we walk through Target, especially on blustery days. Before Christmas, I bought mittens and knitted headband there. Last week, I thought I'd lost one of the mittens. We popped into Target on Friday's walk. To our amazement, they had one pair of the same mittens left and it was on clearance! It was a chilly morning, so I removed the tags and wore them for the rest of the walk. Edit: after paying for them, of course.
On Sunday, I found the "missing" glove.
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Yesterday it was the gloriously beautiful skies.
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My mom took my kids for the day today. Even though I had a busy workday, it was so nice to be alone in a quiet house. And I felt a lot more calm and patient with them when they got home, instead of worn out like I am a lot of evenings.
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I gave away 8 dozen eggs this weekend, so I no longer feel like my whole kitchen is being taken over by eggs.
what abundance!!
Today's happiness was compounded by a long sunny/icy walk with a friend who I haven't seen in many months. We had a nice long visit after a series of missed connections..
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Today's happiness is selling an item online! My first sale of this time moving; everything else has been given away.
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Managed to get out for a lunchtime walk and it was a really good one. Honey got to sniff All the Things and we didn't have to deal with any other dogs.
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Some great feedback from an internal client and work and a long weekend to look forward to. I'm hesitating on a big purchase, but it's a relief to know that the money is there if I decide this is a good way to spend it.
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Recently accepted a job offer. Today I got the full benefits paperwork, and it's actually a little disappointing. Just a little. But I learned that I'll be outside hourly and eligible for overtime! That's an unexpected perk!
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Our daughter was accepted to a great high school study abroad program for next year! Now fingers crossed that Covid doesn't derail it.
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I'm grateful for good friends and reasonable coworkers. I also received a thank you note today, which was very nice given all the drama that's been going on.
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Went for a walk with BF and held hands.
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Registered for my COVID vaccine!!!! (And SO too!!!) 8 more days!
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Congrats on the vaccine appt @SquashingDebt !
I've been organizing in an effort to utilize and appreciate the things I already own (..it is working)
Last night I coloured my hair with a (non-permanent) plant-based hair colour that I bought and never had used (!!)
Today: am wearing fancy earrings while at home and using a diffuser to spread the smell of cedar essential oil.
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It's been a stressful week at work, but I was a lot less busy today so I took my kids and dog for a walk on the trail by our house. We saw a bunch of bullfrog tadpoles in a stream, which was neat - I'd never seen such big tadpoles! I thought about catching some and taking them home to raise into frogs (we have some little tadpoles already), but apparently it can take 14 months, and there's no way I want to make that commitment. But anyway, it was a really nice walk, with perfect weather.
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@SquashingDebt yay vaccines!
@Serendip wow, you are lovely in a lovely environment. Sounds very tranquil.
@nessness nature for the win!
Yesterday looked at my net worth for the month. It's chugging along nicely.
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Had a trip to the zoo and a nice walk with my boys today.
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Read a book on the balcony -- it's sunny and warm, and the air quality is not terrible.
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Easter eggs are hidden, the house is quiet and I am enjoying a cup of coffee watching the sun rise. Grateful for my family.
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Fog clearing away,
coffee in bed,
a clean bedroom,
a book about imagination and generosity
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Giving the last boxes from the recent move away! Yay!
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Happy to have been able to get away with my Family on a Vacation for the first time in Quite awhile and in doing so pulled of a nice surprise for my Dads 80th Birthday and also a 50th Wedding Anniversary for him and his Wife.
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Picnic at the park today. Watched a kid kick a soccer ball into the middle of the stream. Dad tried to chuck rocks at it from the other side of the stream to push it back towards shore. That didn’t work. A couple holding a net with an extendable handle tried to net the ball and pull it to shore. The handle was a few inches too short. A man came along with his kid’s water gun. He aimed streams of water at the ball and shot the ball back to the other side where another man holding his kid’s frog/fish net scooped the ball out of the water and back onto shore. It was glorious watch everyone pitch in to save the soccer ball.
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We bought a new-to-us RV about five minutes before the pandemic started, so we have used it very little. We took it to Monterey and Carmel Weds.-Sat. The City of Monterey actually owns and operates an RV Park at the top of a hill in the middle of town. I last camped there over thirty years ago when I was riding my bike from SF to LA. Nothing's really changed, which was pretty delightful. We decided to park the rig once and walk everywhere. The weather was spectacular, and we greedily soaked up the sunshine, spring flowers and spectacular vistas.
As part of Friday's walking tour, we visited one of my old accounts. The owner is semi-retired and there's a new manager. When I introduced myself, she said, "Oh, you must be Dicey! I've heard so much about you!" I last called on them nearly a decade ago, so that was quite lovely and unexpected.
We left there and noticed a new-to-me restaurant supply store a couple of doors down. Turns out they buy out restaurants and had a treasure trove of cool used stuff in the back. I found a large wooden pizza peel that had some wear on it, but was in solid shape. We bought it for $5! We had been wracking our brains for Bonus Kid's Easter Birthday gift. I'm the pizza dough maker and he's the pizza baker, so we were thrilled with this find. We paid for it, and left it there for a later pick-up TBD. After we finished strolling through town and eating our picnic lunch, we swung back by the store and DH carried that huge pizza peel all the way up the long hill home.
On Saturday, we spent time in Carmel. There's a famous beach parking lot at the end of Ocean Avenue. DH despaired of us ever finding parking big enough for the RV, but I was optimistic. As we circled the lot, I noticed two parallel parking spaces that apparently everyone else had missed, because there was sand covering most of the markings. We parked our 25' rig with ease, for FREE! I had also spied a smaller parking space that was a bit obscure, and pointed it out to another driver, who was thrilled.
Later, we visited the former office manager of the place we dropped in on the day before. I knew he had dementia, and probably wouldn't remember me, but I wanted to visit him anyway. He lives in Carmel with his sister in a house they inherited from their parents. I had dinner with them in their home several times when I was working, so I figured she had assumed the caretaking role. I know from personal experience that nobody visits people with ALZ, and I knew I coukd offer her some been-there-done-that support. He didn't remember me, but we had a fantastic visit anyway. I'm so glad I followed my gut and made the visit. We spent a lovely two hours with them.
After that, we headed for home home. DH sanded the pizza peel and shortened the too-long-for-home-use handle. It turned out great! Then we flattened a large cardboard box, slipped the peel inside and wrapped it in wrapping paper that was at least ten years old. Bonus kid loved it.
So much happy!
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Catching up:
I am holed up in my nice quiet office today, getting some real work done while the bathroom floor at my house is in progress.
I colored my hair yesterday and it looks nice. The greys are hidden and it looks like I have some lighter brown highlights.
Saturday I had a good hike and trip to the zoo with my kids.
On Friday I wore my favorite sweater that looks really good on me.
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@soccerluvof4 what a wonderful vacation surprise!
Spent some quality time with BF at the very end of what was otherwise a cruddy day, that saved it.
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Today the neighbour is doing his monthly rearrange his work truck plus power-wash which makes me extremely thankful for my noise-cancelling headphones.
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At first I found myself annoyed that both of our teens had a club soccer game on Sunday. Then I reminded myself how much they missed soccer during COVID, and what an integral part sports have played during their childhood. I had a fantastic time at the game, and we came home and had an egg hunt, while DH & I drank champagne. An egg hunt for a 15 & 14 y.o. requires more advanced hiding skills. I'm so happy I embraced the day. I looked back on tiny egg hunter pictures of past, and enjoyed my two teens. I reminded myself that we only have a few years left with both of them in the house, and it made the day really enjoyable.
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My 6-year-old had her first tee ball game today! I wasn't able to go (due to Covid restrictions only one parent can watch, and it was my husband's turn tonight), but apparently she had the best hit of the game! And I got some good quality time in with my younger daughter while they were gone.
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Went out walking with BF and we found a new nice trail near a waterway. Urban oasis :)
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Really enjoying how my SO and I are getting along as we figure out how to navigate this ongoing year of being together ALL THE TIME.
We don't really have a social bubble...many of our friends have extended families so the two of us have stuck this out together and while we annoy each other occasionally, on the whole we are doing well..
Usually he travels for work, and I do enjoy my solo time. But we are trying to be considerate (and each do our own thing so that we both have the house to ourselves at different times)..hard when there is nowhere to go but outside but thankfully we both like walking/running/hiking so that helps.
Anyhow, I'm looking at him doing Sudoku and enjoying a hockey game and feeling thankful for our relationship.
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Ordered a bunch of delicious Italian groceries for friend's bday picnic this Saturday. Prosecco, truffle salami, walnut cheese, fresh bread, valerian leaf salad, mostly rare to find here. Makes me hungry just looking at the order!
Having video chat with an artist in Scotland tonight for mutual inspiration and eventual collaboration, will be a nice end to a day of overcast, pleasantly introverted weather.
Edit: got mandatory fortnightly COVID test for work, it's my last one as I'll be fully vaccinated by the next!
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Last year I was unsuccessful in growing tomatoes - the first ones I planted withered and died for no clear reason. I planted some more but someone left a gate open and the chickens got into the garden and dug them up.
I'm hesitant to jinx it, but the tomato plants I planted 9 days ago have tripled in size, and one already has a few flowers, so I'm looking forward to some good tomatoes this year!
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Bought a mini rose bush for the balcony.
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My first flowers of spring popped up yesterday!! They are tiny things. I look for them every year around this time. I feel like I have more energy than I've had for a while too.
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Maybe dumb, but I was able to stack two Starbuck promotions today for extra "stars" and I'm closer to my next free drink :)
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Went on a walk with my partner and enjoyed the warm spring weather. Also spotted the first open daffodils of the spring!
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Really happy that work has offered free weekly counselling sessions at a centre here, til the end of the year. Hope to find someone who's a good match. This will be a nice alternative to BetterHelp, more internationally focused with a better understanding of the tensions particular to this city.
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@expatartist I hope you find The One!
On a walk today, there is a rosebush I've been keeping an eye on and the first buds are starting to open. It's going to be overloaded with blooms soon!
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@oneday I love seeing changes in gardens on my walks. The spring bulbs have been very exciting recently :)
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My friend gave me a few candles that she didn’t want anymore. I added them to the candles I have on the balcony and lit them all. Hanging out on a balcony bathed in candlelight is quite comforting.
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Making progress on many projects which have been in the half-done/half-forgotten stage for years--what a lovely feeling to have the time and energy to do this.
Also, listening to podcasts while stitching/sewing is very calming :)
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Maybe it's cliché, but I'm just enjoying it being spring. The weather has been fantastic, you can almost see the trees leafing out, and there's plenty of daylight left after work.
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My sister just texted me to say that I'm her hero and that the life I've modeled has inspired her to make significant changes that have improved her well being and standard of living, especially in terms of health, frugality, and enjoying day to day life to its fullest.
Funnily, she was always the one who was far more frugal, healthy, and lived a life that was more peaceful and satisfying by embracing the simple things that matter most. I was all about success, working hard and playing hard, and building a life of "more". She was a huge model for me when I decided to make life changes.
So it's quite something that she's now looking up to me as the standard for the lifestyle that she largely inspired me to.
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Making progress on many projects which have been in the half-done/half-forgotten stage for years--what a lovely feeling to have the time and energy to do this.
Also, listening to podcasts while stitching/sewing is very calming :)
How wonderful. Completing things feels great! I have been listening to classical music while knitting and it is blissful.
@Malcat I understand how your sister feels because you are a bit of a heroine to me as well. So thoughtful and articulate, and walking the walk!
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Making progress on many projects which have been in the half-done/half-forgotten stage for years--what a lovely feeling to have the time and energy to do this.
Also, listening to podcasts while stitching/sewing is very calming :)
How wonderful. Completing things feels great! I have been listening to classical music while knitting and it is blissful.
@Malcat I understand how your sister feels because you are a bit of a heroine to me as well. So thoughtful and articulate, and walking the walk!
Thank you for the compliment.
I'm having a remarkably challenging few weeks, so these things are nice.
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Sitting here, sipping an adult beverage, with Mr. Kitty snoring in my lap. Ah, this is the life.
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I attended a 2-hour zoom meeting in my backyard and my kids played the whole time with no fussing, and only one interruption when one kid got a big scratch. I'm really grateful that the weather has been allowing for this.
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My sister just texted me to say that I'm her hero and that the life I've modeled has inspired her to make significant changes that have improved her well being and standard of living, especially in terms of health, frugality, and enjoying day to day life to its fullest.
Funnily, she was always the one who was far more frugal, healthy, and lived a life that was more peaceful and satisfying by embracing the simple things that matter most. I was all about success, working hard and playing hard, and building a life of "more". She was a huge model for me when I decided to make life changes.
So it's quite something that she's now looking up to me as the standard for the lifestyle that she largely inspired me to.
This one's so poignant! My sister and I were always frugally aligned despite huge differences in religious and politial beliefs. A vast chasm has developed between us in the last few years and I miss her so! Glad you and your sister are getting on well, @Malcat!
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My sister just texted me to say that I'm her hero and that the life I've modeled has inspired her to make significant changes that have improved her well being and standard of living, especially in terms of health, frugality, and enjoying day to day life to its fullest.
Funnily, she was always the one who was far more frugal, healthy, and lived a life that was more peaceful and satisfying by embracing the simple things that matter most. I was all about success, working hard and playing hard, and building a life of "more". She was a huge model for me when I decided to make life changes.
So it's quite something that she's now looking up to me as the standard for the lifestyle that she largely inspired me to.
This one's so poignant! My sister and I were always frugally aligned despite huge differences in religious and politial beliefs. A vast chasm has developed between us in the last few years and I miss her so! Glad you and your sister are getting on well, @Malcat!
I know about your sister from your journal. It sounds like a sad a be frustrating situation.
I get it though, I have a brother I was very close to who I haven't spoken to for over a decade. DH has one as well, but we both have a bunch of siblings, so we have spares to cover them.
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I have a Covid vaccine appointment! My appointment is about 2 weeks away, but ~8 weeks until maximum immunity is way better than an unknown amount of time to maximum immunity.
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There's a new season of Old People's Home for 4 Year Olds!
It's quite possibly the most adorable thing ever. (I'm not crying, you're crying...)
https://iview.abc.net.au/show/old-people-s-home-for-4-year-olds
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There's a new season of Old People's Home for 4 Year Olds!
It's quite possibly the most adorable thing ever. (I'm not crying, you're crying...)
https://iview.abc.net.au/show/old-people-s-home-for-4-year-olds
oh gosh--I need to figure out how to watch this in Canada..the link doesn't seem to load properly here. It looks SO good :)
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I saw what might be the biggest rose ever in someone's front garden today. And smelled the roses in my own garden.
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It is 3pm, school holidays, I am still in my pjs, lying on the couch, reading a good book, and my husband is going to prepare dinner.
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I am happy that I took the time to foam roll today. Feeling so much better now.
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I was able to take a shower and go for a short walk today!
This is a big deal right now.
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After experiencing chronic pain for around 7 years, I've gone the longest time without any--maybe 6 months. It feels like a miracle.
I even went for a gentle run today. I've only been able to walk/hike for years as runs would aggravate my back and hip. Now I'm not sure if I need to run but it felt wild to be ABLE to..painfree! Happiness galore.
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Sleeping in a few minutes with Mr. Kitty snuggled up and keeping my feet warm.
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@Malcat and @Serendip I am happy for you both! Pain -free is not to be taken for granted.
Swapped cotton percale sheets for cozy flannelette sheets last night. So pleased I can enjoy feeling warm and toasty in bed now I no longer get night sweats.
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We're in that magical week of the year when all the swallowtail butterflies emerge. Our cherry and apple trees are covered with them. They make me happy every time I see one.
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My kids requested salad for lunch so I let them choose the ingredients. They picked spinach, kale, carrots, blood oranges, corn, and a cranberry fig vinaigrette. I'm happy both about their healthy choices and about how delicious the salad turned out - it was really good.
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The roses on our balcony are starting to bloom.
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I got my first Covid vaccine today! I got Pfizer and feel fine so far.
Also we managed to score reservations to go camping in Yosemite over Labor Day weekend. They sold out in under a minute. I'm looking forward to it - I love Yosemite and haven't camped there since high school.
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Picked up a free ladies bike from a lovely woman through our local Good Karma FB page. My daughter has wanted one for ages so I have been keeping an eye out. Took the last 3 of my propagated indoor plants, including a beautiful sword fern as a thank you, and offered her a tour of my garden to take any cuttings she'd like (they just moved in and have no plants). I love the share/barter communities that are springing up in my area!
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@nessness Yosemite is a magical place. I'm excited that you scored a spot!
Today's happiness was roasting veggies, which I haven't done in forever, and they tasted delicious! Even though I burned some of them.
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I hung up a hammock underneath our back patio today--this was a first. It's a high patio...about 10/11 feet off the ground and it worked out perfectly for an hour of reading.
It's a bit of a bear zone *as in literally they stroll through this path to walk behind our townhouses* so I will only do it in the midday heat when they aren't moving but it was really delightful.
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@Serendip I can only imagine the damage to your calm that a bear strolling by could do!!
Yesterday's happiness was finally getting my craft project on the right track, after several false starts
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Yesterday, I was in the last 5 minutes of teaching my last student of the day (after 9 lessons) and ready to just wind down, when she asked me a tricky question. Since this aspect of the German language is a very difficult concept for English-speakers to understand, I have developed a unique method of explaining it. Within these 5 minutes, she was able to understand a concept that had been confusing her for 3 years. It was so nice to see the lightbulb moment!
Now let's just hope she'll remember it next week.
I love this! I teach chemistry and I'm always trying to think of ways to teach the tricky concepts. Sometimes I tell students about misconceptions that I had for YEARS and the techniques that I used to understand the idea. I'm teaching about things that no one has ever seen (like atoms and energy) and we use models, which are not perfect. Math is also a kind of model. It's hard and it takes time, but it is so nice to see the lightbulb moment.
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Went for a nice hike today with the family. The road to the trail we were planning to go to was washed out, and we didn't know the area and had limited cell service, so I just googled "[city] hiking trail" and picked the first search result. And it was a lovely trail - mostly shaded, which was great for the hot day, and with a lot of wildflowers.
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Lots of free food at work today. I attended a seminar that was held at a really good restaurant. No one wanted the extra food, so I asked for a few takeout containers, and now we have dinner and lunch for tomorrow.
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It's raining so I can't garden, all the household chores are done, so I can lie on the couch for a nana nap without feeling I *should* be doing something.
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Today's happiness was roasting veggies, which I haven't done in forever, and they tasted delicious! Even though I burned some of them.
I roasted veggies for the first time in a while the other day too, and I burned some but they still tasted amazing. My brain autopilot setting is to boil them, maybe because that's what I grew up doing???? They taste so much better roasted and it only takes an extra minute to toss them in some olive oil with spices and put them on a pan.
I enjoyed beautiful weather this weekend and spent lots of time outdoors, which felt amazing.
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I am loving the chill in the morning and being able to wear my cozy-as hoodie
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Reading about The Tree That Owns Itself made me happy today https://www.atlasobscura.com/places/tree-owns-itself
A beloved tree given property rights by its owner on his death, and a city that basically humored the guy. Somehow gave me extra faith in humanity.
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Today's happiness was roasting veggies, which I haven't done in forever, and they tasted delicious! Even though I burned some of them.
I roasted veggies for the first time in a while the other day too, and I burned some but they still tasted amazing. My brain autopilot setting is to boil them, maybe because that's what I grew up doing???? They taste so much better roasted and it only takes an extra minute to toss them in some olive oil with spices and put them on a pan.
I enjoyed beautiful weather this weekend and spent lots of time outdoors, which felt amazing.
Roasting is the best!
Used up the last of the bathroom soap, got to deploy my foaming dispenser! This is only remarkable because I just combined households and between us, we still have 3 extra soap dispensers!
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It is my 25th wedding anniversary today. Just had a delicious bbq lamb, citrus and chickpea couscous salad, bbq capsicum, homemade sourdough and champagne. Have prepared a sticky date pudding with cream and ice cream for dessert. Feel very fortunate to have a wonderful husband and 2 lovely children (possibly am a little tipsy too).
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It is my 25th wedding anniversary today. Just had a delicious bbq lamb, citrus and chickpea couscous salad, bbq capsicum, homemade sourdough and champagne. Have prepared a sticky date pudding with cream and ice cream for dessert. Feel very fortunate to have a wonderful husband and 2 lovely children (possibly am a little tipsy too).
Congratulations on your (delicious) anniversary.
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I love reading everyone's updates :)
happy anniversary @lazycow !
I have the house to myself this morning (this doesn't happen anymore as my SO has worked from home this past year but he had an appointment this morning)
It's a quiet, sunny day and I'm enjoying the mellowness of being on my own program.
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Happy anniversary @lazycow!
Homeschooling my 6-year-old has been really challenging lately, but this morning she is holding "math class" and trying to teach her 4-year-old sister to tell time (a skill she is still learning herself) and it is the cutest thing ever.
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I applied to be part of the ADNI study years ago. So long ago, I thought they'd forgotten about me. I finally got a call and I've been going through the screening process. Today is my first in-person interview and the beginning of a long series of tests. I'm nervous and a little excited, but if doing this helps anyone, anywhere escape Alzheimer's, I'll be ecstatically happy.
Alzheimer's Disease Neuroimaging Initiative
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alzheimer's_Disease_Neuroimaging_Initiative
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congrats @lazycow that is quite an accomplishment (both the menu and the family, lol)
@Serendip having the house to oneself is glorious, glad you are enjoying that :)
@nessness d'awww
@Dicey so awesome!
Today on streaming, I heard a cover tune by one of my favorite guitarists of one of my favorite tunes from another well-loved band, and it was fabulous!
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I love the time of year when I can comfortably sleep with the windows open. A flock of wild turkeys has been roosting in the trees behind my house lately and I love hearing their "gobbling" sound.
I'm also feeling really relieved about the Chauvin verdict.
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It’s been warmer and sunnier this past week. I’ve enjoyed spending time outside. The cherry blossoms are blooming.
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Our entire yard is lit up with spring, and we have vegetables growing in our raised beds. A few from seeds! I am not even remotely good at this type of thing, so I'm inordinately pleased with myself.
Also, a good run this morning, without needing gloves or a jacket, but not yet being too hot. Spring is perfect for running.
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An IRL friend sold her house today, and it's such great news because she's going through a tough time in her personal life. It made me happy that she had this "win".
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Tried going for a hike with a friend today and we had to crawl/walk/laugh/fall through snow at points but most of the trail was clear and lovely.
Also received my tax info back from the bookkeeper and I owe less than I anticipated..unbelievable!
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I love the time of year when I can comfortably sleep with the windows open. A flock of wild turkeys has been roosting in the trees behind my house lately and I love hearing their "gobbling" sound.
I'm also feeling really relieved about the Chauvin verdict.
Oh god me too. A relief for sure.
I am happy because this is finally starting to sink in:
https://www.theschooloflife.com/thebookoflife/overcoming-the-need-to-be-exceptional/
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Wow, @Morning Glory - thanks for sharing. That was a thought provoking read.
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Yesterday I sat for three hours with my father as he drifted in and out of consciousness. He was holding my hand firm while we were both glancing at a digital photo frame of pictures of his life. The good times washed over me, and the bad times washed away. I am really happy that we had this really special time together while he’s still alive, and can actually recognise me.
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Hugs to you @deborah , that sounds both difficult and lovely.
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I started a new role at work a few weeks ago and have been struggling with it, but I got a nice compliment from a co-worker that made me feel like maybe I'm doing better than I thought.
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My pension rollover credited to my IRA account today so now I can graduate to the next net worth thread, and I no longer have to worry about it getting lost.
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I sat outside today while DD played with some of the neighborhood kids. Growing up, I never had friends who lived walking distance from where I lived. I’m glad DD has several friends in the neighborhood.
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I had an old coworker contact me yesterday about getting together for a hike. We made arrangements for next week!!! Previously I would have said "yeah that sounds great, let's do it sometime". Now I have learned to suggest a specific date and time, which works so much better.
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@deborah --so glad for you that you were able to share that special time with your father. I can't imagine how meaningful those moments must have been for both of you and sounds like it brought some peaceful resolutions..that's all we can wish for. Sending care.
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Today was a mixed bag of a day--but I am happy to have a partner who is cooking me dinner and he's also planned a zoom night with friends for my birthday in two days. It's not something I would think of, but he did it last year too and we actually had a lovely time.
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I love the time of year when I can comfortably sleep with the windows open. A flock of wild turkeys has been roosting in the trees behind my house lately and I love hearing their "gobbling" sound.
I'm also feeling really relieved about the Chauvin verdict.
Oh god me too. A relief for sure.
I am happy because this is finally starting to sink in:
https://www.theschooloflife.com/thebookoflife/overcoming-the-need-to-be-exceptional/
What an excellent article! My happiness today is that I had the opportunity to read this.
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I love the time of year when I can comfortably sleep with the windows open. A flock of wild turkeys has been roosting in the trees behind my house lately and I love hearing their "gobbling" sound.
I'm also feeling really relieved about the Chauvin verdict.
Oh god me too. A relief for sure.
I am happy because this is finally starting to sink in:
https://www.theschooloflife.com/thebookoflife/overcoming-the-need-to-be-exceptional/
What an excellent article! My happiness today is that I had the opportunity to read this.
I was reminded of that article when I got a B on a quiz in my grad class that I shouldn't have taken. I was not in the least bit upset. I am happy because the class is almost over.
Today's happiness is a bunch of fresh green onions that my son picked.
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@deborah I am so pleased you had that time with your dad.
Today's happiness was just realising that I am happy today. No reason, just feeling really happy with my life right now.
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I have zero green thumb, but I managed to grow spinach from seeds, and they are huge & beautiful & ready to be picked for salads. Hurrah!!!
Also, despite 15 year olds being occasionally (ha) very snarky, sometimes we have the most delightful conversations.
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Loved that article recommendation, I bought their book School of Life: An Emotional Education and it is quite wonderful as well. I've found it's good to lend out to friends who are struggling and who request an easy to digest resource.
I've been reading "Possum Living: How to Live Well With a Job and (Almost) No Money by Dolly Freed (written when she was 18yrs old) and while it's a big of a classic in frugal living, it is also NOT how I want to live (angry-ish and eating turtle soup!)
..but I found this follow-up article and I'm happy that Dolly created a life which she enjoys and has great people in her life, isn't that all we can wish for :)
https://abrahamson.medill.northwestern.edu/WWW/IALJS/Williams_FindingDollyFreed_PossumLiving_6Jan2010.pdf
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My brother is visiting! I haven't seen him for a year and a half due to neither of us wanting to fly during Covid, but he is fully vaxxed now so flew out for a visit.
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@deborah that sounds like a deeply meaningful moment and a memory to treasure.
My happiness this morning is that I had a dad worth missing.
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@Serendip thanks for the Dolly article! She is such a fascinating person. I have been hunting for her book for years.
@deborah that is truly beautiful. So glad you got to experience that time with your dad.
Today is overcast and cool. I have nowhere to be, so am still in pjs, having my third cup of tea and doing a jigsaw puzzle in front of the heater.
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Loved that article recommendation, I bought their book School of Life: An Emotional Education and it is quite wonderful as well. I've found it's good to lend out to friends who are struggling and who request an easy to digest resource.
I've been reading "Possum Living: How to Live Well With a Job and (Almost) No Money by Dolly Freed (written when she was 18yrs old) and while it's a big of a classic in frugal living, it is also NOT how I want to live (angry-ish and eating turtle soup!)
..but I found this follow-up article and I'm happy that Dolly created a life which she enjoys and has great people in her life, isn't that all we can wish for :)
https://abrahamson.medill.northwestern.edu/WWW/IALJS/Williams_FindingDollyFreed_PossumLiving_6Jan2010.pdf
I love this. Need to add the book to my list!!
ETA I caught the double meaning of "possum" after I posted
Today's happiness was seeing golden eagles soaring over the valley.
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Loved that article recommendation, I bought their book School of Life: An Emotional Education and it is quite wonderful as well. I've found it's good to lend out to friends who are struggling and who request an easy to digest resource.
I've been reading "Possum Living: How to Live Well With a Job and (Almost) No Money by Dolly Freed (written when she was 18yrs old) and while it's a big of a classic in frugal living, it is also NOT how I want to live (angry-ish and eating turtle soup!)
..but I found this follow-up article and I'm happy that Dolly created a life which she enjoys and has great people in her life, isn't that all we can wish for :)
https://abrahamson.medill.northwestern.edu/WWW/IALJS/Williams_FindingDollyFreed_PossumLiving_6Jan2010.pdf
I'm experiencing a bout of insomnia and this article was a delightful distraction. Thank you!
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Glad you enjoyed the article @Dicey @Morning Glory @lazycow
I was inspired to track it down while reading the book and wondered if there was any updates on where life had taken her (I bought an e-version of Possum Living on Google books since I've never been able to find a copy)
Currently I am so happy with my little studio room. We live in a townhouse and the top floor has a small room that is my designated art/creative space. I am cleaning it up, doing a deep organize and am loving spending time up here.
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Last night, dancing in the kitchen with my husband while our dog just stared in disbelief at the silly humans
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The feel of the cool breeze right before a storm.
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Gloriously sunny autumn day's beach walk with daughter and dog. I wouldn't live anywhere else!
@mspym that's adorable. @Serendip I am sitting in my upstairs studio as I type this. Hurrah to A Room of One's Own.
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We just hung up our first-ever hammock, in a shady part of our yard. Wow — so comfy and delightful. :)
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Yes, a room of one's own is a true luxury! @lazycow
Yesterday was a rainy day -- I spent the entire day lounging & reading (and felt no pressure to do anything else).
A super cozy day.
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I want a room of my very own, it's in the future plan but not here yet.
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Went for a chilly polar swim today--just a minute or two in the water but what a difference it makes!
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A nice long hike today with kids and dog, with lots of golden eagle sightings, followed by a pretty drive along the river.
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Read a really interesting book today.
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My second attempt at making a new dessert turned out really well.
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My second attempt at making a new dessert turned out really well.
My addled Monday brain read this as "a new desert." It was an odd mental picture.
What did you make?
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I like the members of my orthopedic surgery team that I've met so far, and they have a lot of experience with my specific condition.
New doctors is always a pressure point for me, because I have a condition that few doctors are familiar with and those who are are usually misinformed. And in Canada, you can't shop around for specialists. You get who you get. The system won't pay for second opinions, and the system is the only payer, so I can't even pay out of pocket.
Anyhoo, it's a HUGE relief that they readily understood my condition and knew exactly why I refused one of the tests the first fellow recommended. He went back and spoke to the big boss, who is one of the top world experts on my injuries, and the big Kahuna totally agreed with me, and it was a productive learning experience for the fellow.
This NEVER happens.
Normally when I meet a new doctor it's an enormously stressful process of me desperately trying to protect myself from them doing something that's dangerous. Hoping that they'll actually be able to do something to help me is usually a fantasy that I don't bother engaging in.
This team may or may not be able to help me, and there's a solid chance that they make me worse, but the amazing thing is that they actually KNOW that's a distinct possibility, and that for me is pure luxury.
I LOVE just being able to just trust experts to do their jobs properly.
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My second attempt at making a new dessert turned out really well.
My addled Monday brain read this as "a new desert." It was an odd mental picture.
What did you make?
It’s a Chinese dessert called snowflake pastry. It’s like Rice Krispie squares, except instead of Rice Krispies, you use butter biscuits/crackers, and you can add dried fruit like freeze dried strawberries or dried cranberries.
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@Malcat ---that truly sounds like something to be happy about. Glad your meeting with the team went well!
@Freedomin5 --might have to try those, i just looked up a recipe. Looks like it could be a good hiking treat
Had a long walk with a friend today she's one of the only people I've been walking with and happens to be a great cook (and fed me a fantastic pasta salad afterwards!).
Just a nice connection
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Apple trees started blossoming and I got some asparagus from the garden. We accepted an offer on our house today but we get to be here for my favorite time of year.
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@Malcat ---that truly sounds like something to be happy about. Glad your meeting with the team went well!
It is!
Every time I see a doctor DH comments "I don't know how anyone with complex health illness who isn't a doctor themselves gets decent medical care" and I always reply "a lot of them don't"
I am really happy. It's such a huge relief to not have to anticipate fighting.
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Oh, wow, @Malcat that just kinda made my day, too!
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My second attempt at making a new dessert turned out really well.
My addled Monday brain read this as "a new desert." It was an odd mental picture.
What did you make?
It’s a Chinese dessert called snowflake pastry. It’s like Rice Krispie squares, except instead of Rice Krispies, you use butter biscuits/crackers, and you can add dried fruit like freeze dried strawberries or dried cranberries.
If it's what I'm seeing when I do an internet search, it looks pretty good. Is it hard to make?
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It’s very easy to make.
Melt 50g of butter in a large nonstick pan.
Add 200g of marshmallows to the pan and melt the marshmallows.
Add 50g of dried milk powder and mix well.
Turn off the stove.
Add 220g of small biscuits. I use a specific type called 小奇福, but any type of sweet, buttery cracker/biscuit should work, like Maria milk biscuits.
Add in 40g dried fruit.
You can also add peanuts, almonds, pumpkin seeds, cashews, and other nuts/seeds, per your preference.
Sprinkle a large pan with milk powder. (I also line with parchment paper before sprinkling so it doesn’t stick to the pan.)
Flatten the snowflake pastry onto the pan to approx. 1-inch thickness. You can use a rolling pin but I just use my hands to press the marshmallow combo into the pan. Sprinkle generously with milk powder. Wait for it to cool. Cut into 1-inch pieces.
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Yesterday's happiness was freshly vacuumed rugs.
Today's is seeing the picture of the beautiful and delicious looking snowflake pastry, thanks @Freedomin5
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We forgot our baby plants seedlings outside last night and my SO remembered/brought them in at 3:30am. Thankfully they all look fine after their cool weather exposure :)
phew!
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@Freedomin5 those snowflake pastries look delicious!!! And what a wonderful partner you have @Serendip
We just found out that a friend of ours whom we haven't seen in a while will be visiting family next month near where my mom lives, so we are now planning a trip to be there at the same time. She has a two-year-old daughter whom I haven't even met yet.
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Had fun sharing the pastries with coworkers and was relieved that people liked them. Chinese desserts tend to be hit or miss with the expat crowd.
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My other recent happy event is learning that DD (age 7) solved her own problem. DD is a bit of a scatterbrain and has had difficulty remembering which days her after school activities (ASAs) are on. On ASA days, she is supposed to go to the gym at school to wait for her ASA teacher. She’s gotten flustered and upset a few times for going into the pick-up line instead of the ASA line, and then gotten upset at me for not reminding her that it was an ASA day.
Last night, I noticed that she had written “asa” beside the Tuesday and Thursday heading in her homework book. When I asked her, she said she came up with that idea by herself to help her remember when she had an ASA. I’m very happy that she’s taking the initiative to solve the problem instead of blaming others.
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I am so happy that I had to cut the grass for the first time yesterday. Last fall with putting a new patio in behind the house, new walk way in front of the house and another area of concrete for 2 more cars in doing all that I just decided with the new pitches and stuff to bring in truck loads of topsoil and re-seed entire yard since the grass wasnt the best anyhow. Then this spring I started watering about 5 weeks ago, adding seed and fertilizer and yesterday i had to cut it and other than some patch areas which is still better than original I have a nice lawn cutting in and also did a lot of planting. Having to move sprinklers around everyday because of a dry spring gets old! So happy I can see the light!
