Employee 401k deferrals show up in Box 12, code D on your W-2. So it does show up on your W-2. And then your W-2 Box 1 reflects the deduction - absent any other things, that box would be lower than the Medicare wages in Box 5 by the amount of the employee 401k contribution. That's assuming you're treating yourself like an employee and actually issuing a W-2 to yourself. This would be typical if you're being taxed as an S-Corp.
If you're taxed as a sole-proprietor, and not issuing a W-2 to yourself, then the entire SoloK contribution for the year - both employee and employer sides combined - is shown / deducted on Schedule 1.