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« Reply #5950 on: July 13, 2022, 08:11:39 PM »
Donated a bag with some books and clothes that I don't love anymore.  I'm working at realizing that just because something is still 'good', it doesn't mean I have to keep it.   It can be good for someone else instead.

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« Reply #5951 on: July 14, 2022, 08:36:10 AM »
I sold the leftover remnants from our kitchen slab last weekend! They had been posted for months on CL and Offer Up,  with just a few nibbles. Finally, a lady came and wanted the whole set, one of which was huge and heavy. Not only are they no longer on the side of the house, but I didn't have to figure out a way to transport them to a local fabricator reseller (which was plan B).

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« Reply #5952 on: July 14, 2022, 09:22:07 AM »
Some microdecluttering. Went through a box of old gift cards, called up the 800 numbers to see what, if any, money remains on them. Was able to recycle some cardboard and paper, and threw out one used up card.

I have $3.17 left on a Walmart card. Must use it and then jettison it!   

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« Reply #5953 on: July 14, 2022, 10:47:36 AM »
Wanted to take a moment to send some encouragement to everyone just starting this process.  It's easy to feel overwhelmed, but in my experience, the best method is:
- whatever works for you
- keep doing it.
It can seem overwhelming when you read about those people quickly decluttering entire rooms, closets, garages, etc. but for long-term success the key will be Persistence.  Unless you're under a time crunch like a family home cleanout and sale, you can go at your own pace as long as you keep going forward.

Yesterday I dropped off 3 items at the Goodwill.  It's not a lot, but I do it consistently because it's now a habit to let go of things I don't need.  It not only clears out physical space but also the mental irritation of thinking "I should do something about this stuff" every time you have to look at it.
Good luck to everyone.

Yes, persistence!  I have so much stuff to get rid of, one way or another, it does feel like a lifetime project. I keep donating, selling, recycling, tossing, a few things at a time. And I almost never take any new 'future clutter'  into the house. So I know stuff is continually going out, and not in.  Slow and steady wins the race.   

Persistence does matter, but also there's times where there is just a massive purge all at once. You can be dropping off a bag or a box every couple weeks for years, but then circumstances change and you're suddenly getting rid of a truck load daily for 3 weeks, but then it goes back down to the box or bag level.

Sometimes the shock of a huge declutter absolutely helps. Sometimes the shock isn't helpful in the short term but it's worth managing it because it makes the long term so much better. Moving and deaths are the most common triggers for the big blitz declutters, because it's basically required at those times. If you get into a situation where someone has died, but the stuff hasn't been dealt with, then you can't really heal and move forward. Taking years to clear the possessions of a deceased loved one really isn't emotionally healthy.

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« Reply #5954 on: July 14, 2022, 11:15:39 AM »
I go through phases, but have remained persistent for about 10 years. We've moved twice, and the first move was the huge shock to the system. By the second move, we had much less stuff.

I go through all of our stuff as regularly as possible, but it goes in waves. Right now I'm in a peak, because I'm taking an online leadership course, which requires a lot of listening. That time is great to go in a room, crank up the course volume, and declutter.

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« Reply #5955 on: July 14, 2022, 12:26:20 PM »
I go through phases, but have remained persistent for about 10 years. We've moved twice, and the first move was the huge shock to the system. By the second move, we had much less stuff.

I go through all of our stuff as regularly as possible, but it goes in waves. Right now I'm in a peak, because I'm taking an online leadership course, which requires a lot of listening. That time is great to go in a room, crank up the course volume, and declutter.

Exactly. And right now, I'm in a lull. Yeah, some stuff is going out, but it's not much. Mostly just trying to declutter the to-do list!

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« Reply #5956 on: July 17, 2022, 10:07:45 AM »
Finally opened up a big flat rectangular box with a picture inside, that has been leaning against the wall forever.

Assembled the picture in the frame (looks nice) and put the box and bubble wrap in basement for future recycling. I was tempted to keep the empty box for "whatever"  but it feels more right to recycle it than keep it. So no anxiety there, ha ha.   