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There is a new thread where people are commenting how pessimistic the forum has become over the years. They need to come on over here!
Today's happiness is twofold: 1) organised a meetup with my favourite MMM journaler for July; and 2) went for a beach run and quick dip as it was a gloriously sunny autumnal day. Life is good, even when it is bad.
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We have a pair of hummingbirds that have taken up residence in our yard, and they arrive daily (or hourly!) to drink from our feeders. We also have a box turtle who I'm pretty sure is a repeat guest from last year. So happy to have the critters around!
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My other recent happy event is learning that DD (age 7) solved her own problem. DD is a bit of a scatterbrain and has had difficulty remembering which days her after school activities (ASAs) are on. On ASA days, she is supposed to go to the gym at school to wait for her ASA teacher. She’s gotten flustered and upset a few times for going into the pick-up line instead of the ASA line, and then gotten upset at me for not reminding her that it was an ASA day.
Last night, I noticed that she had written “asa” beside the Tuesday and Thursday heading in her homework book. When I asked her, she said she came up with that idea by herself to help her remember when she had an ASA. I’m very happy that she’s taking the initiative to solve the problem instead of blaming others.
Wow, that's impressive! I love when my daughter (5) figures out her own solutions.
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Bought hiking boots yesterday (mine have been needing replacing, they are 14 years old!) and a motto on the box said "no place too far". Somehow this made me very happy.
It was a moment of appreciation for the act of walking and how all sorts of people in all sorts of places in all types of shoes (boots, sandals, gumboots, bare feet, etc) engage daily in moving these precious body-ships around via simple self-propelled locomotion.
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There is a new thread where people are commenting how pessimistic the forum has become over the years. They need to come on over here!
Today's happiness is twofold: 1) organised a meetup with my favourite MMM journaler for July; and 2) went for a beach run and quick dip as it was a gloriously sunny autumnal day. Life is good, even when it is bad.
Pessimistic about the markets.
They might come here and talk about the pretty bird they saw, and then go into another thread and say that everyone needs to buckle up and OMY because inflation is going ruin everyone's plans.
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There is a new thread where people are commenting how pessimistic the forum has become over the years. They need to come on over here!
Today's happiness is twofold: 1) organised a meetup with my favourite MMM journaler for July; and 2) went for a beach run and quick dip as it was a gloriously sunny autumnal day. Life is good, even when it is bad.
Pessimistic about the markets.
They might come here and talk about the pretty bird they saw, and then go into another thread and say that everyone needs to buckle up and OMY because inflation is going ruin everyone's plans.
I thought I saw some golden eagles yesterday but I overheard a man pointing them out to his companion and saying that they were buzzards. My vision is corrected to nearly 20/20 and I had my glasses on, so I doubt that he could see better than me. They were really too far away to tell which one they were. So maybe I saw pretty birds, maybe I didn't. The ugly birds are necessary too. I had a nice hike either way.
I don't read those threads because I'm at a point where I don't really care what the markets do. I don't see how OMY-ing now would be more beneficial than just waiting to see if something happens and going back to work if needed at the time.
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I got my second Covid vaccine yesterday, and feel totally fine except for a sore arm. I'm super grateful to have it out of the way.
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I had a lovely time of snuggling and playing with my five year old on the couch. And I actually felt happy!
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Tried it a new recipe and while the fish doesn't have quite the right texture or flavor, I'm not hungry. The recipe is a keeper overall, too. Easy, healthy, enough for a bit of leftovers but not too much. And I feel like a grown up, cooking fish. Yay!
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Tried it a new recipe and while the fish doesn't have quite the right texture or flavor, I'm not hungry. The recipe is a keeper overall, too. Easy, healthy, enough for a bit of leftovers but not too much. And I feel like a grown up, cooking fish. Yay!
Fish is difficult. The only luck I have is breading and pan frying the fillets. I tend to overcook if I bake them.
I had a nice visit with my friend and her horses and cats yesterday evening. We sat on the deck in the sunshine and had a glass of wine (just a little one), and one of the cats sat in my lap and purred. So relaxing!!
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Lovely clients at work today. It makes such a difference when people are pleasant to deal with :)
Plus, we had a big rainstorm last night, then the sun came out then the rain fell again (hard!), a bit of hail, now the sun in shining & setting into a beautiful evening..
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I had a truly splendid day with friends, art, delicious food, sitting in the sunshine and people watching and it was just so bloody nice to be out of the house and in the world.
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Some friends have invited us over to have a picnic in their yard this afternoon. I'm really happy just looking forward to it.
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Another glorious autumn day. Went for a 90 minute walk near paddocks filled with beautiful jersey cows. The sun was shining, the grass was vivid green and I didn't see another soul. My idea of heaven.
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There’s a paved running/bike trail near the river canal. We found out today that it’s been extended. Can’t wait to explore it and see where it leads.
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Tried it a new recipe and while the fish doesn't have quite the right texture or flavor, I'm not hungry. The recipe is a keeper overall, too. Easy, healthy, enough for a bit of leftovers but not too much. And I feel like a grown up, cooking fish. Yay!
Fish is difficult. The only luck I have is breading and pan frying the fillets. I tend to overcook if I bake them.
I had a nice visit with my friend and her horses and cats yesterday evening. We sat on the deck in the sunshine and had a glass of wine (just a little one), and one of the cats sat in my lap and purred. So relaxing!!
Next time I am going to try fresh instead of frozen fish. That might solve the texture issue.
Today's happiness was partly the hike with one of my favorite people, but the coup de grâce was a cousin texted with the news they'd been vaccinated. I've been sending them links to pop up clinics and other opportunities for weeks. Yay! All the adults in my local family have been done! I smell meet-up potential!
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Got together for a cookout last night with some fully vaccinated friends -- first time since the pandemic started. Wow was that fun.
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I'm currently sitting at my parents' kitchen table with my partner, watching the birds, squirrels, and chipmunks while sipping tea. This is my first visit with my parents since Christmas 2019 (yay vaccinations!) and the first time they're meeting my partner (which is going well!). So much happiness this weekend :)
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Tried it a new recipe and while the fish doesn't have quite the right texture or flavor, I'm not hungry. The recipe is a keeper overall, too. Easy, healthy, enough for a bit of leftovers but not too much. And I feel like a grown up, cooking fish. Yay!
Fish is difficult. The only luck I have is breading and pan frying the fillets. I tend to overcook if I bake them.
I had a nice visit with my friend and her horses and cats yesterday evening. We sat on the deck in the sunshine and had a glass of wine (just a little one), and one of the cats sat in my lap and purred. So relaxing!!
Next time I am going to try fresh instead of frozen fish. That might solve the texture issue.
Today's happiness was partly the hike with one of my favorite people, but the coup de grâce was a cousin texted with the news they'd been vaccinated. I've been sending them links to pop up clinics and other opportunities for weeks. Yay! All the adults in my local family have been done! I smell meet-up potential!
You're not cooking them from frozen, are you?
I used to cook thawed from frozen fish all the time and never had any issues compared to fresh. I particularly like to broil fish, it makes a crispy top, but doesn't over cooked in the middle. Takes about 8-12 minutes depending on the filet. Much faster than baking and less chance of awful over-baked fish texture.
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I got my chores done early in the week, and treated myself to an indulgent day yesterday. I sat by the pool & read for the majority of it. The kids had no games/activities, and I mostly just chilled. I did a bit of gardening, & my husband made margaritas. It was glorious.
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Yesterday was beautiful. We opened all the windows to let the sun and breeze in. My partner and I made a nice but simple breakfast of egg, bacon, avocado, strawberries, and blackberries. I took the dog on a leisurely walk. Then I went and bought some potting soil for my container garden.
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Tried it a new recipe and while the fish doesn't have quite the right texture or flavor, I'm not hungry. The recipe is a keeper overall, too. Easy, healthy, enough for a bit of leftovers but not too much. And I feel like a grown up, cooking fish. Yay!
Fish is difficult. The only luck I have is breading and pan frying the fillets. I tend to overcook if I bake them.
I had a nice visit with my friend and her horses and cats yesterday evening. We sat on the deck in the sunshine and had a glass of wine (just a little one), and one of the cats sat in my lap and purred. So relaxing!!
Next time I am going to try fresh instead of frozen fish. That might solve the texture issue.
Today's happiness was partly the hike with one of my favorite people, but the coup de grâce was a cousin texted with the news they'd been vaccinated. I've been sending them links to pop up clinics and other opportunities for weeks. Yay! All the adults in my local family have been done! I smell meet-up potential!
You're not cooking them from frozen, are you?
I used to cook thawed from frozen fish all the time and never had any issues compared to fresh. I particularly like to broil fish, it makes a crispy top, but doesn't over cooked in the middle. Takes about 8-12 minutes depending on the filet. Much faster than baking and less chance of awful over-baked fish texture.
No, I did thaw the fillets before cooking. That in itself was a whole saga. It was enough cooking adventures for me this week and I'll just try again later. Will look for a broiler recipe, too. Thanks.
@MaybeBabyMustache and @InvincibleChutzpah both those situations sound blissful. Happy for you!
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My baby tomatillo and basil seedlings were not so growing so well due to the lack of consistent sunlight so a friend with gro-lights took them home to give them a boost of light. So kind.
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I went for a walk to pick up something from my in-laws...completely alone! It was wonderful. It helps that it was next to a lake and through a woods/swamp and the lilacs are blooming, but I get so little alone time that this was super refreshing.
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Happiness is my daily morning run in the month of May, the best running month in the entire year. The mornings are fresh and feel deliciously air conditioned and smell like lilacs. I run by the water and see the birds flying overhead carrying fish underneath them flashing silver. And I count the rabbits.
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Had a soft serve durian ice cream after a massage (from a package deal purchased years ago) and it was divine. Doubly so when putting a mask on afterwards. Durian's not for everyone, but for those of us who like it.....mmm!
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Happiness is my daily morning run in the month of May, the best running month in the entire year. The mornings are fresh and feel deliciously air conditioned and smell like lilacs. I run by the water and see the birds flying overhead carrying fish underneath them flashing silver. And I count the rabbits.
Mine was my run today too, although it was on a gorgeous sunny afternoon.
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Happy to have cooked up all the veggies in my fridge so they won't go bad. But also happy that BF cooked latkes for me! They tasted great and were no work on my part :)
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Today's happiness was a sweet blast of aircon into the hallway, somewhere around the 6th floor of my 9/F walkup. Made the final few floors a lot easier to climb. Also, a fat mango awaiting at the top.
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I am glad that after years of resistance I have become okay with watching hockey.
My SO is a fan, I've always actively avoided it. While I still don't LOVE the game, it's become a pleasant experience to join on occasion--he gets so excited and loves to break down the plays. I watch (and maybe read a book) and am glad I overcame my snobbishness towards it.
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I am glad that after years of resistance I have become okay with watching hockey.
My SO is a fan, I've always actively avoided it. While I still don't LOVE the game, it's become a pleasant experience to join on occasion--he gets so excited and loves to break down the plays. I watch (and maybe read a book) and am glad I overcame my snobbishness towards it.
I still twitch when made to watch hockey games. For me it's not snobbishness, I live in the land of hockey worship, and I catch a lot of flack for disliking hockey, but I simply cannot enjoy it.
I can enjoy football live or on TV, I can enjoy basketball live, but I cannot enjoy hockey under any circumstances. I just hate it so much.
I'm so happy to have an SO who also dislikes hockey. I thought he liked it, so I kept accepting VIP rink-side tickets back when I was working, but after a half dozen games, he finally said "do you mind taking someone else? I don't really like hockey". I laughed my ass off. I was suffering for him because I thought he would enjoy the work perk, and he was suffering for me because he thought I couldn't politely turn down the tickets.
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I still twitch when made to watch hockey games. For me it's not snobbishness, I live in the land of hockey worship, and I catch a lot of flack for disliking hockey, but I simply cannot enjoy it.
fair enough @Malcat --I would be content NOT having hockey in my life but since it is there, I am just happy that it doesn't cause me to twitch (as much) anymore!
I associated hockey with my hometown and would pointedly leave the room to read or use my brain with other pursuits.. :) (I still prefer many things over sports-talk but maybe the point is that I'm loosening my judgement against my SO for this particular passion..I was initially disappointed that he was a fan now I get a good amount of joy watching him be fully engaged in watching a sport even if I often don't join in myself)
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Today I think I figured out what is up with my wonky sleep schedule. And I think I can fix it rather easily. Win!
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Today I think I figured out what is up with my wonky sleep schedule. And I think I can fix it rather easily. Win!
Yay!
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My company provides housing, and today, I'm glad I live in my (less popular) complex rather than the other, bigger, more expensive, complex. After a long week at work, I really don't want to bump into any of my coworkers. I'm also very glad that I live in our current apartment -- so much more comfortable than our old place.
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I'm watching a pair of barn swallows rehab an old nest on my porch. I wonder if they are descendants of the original nest builders?
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Having some early season garden success.
We are trying a new system to help protect the seedlings from cold/frost and it is looking so good!
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Got my 10,000 steps today!
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I found proper cotton tights! Not 'cotton rich', but actual cotton. With a heel, and a generous gusset so that I can take normal sized steps, and go right up to my waist without pulling. Almost as comfy as my old school tights. And they're warm and fuzzy :)
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I found proper cotton tights! Not 'cotton rich', but actual cotton. With a heel, and a generous gusset so that I can take normal sized steps, and go right up to my waist without pulling. Almost as comfy as my old school tights. And they're warm and fuzzy :)
Details??
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We have a big clematis vine with two active birds nets. The cardinals are the upstairs neighbors and the robins are the downstairs ones. Swallows are on the other side of the house.
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@Morning Glory thanks! And then that night I had the worst insomnia I've ever experienced. 🙄
Today I met with my hobby group *in person*! At a park, and the weather was pretty darn good. There was much talk about doing it again next week, so I think it was a happiness for everyone.
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@Morning Glory thanks! And then that night I had the worst insomnia I've ever experienced. 🙄
Today I met with my hobby group *in person*! At a park, and the weather was pretty darn good. There was much talk about doing it again next week, so I think it was a happiness for everyone.
I have trazodone for mine. It's funny that I used to do crazy shifts and have permanent jetlag but never got real insomnia until I was on normal hours. Must be a coincidence.
Today I'm happy because it's beautiful here now and I'm sitting outside.
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I found proper cotton tights! Not 'cotton rich', but actual cotton. With a heel, and a generous gusset so that I can take normal sized steps, and go right up to my waist without pulling. Almost as comfy as my old school tights. And they're warm and fuzzy :)
Details??
Clio ecostyle sustainable cotton tights
These ones look right - https://www.bigw.com.au/product/clio-women-s-sustainable-bci-cotton-tights-black/p/1216513-black/
I found them at Coles for $10.50 on sale. I'm short (157cm; size 12ish) but got the Tall/X-Tall and they fit really well.
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Fun dreams..
Most recent-- I could see and breathe easily underwater and was swimming/gathering trash from the lake floor, which turned into discovering a stash of jewellery.
I woke up in a happy/creative mood :)
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Saw a ladybug larva today. Double happiness because a) I've never seen one before and b) it was on the rose bush that has aphid and ladybugs eat aphids. I hope this is a harbinger of better days ahead for the rose bush.
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My tomato plants are doing fantastic. I planted three different varieties of cherry tomatoes, and I'm super excited to be eating cherry tomatoes all summer.
I had a long and challenging day today, but I'm happy now to be finishing it out with a glass of delicious port.
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The cake I made yesterday turned out good in spite of having to substitute some ingredients.
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I had a nice time at my daughter's tee-ball game tonight. It's amazing how much her team has improved since the start of the season.
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I'm grateful that DH and I have a good relationship, and DH tries really hard to be a good dad to DD. There are so many broken, hurting families around us these days.
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Landlord had a pallet of fencing delivered today, and the forklift could not get up our narrow driveway. Even though he was grumpy about it*, BF helped move the materials to the backyard without further complaining and without me asking for help.
*He's right, we shouldn't have to move hundreds of pounds of materials for the landlord for free.
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It's been a super rocky week or so (finals week for our child with a bunch of school challenges, & trying to sell a vacation house.) In happiness news, we got a full price offer on our house within the 7 day window the realtor thought was likely. It's possible we could have gone a bit higher & negotiated, and/or waited a bit longer, but I really need this off my plate, & we raised the price twice before we went live. So, we are officially under contract!
Double bonus - the buyers are purchasing the house "turn key", which means I don't have to figure out what to do with all of our stuff! I'm very happy the stuff is staying with the house. We furnished it really well for a vacation style/beach house & it all fits together nicely. Now someone else can enjoy all of that.
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Lovely day hiking, trying out some new hiking poles my SO gifted me.
we didn't see anyone until after reaching our lake destination (then the only person up there was a solo hiker, talking loudly to himself to alert bears of his presence) :)
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Lovely day hiking, trying out some new hiking poles my SO gifted me.
we didn't see anyone until after reaching our lake destination (then the only person up there was a solo hiker, talking loudly to himself to alert bears of his presence) :)
That's hilarious!
I had a nice run today. 6.7 miles without walking or stopping. Started off a bit slow and rocky with my stomach but got more comfortable as I went. My running app says my time actually got faster with each subsequent mile (perhaps because the first couple were uphill!).
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Lovely day hiking, trying out some new hiking poles my SO gifted me.
we didn't see anyone until after reaching our lake destination (then the only person up there was a solo hiker, talking loudly to himself to alert bears of his presence) :)
That's hilarious!
While it's a common practice he was really going for it
(I initially thought it was a group of hooligans and when we ran into just one person, hollering out a gibberish language I initially thought perhaps he was on drugs and our gentle dog backed away from him very slowly) Ha, poor guy. He seemed happy to see other folks and it IS a legitimate concern/a very bear-y zone.
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Had an online 'poetry jam' with two friends last night.
It was so much fun, playing word games, reading out poetry that we have recently discovered...
Here is the one that I shared
https://www.rattle.com/mountain-dew-commercial-disguised-as-a-love-poem-by-matthew-olzmann/
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@MaybeBabyMustache congrats! Awesome outcome.
Today I went to a new optometrist and she was very nice. Her office was close to the store where I had to do a return. That store was close to a Starbucks, and it was double star day. So I got a treat *and* took care of errands. 😄
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Had a proper grownup night out with a dear friend. We had a delicious dinner and wine at a beautiful restaurant, then went to a concert at the local theatre which was packed to the gills. It was absolutely brilliant: every single person got up out of their seats to sing along and dance for 2 hours. We are so very lucky to be able to do this now in my part of the world. So not frugal, but that is why I save money!
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Fencing guys are now repairing the fence! Woo! Maybe soon I can let my cat out unsupervised and unleashed.
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Saw a movie with a friend and we had post-delicious cake walk around a park which had multiple groups of picnicers enjoying the afternoon, dogs and kids and frisbees galore. It was glorious seeing everyone so relaxed and happy and it felt like exactly what a park is for.
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Nice to read the reflections here :)
I was in an afternoon slump. A real doozy of a slump and somehow got myself outdoors to read, then the sun rejuvenated & overheated me so I went down to the lake for a swim. It ended up being a total reset. Chatted with some folks on the dock and enjoyed an icy dunk.
It reminded me that sometimes getting off the bed *even if I'm not feeling like it* is a really good option!
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My daughter had her end-of-the-season tee-ball party today. It was the first non-family party either of us had been to in well over a year, and we both really enjoyed it. They had enough outdoor kid activities that the kids could entertain themselves while the parents hung out, which was fantastic.
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Baked a whole bunch of treats...and then shared them with several friends. Spending time with emotionally healthy people and eating delicious treats is a soothing balm for the soul.
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I like the members of my orthopedic surgery team that I've met so far, and they have a lot of experience with my specific condition.
New doctors is always a pressure point for me, because I have a condition that few doctors are familiar with and those who are are usually misinformed. And in Canada, you can't shop around for specialists. You get who you get. The system won't pay for second opinions, and the system is the only payer, so I can't even pay out of pocket.
Anyhoo, it's a HUGE relief that they readily understood my condition and knew exactly why I refused one of the tests the first fellow recommended. He went back and spoke to the big boss, who is one of the top world experts on my injuries, and the big Kahuna totally agreed with me, and it was a productive learning experience for the fellow.
This NEVER happens.
Normally when I meet a new doctor it's an enormously stressful process of me desperately trying to protect myself from them doing something that's dangerous. Hoping that they'll actually be able to do something to help me is usually a fantasy that I don't bother engaging in.
This team may or may not be able to help me, and there's a solid chance that they make me worse, but the amazing thing is that they actually KNOW that's a distinct possibility, and that for me is pure luxury.
I LOVE just being able to just trust experts to do their jobs properly.
Hey mal, I was just going to ping you to say thanks for having my back on another thread...and then I stumbled on this post. Such awesome news! I hope this new medical team continues to have your back. You richly deserve this kind of support.
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I like the members of my orthopedic surgery team that I've met so far, and they have a lot of experience with my specific condition.
New doctors is always a pressure point for me, because I have a condition that few doctors are familiar with and those who are are usually misinformed. And in Canada, you can't shop around for specialists. You get who you get. The system won't pay for second opinions, and the system is the only payer, so I can't even pay out of pocket.
Anyhoo, it's a HUGE relief that they readily understood my condition and knew exactly why I refused one of the tests the first fellow recommended. He went back and spoke to the big boss, who is one of the top world experts on my injuries, and the big Kahuna totally agreed with me, and it was a productive learning experience for the fellow.
This NEVER happens.
Normally when I meet a new doctor it's an enormously stressful process of me desperately trying to protect myself from them doing something that's dangerous. Hoping that they'll actually be able to do something to help me is usually a fantasy that I don't bother engaging in.
This team may or may not be able to help me, and there's a solid chance that they make me worse, but the amazing thing is that they actually KNOW that's a distinct possibility, and that for me is pure luxury.
I LOVE just being able to just trust experts to do their jobs properly.
Hey mal, I was just going to ping you to say thanks for having my back on another thread...and then I stumbled on this post. Such awesome news! I hope this new medical team continues to have your back. You richly deserve this kind of support.
Thanks D.
Ultimately I'm just hoping to not have surgery, but I'm happy to have a team that might actually understand why when I already can't walk very well.
My happiness today is that although I can no longer take long walks, I can still comfortably ride my e-bike, so I'm still able to get out almost every morning along the river. I don't like it as much as a long walk with a good audiobook, but it's a great consolation prize, and the e-bike makes me feel like I'm not disabled, which is amazing.
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Found a useful place for a table I'd gotten free from the curb, moved along with all my stuff at the end of Feb, then let sit outdoors mostly unused. Very happy to have removed the nagging sense of "clutter" and also filled a need for a tabletop indoors!
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I've been pretty stressed & anxious lately, due a bunch of life things. I made the time to do yoga this morning, & not only did it feel amazing in the moment, unsurprisingly, it helped me feel more relaxed overall. I feel so much "lighter" after a yoga workout.
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@MaybeBabyMustache I never regret the yoga or the weights (I sometimes regret the running)
My happiness was discovering that there was going to be a super blood moon eclipse last night and then getting to see it during our last dog walk of the night. It was splendid.
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@mspym - I never regret the yoga or running. I sometimes regret the weights, when I'm quite sore after. Generally, I sometimes have to convince myself to work out, but never regret it. I always leave feeling better than I started, and how many things in life can you say that about?
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I never regret a walk, run or beach swim! In fact, in light of the latest lockdown in Victoria, I am going to take myself off to the beach for a run now while I still can.
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I never regret a walk, run or beach swim! In fact, in light of the latest lockdown in Victoria, I am going to take myself off to the beach for a run now while I still can.
Enjoy! Feel the freedom!
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Have been feeling un-motivated around household chores recently, but made myself sit down and do some mending while watching Youtube. Made me so happy to rescue these two garments which are staples in my wardrobe! Maybe even enough to turn around my motivation issues. :)
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Sweet, ripe, beautiful cherries! 🍒
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This absolutely gorgeous cupcake I got at work.
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I saved my mom's life yesterday.
It's a long complicated story, but she was convinced that she would be fine and I was convinced that she was in a life threatening situation and needed an ambulance immediately.
She's now down a kidney, but she's alive because I'm the one person in her life who doesn't bend to her iron will.
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I saved my mom's life yesterday.
It's a long complicated story, but she was convinced that she would be fine and I was convinced that she was in a life threatening situation and needed an ambulance immediately.
She's now down a kidney, but she's alive because I'm the one person in her life who doesn't bend to her iron will.
Holy cow, that's something. I'm glad she agreed to listen to you and that she's going to recover.
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@Malcat - so glad you were able to get your mom the help she needed.
For me, I used two zucchinis from our garden & made the most delicious muffins. I'm not sure if I can replicate them again, as I tweaked the recipe quite a bit to accommodate tastes & preferences, but they are amazing! No waste with our zucchinis, and delicious muffins.
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Yesterday I found three four leafed clovers. It was a lovely sunny late autumn day, and I was walking with a friend.
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The way my kitty was sitting on the table between my torso and computer keyboard...this is an unusual position for him and it just made me lol.
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I saved my mom's life yesterday.
It's a long complicated story, but she was convinced that she would be fine and I was convinced that she was in a life threatening situation and needed an ambulance immediately.
She's now down a kidney, but she's alive because I'm the one person in her life who doesn't bend to her iron will.
Holy toledo @Malcat --glad that worked out. I hope your mom is thankful that you are as willful as her!
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I've been walking so much recently and feeling stronger, plus seeing the bears out munching on dandelions and skunk cabbage is a real joy.
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I saved my mom's life yesterday.
It's a long complicated story, but she was convinced that she would be fine and I was convinced that she was in a life threatening situation and needed an ambulance immediately.
She's now down a kidney, but she's alive because I'm the one person in her life who doesn't bend to her iron will.
Holy toledo @Malcat --glad that worked out. I hope your mom is thankful that you are as willful as her!
Oh yeah, she definitely is. I'm also the only medical professional in the family, so when I say "you could die", it tends to be taken seriously.
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Today's happiness is five-fold:
1) Purchased a used shed (yay environment)
2) from a friend who is downsizing (yay helping others).
3) It all fit in my car (yay Tetris skills proving their worth).
4) I unloaded and assembled it the same day (take that, procrastination habit),
5) and BF offered to and then promptly helped me (yay SO's who are not like my ex!)
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Really excited about this short film project I'm working on. A spinoff from documenting making my art that ended up being a collaboration with a musician neighbour and....it's turned into a very involved, personal project and extension of ideas I've been working with for a few years. [was excited last night into insomnia but oh well, worth it]. Submitting a draft to an architectural film festival tomorrow. Unlikely to be accepted as the material I'm working with may not do well full-screen, but this process has been an incredible learning experience and will be useful in future.
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I fixed my leaking outdoor faucet today. It was so easy I'm kinda embarrassed I didn't do it sooner, but I'm happy to have it done and happy I didn't need a plumber.
My neighbor brought us cookies today as a thank you for bringing her eggs. Some other neighbors brought us a plant a couple weeks ago for the same reason. My neighborhood has it flaws, but the sharing and exchanging between neighbors makes me happy.
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Had a nice chat with my Sis.
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Washed windows. What a difference!
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My daughter is making cinnamon scrolls.
It is sunny and windy so perfect line-drying washing weather.
I have 6 new library books to read.
I have made a menu plan for the week and my husband has gone to do the grocery shopping.
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Every time I go to the library, I'm reminded of how much I love libraries. I have 39 books checked out right now! (mostly for my kids, who go through books much faster than I do). That includes a couple e-books, and a pile of books I returned that haven't been checked in yet, but still - how amazing is it that I can check out 39 books, for free, no questions asked?
It's over 100 degrees here, and there were a few people who seemed to be in the library mostly for the A/C. It makes me happy that people have a safe place to hang out without pressure to spend money - there aren't a lot of places like that.
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-My son was able to improve his grades (high school ends tomorrow), just within the window. COVID & the combo remote/in person was really hard for him, so this is making me incredibly happy. All classes were passed!
-Picking things out of the garden. It's such an unexpected treat (I'm not very good yet, so it's all a surprise). So far, radishes, kale, spinach, carrots, zucchini, mint, cilantro, basil, tomatoes. Peppers up soon.
-The weather has been cool enough to run in the mornings, but gorgeous during the day. I love this time of year
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Had a quiet day at work today. So quiet that I was able to play music and sing along while working. I’ve been at my job for two years and today was the first day I was able to do that.
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It's over 100 degrees here, and there were a few people who seemed to be in the library mostly for the A/C. It makes me happy that people have a safe place to hang out without pressure to spend money - there aren't a lot of places like that.
My hot-day rotation used to include time at the library :)
Today's happiness was making a pantry inventory spreadsheet!!!
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Ooh, @oneday - well done! I'm happy on your behalf. I love a pantry spreadsheet!
For me, I met a friend at our son's soccer practice (she was also taking her son) & we were able to walk twice this week. I love combining a social & physical activity into a chore. Normally, I don't enjoy the practices, but it's so much more fun & enjoyable when you have something to look forward to.
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Oh, & both of my teens received their second vaccination this week, which made me *incredibly* happy!
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+1. Our 15 year old got his second Pfizer shot yesterday. Yay for the whole family being vaccinated!
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We rescued some tadpoles a while back from a puddle that was drying up. They've finally all turned into frogs. I think we got two different species because some were medium sized and others were teeny tiny, like the size of a dime. They're so cute! They're hopping around my yard now so they'll probably all get eaten by my chickens, but at least they lived longer than they would have in the puddle.
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Two lovely, social days in a row .One with 2 friends at the local brewery for beer and board games (so close to home so I walked) followed by visiting the library on the way home.
This morning I met up with an old work friend - we meet 29 years ago! - with whom I had lost touch. She has coincidentally moved to the same area I moved to. We went for a long walk and got coffee and talked for 2 hours, and have planned to do it again in a fortnight. Now I am exhausted from all the Extroverting and will spend the rainy afternoon in bed with a book.
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It's a wet and windy night and I'm snuggled up warm on the couch... Happy and grateful :)
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Yesterday, had the house to myself for most of the day. It was lovely just to putter and do whatever, without anyone else to consider.
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The weather has been really lovely, so we've been enjoying the time sitting by the pool. Not too hot, not too cold. Perfect for lounging in the shade of the warm day.
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Sitting in the park, chatting with friends today. Beautiful weather, and a couple folks who haven't been up to Zooming over the last year showed up. So nice to catch up!
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Had cheap sushi across the street from my art studio tonight and they brought out some perilla leaf tempura as a free treat. Lovely stuff!
Just got an invite to a friend's opening on Thurs and am keen to see the work and meet people involved - lots of AI and art and systems/machines, hope to get some intellectual stimulation from new directions.
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This morning’s sunrise, just glorious
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-Meetings that unexpectedly get cancelled
-Chatting with my mom yesterday about something she's very excited about
-Carpools for kids. Seriously, it's an under rated source of happiness. Not having to drive an extra 20 minutes each way to pick up a kid? Sharing the time commitment? So glorious.
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Walked 10,000 steps, then had an absolutely quiet evening at home. No phone calls. No text messages. Just peace and quiet. I read a book and watched the new episode of “How to Renovate a Chateau (without killing your partner)” on YouTube. They are hilarious, and it’s my new favorite show. The evening was wonderfully serene.
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-Meetings that unexpectedly get cancelled
That is the best!!
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Yesterday I received an email about some classes I’ve wanted to do for ten years. I have missed out every time. Today I received confirmation that I’m in! It also means I might see some forum friends again while I’m in the area!
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Yesterday I received an email about some classes I’ve wanted to do for ten years. I have missed out every time. Today I received confirmation that I’m in! It also means I might see some forum friends again while I’m in the area!
A once-in-a-decade opportunity. Woot!
Today it was hard to find some happiness, but I mopped all the hard floors in the house and they look nice.
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My daughter had her last day of kindergarten yesterday. I never planned to be a homeschooling mom, and I definitely never planned to be a homeschooling-while-working-full-time mom (does anybody?), but I didn't think virtual learning would work for her, and her district didn't even go to hybrid until the year was mostly over. It wasn't easy, but we made it through, and there were some really joyous moments along the way.
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My daughter had her last day of kindergarten yesterday. I never planned to be a homeschooling mom, and I definitely never planned to be a homeschooling-while-working-full-time mom (does anybody?), but I didn't think virtual learning would work for her, and her district didn't even go to hybrid until the year was mostly over. It wasn't easy, but we made it through, and there were some really joyous moments along the way.
Congrats to both of you!
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Just spent a week in the woods--canoeing, camping, hiking. A mix of hard physical work and some gloriously lazy afternoons.
Getting home and having a shower seemed so luxurious, and a BED--a real BED!! Was very happy to lie down off of the ground.
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Massage!!!
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Getting back home after a trip and realizing that home is a great place to be :)
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-My son, having a fabulous time at soccer camp. He's a teen, and camps are hard to come by these days.
-My other teen son allowed me to take a "graduation" from middle school photo. He's completely uninterested in photos, but I wanted the moment captured for myself, and potentially him down the road. Photo turned out great.
-For video chat apps. My ILs are unable to come to the US, and my husband is unable to go to his country of origin. It's so special for the ILs to get videos of the kids, our garden, etc.
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Yesterday I received an email about some classes I’ve wanted to do for ten years. I have missed out every time. Today I received confirmation that I’m in! It also means I might see some forum friends again while I’m in the area!
A once-in-a-decade opportunity. Woot!
Today it was hard to find some happiness, but I mopped all the hard floors in the house and they look nice.
Yes! Also, I might see you!
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Yes! Also, I might see you!
THAT will be a happy day :)
Today's happiness was meeting a coworker in person for the first time. Thought it might be weird, because it's all been Zoom before, but we got along like gangbusters.
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Listening to the ABC Classic FM Top 100. Am a Beethoven fangirl, but loving being exposed to so much beautiful music.
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Great thread! This is my first post here.
Yesterday, what made me happy:
1. I went to the dentist for a check-up and had X-rays done (which I typically decline). My teeth are in pretty good shape and appear to be stable. (Periodontal disease is familial consideration).
2. I was gifted a GC from Starbucks (at Xmas) so treated myself to a Latte and a Cake Pop on the way home. (I've deemed this place too expensive for anything but a rare treat and like to make coffee at home anyway).
Today, I plan to relax and get into a library book that I just started, but am enjoying. It's also a beautiful day so may enjoy said book in my hammock in my beautiful tree-filled backyard.
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Listening to the ABC Classic FM Top 100. Am a Beethoven fangirl, but loving being exposed to so much beautiful music.
Same. I used to work weekends so couldn't listen to it in past years; I'm enjoying listening to it live while I scan old family photos. I'm hoping some current Australian composers score high: Elena Katz-Chernin (likely), Joseph Tawadros (possible), Nardi Simpson (unfortunately unlikely), Nat Bartsch (ditto)
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Got a used exercise bike. So nice to be able to exercise in an air conditioned room especially since the temperature outside is consistently over 30C now.
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-Made dinner to clear out the fridge, ahead of a vacation. Love how clean the fridge looks, & the lack of waste
-I was a little anxious about flying to Hawaii (there's are a few pre-work steps, and we're taking my parents & need to help them as well). We leave tomorrow, and everything is sorted out & ready to go. Woohoo!
