I reread it, and there's an option (not under "hardship") for listing the months it "wasn't affordable" (by person).
So, before we were married, she couldn't have afforded it. Even if you add our incomes and divide by half (something the IRS does elsewhere), I doubt any insurance was available at 8% of that.
So, I think we're ok with "wasn't affordable" for her uninsured months.
I was going to get her on my insurance when we were married, but once she qualified for insurance at work, we got her on that, and realized later it was better than the insurance I have anyway. I guess I can explain all that if I have to at some point?
The Trump executive order did not result in the IRS abandoning enforcement, according to the IRS. They also reiterated they will not accept tax returns without a declaration of health care status this year.