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« Reply #5957 on: July 17, 2022, 10:15:09 AM »
I've been decluttering for a while now in anticipation of a move.  The movers come tomorrow, I have been packing all week, and I have taken out so much garbage and recycling already!  Where was it all hiding?

I can see a few places where I failed at one in - one out, but mostly it has been stuff that was "OK" but not worth moving.

I am OK with the duplicates where they are useful - i.e. cleaners in each bathroom so I am not carrying them from room to room, I can clean one bathroom when I am in it without going to the other for supplies.  But somehow I have a lot of laundry detergent - I have been working on using it up and not buying more for over a year, and I still have enough for another year at least.

My shopping habits were developed when I lived in a house in the country, and shopping was a pain.  Apartment living is different, obviously I have not fully adjusted.  40 years of habits are hard to change.    ;-)

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« Reply #5958 on: July 17, 2022, 10:35:18 AM »
I've been decluttering for a while now in anticipation of a move.  The movers come tomorrow, I have been packing all week, and I have taken out so much garbage and recycling already!  Where was it all hiding?

I can see a few places where I failed at one in - one out, but mostly it has been stuff that was "OK" but not worth moving.

I am OK with the duplicates where they are useful - i.e. cleaners in each bathroom so I am not carrying them from room to room, I can clean one bathroom when I am in it without going to the other for supplies.  But somehow I have a lot of laundry detergent - I have been working on using it up and not buying more for over a year, and I still have enough for another year at least.

My shopping habits were developed when I lived in a house in the country, and shopping was a pain.  Apartment living is different, obviously I have not fully adjusted.  40 years of habits are hard to change.    ;-)

We recently moved from a 1100sqft condo, with a two car garage to everything in our boat, dock box or car. We had been buying DH's cereal at Costco, so that takes up an entire cupboard on the boat...

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« Reply #5959 on: July 17, 2022, 10:47:50 AM »
I've been decluttering for a while now in anticipation of a move.  The movers come tomorrow, I have been packing all week, and I have taken out so much garbage and recycling already!  Where was it all hiding?

I can see a few places where I failed at one in - one out, but mostly it has been stuff that was "OK" but not worth moving.

I am OK with the duplicates where they are useful - i.e. cleaners in each bathroom so I am not carrying them from room to room, I can clean one bathroom when I am in it without going to the other for supplies.  But somehow I have a lot of laundry detergent - I have been working on using it up and not buying more for over a year, and I still have enough for another year at least.

My shopping habits were developed when I lived in a house in the country, and shopping was a pain.  Apartment living is different, obviously I have not fully adjusted.  40 years of habits are hard to change.    ;-)

We recently moved from a 1100sqft condo, with a two car garage to everything in our boat, dock box or car. We had been buying DH's cereal at Costco, so that takes up an entire cupboard on the boat...

Oooh, that is major downsizing.  I hope your DH really loves his cereal, because that is a major space sacrifice!

I stopped doing much shopping at Costco a while ago, in anticipation of the move.  Plus I have been eating out of the freezer and pantry as much as I could.  They are probably my least problematic area.  But the canning jars that used to be full and are now empty still need to get moved.

I love my plants, but they can't go in the moving van, they would get cooked.  Somehow I have to get plants and cat and her stuff and electronics that should not go in the van all in my car.  I have also been giving away plants like mad.  Anyone in Ottawa want a large (and I do mean large) Norfolk Island Pine?

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« Reply #5960 on: July 17, 2022, 11:49:21 AM »
I've been decluttering for a while now in anticipation of a move.  The movers come tomorrow, I have been packing all week, and I have taken out so much garbage and recycling already!  Where was it all hiding?

I can see a few places where I failed at one in - one out, but mostly it has been stuff that was "OK" but not worth moving.

I am OK with the duplicates where they are useful - i.e. cleaners in each bathroom so I am not carrying them from room to room, I can clean one bathroom when I am in it without going to the other for supplies.  But somehow I have a lot of laundry detergent - I have been working on using it up and not buying more for over a year, and I still have enough for another year at least.

