I'd like some recommendations on how to handle an inheritance situation that seems to keep getting more complicated the deeper I dig. For background, my Mother-In-Law recently passed away. She left her assets to be split equally between her daughters, with pretty much everything set up through TOD/POD beneficiary methods. The issue we're running into is with her IRA.
This IRA is a Self-Directed IRA (Traditional) with some liquid capital in it, and a California condo. Capital is ~~$60k and the condo is worth ~~$330k. This needs to be split equally down the middle, and per my reading of IRS rules needs to be disbursed within a decade. The problem we're running into is that the company in which it's held doesn't seem to understand IRS rules, and wants to transfer it all into one person's name all at once (my understanding is this would trigger a taxable event). I'm thinking we'd want to do a trustee-to-trustee transfer of the account into a jointly-held trust, liquidate the property, and then split distributions out of that over a 5- to 10-year period to minimize the tax implications and stay on the IRS' good side.
Am I way off base here? Who would I talk to about getting this set up? The company that holds the trust seems to be worse than useless and sent some forms over that didn't reflect the current options outlined in current tax law.