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Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« on: May 29, 2013, 07:16:33 PM »

Challenge: Every time you spend unnecessarily, match that with a charitable donation.

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I'm throwing down this gauntlet as a personal challenge the wife and I have been doing recently, and figured others might like the idea as well.

Sometimes I struggle with charitable giving - how much, how often, finding the right causes, etc.

And, if I'm honest, there are too many times where it just isn't something that crosses my mind, and I haven't donated as much as I'd like in the past.  However we DO think about our spending when we're buying an unnecessary item.  Is that item worth it?  We weigh the decision in our mind.  So lately my trigger has been that when we deem an item worth buying, we donate that same amount of money to charity.

So there's the challenge: Every time you spend unnecessarily, match that with a charitable donation.

It's up to you to define the weasel word in it, "unnecessarily."  I purposefully used a different word, frivolous, in the thread title.

We have also excluded a few certain items (trips to see family at double the cost with the matching would become prohibitively expensive to where we'd do them less frequently, and we don't want to discourage the behavior of visiting family).  It's more of "I don't need this CD, so I'll donate a matching amount," or "Let's eat out tonight" (and donate a matching amount) -- those little wasteful spendings that we do to indulge.  If we are so fortunate as to have extra money to blow on useless items/experiences/luxuries/whatever, we ought to have enough to donate that same amount as well.

It has the twofold benefit of making us consider our wasteful spending even more (i.e. this item will cost 2x as much) while encouraging us to contribute more than we may have otherwise.

We've talked about moving to an all spending match, but we're not that hardcore yet. 

Sharing in the hope that it gives a few of you some ideas, I know we enjoyed the simplicity of the idea once it struck us.  Thoughts?
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Re: Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2013, 11:40:38 PM »
Good idea. I've been looking for a way to rein in my food expenses. I still spend way, way too much on eating out when, with a little more foresight, I could have brought lunch from home. It's pretty much the only category in my budget that I struggle with these days.

In fact, right now I'm on my lunch break, browsing the MMM forums and eating a fruit cup from Starbucks (that's 95 PHP or 2.25 USD). There are a lot of worthy local charities that could use the funds.

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Re: Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« Reply #2 on: May 30, 2013, 10:11:05 AM »
This is timely!  I've just spent this week raising money for a local non-profit that I volunteer for.  SO many of my old and far-flung friends on facebook came through with online donations.  I decided last night that I need a category in my budget for call-to-action donations.  I want to be able to jump on this sort of request for my friends in return.  I took it right out of the food and miscellaneous budgets.  :)  I'm in, only pre-paid. 

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Re: Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« Reply #3 on: May 30, 2013, 10:24:12 AM »
Wow, I love this!

It reminds me a little of a method I've heard about for forming habits (new healthy ones, or stopping bad ones). You commit to donating to a charity you don't like if you fail. But I like positive reinforcement better than negative and I might give this a try!

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Re: Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« Reply #4 on: May 30, 2013, 10:34:31 AM »
Wow, I love this!

It reminds me a little of a method I've heard about for forming habits (new healthy ones, or stopping bad ones). You commit to donating to a charity you don't like if you fail. But I like positive reinforcement better than negative and I might give this a try!

Yeah, I've heard of that one as well and wasn't a huge fan, but I like being reminded to donate more to causes I support.
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Re: Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« Reply #5 on: May 30, 2013, 11:35:26 AM »
I am doing the same thing!  $74 for me last month.  Guessing it will be more this month due to stress-related stupid purchases.

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Re: Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« Reply #6 on: May 31, 2013, 01:11:47 PM »
$81 for May for Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary.

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Re: Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« Reply #7 on: June 03, 2013, 02:06:33 AM »
great idea. i'll go for matching any spending monday-thursday which is when i am prone to unnecessary purchases.

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Re: Charitable Giving vs. Frivolous Spending Gauntlet
« Reply #8 on: June 18, 2013, 02:00:46 PM »
We coupon for charity money.  My husband was not one to spend time looking for coupons and even if he had some he would forget to use them.  So we would buy items for more than we needed to pay.  Okay 25cents off of a can of tomatoes that cost $1.69 is not a huge amount but it is a completely unnecessary extra expense when there is a coupon. 

Now we are coupon gamers and use every coupon we can get.  We then take the money we saved on the grocery bill by using the coupons and put it in a jar.  Last year we had $50 for the Salvation Army and $89 for Toys for Tots at Christmas and just over $100 for the food bank.  This year we are doing even better.

 

Wow, a phone plan for fifteen bucks!