My shopping habits were developed when I lived in a house in the country, and shopping was a pain.  Apartment living is different, obviously I have not fully adjusted.  40 years of habits are hard to change.    ;-)

We recently moved from a 1100sqft condo, with a two car garage to everything in our boat, dock box or car. We had been buying DH's cereal at Costco, so that takes up an entire cupboard on the boat...

Oooh, that is major downsizing.  I hope your DH really loves his cereal, because that is a major space sacrifice!

I stopped doing much shopping at Costco a while ago, in anticipation of the move.  Plus I have been eating out of the freezer and pantry as much as I could.  They are probably my least problematic area.  But the canning jars that used to be full and are now empty still need to get moved.

I love my plants, but they can't go in the moving van, they would get cooked.  Somehow I have to get plants and cat and her stuff and electronics that should not go in the van all in my car.  I have also been giving away plants like mad.  Anyone in Ottawa want a large (and I do mean large) Norfolk Island Pine?

Put the plants on fb marketplace/buy nothing/etc. Only keep the ones you absolutely can't part with.

Also, electronics absolutely can go on the truck, you just have to pack them right. How do you think they got to the store for you to buy? Get a box for the monitor/tv. I keep towers/laptops with me, because of the data. Tablets could go either way, depends what you have on them. Printers, scanners, dvds, etc just box up. Parents had an entire box that was labeled electronics, full of cords, phones, the power strips, mice, clocks, etc. That box was both easy and hard to unpack, but the fact that it was all together was easier. There was a bag of batteries, each put into a baggie and labeled where it came from that had to go in the car, the moving company didn't want it in the truck.

Cat stuff - gets split. What you need immediately for the cat goes in the car. The rest, put in a box labeled cat stuff so you can find it easily.

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« Reply #5961 on: July 17, 2022, 12:29:08 PM »
Put the plants on fb marketplace/buy nothing/etc. Only keep the ones you absolutely can't part with.

Also, electronics absolutely can go on the truck, you just have to pack them right. How do you think they got to the store for you to buy? Get a box for the monitor/tv. I keep towers/laptops with me, because of the data. Tablets could go either way, depends what you have on them. Printers, scanners, dvds, etc just box up. Parents had an entire box that was labeled electronics, full of cords, phones, the power strips, mice, clocks, etc. That box was both easy and hard to unpack, but the fact that it was all together was easier. There was a bag of batteries, each put into a baggie and labeled where it came from that had to go in the car, the moving company didn't want it in the truck.

Cat stuff - gets split. What you need immediately for the cat goes in the car. The rest, put in a box labeled cat stuff so you can find it easily.

Plants - anything I can part with is already gone.  Only the keepers are getting moved.  Things like the 2 pots of dwarf date palms that I started from seed.  I'm not going to find date palms at the local nursery.   ;-)

Electronics - basically my laptops (which would go with me anyway, not on the van), wireless phones and batteries - I have no idea how hot the truck will get, but I don't want anything with batteries in it.  Printer, chargers etc. will be packed.  For sure I am not wasting car space on cords and things.

And cat stuff - basically what will make her happy the first night - so kitty litter and tray (of course), some food and bowls (again of course), favourite pillow and toys.  Her cat tower and general stuff will go in the van.

The car also gets my stuff for the first night.  And food that needs refrigeration.


Seriously I have thought all this out in excruciating detail.  Anything that can go in the van will go in the van.  The car is for things that absolutely can't go in the van.  And part of the "can't go in the van" is that it is going to be a 6 hour or more drive on a hot day, so I am being careful about the van's interior temperature.  When I moved from last house to here, it was also summer, but at most an hour and a half drive, so not nearly as much worry about interior van temps.  There is some rain in the forecast, so it won't be as bad as it could be, but still too hot.

I am paying a small fortune for this move, I want that van stuffed full!!!


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« Reply #5962 on: July 17, 2022, 12:38:38 PM »
Made a final run through my 15 y.o's room with him. We figured out a closet solution, unpacked, washed, hung & organized all of his clothes from camp. Went through all of his clothes & tossed what doesn't fit. Found a stack of clothes for Buy Nothing (already listed), one item for eBay (listed) & two PE uniforms, that another mom is super excited to get & picking up shortly. Woohoo. Progress.

