Yes, the TSP can be rolled into an IRA, and with the recent change, multiple partial withdrawals will be possible.
Additionally, if your husband stays until Minimum Retirement Age (MRA) he'll be able to pull from the TSP immediately without penalty. If you are currently 32, his MRA is probably 57.
The big draw about staying until MRA is that you can keep your health benefits, with the gov't contributing 75% of the premiums. This is a huge benefit if you're close to the MRA (I have 5 years and that's what's keeping me employed). If you reach your financial goals much earlier you'll have to plan independent health insurance coverage.