-Fresh tomatoes out of the garden. So delicious & sweet, and absolutely nothing like tomatoes from the store
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Got a book I'd been waiting *forever* for from the library and it has not been a disapointment!
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After 15 months of my kids being home with me while I work, they started camp/preschool today. Drop off went great - I was a little nervous about how it would go with my 4-year-old, but she walked right into preschool with a huge smile on her face.
My house is so quiet! And I get things done so much more quickly when not being interrupted every few minutes!
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Rainy rainy day with moments of calm/sun breaking through.
There's no internal pressure to go outside when it's like this so am enjoying a restful day.
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Rainy rainy day with moments of calm/sun breaking through.
There's no internal pressure to go outside when it's like this so am enjoying a restful day.
Same, just had oral surgery, so if I have to rest for a day, I'm glad it's a rainy day.
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Listening to the ABC Classic FM Top 100. Am a Beethoven fangirl, but loving being exposed to so much beautiful music.
Same. I used to work weekends so couldn't listen to it in past years; I'm enjoying listening to it live while I scan old family photos. I'm hoping some current Australian composers score high: Elena Katz-Chernin (likely), Joseph Tawadros (possible), Nardi Simpson (unfortunately likely), Nat Bartsch (ditto)
Wasn't it all brilliant? Happy sigh. Am re-listening it repeatedly via the app.
@Malcat hope you recover quickly.
@oneday which book did you get? Curious minds want to know!!
I am ordering the fixtures for the bathroom renovation as I have found the style I love (old-fashioned English tapware in a sleek chrome). We have lived with a dingy, dark ensuite bathroom (with a crappy shower curtain as the door fell off, and a toilet that is not water efficient) for 9 years and I am so happy to be able start afresh and pay for it all in cash. For many years before that we had 1 bathroom for 4 people and managed very well. Hedonic adaptation is a bitch!
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My kids both loved their first day at camp/preschool yesterday, and were excited to go back this morning. It's such a relief.
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A lovely cool breeze as I was picking asparagus this evening!
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@lazycow the book was Scott Pilgrim #2. BF has #1 and #3-6 in his collection, and neither of us want to spend the money to fill the gap :)
Today's happiness was having a full (but not too full) work load at work, with more promised tomorrow. And Boss is not pushing me to go faster or get things done sooner. Yay!
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A very tasty bibimbap dinner--my SO called it the 'winning-est dinner of the summer so far'. Simple, tasty food makes me very happy especially when it helps me use garden greens (pak choi) and clean out some leftovers from the fridge (rice and pickled onions/radishes which were pink and made the dish look lovely too!) :)
https://www.loveandlemons.com/bibimbap-recipe/
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@lazycow the book was Scott Pilgrim #2. BF has #1 and #3-6 in his collection, and neither of us want to spend the money to fill the gap :)
I wish I had known - I recently put vol 1-4 in a street library, I could have sent the missing vol to you!
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Found out today that DD has made it into advanced Chinese (Chinese for native speakers) next year. It’s an accomplishment for her because we are not a native Chinese-speaking family, we speak English at home, and we do not have a Chinese-speaking ayi taking care of her. She apparently just squeaked through, and the teacher wanted to talk to me because she wasn’t sure where to put her.
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@lazycow the book was Scott Pilgrim #2. BF has #1 and #3-6 in his collection, and neither of us want to spend the money to fill the gap :)
I wish I had known - I recently put vol 1-4 in a street library, I could have sent the missing vol to you!
Aww, that's very sweet!
Today I learned how to use the cooling system/heat pump in my new digs. Not only that, but it's actually doing a decent job of cooling the place! Woot!
Possible future happiness: if the system wins over my BF, he will get rid of the hulking portable A/C unit taking up a load of space in our limited storage closet. 🤞
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Found out today that DD has made it into advanced Chinese (Chinese for native speakers) next year. It’s an accomplishment for her because we are not a native Chinese-speaking family, we speak English at home, and we do not have a Chinese-speaking ayi taking care of her. She apparently just squeaked through, and the teacher wanted to talk to me because she wasn’t sure where to put her.
Congrats, Freedomin5 family!
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I got a free day off work yesterday. I have to work Saturday in exchange, but my partner works Saturdays and has Wednesday, Thursday, Friday off. We got an extra day together. It was really nice to relax and hang out mid week.
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We get an unexpected day off work tomorrow for the new Juneteenth holiday. We're all scrambling a bit due to the last minute announcement, but I'm looking forward to taking the day to relax (plus I think it's a good and worthwhile holiday to have).
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Had a last minute opportunity to create a spontaneous art project out in nature this afternoon...and started the morning off by paddling a lake with a friend so it felt like a great day overall.
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Dinner was mostly roasted veggies...I can cook a dish or two! Yummy, and I felt accomplished.
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My husband and I both had the day off while our kids' childcare remained open, which basically never happens. So we took advantage of it and went to the beach together, which was really nice. The beach was uncrowded, the weather was great, and we were able to have some good conversations about what we want out of our future.
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Hello, happy people! I'm not sure why I've not read this thread before, but it is a great read. Thanks to Deborah for creating it.
I can hear the birds singing outside my window. No other sounds. The day is mine to spend as I want, we are healthy and happy, and live in a beautiful place. I am grateful for all of these things.
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Was very happy yesterday to hear my HS son got a call from the Soccer Coach at Caltech and they want to see about getting him out there and then yesterday evening my College DD who also is a Soccer player, starting GK in the BIG10 snuck home last night to surprise me for the weekend for Fathers day. Finally, For the first time ordered something from Wayfair being a couch because we couldn't find one we liked, I had to assemble it but it couldn't of been more perfect and was fairly easy to put together.
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It rained all day yesterday, but we had friends over. Enjoyed a simple lunch together, then went for a walk when the rain stopped.
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Winter Solstice (a day early) swim with friends. It was a divine, balmy morning, and there was something magical about being immersed in very cold water. This is the 2nd year we have celebrated, and are planning on having weekly dips, hurrah!!
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Winter Solstice (a day early) swim with friends. It was a divine, balmy morning, and there was something magical about being immersed in very cold water. This is the 2nd year we have celebrated, and are planning on having weekly dips, hurrah!!
Very nice @lazycow --I've cold-dipped for the past 3 winters. It's so wonderful!
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Spring rolls. Library book overload. Injuries healing nicely. Parks & Rec (the series). An online basket-weaving course. Second vaccine. :)
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Every June I start going crazy wanting lobster, it creeps up on me and I'm like "why am I obsessing about lobster?, and then I'm reminded that June is Lobsterfest month and apparently I reflexively anticipate it every year.
Restaurants *just* re-opened for outdoor dining here, so we went out tonight and had a bunch of seafood, including lobster.
Of course, now I want more lobster.
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We took my parents to Hawaii for my dad's 70th birthday/my parents 50th anniversary. It also happened to be my husband's birthday, and we had an early Father's Day celebration. I can honestly say that it was a 10 out of 10 vacation. It was the most fantastic trip we've ever had with kids - SO MUCH fun. I'm so happy & relieved. I planned for a year, and it all turned out perfectly. So much family fun, so many laughs, so many memories.
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I just had a great night's sleep after a few crappy ones.
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My chickens all survived the heat wave. I have yet to lose one to heat, but I get nervous any time it gets over 105, which it has been for the last 3 days.
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We took my parents to Hawaii for my dad's 70th birthday/my parents 50th anniversary. It also happened to be my husband's birthday, and we had an early Father's Day celebration. I can honestly say that it was a 10 out of 10 vacation. It was the most fantastic trip we've ever had with kids - SO MUCH fun. I'm so happy & relieved. I planned for a year, and it all turned out perfectly. So much family fun, so many laughs, so many memories.
That sounds so nice, what did you see and do with the kids?
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We took my parents to Hawaii for my dad's 70th birthday/my parents 50th anniversary. It also happened to be my husband's birthday, and we had an early Father's Day celebration. I can honestly say that it was a 10 out of 10 vacation. It was the most fantastic trip we've ever had with kids - SO MUCH fun. I'm so happy & relieved. I planned for a year, and it all turned out perfectly. So much family fun, so many laughs, so many memories.
That sounds so nice, what did you see and do with the kids?
@SparkyPeanut - we stayed at a hotel that had quite a few included activities, so we took advantage of all of those. (Both of my parents are super fit & active.) We did stand up paddle boarding & canoeing twice, snorkeled, boogie boarded, kayaked, went to yoga with a view of the ocean. My teenagers also took surfing lessons. My parents had a professional take some 50th anniversary photos. My husband & I went out to a "fancy" birthday dinner, while my parents chilled by the pool with the kids. We had plenty of great meals, played bingo, took ukulele lessons, etc.
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Yesterday BF was out of the house most of the day and I re-organized the walk-in closet/hobby room to my satisfaction.
Then today I met a friend for a walk, met a few other friends for crafting in the park, then introduced BF to some family members.
It was a lovely balance of social and solitary time.
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Had a very chill day at work. Found out that agreeing to work an extra project this summer will net me a very healthy amount of overtime pay.
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I just had a great night's sleep after a few crappy ones.
I can't wait for this feeling again lol. Been far too many months of this.
Today's fledgling happiness is preparing for a barbecue / gathering this Saturday. Will be good to see friends again after lots of self-isolation in recent months.
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My SO works ALOT, he loves his work but it can consume him.
As a break, I booked a couple nights of camping this week-- he was a bit resistant (even though he wanted to go) then some old friends of ours decided to join us and now he is super happy to get to hang out with them. Glad I pushed for it. He is going overboard with food and canoe preparations :)
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Hubs gets his 2nd jab today!
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I saved my mom's life yesterday.
It's a long complicated story, but she was convinced that she would be fine and I was convinced that she was in a life threatening situation and needed an ambulance immediately.
She's now down a kidney, but she's alive because I'm the one person in her life who doesn't bend to her iron will.
Wow! Just catching up on this thread, so I missed this until just now. Good on you, @Malcat!
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I saved my mom's life yesterday.
It's a long complicated story, but she was convinced that she would be fine and I was convinced that she was in a life threatening situation and needed an ambulance immediately.
She's now down a kidney, but she's alive because I'm the one person in her life who doesn't bend to her iron will.
Wow! Just catching up on this thread, so I missed this until just now. Good on you, @Malcat!
Thanks.
My brother is now pissed at me and barely talking to me because I didn't think to call him during the emergency. Like, dude, you're welcome that I saved your mother.
Some people's kids!
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I picked up a freebie at the grocery store (oat milk) & the timing was perfect, as I was out of almond milk. I find that I'm really enjoying the richer taste of the oat milk in my coffee, and never would have purchased it to find this out. My coffee was delicious this morning.
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@MarcherLady woo hoo!
Posting late, because yesterday was kind of a low day. But by the end, I realized that I'd had a nice talk with Mom.
Yesterday is *exactly* the kind of day that I need this thread the most: overall a down day, easy to overlook the bright spots that do exist on a day like that. Thanks @deborah and everyone who keeps this thread going.
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I pickled jalapenos from jalapenos grown in our garden. Making things out of our garden produce always makes me happy.
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Little good news/potential news in the past day:
* We're on the final stretch of our summer exhibition catalog and it's gorgeous.
* A visitor has fallen in love with my little Sicilian house and wants to purchase at full list price and the agent says she'll send a deposit today. Though I'm not counting on anything (have had lots of interest and several offers that fell through), will be nice if it happens.
* Was contacted to host a studio tour of museum members
* The grant org supporting this summer's show says we're the only cultural exchange program that's actually happening this year, and they're keen to follow/support everything we do....good to know our tenacity and hard work is paying off and giving people hope. Also, they're open to funding the increased costs for our catalog printing/designing since two of the artists won't be using the travel grants - this will allow us to print more and bigger catalogs for the show
* Our enforced hotel quarantine has gone down from 21 to 14 to 7 days for fully vaccinated travellers (who like me are going to medium-risk countries). This could change any time but allowed me to extend my summer travels
Thanks to all of you who are posting the good things we can often overlook -
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I've been living with my partner for almost 4 months. His dog has grown to like me a lot, which I'm really glad about since she means so much to him. This morning she nudged my laptop off my lap and curled up in it. I'm grateful to be living with both of them and grateful for doggy cuddles.
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I have an irrational love for wild turkeys (yes, I know they scratch up lawns and block traffic, but they're so cool! Like little dinosaurs!), so I'm happy at how many have taken up residence in my neighborhood.
The weather has cooled down enough that I've been able to take evening walks the last two nights, which has been nice.
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Woke up to a gentle rain here in Phoenix after 5 days of record-breaking heat. Wonderfully refreshing, definitely not to be taken for granted.
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Woke up to a gentle rain here in Phoenix after 5 days of record-breaking heat. Wonderfully refreshing, definitely not to be taken for granted.
I'm in Oklahoma right now, not Arizona, but have gotten the same break from the unbearable heat of the last couple weeks. Gosh it's so nice to not be sweating! The cool crisp air this morning was a delight.
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I desperately need this thread!! They say, "happiness begins with gratitude," so today, I'm grateful for free tacos at work today. It was a generous treat from a vendor.
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You know how sometimes, you just have a moment (or minutes on end) of pure happiness? For me, many of those come from nature -- a bee on a flower, birdsong, or a beautiful sunrise. Music also gives me moments like that.
I'm having a really good day, because I've had a bunch of those pure happiness moments already today. Most recently, I was chopping vegetables for lunch and listening to my son playing the piano in the other room. Kind of an ordinary moment, but so happy.
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Today, my knee (which has been giving me problems) supported me for a short walk. And it might do the same again in a few days.
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Our piano is getting a lot of use, which is great! I love that neighbors will drop by to practice piano. DD also earned $1 for giving the neighbor a piano lesson.
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I started a new role at work a few months ago and felt way over my head for a while, but I'm finally starting to feel competent and mostly on top of things, which is nice.
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It is 11am and I am back in bed on a cold, rainy day with my knitting and a book. My daugher just brought me a bowl of stewed cinnamon apples ( which she cooked using apples from our trees) and yogurt. It has been a very busy week so it is lovely to have nowhere I need to be today.
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Today someone inspired me to make fro-yo at home and it looks easy! Tomorrow I dine in style :)
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Given the heat wave happening in many places, I'm grateful for the more moderate temperatures & cooler evenings.
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A nice visit with a close family member who I don't get to see very often, and a call scheduled with another one who lives too far away for casual visits.
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I am happy I have a vaccination buddy, and we both went and got our first shot yesterday!
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My mom bought a 24-pound box of apricots from a friend's family farm. We made 7 pints of jam today, plus started a quadruple batch of apricot liqueur. We also froze a couple quarts, and after all that there still about 80 apricots left. I took home around 50 to eat and freeze. It was hard work but really satisfying, and the jam turned out delicious.
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What a great thread!
Today my husband and I celebrated our 38th anniversary. Not bad for getting married at 18 &19, and his mother said it wouldn't last... uh oh already got off subject of happy things ;)
Anyway, I am feeling so very blessed to have been able to share my life with this wonderful man.
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Today was easy to come up with something for this thread. I will not get too wordy, but found a new spot for burritos. The great thing about this place is that BF has finally met his match on the spicyness scale (for Mexican cuisine). This is a rare thing and it made me happy that he's not continually disappointed by the spice factor in all his dining.
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Had most of the day to myself (very rare!) so I spent a couple of hours just sitting and listening to classical music and weeping silently from the beauty of it (see https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kn1gcjuhlhg)
Then I balanced it out with a 2 hr walk and found a new-to-me path in the national park near home and communed with dozens of kangaroos and wallabies. Now I am chucking some potatoes in the oven to roast and pouring a glass of prosecco. Very heaven.
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My HK-style Portuguese chicken rice turned out well. It was a lot of work, but worth it!
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@lazycow - love the mix of activities.
For me, I took three teenage boys mini golfing (two are my own, one is a friend) & it was hilarious & fun. I also caught my son giving his phone number out to a girl after a soccer game yesterday, which also made me smile. Teens, living their lives, growing & adapting, regardless of what the world throws at them.
For today, happiness is finally getting in a shower after a crazy day starting with a run, many errands & chores... now I'm sitting by the pool & enjoying the weather & the view.
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We'd planned to take the kids to beach today but, on our drive, made a spur of the moment decision to go to a closer state park instead. It ended up being really nice - we went for a nice walk along the water, and there were tons of ground squirrels, lizards, and pelicans all over, which the kids were thrilled about. And the closer drive meant I still had time and energy to get some things done around the house when we got home.
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Dinner on the porch with my partner, listening to the frogs and bird.
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Another slam dunk. Visited with friends! That put me right after a week of low-key blues.
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My HK-style Portuguese chicken rice turned out well. It was a lot of work, but worth it!
Ooh that sounds fantastic! Is that a kind of HK-chicken-Portuguese-style-via-Macau kind of dish?
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My HK-style Portuguese chicken rice turned out well. It was a lot of work, but worth it!
Ooh that sounds fantastic! Is that a kind of HK-chicken-Portuguese-style-via-Macau kind of dish?
Yes, that’s the one!
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Finding a genuine entry for today has been a bit challenging - I'm dealing with some low level anxiety stuff. However: My garden is looking good, we are making progress on getting the house how we want it, I still live in a beautiful part of the world. Six months after FIREing our finances are on track. Hey, that was a pretty good list once I got started. This thread works.
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Finding a genuine entry for today has been a bit challenging - I'm dealing with some low level anxiety stuff. However: My garden is looking good, we are making progress on getting the house how we want it, I still live in a beautiful part of the world. Six months after FIREing our finances are on track. Hey, that was a pretty good list once I got started. This thread works.
:)
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We located a secret(ish) lake that my SO visited 20 years ago but hadn't been back to..it was so delightful to have a quiet, private place to swim amidst the heat wave we are experiencing.
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Finished a science book that I've enjoyed, but is hard to read. Proud of myself for not giving up!
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There’s a sign up sheet to bring treats to the office this Friday. I’m looking forward to baking an old classic - gooey brownies, and a new recipe I want to try - walnut cranberry biscotti. Baking makes me happy, and having people eat my baked goods also makes me happy.
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Working with my youngest son today. We're tearing out old walls and ceiling in our old rent house. He and his soon to be wife will live there once we rebuild it. With today's crazy housing cost it's good to have options. Thank you once again younger me for making the investments.
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This pure clean water I've made in my studio brings happiness tonight, cool in the night air. In Hong Kong we don't drink water straight from the tap. I boil and filter it. Tastes divine. I'm lucky to have a subsidized studio in such an expensive city.
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My mom got a new puppy, so we went over to meet him today, plus go for a quick evening swim. The puppy was, expectedly, adorable, and the swim felt good on this hot day.
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Hubs' eye is almost all better, and he's taken himself off for a walk today.
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Spent a sweltering hot day lakeside..jumping into the lake every 20 minutes, chatting with friends, playing Scrabble and eating watermelon and popsicles. Felt like a kid again..
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My friend and I booked a girls' getaway to a scenic area in a neighboring province. Looking forward to sitting in a hotel overlooking terraced rice fields, mountains, and rivers.
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Our Q2 financial position is looking pretty healthy and I have a good husband who brings me delicious coffee in bed.
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Just hours away from a 3-day weekend with many fun things planned. Boss is already out of the office, so I'm coasting :)
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Went for a nice swim today. Having friends/family members with pools is so much better than having one yourself - most of the benefit with none of the cost! 😀
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Went for a nice swim today. Having friends/family members with pools is so much better than having one yourself - most of the benefit with none of the cost! 😀
Or living in a complex where it's someone's job to take care of it. We bought this place largely for the 50ft pool.
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Had a nice holiday yesterday with my extended family. It was the first time we let the 4-year-old stay up to watch fireworks, and she was over the moon - it was really cute to watch.
I had the day off work today, and it was a good mix of relaxing and productive - I got some decluttering done and folded lots of laundry, but also read several chapters of my book.
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I had dinner with a dear friend and colleague today who used to work at the business where I had a deal crash and burn quite spectacularly last year.
I was the only person not made to sign an NDA or a non compete during the process of the deal, so I was able to tell my friend the whole story in gruesome, gory detail.
That alone was nice, but a really pleasant surprise was to hear that the perception of what happened among my peers actually paints me in a very good light. I've been licking my wounds thinking my colleagues would assume that I bit off more than I could chew and just couldn't cut it. Apparently that's not the perception at all and that people assume I walked into the deal, realized it was fucked, and walked right back out with a big ol' "NOPE".
Neither is accurate, but if my professional world is going to have the wrong impression, it's nice to hear that the rumour mill is being kind to me.
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Nice weekend. Spent some quality time with family and saw a cool parade. Stayed indoors to keep the cat calm and that was a good choice for me this year. I will see fireworks again some other year.
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Yesterday I got Jab 2, and we got our quiet house back (our visitor left). Today is wet so it's the perfect day to laze around and nurse my sore shoulder and stiff neck. Everyone tells me that if you had a 'vigorous' reaction to the AZ jab 1 you get on much better with jab 2, so I'm hoping that's the case.
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I got a good hard workout in, which I haven't been doing often enough. It felt really good.
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Today's happiness was walking my kids down the street to see about 200 goats that the county is using to eat down the vegetation. We had a lot of fun trying to name them and decide which one was the cutest.
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@nessness thanks for bringing this thread back to life. I've been in a funk and it would help to be more grateful.
Today, had a video appointment with the physical therapist and she was good and didn't give me too many exercises!
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5th lockdown in Victoria, and I am temporararily out of mental energy to find happiness in anything. BUT will challenge myself to go for a walk when it stops raining, and visit all the newborn lambs in the paddocks nearby. Their gambolling is the epitome of joyfulness and never fails to make me laugh.
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I am rather exhausted. Twice in the past week, I have returned from a shopping expedition in the late afternoon to be told that I have less than seven hours to drive to the border. Both times, if I hadn’t crossed the border by midnight, I would be in quarantine for 14 days. The border is about 4 hours drive from my house and 3.5 hours drive from my mother’s. So on Sunday evening I drove to my mother’s, then on Thursday evening I drove back, making the border at about 9:30pm both times, and arriving at my destination in the early hours of the morning both times. After the first border crossing I had to self isolate, get covid19 tested, and wait for the result (-).
I am happy.
I’m happy that I made it to the border both times and that people told me the closures were happening in time (both times I found out within an hour of the announcement, so I had time to get across).
I am happy that tonight I’ll be attending a performance of a group that I really like, that it’s actually going to happen, and I can attend.
I am happy that I can go to the dentist on Tuesday and get my wobbly tooth looked at.
I am happy that I went to my mother’s place and so she had one of us visit her for a few days, which hasn’t been possible ever since my father’s funeral. And that we had a great time and did stuff that needed to be done.
I’m happy that she gave me some books that I wanted that were dad’s.
I’m happy that it isn’t raining, like it has been all week.
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Got my second COVID vaccination today! I am happy that I had a vaccination buddy. Scheduling and navigating the vaccination process in China as a foreigner is not easy, so it was very nice to get vaccinated together with my friend.
I’m also happy that, so far, the side effects aren’t as bad as they were the first time. (knock on wood, hope I haven’t jinxed it)
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I'm happy to no longer be walking around with a broken front tooth. It's not the actual tooth that's broken, I was hit in the face as a kid, my front teeth have been porcelain for decades, and one of them cracked 7 months ago.
And no, I did not put off getting it treated, it's just a somewhat complicated case that involved a lot of steps and I insisted on having it done by two of the best dentists in the city, and they're always very busy.
The work won't be done until 2022, but at least I'm in temporaries and my teeth look amazing now. I was looking earily like one of my brothers and I did NOT like it.
Part of the complexity is that I had some very finicky cosmetic gum surgery, but now my smile looks much better than it did before, so that's a big bonus for having to deal with my stupid broken tooth. I've wanted this done for many years, but couldn't bring myself to do it until I had a reason to replace the existing porcelain.
So yeah, I'm finally getting my perfect smile.
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Oh! I have another one!
So I was out to dinner last night with a group of women who are all very successful medical professionals, including my amazing dentist. Anyway, somehow we find out that we all have the strangest thing in common: we all had pet rats at some point.
How weird is that???
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Today I made good use of my time. Sometimes, especially lately, it seems like I just spend time waiting for something to happen. But today I made somethings happen: long-procrastinated cleaning, reading, hanging out with BF. All of that made me happy.
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I couldn't go for a walk with my friend because she injured herself but I could go for a walk and send her pictures of the dogs I met.
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Today is cooler than yesterday so we can walk (a lazy day yesterday was nice, but I sleep so much better when I have done something)
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@Malcat an unusual coincidence. Would you describe members of your group as quirky or unconventional?
Today's happiness: Sunday brunch on the terrace with a view of Mount Lycabettus, and grateful for some emergency English -> Greek translation help later today for our exhibition.
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Oh! I have another one!
So I was out to dinner last night with a group of women who are all very successful medical professionals, including my amazing dentist. Anyway, somehow we find out that we all have the strangest thing in common: we all had pet rats at some point.
How weird is that???
So I guess that means, since my daughter loves all rodents and would LOOOVE a pet rat, that means she will likely become a successful medical professional. Good to know. :P
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I scored a secondhand brand new sewing machine. The person I bought it from had purchased it a few years ago and then never used it. I’ve been happily sewing cotton masks all afternoon. I have quite a bit of scrap fabric so now I can coordinate my masks to my outfits.
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I was very productive today without overdoing it and making myself miserable. I can actually enjoy the feeling that I got everything I needed to done.
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Nice productive day with my wife before our first baby arrives in a few weeks.
Lifted weights for 75 minutes and then cycled 30 miles on the peloton.
My wife and I went to the organic grocery store, set up a “Ring” home security system, packed the hospital bag for the baby, and a few other odds and ends.
Now about to eat some delicious sous vide tenderloin, corn on the cob, and mashed baby red potatoes..
Our days will be changing very soon, and we’re anxiously awaiting!
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Today's happiness was getting all the materials needed for the birthday gift I'm making for my nephew. The timeline is short, so I'm glad to be able to start now.
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I went to the DMV today to get a Real ID and was prepared for a multi-hour ordeal. It was fairly busy, but they were super efficient and I was in and out in about half an hour! Never thought I'd put "going to the DMV" on my happiness list. 😉
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@nessness what an incredible story!
Yesterday's happiness was a massage. It was rough and I'm a bit sore, but now I have increased mobility in my shoulder!
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Woke up at 4:45 AM at this morning and went for an hour-long bike ride while the temperature was still under 30C. It’s amazing how energized and awake I currently feel.
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Remembered to log into a friend-Zoom that I seem to have forgotten about for the last month. Nice to see those folks!
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Similar to @oneday - I got my first massage in 18 months. I have scoliosis (among other challenges) & the pain has been immense. I felt like an entirely new person afterward.
On a related note, I was also able to give my Theracane (manual massage tool) away, as we have a TheraGun. I made someone else very, very happy on my Buy Nothing group, as she is unable to get a massage & suffering from an injury. I love being able to help someone else out, and getting stuff out of my house that we don't need. Wins all around.
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Yesterday I did a lot of procrastinating, but finally got around to my targeted to-do item. It was not even as bad as I was expecting! Happy to have that off my list forever.
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I got a big bag of fresh veggies from a woman in a Facebook group I'm in, and gave her a dozen eggs in exchange. Facebook has its flaws (major understatement), but can be great for facilitating things like that.
The kids stayed over at my mom's house last night, and my husband and I went out for dinner, which we haven't done in forever. It was really nice.
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How is everyone doing with "happiness"? I've struggled recently with overall mood, and yet there is something *every day* that is a bright spot.
Yesterday's was finishing my craft project by the deadline (it's a gift).
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How is everyone doing with "happiness"?
I am doing pretty well. I was saying to Hubs yesterday, I can't actually remember the last day I had a 'bad day'.
Without work's ups and downs my life has settled into quite a steady pattern, and it's a good one. Threads like this are really good for making me notice that.
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Really great.
April was a brutal, brutal, ugly, challenging month, and it's taken some time to fully bounce back, but I'm totally back to my normal happy self again.
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I was able to rebook my vacation last minute with no penalties (we are in the middle of a typhoon and the government recommends staying indoors as much as possible). I live on an upper floor of the building so there’s little chance of my unit being flooded. My apartment is snug and cozy. We have lots of food and lots of water. I spent the day reading. Life is good.
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Today's happiness was my 4-year-old. She was staring at me this morning so I asked her what was up, and she responded, "nothing, I just love you." 🥰
She also made me a picture and wrote "mom" on it mostly correctly. And she's starting to get the hang of swimming - she can swim around 10 feet independently.
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Today I was offered a 2 week casual admin job, starting tomorrow. The people are lovely, the pay is GREAT and it will get me out of the house and into a productive routine during this current lockdown! Because I have become such a good declutterer and home organiser (years in the making, believe me!) I have clean clothes for the next 2 weeks, and a freezer full of single serve meals to take for my lunches. And our lockdown is almost certain to lift in the next couple of days. YAY.
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Today I have the day off of work and so I didn’t have to set an alarm. I woke up in my own good time. I’ve just filled my cycling bottle with clean water from a tap, that seemingly like magic produces clean water every time I use it. I’m just going out in the sunshine for a bike ride and when I come back I have strawberries. Mmmm strawberries.
Both myself and Bertie the bike are very happy and appreciative right now, although selfishly I won’t be sharing my strawberries with him.
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July had ups & downs for me, but mostly ups. It was very, very quiet (our two teens were spending 3 weeks with my parents).
A few happiness moments:
-After not being alone with my spouse for any chunks of time in 15+ years, it's clear that we are still a good match/will enjoy each other in retirement. It's not that I doubted this, it's just that our lives are pretty busy & kid focused.
-I started to get used to the quietness. In many ways, it was so wonderful & relaxing. In other ways, it made me aware that I will have time for additional hobbies/friends/activities
-My 14 y.o finally said he missed me, on a call. Only took three weeks. ;-) My teens can be very surly, so this was an unexpected surprise
-My kids & my dad participated in a huge fundraiser (that my dad organized & led). I was a bit anxious about it (biking 40 miles of mountain biking, in the dark with headlamps for the kids, & almost double that for my dad). It all went well, they exceeded their fundraising targets, everyone survived without injuries, and both the kids & my dad are thrilled with the feeling of completing such a big event. My dad is 71, so this was a big deal for him, and has kept him in great shape the past couple of years.
-I finally have a doctor's appointment on Wednesday. It's part of why July has been hard for me, but knowing that I'm meeting with experts & will get some answers to long standing questions & challenges feels like a lot of progress.
Also, I made myself a delicious cup of tea this morning. It's cool enough for tea, and that's always a win.
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I had been having a bit of a sad this month but this weekend pulled myself out of the slump and decided to truly enjoy not having to find a new job in the middle of lockdown. Ofpym has a week off and we are booping around in a very retirement-lite fashion, and it's super enjoyable.
- It's been a month since I woke up because of an alarm
- It's a glorious cool sunny day
- I had a splendid cup of coffee
- I get to go running with my dog this morning
- I bought some books to help me with some of my hobby goals.
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The typhoon has passed and I am looking forward to a morning power walk and likely also an evening walk.
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Good to hear so many happy reports! I'm going to list it as today's happiness, it's really boosted my mood!
@MarcherLady your even mood and @Malcat your return to normal/happy and @Freedomin5 your "life is good" in the face of a typhoon are inspiring to me.
@nessness your daughter is heart-meltingly adorable.
Yesterday Mom, her husband, my BF and I made avocado toast by committee and it was glorious!
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Nice to catch up on everyone's happinesses.
I was away for a few weeks and getting home yesterday was a real joy-making moment.
Also, my visit with family went well (with ups & downs..but mostly up especially since I spent more time than usual so it was a more casual vibe, was even able to see some childhood friends) I spent time in the garden admiring valerian in bloom, weeding thistles, building a pea trellis with my dad.
And was there for my nephews birthday--he turned 4. I hung big cut branches from the ceiling alongside some big paper pom-poms and during dinner he just looked up while eating and said 'this room just looks so sweet'.
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Good to hear so many happy reports! I'm going to list it as today's happiness, it's really boosted my mood!
@MarcherLady your even mood and @Malcat your return to normal/happy and @Freedomin5 your "life is good" in the face of a typhoon are inspiring to me.
@nessness your daughter is heart-meltingly adorable.
Yesterday Mom, her husband, my BF and I made avocado toast by committee and it was glorious!
I was actually on a nice long phone call with another forum member yesterday talking about happiness and how it isn't so much a state as a learnable skill. It's more an approach to life than a product of it.
Sometimes there are major barriers to happiness, I was frankly NOT happy in April, but it's all about managing those barriers and appropriately processing whatever shit comes along so that it doesn't permanently alter your capacity to enjoy your life.
If there's one major thing I've learned in my crazy, crazy life is that literally ANYTHING can be processed and incorporated into a process of thriving. It's not easy, but it's simple.
That said, a lot of things need to be resolved before they can be processed. There are certain barriers to well being that are simply not sustainable. I know too many people trying to sustain lives in unsustainable conditions, and that's why they're so fucking miserable.
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Today I went to my weekly sewing group. I’m really happy it’s on each week, and it’s a lovely group of people. We meet in a free room in a venue and there is an enormous television there (it’s muted). During the one and a half hours I was there the Olympic Games were on live, and we saw the coxless women’s and men’s rowing and the women’s two hundred metres swimming finals, each of which was a gold medal for our team, as well as a number of other heats. We were all very happy to see this. It’s probably the only part of the olympics that I’ll see live since I don’t have a television.
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Today I saw a woman walking with five (5) standard poodles, perfectly graded in hue from cream to jersey caramel. Since I was wearing a similar palette, it gave me this perfect moment of happiness imagining myself with 5 tonally perfect dogs.
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Today I saw a woman walking with five (5) standard poodles, perfectly graded in hue from cream to jersey caramel. Since I was wearing a similar palette, it gave me this perfect moment of happiness imagining myself with 5 tonally perfect dogs.
That’s wonderful!
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Today I saw a woman walking with five (5) standard poodles, perfectly graded in hue from cream to jersey caramel. Since I was wearing a similar palette, it gave me this perfect moment of happiness imagining myself with 5 tonally perfect dogs.
No photos? Darn!
Today Hubs is on one of his solo outings, so I have the house to myself for the day. I will miss him, but only a bit :-)
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Today was the perfect balance of productivity and lounging about.
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Happiness is the first cup of tea after the power comes back on!
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I was actually on a nice long phone call with another forum member yesterday talking about happiness and how it isn't so much a state as a learnable skill. It's more an approach to life than a product of it.
Sometimes there are major barriers to happiness, I was frankly NOT happy in April, but it's all about managing those barriers and appropriately processing whatever shit comes along so that it doesn't permanently alter your capacity to enjoy your life.
If there's one major thing I've learned in my crazy, crazy life is that literally ANYTHING can be processed and incorporated into a process of thriving. It's not easy, but it's simple.
That said, a lot of things need to be resolved before they can be processed. There are certain barriers to well being that are simply not sustainable. I know too many people trying to sustain lives in unsustainable conditions, and that's why they're so fucking miserable.
The bold, I don't totally disagree with. Well, it's fair to say I haven't really thought about happiness in those terms, so maybe it's less a matter of agree/disagree than a point I will mull over now that you've put it that way. Good stuff!