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« Reply #5963 on: July 17, 2022, 01:56:14 PM »
Put the plants on fb marketplace/buy nothing/etc. Only keep the ones you absolutely can't part with.

Also, electronics absolutely can go on the truck, you just have to pack them right. How do you think they got to the store for you to buy? Get a box for the monitor/tv. I keep towers/laptops with me, because of the data. Tablets could go either way, depends what you have on them. Printers, scanners, dvds, etc just box up. Parents had an entire box that was labeled electronics, full of cords, phones, the power strips, mice, clocks, etc. That box was both easy and hard to unpack, but the fact that it was all together was easier. There was a bag of batteries, each put into a baggie and labeled where it came from that had to go in the car, the moving company didn't want it in the truck.

Cat stuff - gets split. What you need immediately for the cat goes in the car. The rest, put in a box labeled cat stuff so you can find it easily.

Plants - anything I can part with is already gone.  Only the keepers are getting moved.  Things like the 2 pots of dwarf date palms that I started from seed.  I'm not going to find date palms at the local nursery.   ;-)

Electronics - basically my laptops (which would go with me anyway, not on the van), wireless phones and batteries - I have no idea how hot the truck will get, but I don't want anything with batteries in it.  Printer, chargers etc. will be packed.  For sure I am not wasting car space on cords and things.

And cat stuff - basically what will make her happy the first night - so kitty litter and tray (of course), some food and bowls (again of course), favourite pillow and toys.  Her cat tower and general stuff will go in the van.

The car also gets my stuff for the first night.  And food that needs refrigeration.


Seriously I have thought all this out in excruciating detail.  Anything that can go in the van will go in the van.  The car is for things that absolutely can't go in the van.  And part of the "can't go in the van" is that it is going to be a 6 hour or more drive on a hot day, so I am being careful about the van's interior temperature.  When I moved from last house to here, it was also summer, but at most an hour and a half drive, so not nearly as much worry about interior van temps.  There is some rain in the forecast, so it won't be as bad as it could be, but still too hot.

I am paying a small fortune for this move, I want that van stuffed full!!!

Can you remove the batteries from the phones? All of the ones I've seen you can, but that may not be case universally. Then only the batteries need to go in the car and they're a lot smaller. Car space is precious.

Why are you taking fridge food? Medications, yes. Snacks for the road, ok. The rest of it? Last in the car, first in the trash.

And yes, I believe you that it's planned out. A double check from someone else still helps.

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« Reply #5964 on: July 17, 2022, 06:18:57 PM »
Phones are wireless, batteries not accessible, don't take up much space.  I am not taking much food since I have to come back twice more, it will get eaten or thrown out the last day here.  But I don't want to have to grocery shop until Wednesday, it isn't fair to the cat to leave her alone in the new place when she will be disoriented and groggy (she gets her gabapentin both tomorrow morning and Tuesday morning).

So car is cat, essential cat stuff, the big plants that the moving crew can carry to the car, smaller plants as there is space, my laptops, my carry-on suitcase, some food for lunch on the road and 2 days worth of meals.  Oh and me.  ;-)

I won't bother taking the plants up tomorrow night, since the plant stand will be in the van. I'll get the crew to take them up.  My back has worked hard enough.

But yes, if anyone has last-minute tips that's fine, I have probably thought of them, I have moved so much recently,  but if I haven't it is good to have new ideas.

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« Reply #5965 on: July 18, 2022, 03:55:51 PM »
I'm on a one day decluttering high.  I sold 3000 sheets of cardstock (thick hard paper) on Facebook Marketplace. 

So easy. Just pack it up in bags and out it goes to happy new user.  About 3 cubic feet, and at least 10 pounds.    Got $30. 

Clutter out, cash in! Woohoo !   


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« Reply #5966 on: July 18, 2022, 05:19:37 PM »
I'm on a one day decluttering high.  I sold 3000 sheets of cardstock (thick hard paper) on Facebook Marketplace. 

