In 2021 DH and I were on separate HDHP plans and each contributed to our own HSAs. I was pregnant and due in January 2022, and we knew the baby tipped the scale in favor of a family plan. So during open enrollment for 2022, DH opted out of his employer plan and submitted a form to cancel his HSA contributions for 2022. I enrolled in a HDHP family plan through my employer and I am contributing to my HSA to max out the allowed family contribution (minus my employers contribution).
I gave birth before DH had his first paycheck. With the new baby he forgot to check his payroll to confirm the changes. In April I did our taxes and logged into our HSA accounts. I noticed that while his employer stopped his contributions, the employer was still contributing $50 a pay period to his HSA. He then checked his payroll statement and realized the employer was still deducting the $25 ish a pay period for HDHP premium he opted out of, as well as contributing to the HSA. His office manager (HR) confirmed that he wasn't enrolled in their HDHP but she had forgot to change the premium deduction and employer contribution. She was basically like well you came out ahead $140. She stopped the premium deduction and employer contribution but doesn't intend to do anything about the January - March mistake.
My question is can I just lower my contribution to my HSA so that the total amount contributed is within the amount allowed for a family. Or do we need to do something/insist his employer does something about them having contributed to DH's HSA when he wasn't on an HDHP through them?