Today was the perfect balance of productivity and lounging about.
Love those days!!!
Today's happiness is opening the music app on my phone instead of computer, and finding the "guitar gods" playlist that I thought was lost! Yay!!!
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My neighbor gave me a mini loaf of banana bread last night, and another neighbor left a big bag of peaches on my doorstep today. I have (mostly) great neighbors.
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I got my flat bike tire replaced today, and the guy only charged me 20 rmb. When I first had it replaced about a month ago, he charged me 35 rmb. Maybe he felt bad that I got a flat so soon after he had just replaced it. I’m looking forward to a nice long bike ride tomorrow morning.
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I was actually on a nice long phone call with another forum member yesterday talking about happiness and how it isn't so much a state as a learnable skill. It's more an approach to life than a product of it.
Sometimes there are major barriers to happiness, I was frankly NOT happy in April, but it's all about managing those barriers and appropriately processing whatever shit comes along so that it doesn't permanently alter your capacity to enjoy your life.
If there's one major thing I've learned in my crazy, crazy life is that literally ANYTHING can be processed and incorporated into a process of thriving. It's not easy, but it's simple.
That said, a lot of things need to be resolved before they can be processed. There are certain barriers to well being that are simply not sustainable. I know too many people trying to sustain lives in unsustainable conditions, and that's why they're so fucking miserable.
The bold, I don't totally disagree with. Well, it's fair to say I haven't really thought about happiness in those terms, so maybe it's less a matter of agree/disagree than a point I will mull over now that you've put it that way. Good stuff!
I don't say it as a casual statement, I say it as someone who has dedicated an enormous amount of work to understand well being and happiness.
Life does not make you happy, how you approach it makes you happy. That's why there are so many people who have literally everything they need to be happy, who are walking around miserable. Our society doesn't teach people how to be happy.
It's actually quite challenging for most people.
I scratch the surface of most people around me, and the vast majority aren't nearly as happy as they pretend to be. They're just used to it and think that it's normal.
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Had a bit of an accident yesterday which landed me in ER getting a few stitches...and I have to say that accessible healthcare makes me very happy. Or maybe it's just not having to worry about small accidents having big costs which makes me happy.
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@Salim I'm glad your accident ended up with you being OK in the big picture.
I don't say it as a casual statement, I say it as someone who has dedicated an enormous amount of work to understand well being and happiness.
I totally get that about you, having read some of your other writings here & there on this forum.
Life does not make you happy, how you approach it makes you happy. That's why there are so many people who have literally everything they need to be happy, who are walking around miserable. Our society doesn't teach people how to be happy.
It's actually quite challenging for most people.
I scratch the surface of most people around me, and the vast majority aren't nearly as happy as they pretend to be. They're just used to it and think that it's normal.
Is there more to it than the correct approach? I can think of no better place for you to drop nuggets of wisdom re: happiness than this thread! If you are so inclined. :)
Today's happiness was getting to the hardware store 1/2 hour before closing. They were in the process of pulling the pallets of merchandise that sit out front during open hours into the store for safekeeping overnight. What I was there for was in one of the aisles filled with pallets of potting soil. As I approached from one end, an employee was depositing yet another pallet into the other end of that aisle. We had a short conversation about what I was there to purchase and I asked if I could walk on the pallets/merchandise to get my stuff. The employee said it was OK as long as I didn't puncture any bags. Woo hoo! They were super stable and about knee high, so not terribly treacherous. But I was totally surprised that it was OK to do! I retrieved the stuff without damaging any other merchandise or myself :) It was fun. Plus, tomorrow I should be able to finish the project that needed that stuff.
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I’m happy that it’s July and not June. Today would be the last day of the month if it was June. But since it’s July there’s another day in the month. I may be able to achieve most of my goals this month! I’ve been desperately trying to finish some things before the end of the month today (because I thought it was June), but they won’t be finished until tomorrow.
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I got a nice compliment yesterday that made me happy. I was buying a full cart of groceries at Aldi and the checker told me I did a fantastic job organizing my stuff on the belt to make her job easier. She said I could teach a class for other shoppers. :)
Admittedly I do some of the organization for selfish reasons (protect my stuff from damage) but there are also things I do just for the checkers' efficiency, and it made me glad to hear that she appreciated it.
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@Salim I'm glad your accident ended up with you being OK in the big picture.
I don't say it as a casual statement, I say it as someone who has dedicated an enormous amount of work to understand well being and happiness.
I totally get that about you, having read some of your other writings here & there on this forum.
Life does not make you happy, how you approach it makes you happy. That's why there are so many people who have literally everything they need to be happy, who are walking around miserable. Our society doesn't teach people how to be happy.
It's actually quite challenging for most people.
I scratch the surface of most people around me, and the vast majority aren't nearly as happy as they pretend to be. They're just used to it and think that it's normal.
Is there more to it than the correct approach? I can think of no better place for you to drop nuggets of wisdom re: happiness than this thread! If you are so inclined. :)
Well, it will depend on the individual.
First, I don't actually like the term happiness, because it can be interpreted in a lot of ways. Does it mean an overall state, or a momentary experience, or an approach, gratitude, or whatever.
I prefer to use the terms thriving and well being, because that's pretty clear to me. Someone is either thriving and doing well or they aren't. A lot of people will say they're happy because they have a lot of things in life that they're incredibly grateful for, but it's obvious that they are struggling and burning out.
So in terms of well being and thriving, there are two main elements.
1: removing barriers to well being
2: learning to thrive and foster well being
1: Barriers
I'm from a Danish family, the Danes are known for being the happiest people in the world. Except, they aren't actually particularly cheerful people, what they are, on average, is less burdened with barriers to well being as a society.
It's not that they're exuberantly joyful and that balances out the normal shit of life, it's that they're missing a lot of the worst parts of life. They trust their government, they trust their communities, they trust their general safety, and they trust their social programs.
You have to remove the barriers to thriving in order to obtain a general state of well being.
The key is understanding these barriers, and those vary for everyone. But the common theme is that they are things that cause ongoing trauma. Ongoing trauma is caused by circumstances that are a combo of the following: repeated, unpredictable, and perceived as unjust. Prime examples are abusive relationships, toxic workplaces, and addiction.
Barriers are things that cannot be coped through, as long as they are an active force, no matter what you do, they will continue to deteriorate your well being. The longer they are present, the more damage accrues, the more work it will take to recover, and the more likelihood of permanent damage.
2: learning to thrive and foster well being
This is also individual. The tricky part is that almost everything society indoctrinates us to believe is important will actually work against this goal. So it's a constant navigation between what feels like the right thing to do, and what's actually going to work.
For this part, especially when someone is working from a major deficit, I usually start with identifying key indicators of wellness, because they're universal. No matter what the individual needs to thrive, these key indicators will improve along the way.
Key Indicators:
-good sleep
-waking feeling rested and at ease
-excellent nutrition
-frequent, enjoyable exercise
-quality time spent with loved ones
These are very, very simple, basic quality of life metrics that the vast majority of people do not have in their lives. But they are excellent key indicators of thriving, and they're the things that quickly become compromised when a system is taxed outside of its adaptive capacity.
You can't just pressure yourself to have a happier approach to life, it has to be a systematic approach to nurturing your own well being, the way you would for a child. You have to care 100% of the time how you are doing, what you really need, and how you are going to get it. Because no one else will do it otherwise.
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Ah yes the sheer joy I felt this morning when I found some jam in the back of the cupboard I feared was out of date, but it turned out wasn’t, definitely falls into the “momentary experience” category!
I like how you’ve framed the barriers and thriving aspects there. I tend to think of happiness as:
1. Contentment.
2. The ability to appreciate the small things and find joy in them.
3. A state of being where we feel capable and confident of overcoming our problems.
I guess my barriers must be low enough that I was in a place mentally to enjoy the jam find. Presumably if I was burnt out the jam find would have barely registered any joy within as it would be completely overshadowed by whatever barriers I was experiencing. I guess most of the entries in this thread are of the momentary variety, but the fact they can occur implies a good base level of happiness if you like.
I like the thought of compiling some quality of life metrics. I definitely don’t have the right balance here because work takes too much of my time for me to focus on them sufficiently for me to hit the level I would like to, but not enough for me to feel they are neglected either.
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Ah yes the sheer joy I felt this morning when I found some jam in the back of the cupboard I feared was out of date, but it turned out wasn’t, definitely falls into the “momentary experience” category!
I like how you’ve framed the barriers and thriving aspects there. I tend to think of happiness as:
1. Contentment.
2. The ability to appreciate the small things and find joy in them.
3. A state of being where we feel capable and confident of overcoming our problems.
I guess my barriers must be low enough that I was in a place mentally to enjoy the jam find. Presumably if I was burnt out the jam find would have barely registered any joy within as it would be completely overshadowed by whatever barriers I was experiencing. I guess most of the entries in this thread are of the momentary variety, but the fact they can occur implies a good base level of happiness if you like.
I like the thought of compiling some quality of life metrics. I definitely don’t have the right balance here because work takes too much of my time for me to focus on them sufficiently for me to hit the level I would like to, but not enough for me to feel they are neglected either.
Not necessarily.
A lot of people with high barriers tend to become far too attached to the momentary joys, and this is how they develop self medicating habits that work against their overall well being.
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Oh crumbs, I suddenly have the urge to lay down on a formal looking couch and talk things through with someone! I do like a momentary joy or two. That’s a very good point though you make.
Now I’m wondering how I would work out if I was genuinely appreciating the momentary stuff or if I was too attached to them, and whether or not I’ve spent today comfort eating jam sandwiches!
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Oh crumbs, I suddenly have the urge to lay down on a formal looking couch and talk things through with someone! I do like a momentary joy or two. That’s a very good point though you make.
Now I’m wondering how I would work out if I was genuinely appreciating the momentary stuff or if I was too attached to them, and whether or not I’ve spent today comfort eating jam sandwiches!
Lol, it doesn't actually matter.
Just don't use the presence of momentary joy as a key indicator of wellness. You don't need to overthink it.
Think of it this way. When you look at your life exactly as it is now, if you keep living the same way, are you in better shape after 10 more years or worse shape?
It's really that simple. It's not easy, but it's simple.
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Haha yes I do tend to overthink things.
I can simply and confidently say that if I keep living the same way for ten more years I would be in worse shape. Thankfully I have a plan next year to go part time that I would expect to address that balance and change the answer. I would only need to do that for a handful of years before I could make a much more significant change to the way I live.
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Oh crumbs, I suddenly have the urge to lay down on a formal looking couch and talk things through with someone! I do like a momentary joy or two. That’s a very good point though you make.
Now I’m wondering how I would work out if I was genuinely appreciating the momentary stuff or if I was too attached to them, and whether or not I’ve spent today comfort eating jam sandwiches!
Lol, it doesn't actually matter.
Just don't use the presence of momentary joy as a key indicator of wellness. You don't need to overthink it.
Think of it this way. When you look at your life exactly as it is now, if you keep living the same way, are you in better shape after 10 more years or worse shape?
It's really that simple. It's not easy, but it's simple.
That is a very insightful statement @Malcat ---thank you for your well-considered musings. I can say that I would be in fairly similar/slightly better shape but I'm working on creating more opportunities that would tip me into even better shape.
Time to go for a walk and work on that aspect of it.
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I mowed a lawn today for the first time ever. It was quite satisfying, and looks pretty good! (Just moved in with my partner, after apartment living all of my adult life.)
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I went to an (outdoor, socially distanced) concert last night. I haven't been to a concert in years, and it was really fun and nice to get out of my routine.
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@Malcat thanks for sharing your perspective. There's a lot there, and taking it all in is going to be a process. I'm glad to see others also are seemingly getting some good stuff out of it.
Today's happinesses were many. Visiting with hobby friends, including a few I haven't seen in a while; visiting with Mom; getting exactly all my necessary errands done with no compromise of pushing off to a future date or doing "extra" because I have some time. IOW, balance :)
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Today's happiness was getting our second vaccines. Since we were there early (9.40) it was just walk up, walk in, get jabbed, walk out. Just a really smooth experience and then we took a tiny walk around the regenerating marshlands park and it was just really lovely and calming.
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Completed one portion of a long-term art project today. It's been about two years in the making and is a strange secret joy for me. I haven't shown it to many people (besides my SO as he is helping me accomplish it) and it feels nice to keep something quiet as I've gotten quite used to the online sharing culture.
Plus, was out in nature and the smells were summery divine.
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Got my car back from the mechanic after 3 days without it, including 2 days of missing work. (I live pretty far away from work right now, and my partner is out of town so he couldn't drive me.) It was great to be able to drive myself to work this afternoon and start tackling my backlog there.
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My daughter and I made some curtains using my vintage Singer 301A sewing machine, which runs beautifully. Such a happy day.
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mspym: 2nd vax, wooooooooooooo! 👍
Serendip, it is so cool to see your dedication to your project! 2 years and counting is quite a long time.
SquashingDebt not everyone would be happy about getting back to work! Glad you could find the upside to it.
Trifele I love that you are using the vintage machine and it still runs and does the job. Plus working happily with your daughter; that's really the best part.
Today's happiness was finding the motivation on my own for a walk to the library and return a few books. Plus, making the decision not to *also* carry the Little Free Library books. I would have been uncomfortable and there's no reason to wait another day to send them out into the world. At peace with the decision to keep the "clutter" around for another 24 hours.
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Found a problem at work yesterday that could have been a biiiiig problem. Did some investigating/testing and it didn't seem so bad. Then got the final confirmation from my boss last night at 9 pm that he thinks it's not really a problem at all (helping us interpret the test results). He texted back that late because he thought it would help me sleep better, which was true. So I'm grateful for less hassle at work and also a considerate manager.
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And I'm not really copying oneday, but my happiness today is that I've just strolled through the village in perfect walking temps to the little free library to drop off a couple of books. The sun was shining, the birds were singing, all was right with the world, or at least my little bit of it, even if just for those 10 minutes.
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Found a problem at work yesterday that could have been a biiiiig problem. Did some investigating/testing and it didn't seem so bad. Then got the final confirmation from my boss last night at 9 pm that he thinks it's not really a problem at all (helping us interpret the test results). He texted back that late because he thought it would help me sleep better, which was true. So I'm grateful for less hassle at work and also a considerate manager.
That IS thoughtful of your boss...nothing like some unnecessary midnight ruminating to ruin a good nights sleep!
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Thanks oneday--it feels nice to work on something long term with no pressure (and by not telling people about it, it even removes the pressure of anyone asking how it's going, ha) Complete creative freedom :)
Have scheduled three walks/hikes with different friends this week.
I am an introvert and can be quite happy toodling around on my own but these are relationships that I value and spending time outdoors, catching up with a friend is a really wonderful way to spend a portion of each day.
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It’s nice to be home after several days of traveling. I’ve missed my DH and DD.
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@MarcherLady lol, no worries about copying! My happiness was more about being able to make the best decisions for self care rather than slavishly trying to squeeze out the max productivity. Besides, it's bound to happen that two of us do the same thing on the same day :)
@Freedomin5 I often experience the same "nice to be home" feeling after travel.
Yesterday's happiness was remembering to take the books to the LFL. *And* finishing another LFL book, to go back at a later date (maybe today?).
Today's happiness has already arrived. A small camping lamp's batteries burned out. After replacing them, it still didn't work. I bought a special screwdriver to disassemble it (and later returned it because it was a duplicate). I spent time tracking down parts online. But never purchased any. It was a whole big thing. It's been cluttering up my side table and caused a "landslide" of other clutter to accumulate there, which has been difficult to manage because of not wanting to lose any of the little pieces. Today, the lamp lit!!!!! So it is re-assembled and will go into my go-bag next time I'm at the car. Woo hoo!!!!
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-I've run three times this week & have actually stuck to my training plan. I'm tired, but in a really good way
-The weather here has been fantastic. Sunny during the day, a nice breeze, and cool in the mornings/evenings
-Our garden has continued to produce, & I find it so enjoyable to make salads out of all of the stuff we've grown
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My hands have been bothering me (I have a physically intensive job) and I've been contemplating how I might transition out of my current work in order to protect them--last night I had a dream scenario (including art) which had me thinking 'this is exactly where I'm supposed to be!'.
I woke up feeling less concerned, somehow knowing that my subconscious is also working on a solution brought me some comfort (even IF there are still no clear answers, it was an exciting feeling). I am NOWHERE near my financial goals but I am closer than I would've been so that brings some peace as well.
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I had the WEIRDEST deposition today. So, so strange.
But the only plausible explanation of how bizarre it was is that the lawsuit is going to turn out well for me.
I'm friends with a lot of lawyers in relevant fields for my case, and they all agree that what happened was very odd, and points to an early end to this bullshit.
Why was it so surreal? Because opposing counsel asked me literally NOTHING about the key elements of the complaint.
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Wow Malcat. Sounds like they can't win on the core facts, so are looking for a technicality. Fingers crossed for you!
Today was just a good day. Had that overall sense of life being something I can handle, which is a feeling that comes and goes. Nice to have it, for a change.
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That is excellent @oneday, you've got this.
My joy was a splendid walk with Honey where she worked really hard at Being Good and I got to enjoy the magnolia blossoms against a ridiculously blue sky.
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Wow Malcat. Sounds like they can't win on the core facts, so are looking for a technicality. Fingers crossed for you!
I can't get into the details until it's over, but my team has a solid theory. There's one very obvious explanation, and it's a good one for me. There's only one very convoluted explanation that doesn't work in my favour, but it still doesn't actually make any sense.
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Thanks @mspym . Your walk sounds like just the thing.
@Malcat of course I am intrigued about the details of the case, since it is forbidden knowledge! I hope you will at least let us know if it shakes out in your favor.
Today's avocado was perfectly ripe for my toast.
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Thanks @mspym . Your walk sounds like just the thing.
@Malcat of course I am intrigued about the details of the case, since it is forbidden knowledge! I hope you will at least let us know if it shakes out in your favor.
Today's avocado was perfectly ripe for my toast.
Next date isn't until late October, so it will be awhile before any updates.
Tomorrow I get to deal with another lawsuit, and then Monday, even another one on top of that. Only the first one directly involves me though, the other two involve the condo board I'm president of.
Still, my life is just a pile of lawsuits at the moment, so it's a good thing I generally enjoy the process.
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We took our lunch to the park today and had a wee picnic. It was so relaxing. Definitely going to add to the repetoire
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My partner has movers halfway through loading up his uHaul right now and he'll be starting his 20 hour drive this afternoon to move back to our state/move in with me! Can't wait to officially live with him! (And pay for zero apartments instead of two! Our new place is paid for by renting out the other unit on the property.)
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I’m a Canadian working for an American company. Since I selected the health insurance that doesn’t cover USA, my premiums are a lot lower than my American coworkers. The company is giving me the difference in cash (Happiness #1). I’ve already spent all of it as a donation to an organization working with Syrian refugees (Happiness #2). I also feel very happy and grateful that we are in a position where we can be generous both with our time and money (Happiness #3).
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-I got to sleep in an extra 45 minutes today. Extra sleep is always pure happiness.
-The kids have been eating blueberries & cucumbers straight out of the garden
-School starts on Monday! The first time my 14 y.o. has been in full time school in 18 months. (Fully vaccinated, fully masked)
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A walk to the library with my BF and getting new books!!!
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My daughter turned 21 today. We had home made bagels with smoked salmon and cream cheese for brunch and bbq lamb with home made pita for dinner and Nigella's custard birthday cake. Because it is all about the food:-) It was a marvellous day.
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I love getting books and magazines from the library!
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I’ve just had a great bike ride. The sun was shining, the birds were singing and the cars were well behaved.
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I’ve just had a great bike ride. The sun was shining, the birds were singing and the cars were well behaved.
Perfect!
My happiness is drinking coffee, listening to the birds and enjoying not running the dog today.
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I love getting books and magazines from the library!
It's so great!
I finished a craft project today that was just sitting around for weeks. Just needed the finishing touches, it took about 15 minutes.
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Currently having a leisurely breakfast, watching the dog nap peacefully in the morning sunshine.
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I have had some really good quality sleep for the last few nights. The frustrating thing is I can't pin-point any behaviours that are different between the good nights and the crappy nights. But I'll take it as a win.
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Here’s to good sleep! So lovely.
My happiness from this morning is I sold two dozen eggs from our chickens to one of my neighbors who’s a regular customer. She always gives me back the cartons so I don’t have to buy more.
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Walked to work yesterday, listening to familiar music and enjoying a light drizzle of rain. Felt generally contented (and a lightness of being).
The changing of seasons hasn't brought angst and I'm in a good place with my routine, relationships and inner work. There are many stressors affecting folks right now and I feel fortunate to be in a situation that is working for me.
Also grateful for a SO who likes to cook, guests who are beyond generous ( dinners & sourdough donuts), and another friend with a 4x4 truck who drove us up a gnarly forestry road to be able to do a hike (one which was on my hiking bucket list for years!)
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After several smoky days, the air is finally clear(ish). I took an evening walk yesterday which felt great - being trapped inside really affects my mood.
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Thank you @SquashingDebt for reviving this thread! I was happy to see it!
Today's happiness was getting started on a scanning project: going to scan a bunch of old documents and photos and reduce my possessions by about 6 boxes worth. It's daunting, but good to get started.
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I made my first-ever batch of homemade popsicles. They are tasty!
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It was a sublimely sunny start to Spring so my DS18 and I took the dog for a beach walk and swim. So thankful he still wants to hang out with me sometimes, and is coping with the shitty Yr 12 year in lockdown.
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It was a sublimely sunny start to Spring so my DS18 and I took the dog for a beach walk and swim. So thankful he still wants to hang out with me sometimes, and is coping with the shitty Yr 12 year in lockdown.
That's really good!
Today's happiness was riding my bike to the grocery store and on the way home having the thought "I might never have to go to work again" pop into my head.
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I got to see owls and an eagle today.
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I’m working on a gorgeous painting of an autumn deciduous forest scene. I haven’t seen a Canadian autumn with its riotous colors in real life for over 8 years, so I’m enjoying this little memento of home.
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I got engaged last night!!!
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I got engaged last night!!!
Congrats!
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I got engaged last night!!!
Huge congrats!
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Congrats @SquashingDebt , all the best to you and your fiance!
Walked 4 hours over the last few days and my knee held up. Yay!
Also, the cross-legged owl (https://www.google.com/search?q=cross+legged+owl&rlz=1C1SQJL_enUS773US773&sxsrf=AOaemvK-bHsWs8rhs0MO1VSgGOvkEg0lWA:1630965939526&tbm=isch&source=iu&ictx=1&fir=L2iZ58PVur7O5M%252CwMmpZ3G7wM3Z2M%252C_&vet=1&usg=AI4_-kQJvXys0OLOfURvz-ycUrmEIK16Rg&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwix7tzLrevyAhWvSjABHSXrADwQ9QF6BAgPEAE#imgrc=R37gXwWf6DpLhM).
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After 5 days, the flash flood remnants of Ida finally left my basement today. It was so nice to empty the backup (yes, I have 2 for a small house) dehumidifier and not smell any lingering musty or moldy odors. Basement is my craft studio so now I can get back to making things.
Also, college kiddo came home for the long weekend and we did a lot of bonding activities!!!
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Congrats on engagements, long walks without knee pain, and the end of Ida & flooding!
Mine is way smaller, but cut cilantro from a potted plant for dinner tonight. That amazing smell!
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Thanks, all! I'm super excited! Today's happiness is getting to tell my coworkers about my engagement :)
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Thanks, all! I'm super excited! Today's happiness is getting to tell my coworkers about my engagement :)
BRILLIANT!
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Congratulations @SquashingDebt
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It's raining! Not enough to end the fire season or make a dent in the drought, but it's a start anyway, and the air feels so fresh and clean.
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Thanks, all! I'm super excited! Today's happiness is getting to tell my coworkers about my engagement :)
Adding to all the congratulations!!
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Caught a barred owl feeding on a bunny yesterday.
It was wild and majestic, especially as it was in full predator mode and ruffled its feathers up into a wild shape.
It's a trail I've walked many times before but this was a totally different experience to see close-up.
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Oh wow, @Serendip that sounds so cool.
On the other hand, my happiness today is I did a chore. The thing that I wanted to scrub had been sitting mocking me for several days, so glad to have that out of sight (and clean) again. Plus, it was clogging up my energy pipeline with guilt and causing other things to go un-done and bringing on a depression. I'm so glad I can identify these things now, even if it still take me some time to clear the block.
Yesterday was a more positive happiness...I voted!
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The best little happiness today is cooking up some bison burgers that I got for $5 a pound. Seasoned them with Penzey's Sandwich Sprinkle.
The other one is that I think I finally got rid of all the wasps that have been getting inside over the past week. Been vacuuming about one or two a day. :P Sorry, wasps. You haven't been very aggressive but I don't want you in my personal space, please and thank you. Well, OK, I did manage to shoo one out peacefully.
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We had a mouse and our dog* caught and killed it. All that lizard pouncing in the front yard paid off.
*Half staffy so she comes by the rodent killing naturally
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Finished a cheery painting that will grace my windowless office at work.
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A deep, dreamless sleep. woke up naturally alert at 6:15..
(must continue with my quest to reduce alcohol consumption..this is always the first positive change I notice!)
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A deep, dreamless sleep. woke up naturally alert at 6:15..
(must continue with my quest to reduce alcohol consumption..this is always the first positive change I notice!)
Oh I miss dreamless sleep. I'm on a new medication whose main side effect is insane dreams. I've just gotten used to them, but for someone who almost never remembered dreams and virtually always had very mundane work dreams, this new ultra intense, ultra vivid cinematic experience I come out of every morning has been a little extra for my taste.
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Malcat, I'm sorry your subconscious is trolling you.
Today's happiness was re-watching Office Space with my boyfriend. Ok, so it doesn't pass the Bechdel test; my standards have changed since 1999. But this movie is *so* quotable, that BF and I expanded out shared vocabulary. 😄
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Malcat, I'm sorry your subconscious is trolling you.
Today's happiness was re-watching Office Space with my boyfriend. Ok, so it doesn't pass the Bechdel test; my standards have changed since 1999. But this movie is *so* quotable, that BF and I expanded out shared vocabulary. 😄
They not bad dreams, just very, very intensely vivid. I wake up shaking my head thinking "what the fuck even was that?"
I am getting used to it, and DH is enjoying the daily recaps.
It's just intensely strange for someone who normally has such pedestrian dreams. Up until now my dreams almost entirely consisted of trying to do something mundane and not being able to.
Now it's like nightly Alice in Wonderland shit.
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Malcat, I'm sorry your subconscious is trolling you.
Today's happiness was re-watching Office Space with my boyfriend. Ok, so it doesn't pass the Bechdel test; my standards have changed since 1999. But this movie is *so* quotable, that BF and I expanded out shared vocabulary. 😄
They not bad dreams, just very, very intensely vivid. I wake up shaking my head thinking "what the fuck even was that?"
I am getting used to it, and DH is enjoying the daily recaps.
It's just intensely strange for someone who normally has such pedestrian dreams. Up until now my dreams almost entirely consisted of trying to do something mundane and not being able to.
Now it's like nightly Alice in Wonderland shit.
My new-ish medication also gives me vivid dreams. I find them a little tiring, but they're not terrible. Last night I dreamed I moved to an oceanfront city and was riding a flying school bus and could see dolphins swimming as we flew over the ocean on the way to the school. That was one of the better ones. The night before I dreamed that my father was a cannibal and I was helping him vacuum-pack and freeze meat. Gross.
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I'm beginning to build a social network here in this village (we have just passed the 2nd anniversary of when we moved cross-country). One of the ladies at the first WI meeting I went to this week was someone I visited when I was playing Easter bunny
Santa's little helper as part of our COVID support team. When I went to Yoga this week my neighbour was the person opening up the community centre for the teacher. It is nice to go places and see people I know - even just a little bit.
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My husband has to travel for work about once a month. I get major anxiety being home overnight without him, due to an ongoing issue with someone harassing us (vandalizing our home and my car, making threats against us, stealing our mail, banging on our door late at night, etc.). Well, we just made it through what should be his last trip before we move!
We're under contract on an awesome new house, and yesterday a neighbor held a potluck to welcome families who are moving in or recently moved. It was really nice - everyone was friendly and welcoming, and my kids are more excited about the move after befriending a neighbor's dog lol.
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Found some expired yogurt in the fridge. Used it as an excuse to treat myself with homemade pancakes. They turned out alright and cooking was fun.
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I was mentioning to my SO that we need to increase the 'fun factor' in certain aspects of our life (he's a slight workaholic)-- within an hour he came home with a gigantic cinnamon bun for me. This simple thing made me quite happy.
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Went to a cheese festival today!
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@nessness I'm glad your getting away from the harassment!
Today's meeting with my hobby friends was so much fun. Everyone was loose and joyful and we made outrageous claims and laughed a lot.
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I am loving everyone's updates
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Mine is both boys have appointments for their COVID vax and should be fully vaccinated by the time in-person schooling opens up again. PHEW!
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Oohh...cinnamon buns! I need to make cinnamon buns tomorrow morning. We are currently on a stay-at-home order since typhoon is scheduled to land sometime tonight/tomorrow morning. It’s overcast, the wind is whipping around outside, and it’s rainy. Perfect weather for cinnamon buns! Thanks for the inspiration!
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Found some expired yogurt in the fridge. Used it as an excuse to treat myself with homemade pancakes. They turned out alright and cooking was fun.
From what I've seen, yogurt is generally good for as long as it's not moldy. It's already spoiled, right?
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Oohh...cinnamon buns! I need to make cinnamon buns tomorrow morning. We are currently on a stay-at-home order since typhoon is scheduled to land sometime tonight/tomorrow morning. It’s overcast, the wind is whipping around outside, and it’s rainy. Perfect weather for cinnamon buns! Thanks for the inspiration!
Hope you enjoy yours as much as I enjoyed mine, stay safe :)
@nessness --glad you are soon heading into a more peaceful place with your family!
Today's happiness is a day off with no plans but perhaps some music, coffee, art-ing & potentially jumping into a lake even though it's cloudy
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Cinnamon buns turned out beautifully. Didn’t have brown sugar so I used honey instead. They were sticky and delicious!
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Cinnamon buns turned out beautifully. Didn’t have brown sugar so I used honey instead. They were sticky and delicious!
Yum, that sounds delicious!
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Added kidney beans to my chili this time (just haven't happened to have them on hand recently), and it just tastes so much more *right* than black beans. A very pleasant lunch :)
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Was feeling a little overwhelmed by my sewing project and thought "what is the very smallest thing I could do that would feel like progress?" Once I finished ironing the side seams, it was easy to move on to stitching down facing and start on the pockets. No more zero!
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Even though vaccine passports are controversial, the benefits are real-- my SO finally felt comfortable going into a movie theatre. It was cheap night so we enjoyed popcorn & watched a ridiculous film (Free Guy) on the big screen for the first time in eons. There weren't that many people in the theatre either.
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Morning dip in the ocean with a dear friend, sunny day to hang washing put on the line, and a koala visiting in the backyard trees.
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Opening the kitchen cupboard with low expectations but quickly establishing there was one of my favourite chocolate bars left after all. Mmmm delicious!
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@Serendip that was a fun movie! I happen to live near a drive-in theater and so saw it there. A safe-feeling alternative.
Today's happiness was completing 3' of scarf...I've been working on it for a week or so. But this milestone means I allowed myself to buy more yarn, so I've got a fun surprise coming in the mail in another week or so! Motivation to finish this scarf, too.
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Morning dip in the ocean with a dear friend, sunny day to hang washing put on the line, and a koala visiting in the backyard trees.
This post is making me want to move to Australia! Sounds lovely!
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@lazycow's day sounds ideal.
Today's happiness is the return of click and collect to the libraries!
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Thinks are a bit bleak in my head today - I think I need a break from the news for a while - but reading everyone's happiness updates has helped, so thank you all.
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Glorious day today weather-wise — 25C and sunny with just a bit of a breeze. I got my 10k steps in while DD played at the playground with several of her neighborhood friends.
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Visited an old friend and her husband in another city. We all went on a walk sponsored by a local museum focusing on a prominent local architect. She gifted me with five moon cakes, warm from the oven, to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival.
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Finally accomplished an alpine hike that has been on my 'hiking wish-list' for years. It was a cold, clear, brilliant day and my friend & I were in great spirits.
In contrast today it is absolutely pouring rain, so I feel like we snuck that in on one of the last perfect hiking days before snow arrives in the mountains (there was a dusting which created a sparkling effect all morning)
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A rather silly happiness today:
I used to love Green Giant corn tots, but they were discontinued. I cleaned out the garage freezer last night in preparation to recycle it, and found a bag of them that I didn't know we had. I was worried they'd be freezer burned, but I just made some, and they're just as delicious as ever!
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Went for a long walk with a friend this morning. It was just what I needed.
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Walked to the grocery store with BF. He initially had asked, "who will drive?" But I said I'd prefer to walk, and he said he'd actually prefer that too. I love that we support each other in being slightly more active & slightly less damaging to the environment!
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5 AM bike ride this morning — it was so quiet and peaceful, even though I was riding in a city with a population of 30 million. Once DD and DH woke up, we went on a family bike ride by the river.
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Sister called unexpectedly and we had a nice chat
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Making dinner, with a lot of ingredients from the garden. A chimichurri sauce (parsley, oregano, cilantro, jalapenos) & a caprese salad (tomatoes, basil).
My 14 y.o's son's first "job" (ref'ing a soccer game). It was very cool to see him out on his own, excited to earn some money.
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I made some vegan soup with miscellaneous ingredients I had on hand - a small butternut squash, some leftover canned pumpkin, frozen corn, a carrot, an onion, cashew milk, and seasonings - which turned out way better than I expected.
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Hubs is away visiting his parents, I am having a lovely, lazy weekend. Knitting, reading, catching up on some TV. I slept in til 9 two days running and it was glorious!
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@MarcherLady - that sounds fabulous!
I have two teen boys (near 15 & 16). They've always gotten along well, but COVID & staying home together for 18+ months really changed that (plus, maybe just general age). Yesterday for the first time in so long, they played a game together & had a great time. They were laughing & giggling & generally full of shenanigans when I went to bed. It made me so happy.
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More happiness yesterday: I'd invited BF along to what is becoming my normal Saturday morning rounds: library and coffee shop. He initially said yes, but when the time came to leave the house 1.5 hours later, he'd changed his mind. This was no problem, because I hadn't adjusted my plans in any way to accommodate him.
This is personal growth. In the past, I would have made some compromises on my plans specifically to include others, then be disappointed when they weren't as committed to *my* plan and bowed out. So. Happiness on two levels: the activity itself, and the maturity in handling the circumstances!
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Some friends are feeling upset about the quick change of weather we are experiencing where I live (temperatures have dropped substantially) and I've realized that I have no problem with it. Still getting outside but bringing along rain gear & an umbrella.
In fact, I am relishing the cool grey days. Soup weather!
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@oneday high fives for progress
Today's happiness is my new dress is exactly what I was hoping for PLUS it's made from upcycled materials - a linen duvet cover & a pair of laces from a discarded pair of shoes.
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@Serendip I love soup!
@mspym high five back atcha for the dress!