So easy. Just pack it up in bags and out it goes to happy new user.  About 3 cubic feet, and at least 10 pounds.    Got $30. 

Clutter out, cash in! Woohoo !

That's great! I have also had success selling on FB Marketplace.

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« Reply #5967 on: July 18, 2022, 05:36:15 PM »
Nice one Slackmax! Keep it going!

My tiny declutter was two more books that we are never going to read out to the street library (from whence they came). The other thing that has been really helping my general sense of order has been changing to cash-only grocery shopping by bike. It restricts the amount that I can buy at any one time so I've been buying things once they run out instead of in anticipation. The kitchen just feels *less stressful* - mostly because there's less clutter and less need to use things up before they go off.   

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« Reply #5968 on: July 18, 2022, 06:49:41 PM »
Tiny declutter. Three books to the little free library, two brought home. One will be mailed to a friend after I finish it, the other will be returned to the little library.

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« Reply #5969 on: July 20, 2022, 08:19:30 AM »
Took 1 book, 3 pairs of shoes, 1 cardigan, 1 pair of jeans and 4 shirts to the donation bin in town. Also used up one bottle of hair product that's been taking up room in a drawer.

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« Reply #5970 on: July 20, 2022, 02:31:06 PM »
Some microdecluttering. Went through a box of old gift cards, called up the 800 numbers to see what, if any, money remains on them. Was able to recycle some cardboard and paper, and threw out one used up card.

I love that term, micro-decluttering!

It is so rewarding to have already decluttered an area a while ago, and then go back for smaller sized jobs.

I'm a teacher and not working this summer, but for family health reasons we aren't able to travel or vacation.  I spent a good bit of these first three "summer vacation" weeks doing major and minor decluttering.   Now I'm spent!  But enjoying some micro-decluttering.

Today's small task was to gather all old electronics and various charging bricks and cords.   I checked if they all still worked, and am now sorting out recycling/donating/safe disposal and storage of usable extras.

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« Reply #5971 on: July 21, 2022, 08:55:33 AM »
Some microdecluttering. Went through a box of old gift cards, called up the 800 numbers to see what, if any, money remains on them. Was able to recycle some cardboard and paper, and threw out one used up card.

I love that term, micro-decluttering!



Thanks, CrustyBadger !

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« Reply #5972 on: July 21, 2022, 10:00:46 AM »
Loaded up a few shopping bags worth of old clothes from my daughter's closet. Kids clothes are such a constant source of clutter because they grow out of them so fast. will feel really good to get them out of the house and over to the donation bin

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« Reply #5973 on: July 21, 2022, 12:26:23 PM »
Loaded up a few shopping bags worth of old clothes from my daughter's closet. Kids clothes are such a constant source of clutter because they grow out of them so fast. will feel really good to get them out of the house and over to the donation bin

Truth. What helps is finding a family (could be cousins, could be neighbors, etc.) that has a kiddo or two that are a year or two younger than yours - they can 'shop' your closet once the kiddos outgrow things and then you can take what they don't take to the donation bin. This puts a time frame on getting the outgrown clothes out the door, as you don't want to miss the window for passing those things along. (My youngest is exactly a year older than his cousin, so as soon as he outgrows something I FT my sister to see if she wants it. If not, it's posted on my local Buy Nothing group and, if I don't have a taker in a week, tossed in a bag for the donation bin.)

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« Reply #5974 on: July 21, 2022, 02:12:41 PM »
One rule that helped me when I was decluttering and felt overwhelmed:

"Remember, it doesn't have to be perfect.  It just has to be better."

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« Reply #5975 on: July 22, 2022, 01:36:22 PM »
Loaded up a few shopping bags worth of old clothes from my daughter's closet. Kids clothes are such a constant source of clutter because they grow out of them so fast. will feel really good to get them out of the house and over to the donation bin

Truth. What helps is finding a family (could be cousins, could be neighbors, etc.) that has a kiddo or two that are a year or two younger than yours - they can 'shop' your closet once the kiddos outgrow things and then you can take what they don't take to the donation bin. This puts a time frame on getting the outgrown clothes out the door, as you don't want to miss the window for passing those things along. (My youngest is exactly a year older than his cousin, so as soon as he outgrows something I FT my sister to see if she wants it. If not, it's posted on my local Buy Nothing group and, if I don't have a taker in a week, tossed in a bag for the donation bin.)

