Question for the group: We are 6 years into a 10/1 ARM home loan at 3.5%, and are looking to refinance now that the possible move we were considering in late 2020/early 2021 isn't going to happen. Started working with a mortgage broker recommended in the Dallas ChooseFI FB group, and their offer is Quicken loans, 3.125%.
However, there are a few snaps.
First this is a jumbo loan, remaining balance 705k.
Second, current loan is with BoA, and it's the result of a previous cash-out refinance in 2015; despite TX subsequently changing refinance rules to allow traditional refinances of previous cash-outs, BoA still has an internal rule in TX limiting their own refinance options to only "cash-out" type, so they essentially offered the same terms as what we now have with around 1% closing costs even with no actual cash-out; no bueno.
Third, DW has had a stable 10y job that accounts for <25% of our income, however I left my job 2 years ago to try self-employed that didn't work, ending 12/2020, and since 8/2020 I've been back at my old employer, but part time 50% and hourly (both I and my employer are very happy with this arrangement). However, the broker has said the underwriters won't consider this part time income since I've been doing it for less than 2 years, despite it being around $200k per year. Also, apparently assets don't factor in, since our retirement and investment accounts dwarf this loan.
None of this would be a problem, the broker initially said that DW's income was just enough to qualify for a 700k refinance amount, but now the underwriters calculated a max amount of 650k, which would mean brining 50k to the table, and defeating the entire purpose, which for us is to direct as little cash flow to the mortgage as possible, while not tapping into our bank and retirement accounts and letting them grow.
So question: do the broker/underwriter objections seem reasonable, or are we dealing with unusually stringent rules and should just try someone else out? If not, anyone see any way to get around this? I've asked why assets and my income can't at least play a role. Also, DW is taking on an additional 20%-time job running a course for the medical school, which will increase her income about 35% on May 1st, however this will be a new separate paycheck from the medical school rather than a raise from her main employer, so I'm guessing we'd run into the same underwriting problem of ignoring part-time work of <2years.