Today's happiness-in-a-vignette was starting a new knitting project and learning 2 new techniques for the starting bit. And using yarn that's been patiently sitting around waiting for it's turn to be turned into a project :)
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Went for a spontaneous late season bike ride… one of those hey what do you want to do today days where you just pick a route and it turns into an epic ride.
Along our journey we passed through a town holding a farmers market and scored lunch to eat along our ride.
Amazing weather, sitting by the lake all by ourselves eating a fresh lunch with the best palisade peaches I have ever had with my favorite person.
Looking forward to retirement so we can have more spontaneous days like this.
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Perfectly timed for the equinox, autumnal weather blew in last night. I'm not thrilled by the thought of winter, but snuggling down under the duvet listening to the wind and the rain was so cozy.
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Perfectly timed for the equinox, autumnal weather blew in last night. I'm not thrilled by the thought of winter, but snuggling down under the duvet listening to the wind and the rain was so cozy.
Exact same thing happened here! Storm blew in right on the equinox with wind and cold rain. It was a super cozy day to be inside.
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@the_fixer that bike ride sounds amazing!
@MarcherLady and @Trifele I'm a tiny bit jealous that you have soup weather.
Happy that I've done all my PT exercises for two days in a row, and reached out to the therapist when one of them wasn't working. Rather than just giving up on the whole thing.
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That looks so beautiful @the_fixer
I went for a gorgeous walk this morning. Work has been really stressful, but I've kept up with my morning workouts, & it's helping with stress management. It's not great still, but it's truly very helpful for my own well being.
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That looks so beautiful @the_fixer
I went for a gorgeous walk this morning. Work has been really stressful, but I've kept up with my morning workouts, & it's helping with stress management. It's not great still, but it's truly very helpful for my own well being.
Good job on keeping up with the walks I have found that exercise is the only thing that really alleviates stress for me.
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@oneday nice work on the PT exercises.
@MaybeBabyMustache you are rocking it. Remember, anything more than zero is a VICTORY.
Today my stomach has finally recovered from codeine two days ago and I could have a coffee this morning. I did my physio exercises and the library just sent me a message that I have a book to pick up - The Jane Austen Diet - which will take care of my Going For a Walk goal.
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Treated my DD21 and DS18 to fish and chips and pineapple fritters on the beach in the nearest tourist town. We are so fortunate we live in regional Vic, as I know all my locked down Melbourne friends would give anything to be able to travel here.
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Treated my DD21 and DS18 to fish and chips and pineapple fritters on the beach in the nearest tourist town. We are so fortunate we live in regional Vic, as I know all my locked down Melbourne friends would give anything to be able to travel here.
I am SO JEALOUS! We are *not* within 5km of a beach, which is becoming increasingly unfair as the weather heats up.
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I had some peaceful time alone yesterday, while two kids were out at soccer, & my husband was chauffeuring. Time alone is pretty rare these days. I sat in the shade by the pool & read my book. It was total bliss.
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Thankful for another great ride with my favorite person. We were at about 9500 ft in elevation and the leaves were starting to change.
We came across a stream and watched the brook trout for a bit, came across multiple deer including a couple of pairs of does with fawns.
Steep and rough ride but so much beauty
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I need to be part of this challenge! A couple of months ago I realized that I have been doing nothing for myself, so I made a Duolingo account and have been learning some languages.I just completed a 50 day streak!
I think I would like to spend a little time every day gardening, as well. Being outside is healing. I'll plant some Joe Pye seeds that a friend gifted me today.
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@Poundwise it makes me happy that folks are still joining the ranks here! Love getting a peek into other's happiness.
Yesterday spent the evening with 5 of my closest family members who I don't see nearly enough these days. So nice to catch up.
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@oneday nice work on the PT exercises.
@MaybeBabyMustache you are rocking it. Remember, anything more than zero is a VICTORY.
... the library just sent me a message that I have a book to pick up - The Jane Austen Diet - which will take care of my Going For a Walk goal.
This is a fun book! I found it as an audiobook from my library and have been enjoying it. I imagine that the jokes really only resonate with Austen lovers but I'm entertained :)
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Have bundled my shifts at work so that I have big chunks of time off each week--which means I've been working on some art projects and now closing up the garden. So nice to feel time-affluent :)
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It's my anniversary today. My mom took the kids for the day and my husband and I were able to go out for a nice dinner, plus get a lot done around the house (we're getting ready to move so there's a ton to do).
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Today's happiness was getting to the library to pick up a movie on hold, which I expected, and finding a book I'd been waiting for, which was unexpected! Woo!
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The book I placed on hold in July is finally available. I was something like 60th in line for one copy, but then the library bought 15 more copies, and now it’s my turn to read it!
Also, DD and I had a lovely time making an olive oil cake using our homemade yogurt. Our apartment smells delicious now.
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Today's happiness was ... I've been taking better care of myself physically and mentally and I felt awesome for no particular reason! I was driving the 1 hour trip to visit my Mom this morning and realized that I just felt terrific. I tried to really savor that feeling throughout the drive.
Thank you for sharing the stunning photos of your ride @the_fixer !
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The house smells so good right now. My SO is making dinner, it's raining outside and we have friends coming for dinner. Feels cozy!
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@the_fixer thanks for sharing your ride, we are in lockdown now so I am living vicariously through others.
@Serendip your evening sounds splendid.
@Beardog that's great stuff and impressive that you noticed it while in the glow
@oneday and @Freedomin5 libraries are the best, ours have finally started issuing books again and the feeling of getting to pick up a book for free? brilliant!
@nessness I hope you had a splendid anniversary.
- I've read three great books in a row and now I get to return them to the library so someone else can enjoy them
- The feeling of introducing someone to one of your favourite authors and they like them as much as you do
- I have two tiny missions which means I get to ride my bike
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Many happinesses today:
-leisurely morning
-a different mix of hobby friends at this week's meet-up (more of my favorites!)
-meet up with two cousins for a relaxing late afternoon/early evening
-a package I've been waiting for arrived
-another order finally shipped!
-barely any Sunday Evening Dread
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Great news!!!!! Our roadmap out of lockdown!
https://www.covid19.act.gov.au/__data/assets/pdf_file/0007/1861621/ACTs-Pathway-Forward-270921.pdf
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Many happinesses today:
-leisurely morning
-a different mix of hobby friends at this week's meet-up (more of my favorites!)
-meet up with two cousins for a relaxing late afternoon/early evening
-a package I've been waiting for arrived
-another order finally shipped!
-barely any Sunday Evening Dread
@oneday Thanks for welcoming me to the thread!! And congratulations on your happy, (almost) dread free Sunday!
It is a beautiful day. I will teach my daughter how to play hopscotch today!
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Today's happiness was getting my heat pump fixed, which both heats and cools the upstairs. Just in time for pleasant fall weather that doesn't require heat or AC lol.
But part of the happiness is being in a financial position where an unexpected $700 expense is just "ugh" rather than something devastating where we're scrambling to figure out how to pay it. That is one of the biggest benefits to me of living below our means.
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@deborah woo hoo!
@Poundwise thank you!
@nessness meta-happiness :)
The package that shipped yesterday was stalled, but is moving again. I will probably get a lot of happiness from watching it move ever closer. It has to cross the entire country at this point.
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New running shoes! 👟🏃♀️👌
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@mspym - yes, new running shoes are the best!
Two things:
1) my son is currently outside repairing his bike. It makes me really happy that he is so self sufficient (and, self taught). He plans to work in a bike shop next year when he can drive, so it's good to get extra practice.
2) I finished a really hard meeting today, and it went pretty well. Round two of it is tomorrow, and then I will largely be able to refocus on my "normal" work again. Hurrah.
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Another day off with zero plans (except things I'm mostly eager to do).
I woke up in the middle of the night with bad dreams. I had agreed to marry someone from my childhood--it was distressing b/c it was exactly how I DIDN'T want my life to turn out. Very relieving to wake up beside someone who I chose willingly and in a life I am happy to be inhabiting. Appreciation level= high.
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Today I had a happiness at work. I'm working on a sub-project of a larger project that my manager (who I like and respect) is leading. I thought of something significant that could impact the project that my manager had not thought of, and which really needs to be investigated. Since I've been a little rusty in my Zoom communication skills in some group meetings, I am pleased that I am able to make a significant contribution to the project by being thoughtful about my work instead of just coasting along. And I hope to improve in those Zoom meetings with some more practice.
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Today I'm relieved to finally mail an artwork to Japan for a show after weeks of challenges with local companies. Finally setting up a FedEx acct which feels like a step in the right direction to better mail my artwork (much larger dimensions possible than w/the post)
Very much looking forward to a picnic by Victoria Harbour tonight with friends before seeing a show another friend is running, and tomorrow's day-long junk [boat] trip followed by art opening to see friends' artworks will be an enjoyable distraction from the political overtones of our 'National Day holiday'.
There've been discussions of a large, well-funded art project in Greece and HK for next summer which has given me some hope after this year's extremely challenging DIY one which I barely managed to pull off.
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I also had a work happiness. Have some useful things to do. A couple weeks back I was under utilized and had a lot of free time, leading to an almost existential crisis. Happy to be busy (but not too busy).
Also, the package I'm watching is in my city! It's almost here already, woo hoo!
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Lunchtime walk with a friend and her very chill dog, *and* she gave me some lemons, some of which I used to make a lemon-garlic-herb oil that we'll use in tonight's dinner.
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We're going Out! Train down to York, a bimble round the city (please stop raining?), theatre tonight, overnight stay, a bit more time in York tomorrow and train home again late morning, Yaaaay!
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Happy because my young grandchild has been released from the hospital and is on the mend.
The only thing worse than being sick yourself is watching a young one cope with sickness and knowing there's not much you can do about it. Fortunately the outcome is good and we're all relieved.
Don't take your health, or the health of your loved ones, for granted, ever.
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We did the final walkthrough of our new house today. The sellers had bought a small 1940s cabin many years ago and expanded and renovated it themselves. The husband had made some of the old copper wiring into bracelets for his wife. The wife gave me one, which was a really sweet gesture, plus it's a lovely bracelet.
The house has a big permission tree. I hadn't had a persimmon since I was a kid and thought I didn't like them, but they were almost ripe so I tried one and actually really liked it, as did my kids, which was a nice surprise.
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nessness,
I like the copper bracelet idea, never heard of that one.
and I also liked the typo "permission tree" - we all need one of those in our lives!
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I love sitting next to my 2 month old firstborn. She brings me happiness.... most of the time.
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nessness,
I like the copper bracelet idea, never heard of that one.
and I also liked the typo "permission tree" - we all need one of those in our lives!
Haha, I could definitely use a permission tree!
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Kabuli pulao for dinner. And leftovers!
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We went for a family bike ride by the river. The city has slowly been expanding their network of multi-use paths, and we discovered a new path not far from where we live. Our family goal is to be able to bike up to 60 km a day.
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We walked through a literal magical forest last night.
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Getting my monthly goals and month end accounting sorted out.
Sorting hobby materials and making plans to use them instead of hoard them.
Plus leftover kabuli pulao!
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The tiniest of happinesses: (a) the milk didn't run out before morning coffee and (b) it was still good 4 days *after* the expiration date!
Yes, there is the occasional game of chicken with milk. (<-- may not be understandable if you're not American?)
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The tiniest of happinesses: (a) the milk didn't run out before morning coffee and (b) it was still good 4 days *after* the expiration date!
Yes, there is the occasional game of chicken with milk. (<-- may not be understandable if you're not American?)
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We watched a movie about food waste (Wasted) after also noticing the amount of garden produce that goes unconsumed at the Community Garden (my SO rescues green tomatoes from the compost in order to ripen them at home). So last night I made a mushroom pizza with a nasturtium & sage pesto and we topped it off with nasturtium petals and oregano. Tasty and beautiful.
We are eating so many meals with odds & ends from the garden (beet greens, carrot tops, baby squash, etc).
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@oneday - my husband's mom makes a similar dish (she's Iranian). OMG, so good.
-Fresh apples from a friend's tree. So excited to make applesauce or apple crisp today. I love fall & garden goodies!
-Seeing my kids both blossom. This is the first year of high school for both (well, one started technically last year, but it was COVID & schooling from home, so there wasn't much of a high school transition to speak of). Jobs, football games, hanging with buddies, sports, homework... it's a bittersweet timing, as they are rarely home, but I remember this time in my own life, and it's such a critical part of development to start to really become independent from their parents.
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We packed a healthy lunch and went on a picnic today. On the way there, we discovered a bakery that we had only seen in Korea before. Bought a walnut cream bun which was delicious.
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Organization makes me happy.
I am naturally chaotic but enjoy frequent periods of more orderly behaviour. If I feel anxiety increasing it helps to clean and order things.
So my closet is getting organized, as is the front gear closet. Camping stuff put away and autumn/winter stuff being moved into rotation.
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My grandma suddenly got really ill about two weeks ago, and I wasn't sure she was going to make it. But today's happiness is that she is now pretty much fully recovered. It was a good reminder to not take for granted whatever time she may have left.
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@MaybeBabyMustache I had the final leftovers today...not gonna say it made me sad, but there's no more happiness to be found from that take out :)
@nessness glad to hear your grandma is feeling better!
Today's happiness was the warm weather & eating lunch on my back patio. Soaking in the last of the summer weather.
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On these moody rainy days, I'm feeling rather contented to be inside working on creative projects.. Trying to be more diligent in my artistic practice and feeling happy when I do this..it's such a big part of me and has too often been neglected. I have two rooms strewn about with creative chaos right now--but in a productive kind of way :)
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Yesterday had a nice conversation with Mom and learned something about her and her way of being that shed light on my way of being. Which was not my intent, but it was very nice to notice I have developed the ability to: (a) see the interpersonal dynamics (b) while they are happening. Yay personal growth!
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Toasted coconut bread with fresh strawberries and a cup of tea.
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I took my mom out to dinner tonight for her birthday, which was fun and the food was delicious. I rarely go out during the week, so it's nice to occasionally mix up my routine.
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Got All The Laundry done, two days before I leave for a short trip. Feeling accomplished at not-procrastinating.
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We closed on our new house yesterday and moved the majority of our stuff today. I'm exhausted but really happy.
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Made an Oreo cheesecake using a new recipe. Took it to a gathering and everyone liked it!
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Congrats, @nessness !
It's been beautiful fall weather here - chilly in the morning, lots of blue skies & the leaves are turning wonderful colors. And, my teen made an apple crisp yesterday, and not only was it super fall like, it was so delicious.
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Another weekend another ride with my favorite person.
Overnight bike ride we had planned this summer to see her grandfather. 59 miles Sedalia Colorado to Colorado Springs by dirt roads and double track.
Went by a few areas where the wind was blowing the aspen leaves off the trees it was like some magical golden confetti falling from the sky’s wish i was able to capture it.
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I slept in today! Also, I have nowhere to go, no meetings, and only one phonecall to make.
I do have to work on taxes, but that is actually preferable to rushing around madly as I have been doing for weeks.
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Pumpkin pie for breakfast, first hard frost of the year touching everything with a crisp glitter
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Made some fabulously delicious mushroom soup with Hungarian paprikash flavors! Accompanied by surprisingly yummy cracked black pepper and olive oil Triscuits.
Crackers around the house aren't usually a thing, but there they were and needed to be used up and lo and behold, went super well with the soup.
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I'm used to books making me cry at the end. I just started one that made me cry in Chapter 1. Oh, this is going to be so good! (I might need to ration it... does anyone have a high shelf I can borrow?)
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I heard an animal trying to break into the chicken coop. I told my husband and he spent like an hour predator-proofing it with me, which was really sweet.
The people who sold us our house as accidentally took the garage door openers with them, so when they found them they overnighted them to us. They also included a book of persimmon recipes, which was really thoughtful.
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DIY’d graham crackers today (they’re hard to find and expensive when you do find them here) and made our own s’mores, which were a hit with the kids.
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A few items from this morning's gratitude journal:
Warm toast and peanut butter on a cold autumn morning.
A fire going in our little fireplace.
Reading about Alexander the Great.
Learning to embrace and love simplicity.
What a great start to a day, right?
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My 7-year-old got two horseback riding lessons for her birthday. She had her first one today, which was her first time on a horse (not counting pony rides at the fair). She was a natural! It was really fun watching her swing her leg over, sit properly in the saddle with just minor coaching, and confidently lead the horse around the arena. Her horse was pretty slow (which I'm sure is intentional for first-time child riders), and she told me that she really liked this horse but she's hoping for a "more energetic" one next time.
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DIY’d graham crackers today (they’re hard to find and expensive when you do find them here) and made our own s’mores, which were a hit with the kids.
After not eating a S'mores in as long as I can remember, I nominated myself the S'more Fairy for the Moab Meetup. It was fun. We're still in Moab, as the Colorado kids and grandkids met us here. More S'mores were consumed tonight. Homemade graham crackers sound great!
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My daughter's friend and her parents came over and we all walked down to the river and just stood and threw rocks for a while, which was really fun. I feel really grateful for where I live. We have a river, hiking trails, a park, coffee shop, restaurants, and more all within about 10 minutes walk.
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DIY’d graham crackers today (they’re hard to find and expensive when you do find them here) and made our own s’mores, which were a hit with the kids.
After not eating a S'mores in as long as I can remember, I nominated myself the S'more Fairy for the Moab Meetup. It was fun. We're still in Moab, as the Colorado kids and grandkids met us here. More S'mores were consumed tonight. Homemade graham crackers sound great!
I made these as described here in song. They WERE good!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mJgJFpbzJ4
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DIY’d graham crackers today (they’re hard to find and expensive when you do find them here) and made our own s’mores, which were a hit with the kids.
After not eating a S'mores in as long as I can remember, I nominated myself the S'more Fairy for the Moab Meetup. It was fun. We're still in Moab, as the Colorado kids and grandkids met us here. More S'mores were consumed tonight. Homemade graham crackers sound great!
I made these as described here in song. They WERE good!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mJgJFpbzJ4
I have Andes chocolate mints and Andes orange chocolates. I think I'm going to fancy it up tonight by using flavored chocolates instead of plain milk chocolate in the s'mores. Hopefully they'll turn out well.
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We recently discovered a Little Free Library nearby, so my kids and I walked down yesterday, exchanged some books, and then sat in the yard for a while to read them. It was exactly what I needed after a stressful work day.
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@nessness the LFL's are fun even if you don't get a book from them on any particular day. You never know what you'll find in there!
Yesterday's happiness was warm, clean clothes from the dryer!
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My happiness today is fall weather. Really chilly (for us) in the morning, blue skies, gorgeous fall leaves & then warmer during the day.
Also, my cold/flu seems to be receding a bit. Yesterday was pretty rocky, so I'm definitely feeling the improvement. And, we've taken numerous COVID tests, and don't have that, for which we are very grateful. We are all fully vaccinated, but I'm not looking for a breakthrough infection with an autoimmune disease.
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Glad you’re feeling better @MaybeBabyMustache
We had a gorgeous sunny day yesterday following a week of rain and was able to get out for a walk and chilly lake dip with a friend. She is someone I’ve known for years but only got to know this past year and I’m so grateful to have grown our friendship. It’s an interesting process to befriend people as you get older.
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I'm enjoying all the fall colors, especially the two trees right outside my window that have suddenly turned bright yellow.
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Today I'm letting myself off the hook for certain chores today and it feels nice to release the obligation. And embrace my sloth life :)
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I got to bring my 14 y/o DD to work with me for an hour; I love that she still wants to spend time with me!
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Made snickerdoodle donut holes using my cake pop maker. Love the smell of sugar and cinnamon!
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Mom's coming, and I panicked about cleaning up for her visit. But then remembered she'll love me even if the house is dirty. (But I'll still do a bit of cleaning. Just not panic-cleaning, whew)
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With no real hope in my heart, I searched for Antique Bakery vol 4 - out of print for 10+ yrs - and there it was, available at my local comic store for $4.95, pick-up. Not very good editions currently go for $60+ so this is just a tiny miracle that also completes a set.
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Wow, @mspym that's a real score!!
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With no real hope in my heart, I searched for Antique Bakery vol 4 - out of print for 10+ yrs - and there it was, available at my local comic store for $4.95, pick-up. Not very good editions currently go for $60+ so this is just a tiny miracle that also completes a set.
That is awesome! Yea you!!!
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Found a friend who wants to go for winter snowshoe hikes. Very happy to have someone keen to do this type of thing. I have old snowshoes..now just need the snow.
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My 7-year-old asked if I would make "veggie meatballs" today. I've never made them, but I managed to find a lentil meatball recipe for which I had all the ingredients so I agreed to give it a shot. Amazingly, we all ended up liking them, even my super picky 4-year-old!
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Hooked up the photo scanner borrowed from Mom, and it was easy. Then, actually scanned a year's worth of old photos! Feeling very accomplished.
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My 7-year-old asked if I would make "veggie meatballs" today. I've never made them, but I managed to find a lentil meatball recipe for which I had all the ingredients so I agreed to give it a shot. Amazingly, we all ended up liking them, even my super picky 4-year-old!
@nessness do you have the recipe? That sounds wonderful, and I'd love to get my family to eat more meatless meals.
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Rode mountain bikes through the north woods, surrounded all around by falling leaves, on a cool sunny day with my 10 y/o DD. So good!
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My husband & I had an amazing long weekend together to celebrate our anniversary, while my parents with the kids. It was so much fun.
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My 7-year-old asked if I would make "veggie meatballs" today. I've never made them, but I managed to find a lentil meatball recipe for which I had all the ingredients so I agreed to give it a shot. Amazingly, we all ended up liking them, even my super picky 4-year-old!
@nessness do you have the recipe? That sounds wonderful, and I'd love to get my family to eat more meatless meals.
This is the recipe I used:
https://www.wellplated.com/lentil-meatballs/#wprm-recipe-container-33528
I served them with spaghetti and store-bought marinara. I didn't have fresh parsley so I used dried, but I think they'd be even better with the fresh parsley.
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My 7-year-old asked if I would make "veggie meatballs" today. I've never made them, but I managed to find a lentil meatball recipe for which I had all the ingredients so I agreed to give it a shot. Amazingly, we all ended up liking them, even my super picky 4-year-old!
@nessness do you have the recipe? That sounds wonderful, and I'd love to get my family to eat more meatless meals.
This is the recipe I used:
https://www.wellplated.com/lentil-meatballs/#wprm-recipe-container-33528
I served them with spaghetti and store-bought marinara. I didn't have fresh parsley so I used dried, but I think they'd be even better with the fresh parsley.
Thanks! I'll probably give this a try this week. Maybe I'll be posting again here with how well it goes:)
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Today's happiness was a double rainbow. It's been a couple years since I remember seeing any rainbows, and this one was especially beautiful.
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For my 7-year-old's last soccer practice of the season, they had a "kids vs. parents" game. I wasn't really looking forward to it, but it ended up being super fun.
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I have no idea why, but I've had chicken shawarma on the brain lately. I went to the cupboard to make up a spice blend for it and happened across a jar of Penzey's jerk seasoning. That sounded good too ...
So I sauteed up some jerk chicken with red onion and bell pepper strips. Tasty!
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I took my 4-year-old on a walk this evening and let her pick the route, which she was thrilled about. We explored a few streets I hadn't been down, saw a deer and a chicken on a roof, and generally had a lovely walk.
ETA: to clarify, the deer was not on a roof. I realized my wording was ambiguous 😆
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@nessness if a deer had been on a roof, you could tell your daughter it was practicing for Christmas Eve.
Decided to do a project the way my boss asked for, but will also do it my own way, which seems better after getting into the data. Boys may even like it!
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Listening to the audiobook version of poet Ross Gay’s book of essays “The Book of Delights”. A real joy of a book..helping me notice the little delights of the day but also tangent off those small moments into bigger lessons and musings.
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Had a nice long bike ride over the weekend.
DD and I also spent hours reviewing her Chinese vocabulary words over the weekend. Today, they had a dictation in class, and she was the only one to get perfect on the dictation. What makes it even better is that she is one of two non-native Chinese speakers in the native Chinese class. I’ve been milking the situation for all it’s worth and emphasizing that she doesn’t have to be better or smarter than those around her — she can achieve just as much (and more) by working harder.
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Had a nice long bike ride over the weekend.
DD and I also spent hours reviewing her Chinese vocabulary words over the weekend. Today, they had a dictation in class, and she was the only one to get perfect on the dictation. What makes it even better is that she is one of two non-native Chinese speakers in the native Chinese class. I’ve been milking the situation for all it’s worth and emphasizing that she doesn’t have to be better or smarter than those around her — she can achieve just as much (and more) by working harder.
That's so fantastic @Freedomin5! Good for her!
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Spent lots of time outdoors this weekend. Soaking in the last of the not-cold weather.
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The public library started offering access to a fantastic resource called Universal Class. I signed up for the app, and now I can take free courses!
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Good chat with a friend. Some of it about our concern for a mutual friend (just good to say some of those things out loud to someone else who feels the same way) and some of it hearing her good news :)
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I walked to yoga in the dry. It lashed it down with rain while I was in the hall. I walked home in the dry, but now I'm drinking my coffee listening to it pour down again. #LuckyTiming.
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Four days off and I just learned that my parents are going to come through (and stay a night) this weekend on the way to see an elderly relative. They’ve never been here together before and are extreme homebodies so it’s nice to plan a meal to make for them and have time to clean the house and maybe even make a Christmas package they can take home early.
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Hospital waiting rooms are so quiet because of covid.
I used to hate waiting in hospitals because of the...uh...characters I would have to wait with, but it's such a saner process now.
I know it won't last, but the quiet is very nice.
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I made a Covid vaccine appointment for my 7-year-old! I'm looking forward to the day when our whole family is fully vaccinated.
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Lovely walk today with my BF. Then later he left the house for a couple hours and the alone time was equally lovely.
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Waking up tp the song of beautiful birds close to Etosha. Feeling so grateful for time with my husband. We are spoiling ourselves with a long vacation.
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The radiologist who injected my hip today uses the exact same technique that I teach to make injections less painful. It takes an extra 45 seconds, but makes all the world of difference and most doctors either have never been taught or don't bother taking the time.
I had the other hip done yesterday by an old cantankerous doc and it was a thousand times more painful.
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Seeing a few lovely coworkers IRL yesterday. I'd forgotten how nice it is to have those in person connections.
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I made a Covid vaccine appointment for my 7-year-old! I'm looking forward to the day when our whole family is fully vaccinated.
We got our 6-year-old her first shot yesterday, and I'm so glad they're finally available!
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I’ve been bundling up and heading out in the rain. Surprisingly mood-stabilizing/lifting.
Plus, found a few nice things for very low price at our local thrift store (and the money goes to a good cause)—this makes me happy since I tend to buy either high or low so buying low but great quality is exactly the perfect blend to satisfy my frugal but somewhat picky tastes (Leather Born boots, vintage Hush Puppies ankle boots, a new Esprit down-coat, plus one handmade quilt!)
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I made a Covid vaccine appointment for my 7-year-old! I'm looking forward to the day when our whole family is fully vaccinated.
We got our 6-year-old her first shot yesterday, and I'm so glad they're finally available!
Yay! How did she feel after? My daughter's appointment is on Monday, and I'm wondering if I should plan to have her stay home from school the next day.
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Couldn't warm my feet up enough all day, but my after work walk did the job. Now I'm cozy!
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Joy abounding today!
- There were 11 gorgeous women (plus assorted dogs) at my morning swimming group.
- Another friend and I restarted our town's monthly Produce Swap and had a great turnout, followed by a lovely lunch to celebrate.
Absolutely exhausted after all that, and spent the afternoon alternately snoozing and reading.
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I made a Covid vaccine appointment for my 7-year-old! I'm looking forward to the day when our whole family is fully vaccinated.
We got our 6-year-old her first shot yesterday, and I'm so glad they're finally available!
Yay! How did she feel after? My daughter's appointment is on Monday, and I'm wondering if I should plan to have her stay home from school the next day.
She was actually fine. We actually took her to a 4-H meeting right after and she went to school the next day. She did complain that her leg was sore, but I'm not sure if that was the shot or not. But nothing major.
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I made a Covid vaccine appointment for my 7-year-old! I'm looking forward to the day when our whole family is fully vaccinated.
We got our 6-year-old her first shot yesterday, and I'm so glad they're finally available!
Yay! How did she feel after? My daughter's appointment is on Monday, and I'm wondering if I should plan to have her stay home from school the next day.
She was actually fine. We actually took her to a 4-H meeting right after and she went to school the next day. She did complain that her leg was sore, but I'm not sure if that was the shot or not. But nothing major.
Awesome, glad to hear!
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This morning's happiness is that my 4-year-old shamed me into making a mustachian choice. I said I wanted to stop at the coffee shop on our way to the park. She asked, "why do you need to buy coffee when you have coffee at home?" I conceded the point and made a pot of coffee. I guess my (usually) frugal ways are rubbing off on her! 😃
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My sister and I live a good hour away from each other. Today we met at a bike path at the approximate mid-point between our houses and had a lovely walk in the sunshine. It was so nice to both see her and enjoy moving in the outdoors together.
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Went to my weekly outdoor meetup, which I had been thinking of skipping. I'll need to skip the next two, and also it was a very nice time. Totally worth the effort to get there. :)
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Waking up in my own bed after a couple of nights away.
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We were about to drop the list price on our house when we got a full price offer! We currently own two homes (the one we just bought and the one we're selling), which has been stressing us out some. But if everything goes well, we'll be free of the old one in under a month!
And my other happiness today - my daughter got her first Covid shot! Despite me going to the wrong CVS (who knew there are two on the same street a few miles apart?) and forgetting my wallet, it still went pretty smoothly.
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Getting up on a cold morning and sipping a hot cup of tea, with my dog lying on top of my feet.
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We had house guests! My cousin grew up in Europe and has traveled all over the world. I hadn't seen her in about seven years and our spouses had never met.
She sat down with a big book of skylines of the world that lives on our coffee table and she/they had been to all but eight of the cities in the whole book! Wowza! This led to much travel discussion and a tentative plan to travel together as a foursome at some point in the post-Covid future. She's recently retired and DH is pulling the plug soon, so bring it! She and I traveled together a bit in our long-ago single days. It was an unexpected delight that our spouses got on well.
They're also quite mustachian, so their trip included two fabulous hikes, several evenings working on a mystery themed puzzle (thrifted, of course), a trip to a local museum that was related to the theme of the puzzle, a trip to a state park to enjoy the view/sunset from the highest vantage point in the region (which was a focal point of the other two hikes), and one quick stop for three grocery items at the fancy pants grocery on the way home from a hike. There is a super high-end grocery store near the museum, so we strolled through that one, just for the eye candy and general amusement. We managed to stifle our chortles and buy nothing. We didn't eat out once. We packed delicious lunches each day and dinners were homemade Mexican food and scratch pizza. Yum!
So much happiness in a few short days!
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Yesterday I had an hour & a half for lunch & went on a walk. I specifically asked Boss for a schedule change to include many long lunches while we are on Standard Time. It was cool, but sunny and nice. I was happy for the walk, and happy that I got up the nerve to ask my boss for this unconventional schedule.
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I have some solo time for the first time in a long while. My partner is gone for a week and while I love them, there is something regenerating about time alone.
Plus had sone friends over and it was really interesting how strongly some of them reacted to the coziness of our home (it’s full of plants, books, interesting things and art). I guess some people go for the minimalist vibe but then are struck by houses that are full of character? Anyhow it felt nice to have my humble home be so loved since I also love the space we’ve created.
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My daughter and Iooked after our neighbours' cavoodle for an hour today. The cutest little puppy on this earth!
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On today's grocery store trip, the store has finally come to the last stages of renovation, and even though there are still finishing touches to complete, the *signs* for each aisle are now accurate again! So helpful when trying to find things in the new layout. A no-stress shopping trip.
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Yesterday I had an hour & a half for lunch & went on a walk. I specifically asked Boss for a schedule change to include many long lunches while we are on Standard Time. It was cool, but sunny and nice. I was happy for the walk, and happy that I got up the nerve to ask my boss for this unconventional schedule.
Nice job getting that @oneday! My lunchtime walks were pure gold for me while I was working.
Maybe your workplace would take it a step further and sanction walking meetings?
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Yesterday I had an hour & a half for lunch & went on a walk. I specifically asked Boss for a schedule change to include many long lunches while we are on Standard Time. It was cool, but sunny and nice. I was happy for the walk, and happy that I got up the nerve to ask my boss for this unconventional schedule.
Nice job getting that @oneday! My lunchtime walks were pure gold for me while I was working.
Maybe your workplace would take it a step further and sanction walking meetings?
I am working completely remotely, but if in the office, that would be nice. My boss does an informal walking meeting with another manager sometimes, so it might work.
Today's happiness is coming up with a new nickname for my cat, who is now The Small Man In A Fur Suit Who Lives With Me.
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Today's happiness was an awesome friend date while Ofpym was off on a different friend date. Such a good day today.
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Today's happiness is coming up with a new nickname for my cat, who is now The Small Man In A Fur Suit Who Lives With Me.
This adds to my happiness as well. Love the name!
(And when you need to be quick ‘Smalls’ or ‘FurSuit’ could suffice)
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The radiologist who injected my hip today uses the exact same technique that I teach to make injections less painful. It takes an extra 45 seconds, but makes all the world of difference and most doctors either have never been taught or don't bother taking the time.
I had the other hip done yesterday by an old cantankerous doc and it was a thousand times more painful.
Please share your technique! I do joint injections routinely.
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The radiologist who injected my hip today uses the exact same technique that I teach to make injections less painful. It takes an extra 45 seconds, but makes all the world of difference and most doctors either have never been taught or don't bother taking the time.
I had the other hip done yesterday by an old cantankerous doc and it was a thousand times more painful.
Please share your technique! I do joint injections routinely.
It's really simple, and most injectors know theoretically how to do it, but don't actually do it in practice, which is to inject small amounts then pause, then progress forward and inject a little more, and so on and so forth until the nerves and surface of the joint capsule is numb so that when you enter the joint, the area is already numb, as opposed to jamming a needle straight into the joint and filling a sensitive, inflamed joint with no previous numbing.
It takes about an extra minute or two.
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The radiologist who injected my hip today uses the exact same technique that I teach to make injections less painful. It takes an extra 45 seconds, but makes all the world of difference and most doctors either have never been taught or don't bother taking the time.
I had the other hip done yesterday by an old cantankerous doc and it was a thousand times more painful.
Please share your technique! I do joint injections routinely.
It's really simple, and most injectors know theoretically how to do it, but don't actually do it in practice, which is to inject small amounts then pause, then progress forward and inject a little more, and so on and so forth until the nerves and surface of the joint capsule is numb so that when you enter the joint, the area is already numb, as opposed to jamming a needle straight into the joint and filling a sensitive, inflamed joint with no previous numbing.
It takes about an extra minute or two.
Yes, I'm mostly doing that. I use a 25-gauge needle to make for a less-painful stick, and having a smaller bore makes the injection slow down, too. Doesn't work as well for small, tight joints like thumb CMC, but otherwise, I totally agree.
Thanks for putting up with shop talk, everyone else (and sorry)!
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Yes, I'm mostly doing that. I use a 25-gauge needle to make for a less-painful stick, and having a smaller bore makes the injection slow down, too. Doesn't work as well for small, tight joints like thumb CMC, but otherwise, I totally agree.