My kids are teens, so they are mostly slowed down on the growth curve, although they each grew 4 inches last year, so ... still needing upsizing.

My approach is similar. I list everything on Buy Nothing. Whatever isn't taken in a week goes to the donation pile. My sister often gives us hand me downs from my 2 nephews, so that works as well.

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« Reply #5976 on: July 25, 2022, 07:36:02 AM »
I found an old computer programming instructional binder I was able to part with and removed all the pages and put them out on the curb in the recycling bin. Since that was painless, went back into the stack and found another one and put it out too. Will donate the two empty binders next. Goodwill sells them for $1 each.

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« Reply #5977 on: July 25, 2022, 01:08:03 PM »
Was looking for stuff and discovered some ancient catalogues and other miscellaneous papers, now I have four inches of file space and a full recycling bin.

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« Reply #5978 on: July 25, 2022, 01:24:20 PM »
Our guest cabin on the boat has an extra piece of wood and a cushion that make the bed huge, but the floor just big enough to swing the door. We finally through it out, since we hardly have any guests and most choose the floor space over the extra bed space. It is only about 3 x 2, but not storing it makes such a big difference!

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« Reply #5979 on: July 25, 2022, 07:47:40 PM »
Finally got a trunkful of donations to the charity shop. It feels so good to have an empty trunk!! Clothes, shoes, home goods, stuff I had forgotten because it was in the bottom of the box for so long.

I gave two books to a visiting friend. Returned a borrowed book to another friend. Returned library books of DP's to him. All the books in my home are ones that I want to keep.

Got all the clutter in my home put away. An out-of-town friend was able to visit my house with a few hours' notice. I got my bike out of living room, put away the laundry, got all the appliances off the counter, put kids toys away, everything I'd been putting off for weeks got done in less than three hours. It really helps to look at the space with another's eyes and I saw a LOT of stuff out of place.

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Re: Continued: Getting rid of stuff / Clearing out clutter! PART 2
« Reply #5980 on: July 25, 2022, 08:59:57 PM »
Finally got a trunkful of donations to the charity shop. It feels so good to have an empty trunk!! Clothes, shoes, home goods, stuff I had forgotten because it was in the bottom of the box for so long.

I gave two books to a visiting friend. Returned a borrowed book to another friend. Returned library books of DP's to him. All the books in my home are ones that I want to keep.

Got all the clutter in my home put away. An out-of-town friend was able to visit my house with a few hours' notice. I got my bike out of living room, put away the laundry, got all the appliances off the counter, put kids toys away, everything I'd been putting off for weeks got done in less than three hours. It really helps to look at the space with another's eyes and I saw a LOT of stuff out of place.

Wait, where does the bike go if not the living room?? We actually added hardware to secure our bikes at one end of the main seating area.

We may be decluttering, but our boat holds two folding mountain bikes, one tandem kayak (hobie mirage drive, so it has lots of extra gear, one stand up paddle board, and a small raft. Oh, and two hula hoops :)

And people try to tell us our boat isn't big enough!

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Re: Continued: Getting rid of stuff / Clearing out clutter! PART 2
« Reply #5981 on: July 26, 2022, 04:18:16 PM »

Got all the clutter in my home put away. An out-of-town friend was able to visit my house with a few hours' notice. I got my bike out of living room, put away the laundry, got all the appliances off the counter, put kids toys away, everything I'd been putting off for weeks got done in less than three hours. It really helps to look at the space with another's eyes and I saw a LOT of stuff out of place.

Wait, where does the bike go if not the living room?? We actually added hardware to secure our bikes at one end of the main seating area.

We may be decluttering, but our boat holds two folding mountain bikes, one tandem kayak (hobie mirage drive, so it has lots of extra gear, one stand up paddle board, and a small raft. Oh, and two hula hoops :)

And people try to tell us our boat isn't big enough!

Well, since I have a garage I thought it best stored out there :) Speaking of garage, that's the next declutter project. As soon as it's not over 100 degrees

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« Reply #5982 on: July 26, 2022, 05:25:17 PM »
I have been going room by room and trying to de clutter.  We have had some extended family items also emerge in our home.  We are trying to go through all of those and decide what we want to keep, what to trash, and what can be donated.

We are trying to get much less clutter in our home.  Trying to live a “simpler” life.

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« Reply #5983 on: July 26, 2022, 08:19:28 PM »
I have been going room by room and trying to de clutter.  We have had some extended family items also emerge in our home.  We are trying to go through all of those and decide what we want to keep, what to trash, and what can be donated.

We are trying to get much less clutter in our home.  Trying to live a “simpler” life.

Good luck! I have come to realize that “everything in its place” gives me a measure of peace that likely is unreasonable, but I don’t care. A less cluttered home for me is the goal. And the only way to get there is to be ruthless about junk.

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« Reply #5984 on: July 27, 2022, 09:19:31 PM »
Today I finished a sewing project I started back in April. As soon as I finished it, I realized I didn't like it and it wasn't going to serve its intended purpose. Straight into the donation bag. The pattern went right into recycling. It was a fail, but it did get me in the mood for other sewing so I'm working through my fabric stash and my sewing area is a glorious mess.

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« Reply #5985 on: July 29, 2022, 08:24:45 AM »
I used up the last $3.24 on my Walmart card that I had found during a painstaking  recent microdecluttering. And therefore was able to throw it out! One less card stretching out my wallet.

Also, listed a big old cannister vacuum cleaner online, to sell it.  No offers yet. After a while of no offers, I will be emotionally able to just donate the old bulky thing, and free up some more space in the house.   

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« Reply #5986 on: July 29, 2022, 09:19:07 PM »
4m scrap metal skip bin here for the week. This weekend's job is fill it up with all the metal crap lying around the place.

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« Reply #5987 on: July 30, 2022, 09:09:32 AM »
4m scrap metal skip bin here for the week. This weekend's job is fill it up with all the metal crap lying around the place.

How do you have enough scrap metal to fill a 4m bin? That's a LOT.

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« Reply #5988 on: July 30, 2022, 05:21:12 PM »
Its a combination of a heap of old pool fencing that we had to replace, misc metal items from  renovations/repairs that we have been stockpiling, plus other bits and pieces the previous owner left stashed here and there.

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« Reply #5989 on: July 31, 2022, 11:20:18 AM »
Its a combination of a heap of old pool fencing that we had to replace, misc metal items from  renovations/repairs that we have been stockpiling, plus other bits and pieces the previous owner left stashed here and there.

Wow. Well, you'll get it all cleared out.

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« Reply #5990 on: July 31, 2022, 02:58:03 PM »
Its a combination of a heap of old pool fencing that we had to replace, misc metal items from  renovations/repairs that we have been stockpiling, plus other bits and pieces the previous owner left stashed here and there.

Wow. Well, you'll get it all cleared out.

Yes, the pile of stuff is in the skip! I'll do a scout around this week and pick up anything else lying around. I found 2 more sheets of old corrugated iron to put in yesterday.

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« Reply #5991 on: July 31, 2022, 03:49:28 PM »
I'd been putting off delivering our full donation box, since we moved further away from the Salvation Army we used to use.  Just realized yesterday there is a Green Drop location much closer to us, so we finally dropped it off!  That gives me a good bit more space in the closet.  Next up, mailing a box of books for donation to Open Library.

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« Reply #5992 on: August 01, 2022, 11:11:38 AM »
old black and white laserjet printer has been sitting around in my office.

Sold it to my brother-in-law for about 40% of what it would cost new. He gets a great deal on a perfectly functioning printer. I get it out of my house plus a little bit of cash. Win-win.