Thanks for putting up with shop talk, everyone else (and sorry)!
I actually found that really interesting :) not often you get to hear about injection techniques.
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It’s pouring..absolutely pouring rain. And I went for a walk (with umbrella and gaitors) and still got wet but there is something wonderful about a rainy evening and being cozy indoors (heating pad on lap) and no need to go outside into the misery any time soon since I even gave away my work shift tomorrow too. Hunkering down for a day of hygge-ful activities.
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Yes, I'm mostly doing that. I use a 25-gauge needle to make for a less-painful stick, and having a smaller bore makes the injection slow down, too. Doesn't work as well for small, tight joints like thumb CMC, but otherwise, I totally agree.
Thanks for putting up with shop talk, everyone else (and sorry)!
I actually found that really interesting :) not often you get to hear about injection techniques.
As someone with a dentist fear and sensitive teeth, I appreciate the HECK out of dentists moving to this technique as standard practice.
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Yes, I'm mostly doing that. I use a 25-gauge needle to make for a less-painful stick, and having a smaller bore makes the injection slow down, too. Doesn't work as well for small, tight joints like thumb CMC, but otherwise, I totally agree.
Thanks for putting up with shop talk, everyone else (and sorry)!
I actually found that really interesting :) not often you get to hear about injection techniques.
As someone with a dentist fear and sensitive teeth, I appreciate the HECK out of dentists moving to this technique as standard practice.
For dentists, there's actually a better way to do it for most injections. That's to inject for just a second, pull the needle out, rub the lidocaine into the tissues, then go back and do the full injection. It's virtually painless, but I don't know many dentists who do it.
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Getting up on a cold morning and sipping a hot cup of tea, with my dog lying on top of my feet.
Ooooh this! Although I do it with a cup of coffee and a cat in my lap. Add cozy blanket at will.
I also now need to know what a cavoodle is, @lazycow . Cavalier spaniel and poodle?
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I have just discovered Saint John New Brunswick, which I suppose I technically knew existed, but because of where it's located, few people in Canada travel here because it's kind of stuck behind Maine.
Well fuck. It's stunning.
I LOVE being by the ocean, and this city has so much accessible waterfront and unbelievable views. I can't believe I just didn't know this was here, just an hour and a half flight away.
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We had my first grader's parent-teacher conference and the teacher just gushed about how awesome she is. I mean, I knew that, but it was nice to get some additional validation. 🙂
The teacher also showed us her Thanksgiving poster, which said, "I'm grateful for the world because it gives me food and water and energy", which I just loved.
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Mr. Kitty was sleeping with his head upsidedown (similar to this (https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/cute-young-stray-cat-sleeping-found-cossy-position-its-head-upside-down-arm-covering-185782636.jpg)), which is pretty cute already. But he was dream-eating or something...his chin chattered and his tongue stuck out a bit. I've never seen him do this before. Heart-meltingly cute!
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Yesterday I had an hour & a half for lunch & went on a walk. I specifically asked Boss for a schedule change to include many long lunches while we are on Standard Time. It was cool, but sunny and nice. I was happy for the walk, and happy that I got up the nerve to ask my boss for this unconventional schedule.
Nice job getting that @oneday! My lunchtime walks were pure gold for me while I was working.
Maybe your workplace would take it a step further and sanction walking meetings?
@Trifele - one of the reasons I enjoy my (currently) one day a week in the office routine is that I do walking 1:1s with my team members. We're in California & the weather is often nice, so why not! It's such a treat.
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Started a new craft project yesterday, and it is fun!
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We're under contract to sell our house, and the buyers decided to waive the home inspection and only do a pest inspection so that we can close more quickly. They requested a small credit for some pest damage, which we were more than happy to agree to. I don't want to jinx it, but I'm super happy about how smoothly our home selling is going so far.
My mom and I picked several pounds of olives last week and we started them brining today. I won't know if they're good for a couple months, but I'm looking forward to trying them!
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Homemade avocado toast for dinner last night. I'm getting good at it :)
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@nessness - we sold our house this summer, & did not have that experience, so that's a HUGE win. Congrats!
My happiness today is yummy tea on a winterish day.
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Today I get to watch the undergrad I mentored while I was in grad school defend HER PhD thesis!
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While I was walking in the park I saw a big flock of wild parakeets in the grass. So colorful!
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My smart young orientee at work volunteered for the hardest task this morning, knowing she might fail but learn something!
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Learned something new at work...it's a complex job, but I'm determined to find all the pieces and put them together until I see the whole picture.
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After picking up the 15 y/o DD from symphony practice this morning, sitting in the parked car facing out of the garage, watching birds playing around some vines, listening to The Nutcracker Suite's Pas de Deux. So moving, and such a moment to enjoy with her.
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Lovely weather, and sitting on the patio enjoying a hot tea. :)
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Been working heaps but feeling good and healthy and able.
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I just had a lovely call with my mother and learned about the 3 chickens that decided to move to the farm and hang out in her garden. One of them likes being patted.
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I saw the black squirrel that lives near me this morning, which I always take as a sign of good luck.
We already did our big Thanksgiving with the extended family, so today was just my immediate family and my mom, but we had a really nice time.
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Mom agreed that I can bring my cat to her house while I visit, so we drove for 3 hours; the cat's longest car trip. He did OK! This opens up possibilities.
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It’s only just gone 7:30am here but already today I’ve learned the difference between a soup, a stew and a casserole. Although please don’t test me unless I’ve got my notes to hand!
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In addition to my daily cheese omelette and coffee: a little bit of leftover stuffing!
Pie for lunch to follow...
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Went on a bike ride with Mom, which was fun. Bonus: I wore exactly the right amount of layers.
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Embarked on an extended-edition Lord of the Rings movie marathon today with my partner. It made him very happy and I didn't even get bored! Win-win!
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Put out my lighted reindeer today, in view of my living room window. I need to get the rest of my Christmas decorations up, because just seeing the reindeer makes me smile.
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Embarked on an extended-edition Lord of the Rings movie marathon today with my partner. It made him very happy and I didn't even get bored! Win-win!
Are you watching from the extended version DVDs with the extras? Check out the extras on the making of the movies. There are loads of interviews with the actors and directors, and behind-the-scene looks at the costumes, stunt people, etc. I usually don't go for that kind of thing, but these are really good.
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Embarked on an extended-edition Lord of the Rings movie marathon today with my partner. It made him very happy and I didn't even get bored! Win-win!
Are you watching from the extended version DVDs with the extras? Check out the extras on the making of the movies. There are loads of interviews with the actors and directors, and behind-the-scene looks at the costumes, stunt people, etc. I usually don't go for that kind of thing, but these are really good.
We are! I've been told there's over 40 hours of extras, which I'm sure I'll watch with my partner at some point. I'm glad to know they're fun to watch!
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We have electricity! And Heat! Phew.
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This morning at work, I was enjoying the view out of two big windows of massive chip-sized snowflakes falling all through the morning. There are white Xmas lights strung up in the trees and it was the coziest, winter scenes you can imagine (yes, it turned to rain in the afternoon which slushed everything up..but for the morning it was magnificent).
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Weather was nice for an outdoor meetup with friends at a coffee shop. Haven't managed that in a long time, and it was nice to get back to it.
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I donated blood today - I failed on iron levels last time I tried, so I was happy to be able to successfully donate today. I chatted a bit with the volunteer at the snack station who is about to turn 97(!) and still healthy and active, which was really cool.
Then, my 7-year-old got her second Covid shot. Only two weeks until maximum immunity!
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Embarked on an extended-edition Lord of the Rings movie marathon today with my partner. It made him very happy and I didn't even get bored! Win-win!
Are you watching from the extended version DVDs with the extras? Check out the extras on the making of the movies. There are loads of interviews with the actors and directors, and behind-the-scene looks at the costumes, stunt people, etc. I usually don't go for that kind of thing, but these are really good.
We are! I've been told there's over 40 hours of extras, which I'm sure I'll watch with my partner at some point. I'm glad to know they're fun to watch!
The full scene with The Mouth of Sauron!
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Discovering cool things about my lineage made me smile.
Found several people that lived long lives including one that lived to 100
Found out my great grandfather / grandmother came from Denmark.
I had always been told everyone immigrated from Germany so kind of cool seeing records that they were from Denmark.
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I'm not on those people who constantly calculates our net worth. Maybe I should be, but the benefit to calculating it rarely is that it tends be a pleasant surprise whenever I do. While we're not at $1M yet, we're much closer than I expected, which is pretty cool.
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House inspection went VERY well!
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Hit the 2 week mark in my Total Knee Replacement Recovery. You really learn alot about yourself both mentally and physically when going through stuff like this. Getting through the first two weeks brings me some satisfaction of a win! and fortunately we havent had an early winter to create havoc on top of things so for that I am very grateful.
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The way Mr. Kitty is sleeping on my lap; utterly tranquil and at ease :)
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So relieved I had my Post Op appointment with my Doc yesterday and Xrays looked good and doing well so off the walker and onto a cane for awhile . A bit more FREEDOM!
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So relieved I had my Post Op appointment with my Doc yesterday and Xrays looked good and doing well so off the walker and onto a cane for awhile . A bit more FREEDOM!
Fantastic news.
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So relieved I had my Post Op appointment with my Doc yesterday and Xrays looked good and doing well so off the walker and onto a cane for awhile . A bit more FREEDOM!
Fantastic news.
Yes it is thanks! Now just have to stay the course!
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Got my Covid booster!
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I canned 7 quarts of oranges from my tree today and my kids picked and ate a bowl of miner's lettuce that, we recently discovered, grows wild in our yard.
One of my goals for the next year is to produce a larger share of our family's food, so it's satisfying to feel like I'm making some steps in the right direction.
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Finished one craft project, including photos, writing it up in my craft journal, and putting away the tools & leftover supplies. Whew! Now I'm starting the next one guilt-free.
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Yesterday I was able to lift my leg off the floor and hold it. I am so happy because I was not able to get my thigh to fire and just the day before no matter how hard i tried I could not lift in even a hair. Just like that it kicked in and I can lift it up and down. Small victories to keep me motivated big reward!
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Morning spent xc-skiing—it’s such an awkward, yet elegant sport. When you find a nice flow and rhythm it can be wonderful (and if you hit a tree branche because it’s early season and go sprawling onto your face asI did..not as elegant but still funny)
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We closed on the sale of our old house! I'm so happy to own only one house again (and to have a lot of money freed up).
Today also started with a small joy - my daughters begged to have a "sleepover" last night, which just means that they both slept on the bottom bunk of the bunk beds. Coming in this morning and finding them snuggled up together, fast asleep, melted my heart.
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@soccerluvof4 that's amazing, woo!
@Serendip I appreciate how you keep your sense of humor in the face of a minor setback.
@nessness that does sound adorable.
Yesterday's happiness was the last minute decision to see the new Ghostbusters movie. Fun, sweet, heartwarming.
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Thanks! @oneday
Today I am happy its my 3 week anniversary since my surgery and I yesterday I made some major improvements in my heel slides and was able to lift and hold my leg up 2 sets of 15 for 3 seconds. I am also happy with each day comes just a little bit more of normalcy.
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Today I am very happy because after having a Pity Party for myself I got an excellent from my PT guy and can start riding a bike ahead of schedule.
Also happy since we are right on the edge of a massive storm we are only getting the rain and not foot of snow that is possible.
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Yesterday's happiness was going to the office rather than working remote. There was a special event; lunch provided and activities. I was unexpectedly given my annual review and got very high marks. Yay!
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Yesterdays Happiness was definitely I had a good day of at home PT and some good naps BUT the best part was getting out and going to our Lake Xmas party for 3 hours and seeing and mingling with neighbors and friends!
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Yesterday's happiness was going for a long walk with a friend. I also made pulled pork, which makes today much easier, thanks Past Me!
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It was cold and rainy today, but I bundled up and took my dog for a walk down to the river. I stood on the river bank and watched the birds, just for a few minutes, but it was really peaceful and refreshing.
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Have just spent 3 days in a cheap airbnb in the mountains with a dear friend and our 3 sons (20, 19 and 17). Am so very happy they still want to hang out with their daggy old mums and have asked if we can do it again next year!
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Splurged on a sale-price fresh salmon steak for tomorrow's dinner. The anticipation is half the fun!
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SLO4 just posted in his journal that he has Covid. Sending all the happiness/wellness vibes his way.
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The smell of gingerbread in the air!
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My last horrible meeting of the year is now behind me. I can now cruise through the next day and a half before 18 DAYS OFF! FIRE practice!
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I had to participate in a couple of large, contentious meetings today and yesterday, which I was really nervous about. But they went as well as could be expected, and I'm happy to have them behind me!
I was also happy that, after I was worried the dinner I'd made would be too spicy for the kids, they both went back for seconds and asked me to make it every day.
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Today's happiness is getting up first, having the house to myself and snuggling on the couch with Mr. Kitty.
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I moved my desk to a different part of the house last night, and am enjoying being able to look out a second-story window while working.
I just counted 24 turkey vultures circling in the distance. It's the tail end of salmon spawning season, so I'm pretty sure they're looking for salmon (which die after spawning).
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My photo app made a nice little collage of my adventures from this summer and I really enjoyed reflecting on the amazing things we did despite being in a pandemic.
Sometimes it feels like life has stopped but having a reminder of the joyful times was just what I needed to appreciate all that we have and all that we experienced.
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Another quite morning. This time I baked tomorrow's Christmas pie! And am putting the final touches on a gift I'm making. Need to depart at 10 am, so happy with the morning's accomplishments.
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Yesterday, being " warmer" than it has been, we went to the local lake. We were happy to see that a quite a bit of the ice had melted, so we were able to fish. I caught a beautiful trout while it was snowing. Saw a huge beaver in the lake. Today we've been invited to one of my daughters' to build graham cracker houses with her family.
Our youngest daughter, who is pregnant is awaiting covid results :( good news is she seems to be doing ok, it gives me peace of mind to know she is vaccinated. Sad that they can't join us for Christmas dinner tomorrow.
Just found out she tested positive, but is doing ok
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@crowinghen best wishes to your daughter for a safe recovery.
home today after visiting for Christmas. As lovely a time as that was, there's no place like home.
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Yesterday's happiness was craving Chinese take-out, and realizing I had pot stickers and stir fry veggies in the freezer and rice in my cupboard. Planning ahead for the win!
Do we want to continue with this thread, make a new one for the new year or some other idea somebody has?
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Just got off night shift after seven nights, feeling happy and free ( and tired ;)
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Having fresh scones and a hot coffee while reading a good book.
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Baking my first acorn squash! Hope it comes out ok
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Slowly accomplishing a few tasks I had put off (writing responses to letters), getting the car checked out (funny noises), reading a difficult book (Caste by Isabel Wilkerson), snowshoeing while listening to ambient Latin tunes (the juxtaposition is delightful).
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Did mapwork for an upcoming fishing trip!
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Letting myself think about and plan my first trip home in 2 years.
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Researched places to hike for an upcoming excursion!
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Got to see a peaceful but tense interaction between two of the "roof kitties". They are so beautiful!
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Went for a walk in the sunshine after five days of gray skies and rain.
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I made pumpkin pancakes for dinner last night (because why not) and they turned out delicious - maybe the best pancakes I've ever made.
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I helped a friend title his upcoming EP.
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Found a new place to live, and got approved today!!!
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Woohoo! That’s great news oneday.
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Thank you @never give up ! I am *more* than happy about this :)
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Spent the morning at the free park near Disneyland. Packed a picnic lunch and a bit of extra bread to feed the ducks. DD (age 7) said she preferred reading a book while basking in the sunlight on a park bench over joining in the Disney Chinese New Year festivities.
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The Most Difficult Thing I Ever Knitted (TM) is finished and blocking. I think it's going to just about fit!
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Yesterday we enjoyed the flexibility of our lifestyle and snuggled in bed for almost an hour after waking up.
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The general calm of life right now.
Preserved lemons.
Being pain-free after living with chronic pain.
My SO constructed a 'sprouting shelf' for my micro-green experiments.
:)
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The general calm of life right now.
Preserved lemons.
Being pain-free after living with chronic pain.
My SO constructed a 'sprouting shelf' for my micro-green experiments.
:)
Can you tell me more about preserved lemons? How do you preserve them and how do you use them? My mom has hundreds of lemons that she doesn't know what to do with.
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@nessness - This is the recipe I used. I'll admit I didn't use the preserved lemons all that often, but my favorite way was to chop them up (usually you just use the rind) and toss them with vegetables before roasting.
https://foodinjars.com/recipe/preserving-lemons/
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@MarcherLady congratulations!!
@Serendip so good to hear you have gotten some relief from chronic pain!
Today I went to Yosemite National Park, with one of my favorite people. Slid around a bit on some icy paths, but it's beautiful with snow.
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Spent the morning at the free park near Disneyland. Packed a picnic lunch and a bit of extra bread to feed the ducks. DD (age 7) said she preferred reading a book while basking in the sunlight on a park bench over joining in the Disney Chinese New Year festivities.
I love this.
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Can you tell me more about preserved lemons? How do you preserve them and how do you use them? My mom has hundreds of lemons that she doesn't know what to do with.
You preserve them with salt--there are heaps of recipes online. I sterilized my jar but otherwise it's a very similar process to the one that @oneday shared :)
Many people use them in salad dressings, stirfrys, stews and tagines for a big flavour boost.
I found recipes that call for them in a Palestinian cookbook (titled Falestin) and also in a UK cookbook (more of a North African influence in that part of the world).
Am excited to try one with orzo (third recipe down... https://www.goodfood.com.au/recipes/news/four-planetfriendly-recipes-from-one-pot-pan-planet-by-anna-jones-20210226-h1ua17 )
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The general calm of life right now.
Preserved lemons.
Being pain-free after living with chronic pain.
My SO constructed a 'sprouting shelf' for my micro-green experiments.
:)
Can you tell me more about preserved lemons? How do you preserve them and how do you use them? My mom has hundreds of lemons that she doesn't know what to do with.
One way to share the wealth is by contacting a local food bank. Another option is to post on someplace like Next Door or your local Buy Nothing group. I've also seen people lleave boxes of fruit in front of their houses with a "Free" sign. Some communities have gleaner groups who will harvest the fruit for you, There are so many ways to share the bounty and avoid food waste.
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We really enjoyed renting the movie Old Henry from the library.
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Spending the day with one of my favorite people; it's her birthday. Good times! Stirring up memories before she moves out of the area later this year.
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We watched Luke Skywalker appear in the Book of Boba Fett. Thanks to Jon Favreau for continuing to undo the bad taste I've had in my mouth since Rian Johnson had the eternal optimist who believe even in the redemption of Darth Vader draw a lightsaber on a child and lose hope because of a bad dream.
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We got a hamster today for my daughter's birthday. I wasn't enthusiastic and tried to talk her into a different pet, but I have to admit that the hamster is adorable. We all had fun sitting around his cage and watching him explore his new home.
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@nessness - This is the recipe I used. I'll admit I didn't use the preserved lemons all that often, but my favorite way was to chop them up (usually you just use the rind) and toss them with vegetables before roasting.
https://foodinjars.com/recipe/preserving-lemons/
Thanks - roasting them with vegetables sounds delicious!
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The general calm of life right now.
Preserved lemons.
Being pain-free after living with chronic pain.
My SO constructed a 'sprouting shelf' for my micro-green experiments.
:)
Can you tell me more about preserved lemons? How do you preserve them and how do you use them? My mom has hundreds of lemons that she doesn't know what to do with.
One way to share the wealth is by contacting a local food bank. Another option is to post on someplace like Next Door or your local Buy Nothing group. I've also seen people lleave boxes of fruit in front of their houses with a "Free" sign. Some communities have gleaner groups who will harvest the fruit for you, There are so many ways to share the bounty and avoid food waste.
She has given some away, but the problem is that there is such an an abundance of lemons in our area that it can be hard to even give them away. For example, someone put out a bag with a free sign in my neighborhood in a location with lots of pedestrian traffic, and it's still half full a week later.
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Came home from a short trip...got totally unpacked already! Hooray for getting that out of the way.
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After two really bad nights, I just had an amazing night's sleep. We're going out to breakfast to celebrate.
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We spent a few hours planning our next adventure, a trip to fish in Florida while the lakes up north are still frozen.
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Glad to feel like I’m actually becoming a competent skier! (Was a snowboarder who transitioned..very humbling). Being able to play with the forces of gravity is very cool.
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@Serendip I got my humbling the other way: skier to snowboarder. Woah, it's a whole different animal!
Today's happiness was Mr. Kitty curled up in my lap, sleeping deeply and snoring a little.
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Went for a walk in the sunshine.
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The wife and I started preparing food for the Superbowl
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@Serendip I got my humbling the other way: skier to snowboarder. Woah, it's a whole different animal!
Agreed! The carry-over is being able to read the mountain but they are quite different beasts :)
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Soul-filling conversations with a dear friend who inspires me.. I feel so lucky to have met so many wonderful women through my partner (he had many unique female friends..and I poached many of them when I entered his life!)
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I completed another session laying loft insulation without putting a foot through the ceiling, and now have the warm glow of a job well done.
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@never give up well done!
Today's happiness is my BF found his stuffed Minecraft "skull" and perched it atop his plastic full size skeleton. It's hilarious.
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I got a “well done” from oneday regarding my loft insulation task :-)
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We're preparing food and fun for a gathering of close family tonight
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I got a “well done” from oneday regarding my loft insulation task :-)
I *was* going to say my homemade chai, but ngu thinks so highly of my "well done" that it made him happy and...that made my day :)
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I got a “well done” from oneday regarding my loft insulation task :-)
I *was* going to say my homemade chai, but ngu thinks so highly of my "well done" that it made him happy and...that made my day :)
The fact that I've made oneday's day makes me happy. oneday, I think we've entered some sort of self-perpetuating infinite loop of happiness. I think we've solved the happiness challenge or something!
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Taking a break from boat work and going for a sail in the little boat. It was warm (60 F) and sunny and it's supposed to snow on Sunday.
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My amaryllis bloomed today!
It was a $7 Xmas gift which was a bulb in a pretty red pot. Started it in mid-December but it seemed like it didn't do anything for weeks so I thought I'd gotten a dud. But I kept watering it and the green shoots finally started growing and now I have a beautiful amaryllis flower just in time for Valentine's Day!
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We're continuing to prepare food for a superbowl party
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I got a “well done” from oneday regarding my loft insulation task :-)
I *was* going to say my homemade chai, but ngu thinks so highly of my "well done" that it made him happy and...that made my day :)
The fact that I've made oneday's day makes me happy. oneday, I think we've entered some sort of self-perpetuating infinite loop of happiness. I think we've solved the happiness challenge or something!
Well done, us! This cycle of reciprocal happiness will perpetuate itself into eternity.
Meanwhile, I'm also enjoying listening to BF fiddle* around on his guitar. He fills the house with audial extravagence. :)
*See what I did there?
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Amaryllis blooms, sailings, super bowl extravaganzas..and looping loops of happiness. You folks are all great.
I just finished a big work day, am feeling satisfied because I have one more then we are off for a little vacation (mostly free/sponsored by my SO’s work)..looking forward to leaving my neighborhood—I rarely do these days!
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I was in the grocery store yesterday and a friendly little 2 year old girl with a balloon struck up a conversation with me. I told her how pretty her balloon was and she just beamed. The whole interaction was so pure and happy, it just made my day.
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Valentine's pancake breakfast with my fiancé, after being long distance for the last two Valentine's Days.
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I was in the grocery store yesterday and a friendly little 2 year old girl with a balloon struck up a conversation with me. I told her how pretty her balloon was and she just beamed. The whole interaction was so pure and happy, it just made my day.
Reading about this makes my day. <3
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Watching the superbowl tonight with family
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@SquashingDebt —how lovely for both of you!
Done work, five days off and tomorrow our first road trip in a LONG time.
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Made me happy recently to get Gnucash setup for my personal finance :) My pweshus, /pet! Now finally I'll be able to accurately track exactly where every penny is going, without waiting for banks or online services to try and tell me how much money I currently have and where it went.
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@Serendip - enjoy that road trip and the days off! You've earned them!
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Valentine's pancake breakfast with my fiancé, after being long distance for the last two Valentine's Days.
How sweet!
Today's weather was beautiful. I had some time in the park with a couple friends to enjoy it.
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I helped a goat farmer friend vaccinate and band his baby goats today. It was hard work but also fun and satisfying, and the weather was beautiful.
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Continuing to plan a fishing trip in Florida scheduled for March
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Yesterday, a friend who was in the hospital was released. She is at home and recovering well now. We got to chat by zoom!
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Have lunch today with a good friend from my last pre-FIRE venture
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It was a really good yoga class today, and there were lots of new joiners (although someone 'stole' my spot of floor, how very rude!) Afterwards the class went out for coffee and cake. I attended a new Knit and Natter session this afternoon. It's... almost like I have a social life!
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Yesterday I discovered I double booked myself. Hard to get and sorely needed doctors appointment, and delayed Valentine's date (delayed on purpose to avoid crowds). Fortunately, my valentine was flexible and amenable to delaying that date again. It's nice to be partnered with someone who is a bit laid back!
ETA: today's happiness was getting a compliment on my writing 😀
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Having lunch today with one of my oldest friends
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Apparently I share the same first name as one of the Drs at the local surgery. I met a woman yesterday at Knit and Natter who said 'oh, <myname>, are you Dr myname who's on maternity leave at the minute?' a) No, I am not, b) I am 50!
I'm taking it as a compliment.
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Going for a walk with Ofpym and having a series of fortuitous side adventures as a result. I love when you can be open to whatever takes your fancy.
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Giving directions as a passenger in the car, I got a little confused. My driver patiently waited while I sorted it out, out loud: "Oh, did we pass it? I think we passed it. I must have missed it when I was telling that story. Well then, make a right at the next light. Wait! Don't turn, go straight! I see it; we didn't pass it! Oh, no. That's not it. Oh, but it's the next business! It's right there! Turn there!" (Not my finest moment, lol)
A Trifecta of happiness:
1) Driver was patient during my moment of confusion
2) I lost confidence in my sense of direction, but gained it back when it turned out we hadn't passed it
3) The chore was completed!
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My kids started cleaning their room this morning unprompted.
I started the morning with a good workout and baking some pumpkin muffins.
My volunteer tomato plant is, improbably, thriving and flowering, despite the fact that it hasn't rained in six weeks, nor have I watered it.
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Putting a fresh coat of varnish on woodwork and seeing it gleam. Bonus is that the woodwork is a table DH built.
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Friend who normally doesn't attend showed up at the park gathering today! And one of the people who I find slightly abrasive left early :)
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I went back to Duolingo today to resume some Spanish lessons after over a year's hiatus, and they gave me all my lingots back! That was unexpected and made me happy.
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Heading out for a hike later this morning
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Lovely morning doing quick ski turns before the crowds showed up--we were off the hill early (by 9:30) and had already skied heaps of vertical and when I was home showering, the simple joy hit me ..feeling like you've accomplished a good outing and all before 10am.
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Went on a slightly hillier hike than I have been, and my knee didn't hurt!
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Planning an outing with a family member's three kids!
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A day off. No plans or obligations. A few good books on the go and blue skies outside.
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@cool7hand and @Serendip both those sound lovey in their own ways!
Yesterday made good progress on the current stage of my personal project, which moves to the next stage on Saturday...the progress was sorely needed and should provide motivation for the last two days.
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Spending the weekend celebrating the wedding of close friends
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My happy moment of the day is when DH agreed to go on an easy hike tomorrow.
I am not too much of a hiker but found myself needing new adventures since I work from home and I am alone all day every day, except when DH is back from work.
I went back to Duolingo today to resume some Spanish lessons after over a year's hiatus, and they gave me all my lingots back! That was unexpected and made me happy.
Duolingo is so good at keeping you hooked, I am on a 210ish days streak. It might be fun for you to try to keep a streak as a way to continue learning a little bit everyday :)
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Got the keys to my new place! Talking over moving weekend logistics with my partner also made me happy. We worked out the miscommunications and agreed on a flexible plan. Plus, he assumed he'd be pulling his weight on cleaning the old place! Win-win-win!
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It was warm and sunny this weekend. Spent time lounging by a window basking in the sun and went for two walks this weekend. Got my 10k steps in yesterday and today!
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My wife joined me in FIRE last summer and today we finalize our dream of going down to one car by selling our second car to friends!
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Went on a walk to explore the new area and met another new neighbor. Everyone is so friendly!
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A sunny day break in the endless rain.
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My sister called, with not so great (but not terrible) news. I'm not at all happy about the news. But I'm happy she finds me to be a source of comfort; I'm glad to have her lean on me. It's the last I can do from 2 time zones away.
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A sunny day break in the endless rain.
We had a rainy day break in the endless sun, which was just as happiness-inducing.
And my other happiness today was that my 5-year-old got her second Covid shot! Only 2 weeks until the whole family is "fully vaccinated"!
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Working extra shifts but feeling so good--it's as if my energy is at a really high level these days. I'll take it!
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The evenings are getting lighter. I'm really noticing the bird-song at the moment. The lambs are starting to appear in the fields - in their adorable little plastic coats. SPRING!!!!
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Exploring an area we might want to spend a few years living in sometime in the future
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@MarcherLady yay Spring!
Yesterday I got to take steps towards developing an acquaintance into a friend.
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Yesterday I got to take steps towards developing an acquaintance into a friend.
Yesterday, I spent time with a friend who was an 'acquaintance that I really liked' who morphed into one of my closest friends during this past year or two. She was a co-worker who I stopped seeing when I left a certain place of employment...we started hiking together two years ago and now we have a weekly visit and mellow-adventure together. It's such a nice feeling when those relationships develop into something meaningful.
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I live in the middle of my city (1MM population), but there is a lot of urban wildlife in this city due to having an extensive river valley park system. I live near this park system. I woke up to fresh snow on the weekend, and a freshly trampled front yard from the deer who visited in the middle of the night to feast on the berries my mountain ash tree.
It always makes me happy to know that I had these silent visitors while I slept, and that this gorgeous tree in my yard provided sustenance for so many birds and critters. Fruit trees for the win.
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Yesterday I got to take steps towards developing an acquaintance into a friend.
Yesterday, I spent time with a friend who was an 'acquaintance that I really liked' who morphed into one of my closest friends during this past year or two. She was a co-worker who I stopped seeing when I left a certain place of employment...we started hiking together two years ago and now we have a weekly visit and mellow-adventure together. It's such a nice feeling when those relationships develop into something meaningful.
@Serendip so awesome!
I don't know about her becoming a "closest" friend (can't force that), but certainly would like to be closER.
Today's happiness was getting Mr. Kitty to settle down & nap on a place that wasn't me. Some days he is just restless and I don't know how to calm him. Today was a success, though.
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@oneday --closER is nice too!
I stayed home this morning and began emptying my closet of unnecessary clothing. Things I bought when I was younger and likely will never wear again, or aspirational buys for a person I will likely never be :)
This lightening brings that quiet happiness of having a few lovely (but highly loved) things. Simplicity doesn't come easily to me..my belongings expand and contract around it but allowing 'things' to slip into their next home brings me some satisfaction too.
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@oneday closER is also good!
@Serendip I recently shed some things that we hadn't used for a few years - better to have someone else use them and love them than let entropy have its way.
It wasn't raining yesterday! We ate dinner outside and stared at the blue blue sky in wonder and then went for a super long walk past sunset and into the gloaming. It was glorious.
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Watered the potted plants again today after moving house 1 1/2 weeks ago. I think most of them will survive! (Sorta forgot about them for a bit there...)
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Continuing to explore an area in which we might settle
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I made soup today, for a triple crown:
1. tried new recipe (after months of guilting myself for sticking to the same ol')
2. used aspirational ingredient in a timely manner
3. used purpose-bought produce before it went off
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We're exploring an area to which we might relocate!
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Visiting my hometown (which used to trigger slightly neurotic feelings) but instead is bringing a feeling of restfulness as in ‘this is where I’m from but it’s not home anymore and that’s ok’.
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Another food-related happiness: purchased final ingredient for sweet & sour shrimp (that's not the happy part) so I can:
1. use up several aging-but-not-yet-bad items
2. try the recipe (should be good, but the jarred sauce is the wild card)
Bonus happiness: BF chopped the onion so I didn't have to cry :)
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I've got a massage booked for tomorrow to try to sort out my mess of a neck. Hurrah.
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The time change and getting extra hours of sunlight in the evening is starting to sink it...I love it!
Had to come back and add: got the taxes done, woo!!!
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The time change and getting extra hours of sunlight in the evening is starting to sink it...I love it!
Agreed!
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I moved into a new house last fall, and it's been fun seeing all the flowers bloom for the first time. The other day the vine growing on my fence was suddenly covered with hundreds of white flowers. The yard smells really fragrant, and it's fun to see all the little birds hopping around.
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All the schools in the city are shut down, and all the kids in the city are doing online learning. It gives me joy to see the neighborhood kids congregating at the local playground and playing together as soon as school lets out in the afternoon.
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I switched to my Spring walking jacket this morning. Then I took it off and carried it for most of our walk. It's a lovely day!
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I bought some individually sized cans of fizzy juice, but got bored of the flavors quickly. Can't share at my workplace as I WFH. At a regularly scheduled friend meetup, only 2 were taken. Yesterday afternoon, I put the final 8 cans on my patio railing (right by the sidewalk) with a sign: help yourself. Nobody did :( But today, 4 cans are gone, woo hoo! I hope they enjoy their treat.
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Yesterday I came home to find my Husband had built a new raised flower bed for me. He used our old but very sturdy wooden outdoor dinner table and the last of the chairs that went with it to build. We were going to throw them out and I had mentioned it is to bad we don't have a project to upcycle them. Four years ago they were given to us by friends who bought a house the table and chairs came with. We got three years of use out of them but the table was to small and both table and chairs really bulky (and old) so we replaced the table last summer and only kept one of the chairs. My mother had bought new garden chairs at the time and passed on her -almost new- sorted out ones.
So anyway, raised beds at the garden store are pretty expensive and I am happy to not spend the money, have something unique and upcycled instead and most of all I love that my husband made this for me
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We scouted out a new lake to fish.
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@Anette that is a very creative re-use! Kudos to your husband.
Got a haircut (which is nice), and I may have found the hairdresser worth a repeat visit! Woo!
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@oneday Thank you!
Somehow the rest of my message where I expressed my happiness and how grateful I am to be sharing my life with this awesome man didn't make it into the post. When uploaded it got cut short.
Finding someone who cuts your hair how you really want it definitely is a happiness for me, too.
Today I am happy for the Sunday, for being off and enjoying time with my family.
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Today I'm happy to have nice enough weather and enough daylight left to work outside in the garden after leaving the office.
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Starbucks inside the grocery store was closed*, so I was "forced" to make my own chai at home. It was *chef's kiss* way better than sbux, cheaper and likely a smidge healthier. Winning!
*go ahead and facepunch me for even thinking of getting sbux.
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Returning home after being away (and being happy with the life we've built here!) :)
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I'm loving the longer days. I've been finding some time to garden, and the kids are spending lots of time playing in the yard in the evenings.
My dog went upstairs today for the first time since we moved into our house last fall. He has bad hips, but the fish oil I've been giving him is really helping.