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« Reply #5993 on: August 02, 2022, 03:19:14 AM »
I haven't read through this whole thread but any tips on dealing with a spouse who refuses to get rid of anything?  And gets upset even when you get rid of things which aren't "his"?  I mainly get rid of stuff when he's not around.  But he gets upset if he realises that I'm trying to get rid of stuff so I'm always careful not to do it too conspicuously.  Lately, I've had my eye on some old broken suitcases, broken IKEA furniture and duplicate/never used kitchen items.  But his idea of "frugal" is never getting rid of anything.  How do you negotiate with a spouse like this? 

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« Reply #5994 on: August 02, 2022, 04:17:18 AM »
I haven't read through this whole thread but any tips on dealing with a spouse who refuses to get rid of anything?  And gets upset even when you get rid of things which aren't "his"?  I mainly get rid of stuff when he's not around.  But he gets upset if he realises that I'm trying to get rid of stuff so I'm always careful not to do it too conspicuously.  Lately, I've had my eye on some old broken suitcases, broken IKEA furniture and duplicate/never used kitchen items.  But his idea of "frugal" is never getting rid of anything.  How do you negotiate with a spouse like this?

When you figure it out, let me know.  It never fails that when I do convince him to get rid of something, he'll need it 2 weeks later. 

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« Reply #5995 on: August 02, 2022, 05:50:27 AM »
I’m no expert but I think the person keeping things has to confront the reasoning and emotions behind the keeping. What’s the underlying cause.  Keeping things is often a symptom of something else.  Until they want to do that work, then the stuff will keep accumulating. 

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« Reply #5996 on: August 02, 2022, 06:58:17 AM »
old black and white laserjet printer has been sitting around in my office.

Sold it to my brother-in-law for about 40% of what it would cost new. He gets a great deal on a perfectly functioning printer. I get it out of my house plus a little bit of cash. Win-win.

Big win for you, MoneyTree!

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« Reply #5997 on: August 02, 2022, 07:07:53 AM »
I haven't read through this whole thread but any tips on dealing with a spouse who refuses to get rid of anything?  And gets upset even when you get rid of things which aren't "his"?  I mainly get rid of stuff when he's not around.  But he gets upset if he realises that I'm trying to get rid of stuff so I'm always careful not to do it too conspicuously.  Lately, I've had my eye on some old broken suitcases, broken IKEA furniture and duplicate/never used kitchen items.  But his idea of "frugal" is never getting rid of anything.  How do you negotiate with a spouse like this?

I assume he is not an actual hoarder, which of course is different from just being frugal.  I guess you have to sneak the broken things out, like the broken suitcases. But then you have to admit what you've done if he notices.

I had a hoarder girl friend who lived with me, and I had no compunctions about recycling some of her useless clutter without telling her. It was the same sort of stuff (old pamphlets, magazines, etc. that she always promised to get rid of, but never did) so I didn't feel guilty about it.

Of cxourse it's different, and much better, if he is not an actual hoarder.   

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« Reply #5998 on: August 02, 2022, 07:21:34 AM »
I haven't read through this whole thread but any tips on dealing with a spouse who refuses to get rid of anything?  And gets upset even when you get rid of things which aren't "his"?  I mainly get rid of stuff when he's not around.  But he gets upset if he realises that I'm trying to get rid of stuff so I'm always careful not to do it too conspicuously.  Lately, I've had my eye on some old broken suitcases, broken IKEA furniture and duplicate/never used kitchen items.  But his idea of "frugal" is never getting rid of anything.  How do you negotiate with a spouse like this?

So, your spouse would rather that you live in an overcrowded home full of broken items? And polices even items which aren't his?

This is hoarding. Get the professionals involved, because otherwise this could seriously damage your relationship over time. And if he's unwilling to change, you need to seriously consider if you can be happy long term with someone who is unwilling to compromise with you on something that is important to you.

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« Reply #5999 on: August 02, 2022, 09:24:08 AM »
My partner is always suspicious about me getting rid of stuff. I assure him that I won't touch his stuff, which he's slowly come around to relaxing about now.

The only thing that's been successful for me is bringing out the 10 duplicates we have of an item, and saying, hey, any of these you think we can get rid of? Seeing all the items together usually helps, and we're able to get rid of some.

But yeah, good luck! It's tough.