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Living in walkable distance to a (scratch and dent) grocery, and actually walking there today to purchase some things. Woo! Living the mustachian dream :)
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Forcing myself to sit down outside, do nothing and clear my mind while all around me Spring was springing and birds were chirping. I need to stop rushing around and do this more often.
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Walking on the beach; seeing footprints the looked like peanuts :)
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Walking on the beach; seeing footprints the looked like peanuts :)
I was walking with my nephew in the sand and we thought my footprints looked like peanuts--too funny!
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Having the house to myself for most of the day; bliss :)
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Having the house to myself for most of the day; bliss :)
Snap! Me too.
I have 2200 steps to go to get me to 13000 per day for this week. The question is, should I use them to walk to the corner shop and buy chocolate?
OK, the real question is: why am I even asking that question? BRB.
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Yesterday was pure joy getting the sprinklers going on timers for our garden and doing some other prep work for the season. Just watching the perennials emerging from their slumbers makes me smile.
Today (Sunday), I had to work on the little square thing (my dog's words) in the home office. It was not so happy.
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I have 2200 steps to go to get me to 13000 per day for this week. The question is, should I use them to walk to the corner shop and buy chocolate?
OK, the real question is: why am I even asking that question? BRB.
lol
Learned that a friend struggling with severe medical symptoms has got a diagnosis, treatment has begun and they are feeling back to normal in only a few days!!! So happy for them 8D
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We're planning on seeing family from out-of-town in advance of a wedding next weekend.
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A sunny day off with no set plans and my SO is out of town for a meeting. Somehow just feels bright...looking through seeds, bringing out the bicycle, doing some tidying and cooking, listening to new music..
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Embelished a package of Zataran's jambalya rice mix...happiness on two fronts: used up a couple things that were aging, made enough for leftovers (which I like) and it was delicious!
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A crucial piece of equipment for my studio which I'd thought had been delayed, will arrive just in time for this summer's workshops and exhibitions at an art and design center. So relieved. Nobody makes these quality, portable Hollander beater machines at an affordable price but a papermaker in New Zealand who's been too busy to answer phone and emails. Now can source the motor knowing it'll be on its way soon! Priceless.
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It's yoga day, yay!
Update at 11:00: Although I didn't expect to be snowed on during my walk there. How rude.
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We are in Shanghai and are currently under full lockdown. There are several workers (guards, gardeners, maintenance men) who are locked down with us in our complex with no food, bedding, or daily necessities like towels and toothbrushes. Yesterday, I, along with several other residents, donated several items to them. I donated a big bag of bedding and towels that had been taking up space in our storage room. It made me happy to reclaim the storage space and to help someone in the process.
Today, I made two batches of muffins for their breakfast, and a big pot of rice is currently cooking on the stove for them. It also makes me very happy to see how many people in our housing complex offered to contribute food to feed the workers over the four days.
One more day in lockdown, and then freedom! (supposedly)
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@Freedomin5 good luck to you and you entire city!
Live-in BF invited me along on his walk this evening. I love that he encourages me to get out and get moving more, just by being an example.
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Today is massage day, wheeee. She worked wonders on my neck in only one session, so I'm hoping today she can fix my back, too.
Her treatment room is round the corner from an ice-cream parlour, so we were planning to go there for lunch after. But we made those plans last week in Spring. Now it is Winter again and ice-cream isn't quite so appealing.
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This afternoon, we received word that we would be allowed out of our apartment to collect our own deliveries. We are still locked down and the metal gates to our housing complex are still shut tight, but we could leave our apartment! I went for a long roundabout walk through the complex to the where parcels are delivered...even though I haven't ordered anything online lately. I'm so happy I was able to go for a walk after being cooped up in my apartment for the past five days.
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Listened to a new bootleg for our favorite band
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Leftovers in the fridge for lunch. Thank you, yesterday-me!
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We're masking up and going to a gig tonight!
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Working on a timeline for a creative endeavor.
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Weather was nice enough for a few outdoor pursuits: coffee shop patio lounging, walking to nearby estate and yard sales, scored a great deal on garage shelving, immediately filling the shelves by clearing out things that have been languishing in the living room waiting for a place to live! I am so happy with my newly created cavity of space in the pile of still-unpacked boxes from moving :)
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Am in a continuing education course which is great. The instructor is knowledgable but not ego-driven.
Also just lovely to be reminded about how wonderful learning is. I LOVe learning...
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We're meeting an old friend at her place for brunch
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Someone gifted us a chicken, eggs, milk, rice, and noodles. At a time when food is scarce and kind of hard to come by, this is such a blessing!
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@Freedomin5 I am glad you are getting fed! Puts my day in perspective.
Today's happiness was on my walk back from the coffee shop, BF spotted me. He was walking *to* the coffee shop. I still had a bit of drink left and also had a knitting project with me, so turned around and we spent a lovely time on the patio relaxing together.
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First coat of primer on the boat went on TODAY! We've been prepping for months. It feels so good to get a coat on.
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Having dinner tonight with the in laws
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Took the preliminary steps on a chore that is hard. It's not done, but the ball is rolling now.
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We're going for a walk where we live to look at the trees and flowers blooming.
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It's yoga day again. Today is the last class before Easter holidays (boo) so we're going out for coffee as a group afterwards (yay!)
I've been looking at YouTube yoga classes to keep me topped up during the two week break (Adrienne seems to be popular, does anyone have any other suggestions?) but it's not quite the same as getting together with friends.
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One of the residents in my building tested positive for COVID, and the CDC will very likely be locking us in our home for the next two weeks. I am very happy that we have been receiving care packages all weekend, and our fridge and pantry are fully stocked with food and other necessities like toilet paper, tissue, laundry detergent, and dish detergent. We have enough to last the entire time, and we even have some luxuries like cookies and cheese!
What's more amazing, a veggie box that I ordered over a week ago finally arrived last night, just in time for lockdown!
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Watching videos of a new freshwater fishing technique
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@Freedomin5 So glad to hear that you are all stocked up--what a wild experience!
Took a day off of work, due to a potential sore throat. But it turns out that I had just been more social/talkative than normal so my vocal cords were sore/overused. I skipped bookclub and took a day off of work (and have started my taxes, which I've utterly procrastinated) I think I was just feeling overwhelmed so having extra time by myself has created a feeling of spaciousness, which leads to a quiet happiness..
I really do like to keep my schedule quite simple. At least I've learned to respect that.
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Picked up my car from the mechanic, and it has a clean bill of health. Also, BF offered to give me a ride in his car...I was going to ride my bike, but it was pretty hot today & also kind of a time crunch between quitting time & shop closing time, so that offer & ride saved my calmness.
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Rigging some soft plastic bass fishing lures for our next trip
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First day wearing shorts for the year! I wasn't ready for the heat, but happy to leave the cold behind for a few months.
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We're making homemade ice cream for an upcoming party with friends
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My taxes are done and accepted! Usually I do them early, but this year I procrastinated, but I made myself finish them before we leave on vacation this weekend. Last work day before a week off!
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@cool7hand can I come to your house? 😋
Decided to give away a large framed piece of...we'll call it art. BF had an unframed poster which fit into the frame almost perfectly. Blammo! Now we have art in the blank space in the kitchen!
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We're off to a family gathering. Yay!
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Got the living room furniture reorganized. A much better use of the space!
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We're planning menu items for a family gathering next weekend
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I'm sitting out on my deck with a fresh pot of tea (usually I just pour hot water over the leaves of the morning) and some frozen Girl Scout cookies. The weather is stupendous. About to close the computer and read a book!
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Walked to the discount grocery store and found some really nice chocolate at a rock bottom price!
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Yesterday I had a major cleaning session in the kitchen, including putting the coffee/tea/sugar jars and the teapot through the dishwasher and mopping the floor. I also ate lots of 'Hub unapproved' food, knit up a storm, drank too much alcohol and stayed up way too late reading, just as a counterpoint. It was a good day!
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@MarcherLady sounds really nice! I appreciate a clean space as much as the rest of the things on your list.
Yesterday had a nice long talk with Sis. Was able to help her take the next step in organizing her retirement savings, along with the general catch up. Spreading the mmm word! 😄
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Weeding the yard
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Went on a walk in a new neighborhood and found a hidden access to a bit of nature trail. Fun!
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Scored four tubes of toothpaste and a free package of yeast from a neighbor!
We are now on the 19th day of our 4-day lockdown. We were down to our last tube of toothpaste, and none of the regular purchasing channels were operating due to lockdown, so I was happy to pay $20 for a few tubes of toothpaste.
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I woke up believing it was a work day only for the cogs to start turning and realise it's a four day weekend.
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@Freedomin5 I'm sorry to hear that you are still in lockdown.
@never give up Four! Day! Weekend!
Today I got a laundry basket from a stranger on Buy Nothing...this will help now that I don't have in-unit laundry. So nice to be able to repurpose the plastic thing rather than letting it go to landfill!
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Oh yeah oneday! FOUR days!
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We just got back from our first ever proper family vacation. It was really fun, and the kids were really well behaved, even on the 10-hour drive each way. It felt too overwhelming to travel with the kids when they were toddlers, and then Covid hit, but now that they're vaccinated and at the age where traveling is fun, I'm looking forward to doing more family trips.
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Early Easter celebration with family today
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Two amazing days off and there's still two more to go.
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The COVID case in my building was cleared, and we were allowed outside our apartment for the first time in 11 days! Bonus that it was Easter Sunday today, and the weather was gorgeous! We're still in lockdown, but at least I can go for walks inside my compound.
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We're picking up some post-Easter egg coloring kits on sale to have some inner-child fun
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I am ecstatic that we have fresh, clean water on demand! We bought a water filtration system, and now I no longer have to fight for a limited number of jugs of bottled water every week.
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Laundry machine in the community's laundry facility worked! Last time I tried to use it, it ate quarters and refused to start. Clean pj's, woo!
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@oneday clean PJs! That's the best!
My happiness today is E coming over to give us banoffee pie and walk Honey while we are in isolation. What a champ this kid is.
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Setting up my schedule for the summer in ways that feel sustainable and life giving. With room for adventures but also so I'm able to make enough money to pay bills and save a bit too (Already have way more planned than the last two years have allowed so that is both exciting and mind-boggling)
It was also nice to have an expectedly high tax bill but not feel overly stressed about it. Just having the knowledge that I can take care of all these things is a real soul-soother.
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Having dinner with an old friend
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Lunchtime walk with BF in a park, but also two errands done. Thanking past-me who arranged 1.5 hour lunches 3 days a week back in November. Especially since it's overcast now, and was sunny for the walk.
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Celebrating recreational cannabis in NJ
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Putting my thoughts down "on paper" today really helped me clarify a few things. But also showed me exactly where I'm still struggling to understand. The insight is peaceful.
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Dog sitting tonight for family
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Hearing a little pika call every morning and evening...they are the sweetest little creatures and around 4 of them live in a rocky slope behind our patio :)
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Spent a while weeding the garden - the sunshine and fresh air were just what I needed. Found an oregano plant that I didn't know I had. Then had a nice conversation with my grandma.
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I have purple yarn!
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Scored a bag of fresh bread yesterday! There were only 16 available to be delivered to my compound, but my coworker was in charge of the group purchase, and she gave us first dibs. It will be hard to get fresh food over the next several days as most food deliveries to my housing compound has been halted, so I'm grateful to have this bread as we will likely not have much access to any other food besides what is already in our home.
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Yardwork
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It's raining! Thank the sweet baby Jesus, it's raining! Not much could make me happier!!
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Returning home after a fun and productive week away with no end_of_holiday gloom or back_to_the_grind blues. I'm still free. I can still do whatever I want - all day - every day. The "holiday" has not ended.
Retired ~22 months now and in some ways it's become normal, but I still get a big kick from the fact that "going home" only includes the good bits about "going home". It just means the start of more good stuff AND I'm back in my nice home !
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More yardwork
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Found a place to donate my work clothes. So, so happy (that I found a place that helps women AND that I don't need these clothes any more!)
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I have purple yarn!
💜
Today's happiness was checking my progress chart and finding I'm on track with a project, even though I had a setback.
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Making ice cream for a gathering with friends on the weekend
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2nd gig of the week tonight: Robert Plant!
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Returning home after a fun and productive week away with no end_of_holiday gloom or back_to_the_grind blues. I'm still free. I can still do whatever I want - all day - every day. The "holiday" has not ended.
Retired ~22 months now and in some ways it's become normal, but I still get a big kick from the fact that "going home" only includes the good bits about "going home". It just means the start of more good stuff AND I'm back in my nice home !
love this :)
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Had a wonderful hangout with a dear friend at a spa (*free* b/c we both had expired coupons which the business honoured) so we enjoyed sauna-ing, cold-plunges, hammocks, lounging, etc ..all in the early morning sunlight (and double happiness since the weather forecast had predicted rain).
Nice friends add so much to the happiness of life.
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2nd gig of the week tonight: Robert Plant!
Jealous!!!
Today's happiness was: the power went out. Didn't have to do work for a couple hours! It was nice.
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I have FINALLY sourced manure. Picking it up tomorrow. Look out future flower beds, here I come!
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Finally got my head around a concept I'd been struggling with...with help from some kind & knowledgeable MMM-ers. 8D
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Making more ice cream for a gathering of friends
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I spent a while this evening sitting in the yard reading and enjoying the beautiful weather. A hummingbird flew up and hovered in the air for several seconds, close enough that I could hear his wings beat, looking right at me.
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Oh, nessness, that is magical!
Today's Zoom with a regular group of friends was just...better than usual :)
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I was out with my bike (Bertie) and we were travelling down a fairly narrow country lane. The sky was blue and the road was lined with hedges on both sides protecting us from the wind (weather not me). Suddenly a bird swooped down into the lane below the level of the hedges. It obviously didn’t feel it could now go left or right because of the hedges and so it just followed the lane. The bird flew at my head height about five yards ahead of us. It literally followed the lane for about 100 metres or so before it realised it could fly up! As we were on a slight downhill during these 100 metres, Bertie and I were cycling at exactly the same speed as the bird was flying.
To anyone watching (sadly no one) it was as if the bird, bike and human were all together as part of the same group making their way down this lane. I suddenly felt like a Disney character or Dr Dolittle or someone.
The sheer joy I felt was indescribable although was slightly hampered by the concern that if the bird chose to do its business during this time then I’m getting it full in the face at 25mph! Thankfully that didn’t happen and the joy wasn’t soured by such an unfortunate turn of events. I thank the powers that be for not ruining this moment for me.
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And I thank you for sharing this story! So fun!
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I’m glad you enjoyed it Ladychips. It was amazing to follow a flying bird so closely for so long. It was so effortless and graceful and I could hears its wings flapping. It was the epitome of freedom.
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Today I discovered that my new recipe for cream of shiitake mushroom soup tastes almost EXACTLY the same as the mushroom soup I love at one of my favorite soup and sandwich restaurant. Sadly, I have not eaten at that restaurant for over 8 years because it's on the other side of town, and restaurants here are constantly shutting down. I have now discovered their tasty secret! The secret ingredients are Italian seasoning, soya sauce, and sesame oil!
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Rereading Demian by Herman Hesse and enjoying watching my own mind's more mature reaction to a book first read as a young adult.
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Enjoying bbq and flower with friends
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Read an update from the resort management office about all the upgrades they're making to the resort where we own a cottage. It will be so awesome when we can return to Canada and spend time (months!) at the cottage.
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Filled up my arms with library books: gardening, brain-science and drawing. Such a fulfilling feeling...(and free!)
We went skiing yesterday and ran into two friends just as we were about to go up the lift so ended up skiing with them which meant we stayed out for much longer than we would have on our own. The snow was great --felt like mid-winter conditions and it's almost May!
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Another member of the drop-in group I was planning on participating in today reached out to let me know that they were the only other one there. We mutually decided not to meet just the two of us.
Was nice of them to reach out; they could have just vacated the meeting point and I would have never known. They know I have a longer commute than just about anyone and they were trying to save me the trouble.
It's nice that they took the time*.
*This is a person who is not my cup of tea and has displayed some mildly unsavory behavior, but it's nice that even though we aren't bosom buddies, they made the effort to show caring. A good reminder that just because a person sometimes behaves less than their best, it does not mean they are a bad person.
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May !
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We're searching for a new hike for later in the week
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All the pre-travel kerfuffle is complete and I am flying to NZ today! I haven't seen my family since 2019 and I am *pretty excited*
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Woohoo that’s great mspym.
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@Annette , that is a beautiful photo!
@mspym bon voyage!
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Yaaaaay. Have a great time. I miss NZ.
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Got in 12,000 steps today, and also had lunch al fresco on the balcony.
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Picking some spring flowers
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@oneday Thank you, Spring is so much fun.
Today we had two of our kids and our grandson over and had dinner together. It was lovely to get some time together.
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I got a bunch of egg cartons from a woman in my Buy Nothing group. She dropped them off to me, so I gave her a dozen eggs as a thank you.
Maybe it's because I don't get out much, but pleasant interactions with strangers have felt really meaningful lately.
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About to see a movie in a theater! Haven't done this since pre-pandemic. As of now, nobody else is in the theater, so seems very safe.
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Beautiful sunny day today. Received a government ration of rice, oil, and noodles. Will be donating the food to the compound workers who are locked down with us, as we have enough to eat already.
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Had a mild migraine yesterday (& the day before) so when I woke up feeling good so that makes me happy :)
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Met a neighbor who taught me how to hack the dryers to get half price drying!
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Scored several brand new cardboard gift boxes from a neighbor who is leaving China. They are the perfect size for baked goods, so they will be great for sharing cookies or muffins or little cakes or crackers or just little gifts in general.
I also found out that crackers are stupid easy to make.
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Water aerobics today; made 2 new friends :)
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I've been looking for a new church on and off for the past year, and I think I may have finally found one that's a good fit.
Overall it was a nice mother's day. My husband and the kids brought me breakfast in bed, and the kids gave me handmade gifts. I spent some time reading, gardening, and working out, and spent time with my mom and grandma.
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Planning hiking Gertrude's nose in NY
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We're seeing old friends today
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Found $40 yesterday in a small purse I'd used for traveling. Yippee!
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I’ve walked along a deserted beach every day this week
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Ate my first asparagus of the spring last night! Yum!
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Ate my first watermelon of the season!
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The area outside my office window has a very basic boxwood that is absolutely teeming with wildlife. I've seen three species of birds I'd never seen before this spring.
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Leftovers! Somebody Else* cooked for me today <3
*yesterday-me
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Went for a hike
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Learned how to make Hong Kong style butter cookies! They're super easy to make and only uses common ingredients that are easily available. No more need to pay $$$ for imported cookies.
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Looked after Future Me and acquired some food with actual nutrients. I’ve been living on toast for too many days now.
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Cherries!
Haha, three food related hapinesses in a row!
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Anticipating an upcoming trip. Packing and preparing.
It's been so long and feels exciting.
A friend came over yesterday, their SO was out of town and it was nice to provide company and dinner.
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Can I continue the food trend? Had a fresh-picked salad with the garden's lettuce! MMMM…
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We had some homemade ice cream from a farm that's been operating for 150 plus years. Sweet!
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5 consecutive very active hiking/cycling days = endorphins!
And now heading out for another 10+ mile hike because the sun is shining, and . . . why not ?
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Took the train for the first time in over 2 years, and none of my transit money expired, the card worked on the first try, parking was easy and as a bonus, the train is not crowded!!
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I found my chicken who had been missing for two days! She was hiding right across the street, and was thirsty but unharmed.
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Going on a hike
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@nessness that's great! Hopefully no lasting health effects from her walkabout.
It was HOT today and I got a milk shake.
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Writing a personalized card for a niece graduating from school
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Writing a personalized card for a relative graduating from school
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Attending a close family member's graduation party
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After a lousy few days, I'm almost recovered from my cold today.
I cooked nopales for the first time today and they turned out delicious. We also picked the first few cherry tomatoes from a volunteer tomato plant.
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Going fishing with friends
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Just had one of the best yoga practices ever. No idea why...just gonna enjoy it.
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My daughters sang me a song they've been working on together.
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Making plans to attend a free charity sporting event this weekend
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Making plans to see a friend in one of those obstacle course races this weekend
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Having a call with a close friend
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Picked the first ripe blackberry from my blackberry bush. It was delicious.
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This is the first year I've had chives in my garden. I added some chopped chives to my lunch, and enjoyed some increased yummyness.
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Going for a long walk in nature
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Stumbled upon a food truck, which also happened to have the dish I've been craving. Why are all my happinesses about food lately?
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It's getting easier to get a grocery delivery time slot, and there are more goods available for purchase. Even though we are still under lockdown and can't leave our compound, I'm happy that the food insecurity is waning, and I don't have to worry about not being able to find food or not having enough to eat.
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We're due for some lightning today, and we can't wait to watch the storm roll in
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We're due for some lightning today, and we can't wait to watch the storm roll in
Slightly envious.
I loved watching the thunder storms roll in in Colorado and Oklahoma.
I enjoyed a walk this morning and am enjoying listening to the birds chirping.
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@Freedomin5 I'm happy you are able to feed yourself much easier, too!
Today I let the cat out without his harness. I escorted him as he sniffed the bushes and grass near the door. When another cat appeared, he puffed up his tail, but he came inside when I approached. Glad there wasn't a cat fight!
If I had known that other cat was out there, I would have used the harness. So...happy for the narrow escape.
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@Freedomin5 your situation sounds tough, but I love your positive attitude throughout it!
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I thought one of my plants (I think a canna lily?) was dead, because it looked sad and droopy long after everything else in my yard started blooming. But all of a sudden it's green and healthy with beautiful red flowers. It looks like a new plant!
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Planning a fishing trip!
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I finally slept again after a month of stress-induced insomnia
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Planning another fishing trip!
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Deciding whether to fish from the spawn out or from the main lake in.
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A Costco ice cream bar that I wanted was sold out, so I found a DIY recipe and made my own. I tasted the ice cream "batter" and it's delicious.
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Golfing last week I broke 100 for probably the first time in my life. Actually, I was closer to 90 than 100 so I was ecstatic. Only really started trying to get better over the last 10 months or so I'm happy to see major improvements.
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Walked today even though it wasn't the prettiest day. Worth it.
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I made a smoothie with watermelon today for the first time. I wasn't sure how it would turn out, but it's delicious (good thing, since I bought a ~20-pound watermelon and am freezing a lot of it!)
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@nessness --I love a watermelon smoothie! (or even just blending straight up cold watermelon with mint...yum)
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Am grateful for the landing pad of my home and life.
We were away for two weeks and then fell ill upon getting home and it feels so nice to be in our own space for recovery..
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@nessness blended watermelon is delicious
@Serendip something about being in your own space helps with being ill
My happiness is not having any time pressure while I start my teeth anxiety control plan. Also I have a friend date lined up for tomorrow morning.
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Found the source of the funky smell!
Die, funky smell, haha.
I guess the happiness is a nice-smelling house.
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Found the source of the funky smell!
Oh, I bet that goes a long way to making the new place feel like home.
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Found the source of the funky smell!
Oh, I bet that goes a long way to making the new place feel like home.
Yeah...it was a forgotten dirty sock under the bed, yikes! Easy to fix and now home is harmonious again.
Today's happiness was a neighbor bringing over mis-delivered mail. Glad to meet another nice person in the vicinity.
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Packing for another fishing adventure
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A fresh new day ahead
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Read about how anticipation can be an important ingredient for happiness..not living in the future, but allowing yourself to look forward to things and relish that..
so I'm recovering from covid but planning an upcoming hiking/kayaking trip with an old friend who I haven't seen in many years. It's fun to allow myself the fun of anticipating health and good times :)
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Read about how anticipation can be an important ingredient for happiness..not living in the future, but allowing yourself to look forward to things and relish that..
so I'm recovering from covid but planning an upcoming hiking/kayaking trip with an old friend who I haven't seen in many years. It's fun to allow myself the fun of anticipating health and good times :)
That's awesome, I'm sure the trip planning will help you recover.
My happiness for today was getting rid of a bit of clutter, and making this place feel more like my own. (Just moved in a month ago.) And a nice long visit with my Dad. It's amazing the stuff he remembers from his youth.
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Yesterday's happiness was seeing friends, being outdoors and getting a burst of energy that I think will last for a bit.
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Saw a new type of plant bloom today after waiting all spring for it :)
(Buckbean or bogbean)--I haven't seen it or known it before
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I worked on some crafts today for my little grandchildren.
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Read about how anticipation can be an important ingredient for happiness..not living in the future, but allowing yourself to look forward to things and relish that..
A fresh new day ahead
I like his these two concepts dovetail!
Yesterday's happiness was testing out my new camp mattress. It is good to go 👍
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Yoga this morning, it always calms my brain. And I missed a call from the Sewing Machine Guy yesterday (yes, that's the shop name) but I hope that means my machine is fixed and ready for pick-up.
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Reached out and heard back from three friends today as well as running into another in the street - going for a walk with her tomorrow morning.
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Got invited to swim in a neighbor's backyard pool today. Will be pretty refreshing in this extreme heat!
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Went to nieces graduation. So nice to see her and her family again!
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Winter solstice dip in the sea with my swim girls at sunrise. Followed by hot drinks and snacks around a fire. Heavenly.
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Trading puzzles with a friend.
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Water aerobics class that was on hiatus has resumed!
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Water aerobics class that was on hiatus has resumed!
Yay. I keep thinking about swimming again. My shoulder is mended enough that I could probably manage an acceptable front crawl again... Hmm, thanks, @oneday I might look into that!
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Go for it, @MarcherLady ! Being in the water is so much fun!
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Picking up a book from the library
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Packing for a two week fishing trip with family
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Picking up a book from the library
Yay books!
A nice long chat with my sister <3
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DD's school library is offering books over the summer again, now that staff can return to work after the lockdown.
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Really nice walk, chat & swim with a friend this afternoon. When I got home, my SO had picked up some special dinner ingredients for tonight and he is just cooking it up now.
Enjoyed bookclub last night and nice connections.
The sun is out. The garden is happy.
Simple pleasures are blooming into a great start to summer.
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Happiness today was walking around a children's adventure playground and learning the name of local birds.
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DD's school library is offering books over the summer again, now that staff can return to work after the lockdown.
Yay kids books!
Found a local source for an ingredient that has been both an expensive, mail-order item and also a driver of eating out, since cannot always make the thing at home. Hooray!
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Biked to a friend's compound today for a pool party. It was a 45-minute bike ride and saved us ~$4 taxi fee, plus the route took us along a beautiful multi-use recreational trail by a river/canal. The kids had a blast.
I brought homemade fresh-baked soft pretzels to share, and my friend said it tasted exactly like Auntie Anne's Pretzels. She and another friend both wanted all of the leftover pretzels.
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Finally found both a pastry blender and a mortar/pestle on the second hand market. Hooray!
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I have a nice view of the (almost) full super moon out my window.
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Clean teeth (dentist visit)
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Clean teeth (dentist visit)
Ooh, that's the best. I'm due for a cleaning and debating if I want to get one out here where I am for the summer or wait until I get home.
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Planning another fishing trip!
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Planning on meeting forum friends. Really exciting!
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Planning to meet forum friends is awesome. Yay!
On that note, I found a community theater event happening while my sister is in town and we will go to that when she is here is a few weeks. The anticipation is half the fun.
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Having dinner with a friend to hear about how she overcame a significant life challenge
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Got some mail from the credit union where I just opened an account. It included a pamphlet called "Owner's Manual" lol. Mostly it was marketing, trying to push all their products. But the name is amusing.
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A skunk got into the chicken coop last night and one of my chickens was missing. I found her this morning, missing her entire tail but otherwise unharmed!
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@nessness close call! Glad it turned out ok. Poor tail less chickie, tho.
Yesterday I saw an amateur production in the park, which included audience participation. It was an absolute blast!!
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We found a cheap, small pool to help with the local heat wave!
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I'm doing some fairly involved maintenance on our "good car". Turned the corner on the project. Everything that needs to come apart is apart, everything is cleaned, everything that needed purchasing is purchased and laying on my project table. I've started reassembly.
Last night everything I did to this project and a couple of other small garage tasks just went so smoothly I didn't know what to do!
Followed that up with some time sitting on the dark front porch enjoying the night sky while our family pooch patrolled the yard for interesting smells and sounds. Evening was mild so it was a nice treat.
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Going for a swim later in the cheap pool we got to beat the heat
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We saw such a beautiful sunset yesterday!
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Friday.
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Lazy summer days, reading in hammocks and trying to not plan too much..
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These last two days, oh my gosh. Just perfect weather.
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There are a lot of things around at the moment that make us miserable. The media, and even the forum is full of things that we can read about to make us more unhappy.
I think we could all do with a little more happiness in our lives. I think that there’s at least one thing that makes me happy each day. So I’m challenging myself and you to write about something different each day that made you happy.
Today a friend told me about a frog in her garden - a spotted marsh frog. She showed me a picture of it. It’s rather small but it makes a lot of noise. We used to have a pond and striped marsh frogs would call at night. It was a lovely sound - a clonk noise, just like a Japanese deer stalker. I loved the sound, and I was really happy that my friend reminded me of it.
Thank you for you comment.
Today I have a good day with my mother, we spoke a lot of and smiled.
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My neighbour's very barky dog has been blessedly quiet so far today.
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Scheduling a meet up with an old friend
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BF went for a walk, and I spoke up and asked to go with him. Good adulting ("use your words") and good to stretch my legs.
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I won a raffle where the prize was some free landscaping work. The 2-person crew showed up this week and my front yard looks better than it has in years.
So enjoyable to come home and see a yard where everything looks spiffy instead of overgrown - I'm sure my neighbors appreciate the difference too!
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Perfectly ripe cherries and a good place to set up a hammock :)
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A long lunch allowing a walk to the grocery to get the on-sale grapes. Dessert tonight!
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We're getting a nice, soaking rain this morning. The land desperately needs the water, and we have nowhere we need to go.
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Paid off the house!
Wife’s term was up this month and not sure if she would get another so we threw a big chunk of $ at the house and paid it off.
Wanted her to be able to make the decision about what is next without money being a consideration.
I know some disagree and that is ok we are at peace with our choice. We max everything each year (401k pre and post, roths, HSA, and are fat fi at this point and this was the next check box for us.
6 years 1 month from the day we purchased it
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Got a nice compliment from a coworker.
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Paid off the house!
Yay! Congratulations!
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Paid off the house!
Congratulations!!
My happiness for the week is I paid off my vehicle and we had a nice 1.3" rain to help our drought stricken area.
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Watching Randy Rainbow parody skits on YouTube, making me laugh pretty hard.
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Have found a solution to my cat sitting on my arms during WFH hours. He will happily settle into a chair next to me if I line it with my fuzzy robe and give him many snuggles.
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Scored hundreds of free books to donate to a school in Cambodia.
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Plane tickets, rental car and boarding kennel sorted for the Christmas holidays, fortunately all booked before we had the brain-spasm of realising the youngest is FOUR WEEKS away from being done with high school.
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Yesterday was a great day.
1. I met someone who I connected with. We both enjoyed the garden tour I gave her and I sent her home with garden gifts she was obviously happy with.
2. Finished cleaning up and de-cluttering the pantry - a long overdue project - YAY! Feels so good to have that monkey off my back.
3. Still reveling in the joy of my new coffee machine. Excellent taste and perfect Euro coffeehouse style crema.
Sometimes it is worth it to spend the extra money to get what you truly enjoy.
4. This week I learned how to propagate Cassava. I have a rare tropical bi-color variety that I needed to cut because of storm damage.
Worked like a charm - nothing to it, already have new growth and gifted one to a delighted garden friend.
The new Cassava is a perfect addition to a couple of trouble spots i.e. I needed some camouflage in a couple of garden corners.
5. Chiming in with everyone who is grateful for the rain that keeps the garden going through our brutal summers because it is way too hot for this old lady to be out in the heat/humidity any longer than absolutely necessary.
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I returned from travelling and was reminded how much I love our small mountain town as well as the lifestyle and community of friends we've built here. Life is good.
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Spontaneous visit to a friend; we chatted for an hour and I had to get back to work. But it was fun while it lasted!
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Reached out to two difference friends this morning and chatted with both. It was really nice.
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Making homemade ice cream for friends!
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Very happy that the weather has cooled down and we can go for morning walks without feeling like we’re walking in a sauna.
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Went for a hike after a long hike hiatus. No reason for the hiatus. Happy to be hiking again.
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Agree, cooler weather in our region is bliss!
Very happy that the weather has cooled down and we can go for morning walks without feeling like we’re walking in a sauna.
Looking forward to a free museum tour of Japanese prints this afternoon.
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Bike ride in the sunshine
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Bought a microwave oven for my own use. BF spontaneously offered to pay for half! Even though he had not say in the price or selection criteria. I didn't expect him to pay, much less offer to pay, when he will likely only use it for re-heating tea. Very nice surprise :)
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Cleaned the outside of my house windows and cleaned all of the outdoor furniture, sconces and porches. Now I have nice clean place to relax after work.
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Lunch with an old friend
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Leaving my Newfoundland house today, and I really, really, REALLY don't want to leave.
But the happy part is that because I own the house, I can just come back! So I'll have something wonderful to look forward to while I relearn to walk.
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The best solution to a problem I encountered today was to "do nothing". I suppose I'm inherently lazy, and I love it when the solution is to do nothing.
Also, my friend's kid ran away from home a few days ago, but they returned home today. Very happy she didn't have to file a police report and that her kid came back safe and sound.
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Love reading through these reflections-- @Malcat so glad that you have somewhere wonderful to rehabilitate
and @Freedomin5 that is a wonderful reason for a happy moment!
I just experienced 5 days at an island retreat with friends (who are now much closer friends--it transformed a few relationships) and also being around and learning from panelists who have dedicated their lives to ecological matters and deep thinking really lit a fire..
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Listed a thing for sale and prepped another thing for listing. Happy to get the procrastinated items off my list.
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Love reading through these reflections-- [member=39652]Malcat[/member] so glad that you have somewhere wonderful to rehabilitate
and @Freedomin5 that is a wonderful reason for a happy moment!
I just experienced 5 days at an island retreat with friends (who are now much closer friends--it transformed a few relationships) and also being around and learning from panelists who have dedicated their lives to ecological matters and deep thinking really lit a fire..
Sadly, I can't actually rehab there. I need to relearn how to walk before I can go back. So it's something to look forward to. On the bright side, the minimalist condo we downsized to when we discovered MMM is *perfect* for rehab. No stairs, heated indoor garage parking, indoor pool and gym, and even support bars already in the shower. Also, it's around the corner from my PT.
If I have to be totally unable to walk for 4+ months, I have the perfect home for it. Then I can look forward to getting back to Newfoundland once I can do stairs and walk with just a cane again.
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I was notified yesterday that a temporary 10% to cover staffing shortages has been made permanent! (The raise, not the staffing shortages :) )
Also, I've been struggling with middle-of-the-night insomnia for a while, but I had a really great sleep last night and feel very rested for today.
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Grocery shopping surprise: cheese was on sale. Excellent!
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Timely thread (or rather, glad I just found it, since it isn't new!). I've been struggling with grief-depression at the recent loss of a beloved pet that hit us really hard. So it's nice to be reminded that sometimes the smallest things in life are the biggest things.
Today it was cool enough in the morning to go for a nice walk in the woods. Normally it's just too stinkin' hot/muggy, even in the early morning.
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@RainyDay sorry for the loss of your beloved pet. It is really hard sometimes; their lives are so short. 😢
Went to a support group which I had skipped last week (because I truly needed the support but was being resistant/recalcitrant), and it was wonderful. Really, just what I needed!
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I'm down to the last 4 hours of a 32 hour driving trip.
Haven't seen my house in nearly half a year.
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I'm down to the last 4 hours of a 32 hour driving trip.
Haven't seen my house in nearly half a year.
Hope the last few miles are the easiest. Welcome home!
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Happy to be able to open the windows again - the brutal summer heat has left along with hurricane Ian.
Happy to be able to go outside again and enjoy fall gardening. Always fun to plan for a new season.
Happy about an out-of-the-blue gift from my neighbor - a rainbow-colored capiz shell windchime. I've always wanted one of those.
Looks perfect in my garden.
Happy to have a few hours of garden help this week. Half of the garden is already back in shape, I can manage the rest. Very thankful for that!
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Fresh, warm blueberry muffins from the oven.
Heatwave is over and the weather has cooled down.
First proper BBQ in ages with friends.
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Therapy didn't make me feel more depressed afterwards.
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Managed to time the dog walks in between the rain torrents. I'm now sewing to the dulcet tones of puppy snores.
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Therapy didn't make me feel more depressed afterwards.
Well that's better than the alternative I suppose. Although therapy always makes me feel awful afterwards. Not depressed, but kind of like I've been run over by a truck.
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Therapy didn't make me feel more depressed afterwards.
Well that's better than the alternative I suppose. Although therapy always makes me feel awful afterwards. Not depressed, but kind of like I've been run over by a truck.
I call that "therapy hangover."
Well, several of the sessions did leave me feeling worse/more depressed, so yesterday was a win. Also, it was the last one without renewing with the insurance so I think that helped. No more future therapy looming.
Today's happiness is easting all the perishable foods before leaving on vacation!
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A long hot shower and a peaceful space after a week in a very-cluttered and noisy environment.
...ah, the sweetness of quiet.
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It's pretty stressful here in China right now. There's talk of another mass lockdown/move to online learning. And there are definitely rolling lockdowns popping up all over the place. The HR at our company is responsible for making sure all the expats have what they need while locked in metal shipping containers with bars on the windows (i.e., quarantine isolation rooms), and they're pretty stressed out trying to manage all of the moving parts.
Today's happiness was secretly dropping off a care package of goodies to the HR staff, just to cheer them up a bit. They have no idea it's me.
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A great vacation was had (this is bitter sweet, as it's back to work in the morning)
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It's pretty stressful here in China right now. There's talk of another mass lockdown/move to online learning. And there are definitely rolling lockdowns popping up all over the place. The HR at our company is responsible for making sure all the expats have what they need while locked in metal shipping containers with bars on the windows (i.e., quarantine isolation rooms), and they're pretty stressed out trying to manage all of the moving parts.
Today's happiness was secretly dropping off a care package of goodies to the HR staff, just to cheer them up a bit. They have no idea it's me.
this does sound really stressful @Freedomin5 --that is a super thoughtful way to bring some cheer into the day for that HR team!
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My 16 year old got his driver's license! More independence for him, and a lot less driving for me. Hurrah!
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The weather has been gorgeous this week.
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I LOVE having a voting station in my condo complex.
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1) We’re planning our summer vacation and selected dates to visit the cottage for summer 2023.
2) Out of curiosity, I looked up cottages for rent in our resort. Cottages that are half the size of ours, and not waterfront, are going for over $300/night. A cottage the size of ours would easily cost double （since ours has over 1000sf living space and is waterfront). It would’ve cost us $14,000+ to stay for three weeks in a comparable cottage.
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An errand, which was attempted but thwarted yesterday, was completed today. Overcoming obstacles, yay!
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Today my two older children were cleaning their room, so my third child was sad he had no one to play with. I hugged him and told him I would take him out hiking while his brothers cleaned.
He immediately became happy and excited, and we went out to the woods. He stared in amazement at all the colors of the trees changing and ran and smiled like the 7 year old boy he is. He found a nice stick and started playing with it as we walked, using it to brush the leaves off the trail. He found some truly huge leaves the size of my face to take home and show his mom.
As we came to the start of the trail he neatly positioned his stick on the ground and said: "I hope another boy can find the stick someday and have fun also!". I told him " me too son, me too. I hope everyone can find their stick someday".
Sometimes if I let go of all my worries, and stress, and thoughts and anxieties, and simply walk through the woods noticing the beauty of nature, I can see why my 7 year old son gets so excited by simply walking through the woods.
The only way for me to get to that point though isn't to remember what it is like to be a 7 year old. It is to forget what it is like to be a 36 year old. The stick is already there. I just have to pick up all the leaves covering it up these days.
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Ate the leftovers that I saved for myself.
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@curious_george - loved that!
It was a more mellow day (friend driving to soccer games) & I really enjoyed the time to myself. I got a lot done, but I also just tried to enjoy each moment as it came, which is unusual for us on a weekend. We have two teens, and they are packed with activities.
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A day that seemed like it could feel complicated ended up going really smoothly.
Work, dermatologist, voting....all was easy and pleasant. The happiness of ease.
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A day that seemed like it could feel complicated ended up going really smoothly.
Work, dermatologist, voting....all was easy and pleasant. The happiness of ease.
I love it when things are easy. :)
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Expected to be slightly bored at a hobby event held at a winery. It's not my hobby, it's BF's hobby. Plus, I don't like wine. I went to get some fresh air, stretch my legs and spend some time with him. But there was an unexpected live band and the event was different than expectations. It was a really fun time!
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We're going home today! We've had a nice visit to the ILs, but I am DONE and want my own bed.
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Hooray @MarcherLady ! It's always soooo nice to return to one's own nest.
Today, BF helped me complete an annoying* chore. Dropping off something with a Craigslist person, there is always a risk that it will go badly, so I was happy to have his companionship.
*His description of the chore.
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Finished night shifts (7in a row) yesterday and now I am off for 14 nights.
Today I have to myself and tomorrow our DD will come home for a week of fall break
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On Tuesday the bus starts collecting people from the international airport again. This will save me at least an hour on my way home. Door to door eta now 34 hours.
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I love it when things are easy. :)
me too!
Had an electrician come by yesterday (securing one is hard enough) *bonus was that the problem we needed help with was no problem for him and he managed to get the job done quickly. Satisfying!
I've been observing some anxiety rising up recently so started keeping a Done list where I track all the miniscule things I accomplish and hence, can't feel like my days are 'unproductive'. While I understand that getting-things-done isn't the goal of life, sometimes I like looking back at all these tiny things and it helps me feel effective (especially since I'm more of a creative than a master of efficiency)
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On Tuesday the bus starts collecting people from the international airport again. This will save me at least an hour on my way home.
Yay!
Door to door eta now 34 hours.
Yay?
I've been observing some anxiety rising up recently so started keeping a Done list where I track all the miniscule things I accomplish and hence, can't feel like my days are 'unproductive'.
I did this for years and it was effective.
Today's happiness is opening the blinds and letting the sun warm the house. Soon, it will be too cold for this to be effective, but it's enjoyable while it lasts.
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After persistently adding money to our investment account every month, and patiently waiting, our investment account balance is finally higher than its last peak in December 2021.
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Hey, @Freedomin5 that's a great milestone!
My happiness today was trying a new coffee shop. It's not going to be in my usual rotation, but nice to finally try it. The last two tries it was closed.
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Hiking
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My mother gave me a vintage, black wool coat with a lambskin collar--claiming she could never wear it in the country.
Today was cold and blustery so I layered the somewhat elegant, vintage coat over some winter sportswear and went for a 9km tromp. It was funny how different it felt. I ran into a friend who was wearing a rather dapper outfit and when my partner came up to us, even he commented how uncharactisterally stylish we were both looking for a casual, chilly walk around town.
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Creatine has given me way more physical and mental energy than I expected. I wish I knew about this stuff years ago.
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Creatine has given me way more physical and mental energy than I expected. I wish I knew about this stuff years ago.
Careful. There is a massive creatine shortage at the moment, which means a much higher probability of contamination with cheap active ingredients.
Supplements are generally unregulated and almost never tested, and when they are, all sorts of shit can be found in them, like chinese basement lab versions of pharmaceuticals.
I'm *extremely* wary of supplements that are in a global shortage.
If you're feeling a major burst of energy, there's a more than non-zero chance that your powder is contaminated with stimulants.
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Creatine has given me way more physical and mental energy than I expected. I wish I knew about this stuff years ago.
Careful. There is a massive creatine shortage at the moment, which means a much higher probability of contamination with cheap active ingredients.
Supplements are generally unregulated and almost never tested, and when they are, all sorts of shit can be found in them, like chinese basement lab versions of pharmaceuticals.
I'm *extremely* wary of supplements that are in a global shortage.
If you're feeling a major burst of energy, there's a more than non-zero chance that your powder is contaminated with stimulants.
Noted.
There was no initial burst of energy. It took 2-3 days for it start to take effect and has ramped up from there. I can run farther, lift weights longer, and have more mental energy.
This makes me wonder if there are any third party certification programs available or something for supplements.
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On a walk today with BF, he admitted he was low on energy and motivation and wouldn't have gone on the walk if I hadn't prompted him. *I* wouldn't have gone on the walk if our history didn't include daily lunchtime walks, largely initiated by him. Felt good to be the one initiating the healthy habit for a change :)
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Creatine has given me way more physical and mental energy than I expected. I wish I knew about this stuff years ago.
Careful. There is a massive creatine shortage at the moment, which means a much higher probability of contamination with cheap active ingredients.
Supplements are generally unregulated and almost never tested, and when they are, all sorts of shit can be found in them, like chinese basement lab versions of pharmaceuticals.
I'm *extremely* wary of supplements that are in a global shortage.
If you're feeling a major burst of energy, there's a more than non-zero chance that your powder is contaminated with stimulants.
Noted.
There was no initial burst of energy. It took 2-3 days for it start to take effect and has ramped up from there. I can run farther, lift weights longer, and have more mental energy.
This makes me wonder if there are any third party certification programs available or something for supplements.
Welcome to a new sinkhole of research. I think you will enjoy learning about the cluster fuck that is the supplement world.
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A friend of mine send me a 45second video of the view from her window while she practiced piano..
She is uncomfortable playing in front of people so this is part of her 'exposure therapy' to embrace the challenge & inevitable mistakes. I felt honoured to listen to it and it was lovely.
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Aww, @Serendip it's sweet that you can help her :)
TIL that rolled oats don't need to be cooked. Just soaking in boiling water for a few minutes is enough. Since I don't have a dishwasher, I don't have to get both a pot and a bowl dirty for breakfast. I suspect this will make me happy for multiple days.
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I am very very happy to read the following news today:
Chinese health authorities on Friday eased some of the country's heavy COVID-19 curbs, including shortening by two days quarantine times for close contacts of cases and inbound travellers, and Ends Flight Suspensions.
No more flight suspensions = more flights = not having to pay $5000 for a round trip ticket home next summer
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Took my 14 yo pup out for his daily the other day and he was romping and running about in the snow like a young pup, and his red boots stayed on! He loves the snow and it was fun to see him so happy and energized.
@curious_george your woodlands adventure with your son made me feel happy!
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My life hasn't been great lately and yesterday kind of sucked (demented mother went nuts at a doctor's appointment and ended up in ER for no good reason; daughter went to urgent care with suspected broken arm) but I had a sandwich generation kind of happiness in that I actually got to clean our bathrooms in the morning before things went sideways. Now they are not gross! Now when I go in to the bathroom, instead of seeing one more thing to do, I feel like I have a moment of peace.
I lost my credit card in the store today and was panicking because I was also late to pick up kids from school; but then I remembered that they had an after school program today and so I turned around, went back to the store, and found that a Good Samaritan had brought the card to the customer service desk. And I wasn't late for pickup, I was early. Yayyy!!!
I'm also in bed two hours earlier than I usually am, and there doesn't seem to be any pressing work to keep me up. I took some cough syrup for my cough and it's making me pleasantly sleepy.
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@Poundwise I am happy for you getting some moments of peace during your hectic time.
Today I was happy for no discernable reason.
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Downloading maps for a hike with friends
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Aww, @Serendip it's sweet that you can help her :)
TIL that rolled oats don't need to be cooked. Just soaking in boiling water for a few minutes is enough. Since I don't have a dishwasher, I don't have to get both a pot and a bowl dirty for breakfast. I suspect this will make me happy for multiple days.
For ten years, DH ate oatmeal for breakfast every work day. I found a small, deep, heavy bowl. I'd dump the oats in at night, add water and place it in the microwave. In the morning (4:45am, to be exact), I'd push a button and presto, oatmeal! The bowl stayed warm, so it was easy to wash. Lather,, rinse, repeat.
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Aww, @Serendip it's sweet that you can help her :)
TIL that rolled oats don't need to be cooked. Just soaking in boiling water for a few minutes is enough. Since I don't have a dishwasher, I don't have to get both a pot and a bowl dirty for breakfast. I suspect this will make me happy for multiple days.
For ten years, DH ate oatmeal for breakfast every work day. I found a small, deep, heavy bowl. I'd dump the oats in at night, add water and place it in the microwave. In the morning (4:45am, to be exact), I'd push a button and presto, oatmeal! The bowl stayed warm, so it was easy to wash. Lather,, rinse, repeat.
Great hack! Hot breakfast is great in the winter. I wondered: what is the difference between the rolled oats in the instant packets and the rolled oats in the bag of "regular" oatmeal? Turns out, not much.
Today's happiness was talking to BF about something that was hard for me to say, even though it's objectively kind of a trivial thing. For me, it's a loaded topic somehow. Anyway, did the thing and think that was really heathy both for our relationship and me personally. Yay!
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Hiking with friends
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Got in a (weekend) early morning workout, and felt amazing afterward. So. Sweaty. All the endorphins.
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Seeing my kitty in the window make a dash for the door as I walked up the front steps
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Aw, @oneday, that's so cute!
My house is now a lot, OK, let's be honest, a bit cleaner than it was, and it has made me feel better. (Who'd have guessed it, right?)
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Aw, @oneday, that's so cute!
My house is now a lot, OK, let's be honest, a bit cleaner than it was, and it has made me feel better. (Who'd have guessed it, right?)
I will second this. I am off work this week and find myself cleaning the house, which makes me a lot happier than you would think. :)
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Another great workout. I was in a real funk yesterday, as I was trying to have a "rest" day. I need to find a way to improve my mood on lower activity workout days, while still giving my body a break.
Other happiness moments: high school soccer is kicking off, and I'm excited to see my old (parent) friends, and watch the kids. Love the energy at the school, especially since COVID was a real reminder of how much the kids need that time together. So very happy for each sports season that happens, and every day of in person learning (& socialization)!
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Finally planning a trip outside of the city...after three long years of no travel. Hoping to see friends that we have not seen in person since 2019.
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Finally planning a trip outside of the city...after three long years of no travel. Hoping to see friends that we have not seen in person since 2019.
Safe travels!
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Family holiday celebration today. Get to see some folks who I haven't seen since the beforetimes! ☺️
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Ran a turkey trot with my husband & kids this am. Grateful we are all healthy enough to do the run together. And, double bonus points for my 16 y.o., who graciously waited for me near the finish line, to cheer me on. (I was the last one to finish. I can't compete with the teens. ;-))
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Mom's cat, who was hissing at me yesterday, purred for me today.
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The color of this 10 bean mix and cool weather so I can start batch cooking again.
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last year for thanksgiving my sister cooked a honey baked ham. As they were cleaning up and about to throw out the bone with a bunch of meat on it I snagged it before they could toss it.
They looked at me like I was crazy and made fun of me but it made the best ham and bean soup I have ever had.
This year they made TWO hams! So now I have 2 ham bones and 3.5 lbs of ham that are being made into amazing soup instead of going to the rubbish bin.
Total yield will be 38 20oz servings!
And bonus the house is toasty warm and it smells great.
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Unexpected nice weather, and a walk in a new area
@the_fixer make my tomorrow, and send me some ham bean soup 😁
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Mom's cat, who was hissing at me yesterday, purred for me today.
that's always a nice moment isn't it?!
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Yesterday a coworker mentioned to me that I was singing as I was walking into work..I had no idea what she was talking about and she said 'you are so happy that you don't even realize that you are happy'. And that was at the start of a big shift, so that was nice..
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Scheduled dinner with an old friend. Listened to a stimulating podcast.
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Researching our next excursion
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@Serendip it was nice! When I catch myself singing, it's not usually on the way into work. You must have been in a really good mood. Hope your retained that through your big shift.
Relaxed day out with Mom. So nice to get along with family.
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Made a donation to an organization working with refugees from war-torn countries. My life may be kind of sucky right now (there’s talk of another hardcore lockdown), but I’m safe and warm and well-fed — nothing like the refugees who had to leave their homes, families, and everything behind to avoid becoming a casualty of war. It reminded me to count my blessings.
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Playing with a friend's dog
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Bring back home, sleeping in my own bed
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@Serendip it was nice! When I catch myself singing, it's not usually on the way into work. You must have been in a really good mood. Hope your retained that through your big shift.
I guess I was in a good mood, it was also nice to be called out for it :)
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Came home (after a chilly day outside) to my first ever crockpot beef stew.
Crockpots are amazing creations.. (will take recipes if anyone has ones they love)
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Worked out a tricky bit of my hobby. Feel clever, plus get to enjoy/engage in hobby rather than be stuck 😁
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Explored a new area of town, tried out a new restaurant, and had one of the best cups of HK style milk tea I’ve ever had in Shanghai.
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I washed our flannel sheets yesterday, and switched over from our light comforter to our warmer winter comforter. Climbing into bed last night was so de-licious . . .
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A class I was looking forward to was *not* cancelled on account of rain.
Also: rain in CA! 😄
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Big hike with our youngest (16) and it was so great to share a thing we love with him. We done smaller walks before but this was probably his most substantial one so far.
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Had several odds-and-ends veggies, so threw them all in the pressure cooker with some chicken broth and a bit of beef brisket and made a very delicious stew.
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The utter relief of feeling very hungry but disinclined to cook and then finding leftovers in the fridge. Thank you, Past Us!
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Having a hard conversation with a friend
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@Trifele --ooh I LOVE clean sheets..especially flannel :)
I watched a somewhat hard film "Dear Audrey" about a couples life before and through an Alzheimers diagnosis. It was so human and made me feel somewhat emotional about the fragile nature of our existence.
Sparked empathy for all of us..growing older can be challenging but having folks who love us can smooth it into an easier process.
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@One Day - SO MUCH RAIN! I was grateful for it, but would have been more grateful if I wasn't outside watching a high school soccer match. That said, was super happy that my 15 y.o. had his first high school goal. He's a defensive player, so it's not the norm. He scored off of a header, and is thrilled about it. I was real wet & cold, so his happiness made it all worthwhile.
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@mspym leftovers are the best!
@MaybeBabyMustache sorry you had to be out in it like that! But congrats to your DS15.
Today I got a bunch of small, niggling, procrastinated projects done around the house. Now it's nicer to live here.
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@oneday they were so delicious!
Today's happiness was finishing my last job for the year and submitting my invoice. No More Jobs for 2022!
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Reading a new book by a favorite author
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@cool7hand that's a great one!
Today I bonded with a coworker over some difficulty they were having. It's part of my job to build trust and relationships, and this particular coworker has been difficult to reach. But I think the see now that I'm on their side, and will be less hesitant to come to me in the future. Making my day-to-day easier.
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@cool7hand that's a great one!
Today I bonded with a coworker over some difficulty they were having. It's part of my job to build trust and relationships, and this particular coworker has been difficult to reach. But I think the see now that I'm on their side, and will be less hesitant to come to me in the future. Making my day-to-day easier.
Beautiful
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cool7hand, agree!
Today the parts to repair my computer arrived!!! They'd been promised to be delivered yesterday, then that got pushed to tomorrow. So happy I don't have to wait a while nother day!
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Walking with a friend in a snowstorm, coffee and cookies in hand.
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Having lunch with an old friend, luckily on his dime!
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A long walk in a new area with BF.
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Lots of great stuff here. Mine was going to the beach and letting myself get tossed around by gigantic waves. Something about there being no choice but to relax into forces bigger than yourself just gives me a sense of perspective. I was deliciously boneless for the rest of the day.
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Out again in the rain for soccer this weekend, reminding me of my childhood in Washington. So much soccer playing in rain. My California kids think it's unusual, but not to me. To be fair, I didn't love the rain again this weekend & my broken umbrella from the wind, but loved watching DS15 at soccer.
For me, an amazing workout today, plus a few games of rummy with my husband, and the quiet sounds of a winter evening. Oh, and DS16 snuggling on my lap, which is such a rarity, that I stop everything I'm doing, and just sit peacefully. It's the kind of moment that may have felt like it was "slowing me down" from life 10 years ago. Now, I absolutely treasure it, because it happens so rarely.
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Visited a Christmas market and gave away a few homemade gingerbread house kits. Loved the smell of gingerbread baking in the oven.
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@MaybeBabyMustache DS16 snuggling... So cute!
Today, I made it through another workday. Hooray!
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I like hearing about everyone’s happy moments. Congrats on making it through oneday!
Yesterday my Mum’s face lit up as much as her new Christmas Tree did when switched on for the first time. She has had a rough year and it was great to see her full of joy in that moment.
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Two sets of plans for today were cancelled...the spacious feeling of an unexpected day without plans is happiness-inducing.
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Thanks @never give up ! That anecdote about your mum...awww ☺️
@Serendip a nice kind of surprise
Hanging clothes on the drying rack today made me happy. Caring for the clothes, the environment and my pocketbook all at the same time. And not really much extra work than using a dryer.
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Riding my bike to have lunch with a friend then Ofpym skipping out of work a little early to meet me at the gelato shop (pistachio praline - so good).
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Attended DD’s Christmas concert. Little kids all dressed up and singing mostly in tune are so cute!
The teacher told the class to dress in Christmas attire.
She wanted to wear the following outfit to the concert: a Santa riding a sparkly unicorn sweatshirt, paired with her red green and white striped candy cane pajama pants, and topping everything off with a pair of plaid reindeer antlers.
It took some doing, but I finally convinced her that was NOT what the teacher meant when she said “Christmas concert attire”. She ended up wearing a white skirt and a red Christmas sweater.
She’s wearing the first outfit to school tomorrow. 🤦🏻♀️
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@Freedomin5 your DD's idea of a Christmas outfit made me smile :)
Yesterday's happiness was completing a project I'd been stressed over. Got it done at the very last minute, too, so it didn't let up on the stress until it was 100% done.
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@Freedomin5 --kids have the best fashion sense don't they?
Just had a morning to organize my bedroom and put clothes away..reading a book about Feng Shui and while I don't buy into all the principles, there is something about not having clutter around that feels so peaceful.
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Wrote a thank you note to a friend for providing support through a tough time
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Putting on shoes warmed up from sitting in front of the heater :)
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I am thoroughly enjoying our pressure cooker. We are all sick, and the pressure cooker made it so easy to make chicken soup. We now have enough soup for at least two easy peasy dinners when none of us have the energy or desire to cook.
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I went to yet another early morning soccer game, and my son's team won their division. It made the three weekends in a row of 8 am games a bit more palatable. I love high school soccer - a lot of the kids play on different club teams, and it's so fun to see them back together again. The game went to PK shootouts, and there was some karma involved that made the win that much sweeter.
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It’s been cool enough to sleep and it’s amazing what a difference it makes.
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Purple plaid pajama pants. Perfection!
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Purple plaid pajama pants. Perfection!
A little more work, and that's a haiku!
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A little more work, and that's a haiku!
Purple plaid pj
pants. Prince playing. Petting puss*.
Possibly perfect.
Aka Mr. Kitty
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Nice! :)
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Waking up and feeling well after being sick.
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Phew! That end of Christmas Day feeling when I realise everyone has had a good time and my limited hosting skills haven’t ruined Christmas!
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Yay @mspym I'm glad you're feeling well.
@never give up 👏👏👏 for your accomplishement.
Meeting my goal for the day; setting a modest and accomplishable goal. Realizing I don't have to finish the project this weekend.
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Spent the day exploring a UNESCO World Heritage site. Great weather and very few crowds.
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I'm currently wearing a sparkly dress over ski tights with a cardigan on top..and am reading in bed. It's 6pm. I'm contented.
My plans for NY eve= fondue dinner, maybe a movie about Vivienne Westwood, bed.
+ Wake up for an early ski while many others are sleeping off a hangover :)
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Yesterday: seeing friends and family for the new year and celebrating in our familiar ways.
Today: the rain has stopped and I'm pretty sure BF will hike with me.
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Helped a family member fix a home problem
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thankful for hand-eye coordination! It's the simple (yet astounding complex) things :)
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I read a really good book yesterday. It was one of those fun, lighthearted page turners. I couldn't put it down. Ended up going to sleep at 1 AM. Thankfully, workload today is quite light.
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Saw a different friend group today and we are trying to make plans to get together IRL more often in the new year. Day/time tbd :D
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That’s a lovely one oneday.
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Thanks ngu. The only drawback to this group is that it's hard to get a chat in with each and every one, every time. Regular meetups help.
Today I reached out to the former Tennant, who got some mail here. Turns out it is a Christmas ornament for her girls first Christmas. 💝 Happy to be able to redirect that to it's proper home
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My sense of smell and taste have slowly been returning post-COVID, and today, I could actually kind of taste my food!
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Making a test dish of a new recipe we want to serve to friends over the weekend
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My cat is so dedicated to sitting on my lap, that he's scrunched up in the space left in the chair (it's not much) with his neck at a funny angle. I hope he doesn't get a crick in his neck.
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So much goodness today - lemon tree from friends is planted, we walked along the beach with the boys before the rain came, ate real fruit ice cream for the first time, and awesome lunchtime hangs with my sister’s family. Just a peach of a day.
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@mspym - that sounds like an amazing day!
We took our teen skiing, & it was a fabulous family vacation. Lots of adventure (so much snow), but some really fun times together.
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DW and I were able to support her friend going through a divorce. Together. We're a team. Great feeling.
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After seeing a couple interact in their train wreck of a marriage and watching them belittle, criticize, demean, and show contempt for each other for 1.5 hours last night, DH and I reflected afterwards on how, even though our marriage is far from perfect and sometimes he aggravates me to the point that I just want to bop DH on the head, we actually have a really good, solid marriage. Made me realize how much we appreciate each other.
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DD is back to in-person school.
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DW and I were able to support her friend going through a divorce. Together. We're a team. Great feeling.
After seeing a couple interact in their train wreck of a marriage and watching them belittle, criticize, demean, and show contempt for each other for 1.5 hours last night, DH and I reflected afterwards on how, even though our marriage is far from perfect and sometimes he aggravates me to the point that I just want to bop DH on the head, we actually have a really good, solid marriage. Made me realize how much we appreciate each other.
Both of you are so sweet. I just wanna say "awww :)"
Today was belated Christmas with family in order to accommodate everyone's schedules and it was so mellow. Frozen lasagna, gifts mainly for the kids, no requirements/pressure to dress in certain colors or in certain ways. Nice.
Second happiness was my BF came along and was able to tolerate the chaos (he's not a big fan of kids), and even have a good time.
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Great nurses.
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Expanding the social circle with nice humans and sweet experiences.
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Neighbor cat-sat over the holidays for my cat. Today I went over to meet her kitties. One is food motivated and was easy to win over. He is my friend now because I fed him. :)
The other is far more standoffish, but today I was able to get in sniffing distance, play with a fishing pole toy, feed treats and even touch the ends of her fur (long hair). This is huge progress! Soon we will be friends too.
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Made a cold brew coffee and didn’t have any milk, so I added evaporated milk instead. Whoa! I don’t think I’ll drink coffee any other way from now on. It was amazing!
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Made a cold brew coffee and didn’t have any milk, so I added evaporated milk instead. Whoa! I don’t think I’ll drink coffee any other way from now on. It was amazing!
I'll have to try this, thanks! I used some evaporated milk the other night to replace half and half in a recipe, and that worked really well.
I'm just now remembering that my grandma always used evaporated milk instead of regular milk. For everything -- drinking, on cereal, etc. I always thought it was a holdover habit from her youth, when they didn't have a refrigerator. But the stuff really tastes good.
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A family member stores some of our possession on his property. We're making them dinner as a thank you
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Running with my dog in the cool morning before the day heats up.
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My bestie and I have a couple of trips we take every year. I've missed the last 2 years (one year for covid, the next year because my mom was sick).
Tomorrow morning at 7:30 in the AM, I am picking her up, and we are hitting the road. I am so stoked!!!
BTW, another happiness is that you all keep this lovely thread going. Thanks everyone!!
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Realized weekend plans for a visitor were not going to mesh with live-in BF's sleep schedule. The other party was happy to change. So happy to realize it early enough to adjust in a way that nobody will be inconvenienced! This is not how it always goes.
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It's pouring rain (on top of lots of snow) and instead of feeling oppressive it feels like a good excuse to stay indoors and read.
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In another corner of the map: it was barely raining when I walked to the store! And my raincoat does a good job, so I was comfortable.
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It’s raining today, and I am enjoying our cozy apartment and a hot tea. I just realized we’ve been in this apartment for almost four years already. This is the longest that I have stayed in one abode since moving out for college 24 years ago.
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Believe it or not, had fun identifying out of pocket medical expenses to itemize
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Happy for a successful weekend snowmobile trip. Four of us in the group, no mechanical issues, great trail conditions and weather. For logistical reasons I had to lead one of the new riders through about 20 miles of northwoods trails to meet up with others. The same area I got lost in about 18 years ago, but was pretty smooth this time.
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Met up with BF's friends for lunch. We don't have a lot in common, but they are nice people and the change of scenery was good.
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Woke up a couple hours early (5am) but felt rested so went downstairs for quiet, dark reading time. Still have some fairy lights up and it is just so lovely and the world was still still. No traffic yet!
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Testing out a new dish to serve to friends tomorrow
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Graduated from resistance band #3 to #4 for one PT exercise. Yay strength!
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Hot soup dumplings on a freezing cold day.
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I had to stop by Sam's Club today for some household goods and decided to grab lunch at their little cafe. Two slices of four meat pizza was only $2.14 and he even covered my plate in foil so I could take it to go! What a deal!
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I have a bum knee at the moment, and a bunch of appointments & rehab ahead. I'm very frustrated, as I love the endorphins of working out, and it keeps me mentally happy. I went for a long, slow (approved) walk today in the sunshine, and while it was no calorie burn, it was lovely to be outside & a great reminder that I at least have the capability of doing that.
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Preparing an ice cream sundae station for the games tomorrow with family
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@MaybeBabyMustache sorry about your knee! I hope you are back in top form soon. In the meantime, if you want external accountability, there is a thread for that (link in my signature).
Yesterday saw my BF perform with his band 💖
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Biked down by the river and bumped into a friend who showed us a new trail that had opened in the past couple weeks. This bike trail should take us from our home all the way downtown to some of our favorite restaurants. We are looking forward to checking it out once the weather gets warmer.
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Yesterday ran a bunch of errands and got the ball rolling on a project that's been procrastinated. Feels good, and now I can goof off without guilt.
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Friends came by to play a stupid, stupid game with me to ease the boredom of week 4 stuck in bed, and it was laugh-until-you-pee-a-little funny.
Exactly what I needed.
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This weekend I took a step toward completing a project I've been procrastinating on for 10 years. That felt good.
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Oh wow @Trifele that is huge! 👏
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Sitting for my morning meditation watching the bare branches of a silver birch tree gently swaying in front of a clear blue sky.
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@MarcherLady I can feel the Zen descending upon me just from that photo!
Today, BF was not available for our usual lunchtime walk, so I went out on my own! Yay me.
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I've had a cat snuggled up in the crook of my arm with his head on my shoulder literally all afternoon/evening. He's not moving, which is nice because I'm on strict icing and rest today, so I'm not moving either.
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Had a full but easy day--managed to get heaps done (both for fun & work) but no stress for any of it.
Feeling contented knowing I have a day off tomorrow as well.
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Having E come to the Italian deli with me and getting to watch all his thinking about what exactly we should buy. [Our lunch sandwiches were So Good]
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Woke up to bright pastel skies behind the mountains, now morphing into bluebird day w/everything coated in a fresh dusting of snow.
Have a hike with a friend planned for later this morning and the rest of the day to myself.
Happy Love Day to everyone--for whatever/whomever/however you love.
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I finished up a sizeable chunk of volunteering work that I committed that's made me happy and content this morning.
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Okay...the cat is back for more.
Normally he's DH's cat, but he just walked over DH's head to come snuggle with me. I *cannot* handle the responsibility of being this cat's person, he's the most affectionate being on the planet. He's like a love heat sink.
It's...it's a lot.
Normally the other cat is my cat. The aloof asshole who periodically screams at people. That's more my speed. But he requires regular access to a lap and mine if off limits. So he seems to have adopted DH, and now the love sponge has adopted me.
I don't know if I have the fortitude for this responsibility. I am not the endless font of love and affection that my spouse is.
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3rd day in a row...that's it, I belong to this cat now.
I will never again be able to accomplish anything productive.
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I will never again be able to accomplish anything productive.
You will be actively loved by a needy cat. Maybe that's productive on some level?!
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Letting my mildly compulsive nature shine by peeling, separating oranges to freeze for further smoothie usage.
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I will never again be able to accomplish anything productive.
You will be actively loved by a needy cat. Maybe that's productive on some level?!
It's, like, A LOT of love though. You don't understand how insistent it is. If I move, he tries to actively pin me down. If I dare to get into bed and not immediately embrace him into a snuggle, he starts digging at my arm.
I accidently clocked him in the head with my phone when I tossed it onto the bed, so now he's sleeping in the laundry basket.
But I have a tiny needy dog curled up where the cat was.
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I will never again be able to accomplish anything productive.
You will be actively loved by a needy cat. Maybe that's productive on some level?!
It's, like, A LOT of love though. You don't understand how insistent it is. If I move, he tries to actively pin me down. If I dare to get into bed and not immediately embrace him into a snuggle, he starts digging at my arm.
I accidently clocked him in the head with my phone when I tossed it onto the bed, so now he's sleeping in the laundry basket.
But I have a tiny needy dog curled up where the cat was.
I might have an inkling. My Mr. Kitty is the most persistent cat I've ever met, and I've met a fair few kitties. Just a few minutes ago we had an argument about who gets my left arm. I didn't exactly win.
But today's happiness is having a snoring kitty snuggling on my lap/arm.
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I have two of those cats, who occasionally (or, for the younger one, several times throughout every day) need emergency cuddles immediately, usually falling asleep. It's both adorable and sometimes annoying.
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I have two of those cats, who occasionally (or, for the younger one, several times throughout every day) need emergency cuddles immediately, usually falling asleep. It's both adorable and sometimes annoying.
Mine is a sphynx, they're known as "velcro cats." I have had cats and dogs my entire life but I didn't know an animal could be this affectionate. It's intense.
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Watching juvenile eagles learn to fly
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Quality time in the library
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E swung by briefly to pick up some hiking gear, walk our dog AND give us some amazing cheesecake with berry compote he'd made. What a great kid.
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Finally left Shanghai for the first time in three years. Visited friends in a neighboring city.